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 Politics › Re: April Polls: Lynch anybody who attempts to rig, Buhari tells Nigerians by Theblessed(f): 7:04am On Mar 06, 2011 |
tony_450:[b][size=16pt]Which future, am I expected to seize here, where I would be forced to wear Bukha?? Eh? Naaaaah, thank you!  Now, take this for your argument! You see, your comparisons do not wash, at all! Libya and Nigeria has nothing in common other than they are 2 Independent oil producing African States. Libya is a one party autocracy in the desert, with at least 90% moslems and has 1 or more tongues. Nigeria, on the other hand, is a multi-party, multi-religious system in the sub-sahara and have over 200 different tongues, how did they compare, in politics? The kind of dictatorship you people want for Nigeria, wouldn't it be better go over there, and fill your heart content with it than bringing it here and expecting us to take it, naaaaaaaaaah! Hear it now, it will not work! Just don't try it! It's seems you all now hate Gadafi, isn't it? All along, you all have supported him and non of you had the guts to come out and condemn him openly of atrocities until the world started shouting. And here your are querying me about the brother you supported all along, together with Egyptian politics - which in my view is quite moderate compared to others? Not fair asking me, is it? Listen, extremism will not stand in Nigerian maybe, in the North and there, it will remain. Again, if those in power couldn't change the law to make it easy and accessible to bring to justice, in a civilised manner those caught in the act, who would, then? Me, with my one vote? Well, I am voting for common sense -a balanced and moderate agenda and certainly, not for sentiments nor extremism. You can now, see I know how to seize my future - putting my vote where my mouth is, and that's exactly where everyone should put their votes and not on tribal and religious sentiments as is the case now, that would be idiotic So, people, put your votes where your mouths are, and seize your future as they say!! [/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: April Polls: Lynch anybody who attempts to rig, Buhari tells Nigerians by Theblessed(f): 5:17am On Mar 06, 2011 |
9ijaMan:[size=16pt]Hey, no need to respond to a bunch of intimidators here, really! But, have to leave you with these few lines. Thought you had a reasoned and logical argument but didn't realise it was just religious-politique - based on sentimentality. Sorrio o, the man you support won't stand a chance, have you considered the 1650's? Well I suggest, you take him back there maybe, his campaign will take off there - don't you reckon? Try it!  [/size] |
| Politics › Re: April Polls: Lynch anybody who attempts to rig, Buhari tells Nigerians by Theblessed(f): 4:27pm On Mar 05, 2011 |
Kobojunkie:[b][size=16pt]Pardon me! But the reality you live in, is archaic! A world of primitivity and primitive thinkers, who are unable to devise innovative ways to resolve problems other than the use of 'Force and intimidation' - and what has that achieved? Nothing! In fact, you may not realise this, that (whilst online here) you have subconsciously exhibited these uncivilised/primitive triats we are talking about here e.g. intimidation. Even your description of events here, points you in that direction. Yes, I could hear you proclaim your Self Righteousness over this, by asking, how could a small woman like you, intimidate anyone? And I ask, what makes anyone think you couldn't when you're already on it - intimidating others. Imagine you, shrinking my texts and misrepresenting it from, it's original presentation. It's not your work, is it? And, why did you do it?? If not for your love of CONTROL, FORCE and INTIMIDATION, what else could it be? At least, everyone could see why you support barbarism and barbaric intimidators like Buhari - it's all about hunger for power and control of others, and it won't work for una! Therefore, I ask you again, what would lynching people because they riggged election (that would only last 4yrs or so) achieve, when you can jail them or place a ban on them from contesting any election, if found guilty instead of terminating their lives as if that would solve Nigeria's problems? For example, in the 70's and 80's they introduced, the killing of Armed robbers and Drug pushers via firing squard and I ask again, has armed robbery and drug pushing stopped?? Life is precious! A bad man today may become a good man tomorrow, in turn become economically beneficial to his country so, if you and those you support kill him today by your lynching - you have techically deprived Nigeria, off her Asset - think and think again! Is anyone home here, yet? No wonder, your kind of leaders are classed, lazy and impotent, upstairs!  Now, I await your vindication of not supporting rule by iron-hand/barbarism - bring it on, babe![/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: April Polls: Lynch anybody who attempts to rig, Buhari tells Nigerians by Theblessed(f): 2:49am On Mar 05, 2011 |
[size=16pt]What? Lynching? In this day in age  How primitive? These are the kind of leaders that are taking us right back to Dark Ages. No Mr, we are not going there!Such leaders do not understand the world has moved on and that, the 21st Century is here - an age where all we do now, is propelled by Technology. We use Satellite and Blackberry for Instantaneous communication and no longer Telegrams for sending international messages. This is, too bad for Nigeria - too bad! This man seems to be living two thousand years behind, and with such mentality, how could he govern Nigeria or debate her issues on the International Arena, I wonder! Please, Nigerians drop him now, he is a non-runner! Not a winning horse, please But, may I ask what happened to the Rule of Law? I understand, Nigerian Legal System is rubbished with corruption but someone has to 'fix it' and if our leaders can't what hope have we? [/size] |
| Politics › Re: I’m On A Mission To Rescue Nigeria –buhari ! by Theblessed(f): 3:47pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
engope1:[size=16pt]Just a politician and there's nothing wrong with that and I hope he stays at it. But to say he's a man of God, all I can say is, God searches the heart and he will search his and anyone who think they can deceive man but can they deceive God [/size] |
| Politics › Re: I’m On A Mission To Rescue Nigeria –buhari ! by Theblessed(f): 3:38pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
[size=16pt]Really Why now? Oh, please give me a break!!!![/size] |
| Romance › Re: How Do I Stop Cheating? by Theblessed(f): 4:21pm On Feb 25, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]I suggest you run to Jesus Christ your Saviour, if you accept and acknowledge him as your personal Saviour, by believing in him. Then, confess all evil/sins you've commited in your life - those you can remember and those you can not - ask for forgiveness. Also start attending services, at any Living Church of God and get Deliverance. Remember, to maintain your deliverance you have to come close to God, ALWAYS praying. Pray, first thing in the morning as you get out of bed before embarking on any Activities of Daily Living (i.e God First) and last thing at night before you put your head on the pillow - hand over all to God and close your eye in peace (God Last). My dear friend, that's how I live my life every day. We all are sinners and we should not run away from God when we commit sin rather, come closer to God when we stray from his ways and confess all, for he is slow to anger, merciful and a forgiving God! May God grant you complete deliverance and peace within your soul in Jesus Name, Amen! [/size][/b] |
| Romance › Re: Is It Right To Hit A Woman For Any Reason? by Theblessed(f): 3:33am On Feb 24, 2011 |
Brite02:[size=16pt]No, I will only kill the person who battered me in his sleep and the law of kama will first catch up with him before me. So, after I'd done with him, he would regret nearing a woman in his next life. [/size] |
| Family › Re: Should A Woman Have an Affair Just Because Her Husband Is Having an Affair too by Theblessed(f): 3:18am On Feb 24, 2011 |
[size=16pt]No! You shouldn't do that, just kick his a-se and move on. And, remember to take all you can, to help you start a beautiful and, non-stressful Singleton life, ok! Don't ever bring yourself that low, trying to revenge which can create more problem than you think e.g. the risk of unwanted pregnancy, veneral diseases or even HiV Aids please, people should think before they leap. Remember, one Igbo adage says, 'Inyugwaram ahu na apu nshi'. Meaning, your expulsion of flatulence in revenge of your friend or neighbour's can lead to you pooing on yourself and thus, disgracing yourself in public. Therefore I ask, does it really worth the risk in tanishing your image and dignity? So, move on and leave the loosers both deserve each other. [/size] |
| Romance › Re: What's The Key To Successful Relationships? by Theblessed(f): 2:13am On Feb 23, 2011 |
[size=16pt]In my view, a successful relationship can be attributed to a lot of positive things, those involved in the partnership brings to it however, the main core can only be the 3 C's and they are: a) COMMUNICATION b) COMMITMENT c) COMPROMISE if you can hold on to these 3, you will defeat every obstacle thrown at you in that relationship and thus, build a loving and stable family life for your children, try it! [/size] |
| Romance › Re: Should I Enhance My Looks? by Theblessed(f): 1:44am On Feb 23, 2011 |
[size=16pt]Enhance your looks Arrrrrrgh, not only your looks but remember to enlarge your bottom too! Or have you forgotten? |
| Romance › Re: Is It Right To Hit A Woman For Any Reason? by Theblessed(f): 3:24pm On Feb 22, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]Look, everyone knows my stand on this issue - Battery! When it comes to this, I am the most dangerous woman on Nairaland if not the world - but there is not turning on this belief. You see, it's a choice - to hit or not to hit someone! But if you dare, you're finished. Consider yourself a dead man, I will not spare you - I also have a choice to kill you or not to kill you, just understand that, Mr. Again, once you've finished battering me ensure you do not sleep in the same house nor room as myself as I will kill you in your sleep - did you get that? This is a warning to all of you guys who derive pleassure in battering and humiliating women once your egos are bruised. The condition here is ths, I will never hit you please, don't hit me no matter what I have done please, don't hit me because, the moment you do, you'd be sorry for yourself, unless you don't sleep.  Abi, you, yourself would you like to be hit No, you wouldn't, irrespective of whatever you may have done and for what reason, would you hit an adult. Is it because, you paid a dowry on her? Well, if that is the case, I think it's time to resign this marital post and claim my Singleton. If being your wife involves battery, listen boy, I am asking you right now, to name the amount of that dowry? On the same token, I'm asking how you would like the refund, too? A cheque or by authomatic Bank Transfer - name it! May be, this alternative proposal or change of heart might spare your life otherwise, thank your star I'm not your wife - you will be HISTORY for others like you to learn from! Keep hitting women, one day you will learn! [/size][/b] |
| Celebrities › Re: Nigerian Wannabe Musician Dies From Flat Ass Syndrome After Butt Implant Surgery by Theblessed(f): 9:38pm On Feb 10, 2011 |
[size=18pt]Sad! But, a big lesson for all especially - those of you who have very low self esteem of yourselves. As you can see, wanting to be like the Jones have landed some in the mud. Of what good is it to experience death before your own parents - a blessing or a misfortune? You copy cats should work that one out. I feel for her parents but what could they have done to stop this? A 20yr old in the West with her own money and connections? Just dream on!! You see, when a child decides to live in the fast lane, they don't usually make it to their 25th Birthday as in this case. And, if in doubt check all those grown ups that lived in the fast lane before you and see how they all ended up - Elvis, Marilyn Monroe, Michael J, Princess Diana etc. This tragedy it's a lesson for all to learn, as it's more sensible to live a little and, moderation is the word. There's always going to be another tomorrow - remember, it's a world without end![/size] |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Women So Jealous Of Each Other? by Theblessed(f): 4:41pm On Feb 05, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt] Oh, dear sisters, don't even let that worry you all. Jealousy is a disease in Women! It did not start today, it started in the Biblical days - remember the stories in Genesis about Abraham and his ladies Sarah and her maid - Hagar and, what about Jacob and his ladies - Rachel and Leah her sister. As you can see it is in us and will not go away. Women have always been jealous of each other especially, when you are more beautiful than your rivals are - heaven let loose! They will throw anything and everything at you especially, urgly ones among them who have never been told even for once, that they are beautiful. Some would ask, have you been told? Absolutely!!!!! People have always told me. However, the first that ever told me so were my parents. From the moment my parents conceived me, they sang it into my ear even till now, I could still hear them say it and I'm proud to say yes, I am beautiful I know I am and what can urgly sisters do about it? It's the confidence parents must give to their children - telling them every day that they are loved and beautiful and my parents did a good job hence, my attitude and if yours didn't do it, tough!  You see, women jealousy can stem from simple things as, the lipstick on you big thick lips and the eye shadow on you big brown eyes. If it's not for your long red fingernails and hairs - oh did I say hair or weave? Then, it will be the way you carry yourself and, what about your education, career and the money that goes with it, crowned with your gorgeous beauty, which it's MOULD was broken the moment you were born, so that there's no replica of you because, you're unique. Babe, I say, just don't bother with urgly sisters! They will always be jealous because, that's all they can do. They are cursed with hard work before they could get on in life including attracting the opposity sex and you are blessed - can't you see that? You only have to step out in-style in the street and there's commotion everywhere - TRAFFIC JAM!!! They can't cause traffic jams, can they? No, because, they're urgly and that pisses them off! So, ignore them and enjoy your blessing for 'a thing of beauty is a joy forever' and your beauty is your joy forever so, claim it! [/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: Patience Jonathan Unable To Read Own Speech by Theblessed(f): 2:54am On Jan 31, 2011 |
blacksta:[b][size=16pt]Oh, is that a challenge Mr Because, they send you school and you refused to learn, na him make you think say some people no go?? Think again o o! Now take it! Ufodu nime unu kporo onwe unu, utu huru uzo/mepere anya/wara anya (take a pick from these words to make up a meaning for yourself, ok!), ma unu enwegi nghota na asusu/Okwu mbu isuru/ikwuru tupu gi asua asusu ozo bu Okwu ire Nne gi ma obu kwanu, Okwu ala Nna gi. Okwu Beke/Okwu Oyibo bu Okwu anyi gbaziri agbazi na aka ndi Beke/Oyibo, na ala Nigiria. Ya mere eji nwe ire di iche iche nime ya (Okwu Beke/Oyibo) na Uwa nile. Ihe eji ama nka atu bu - asusu Beke ndi Amerika, ndi Istan Iro-opu, ndi Ostrelia, ndi Chaina, ndi Eshia na ndi Afrika - nke bu otu anyi si asu Okwu Beke na pigin Inglish. Ngwa, kedi kodi, ebe unu nile bu Mazi na Nnekwu ya mepere anya, asusu Beke? Now, I challenge you all, to write yours in any of the WaaZooBia and, let's see! So, you can do it, then? Why are you all crucifying the First Lady, when she could easily address the World Press in any of the WaaZooBia and let them do the interpretation themselves, eh? You see, Nigerians have issues with grandiosity, a psychological disease that would take a long time if not several generations to get rid off, our psychs. Now, you all should go and hide your faces in shame, as there's nothing wrong with addressing the World Press in our language, but you! [/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: Patience Jonathan Unable To Read Own Speech by Theblessed(f): 4:57pm On Jan 30, 2011 |
[size=16pt]Some, who class themselves as clever D*ck, don't even understand that their mother tongue is their first Language before anything else and that English Language is a BORROWED Language hence, the existence of different versions of it e.g. American, Eastern European, Australia, Chinese, Asia as well as Africans i.e. our PIDGEON English - how about that, all ye Mr & Mrs Clevers we have on here? Shame![/size] |
| Christianity Etc › Re: How Has Your Walk With God Been? by Theblessed(f): 4:38pm On Jan 30, 2011 |
[size=16pt]Oh, I'm so honoured to tell you about my walk with God Almighty! My God is wonderful! He is the creator and designer of my life above all, he holds the key to my life. Do you know what that means? It meant, he is in total control of my existence and any thing that revolves in my life (both positive and negative issues), including satan, his principalities and their evil schemes targeted, focussed at me - whatever, whenever, where-ever they come from, whoever they are and, who ever is responsible for them, are all defeated even before, they could breath, why? Because, my Jehovah Shamad is always present in my life. You mustn't doubt it! As promised, he set the table before me in the presence of my enemies so that I could balance well in still waters and enjoy the abundance blessing. Praised, the Lord! Amen! And how about yours? [/size] |
| Politics › Re: Patience Jonathan Unable To Read Own Speech by Theblessed(f): 4:44am On Jan 30, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]But, why do people keep stiring up hate on here? If I should recollect vividly, this issue has resurfaced again, why? If not to show difference and divide us further? Is our First Lady the only wife of a President who could not read, use and apply English Language/grammar correctly in the world? Again, is English Language our language Can the English themselves speak any of our languages WAAZOOBIA, nko?All the First Ladies of this world (some Educated and some half Educated) how often do we see them on the World Press Conference givng speech? Everyday? Once in a blue Moon? Some of them, we don't even see or know what they look like, let alone making speech in public e.g. the Rusian First Lady - Svetlana Medvedev. How often do you see her in public let alone to make speech in English language? Is she not a First Lady? Michelle Obama does make public speech quite often than others obviously, she's used to that because, of her career in Law and support of Charities in raising Funds for their needs, she is conversant with addressing people in public otherwise, how could she get Companies to support (i.e. part with their money) those Charities she raises money for? And what about the Japanese, Korean, Isreali, Indian, Chinese etc First Ladies? Have we ever seen them addressing the World Press? As you can see buddy it's unimportant, just cool! It doesn't pay stiring up hate and dividing us further, ok!!![/size][/b] |
| Family › Re: Is America The Right Place To Train A Child? by Theblessed(f): 2:19am On Jan 27, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]In my view, children could be raised anywhere and be raised well but, it all depends on their parents beliefs and values. If you are a status-hungry type, competitive, over-ambitious, materialistic and envious well, there's a likelihood that ' a snake will always reproduce itself, its own image or what looks like him'. Children who would not take 'no' for an answer and who would want it all and get it all when they want it. And fo most people, life is survival and how could such children ever survive in scarce, I query? It's obvious, America is a highly competitive and materialistic society yet, some parents still managed to raise very well behaved and decent children there however, this dilemma most parents face when bringing up children in my view, could be helped by sourcing out a better location and environment for your family, the kind of friends/associates you mingle/interact with, crowned with your own beliefs in God - do you fear God? Do you worship him? And what about the people you associate with and their children too, how are they raised? Are they spoilt brat, who lack discipline whilst yours get disciplined when they err? So, what values do you teach your children? These are some of the issues parents have to consider when raising children, even if the location is in an ant hole - it doesn't matter, what matters are your values and the influences you, as parents expose your children to/around them, as they grow up. [/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: Presidency Response To Atiku Budget Critic - High On Abuses, Short On Economics by Theblessed(f): 12:21am On Jan 05, 2011 |
[b][size=18pt]Isn't it silly telling us what we already, know? The inflated local contract costs that never was and never got delivered. Don't we know about it? We all know about the cons and please, stop re-iterating. But, can the Atiku camp swear they'd never ever awarded such ghost local contracts, ever? Or, knew a man who had? Well, if they say they hadn't, I suggest, they try it? This behaviour is rife in Nigerian politics and we can only stop it, by stop shouting and doing something about it! Let's find a: Solution, Solution and more Solutions to this evil, called corruption that has eaten up our beautiful Country, instead of talk, talk and more talk. It's for these lazy reasons, that our so called leaders, gave up Nigerian Sovereignty in fighting for, and winning our strategic 'oil land' that borders with Cameroon some years ago. Because, they believe, fighting for our rights over that land would not only pull resources away, from their hidden Bank Accounts all over the world but also, the events would have not only challenged them mentally, intellectually and militarily as well as, seen millions of lazy a r s e Nigerian soldiers (mainly men from the North) dead/loose their lazy lives in the process. And what's wrong with that?? Wouldn't that have been better than what Nigerians are going through, now? They backed off claiming our Sovereignty for us yet, considers themselves leaders, my butt! History will judge them, all! This is why, Nigeria us yet to have a born Leader after Ikemba Ndigbo because, Ojukwu amakwe such a thing - for Nigeria to loose an iota of her Sovereignty to another state, never!! That's the only man with balls in this Country and the world knows it - he's has, guts! I could hear supporters of other camps here saying, do you want people to loose their lives? To that, I say why not? Is it not what they are paid for - to defend Nigerian Sovereignty and even die for it if need be?? And, in this case, there was a need! A challenge to our Sovereignty!But, what's the point of being a soldier and never fought a war through out your military career - what kind of a soldier is that?? It's time Nigeria engage herself militarily so that we can strengthen our Armed Forces and get our money's worth off, their lazy back sides because, that's what they signed for - to die for their Country than giving away our Sovereignty for nothing - COWARDS LEADERS, coming on the T.V to debate foolishly what we already knew! At least, that would promote discipline in our so call Armed Forces thus, limit all these street fights we witness every day in Nigerian streets between civilians and the Army, Navy, Air force and then, the beloved Nigerian Police ( ) as it would engage them all, with the matters in hand.Therefore, I am challenging them to focus on important issues dragging our country down than cowardly running away from it, shouting and shouting corruption, corruption everywhere to us, lay Nigerians as if we're deaf and blind. [/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: Enugu Assembly Endorse Atiku by Theblessed(f): 6:05pm On Jan 04, 2011 |
Abu-Maryam:[b][size=18pt]But who is to guarantee that in supporting Atiku come this election would place an Igboman where he should be by right, in this Country - be voted President like every other Nigerian Leader? What we are asking for, is a Democratic election in its entirety and not puppets being chosen and position to lead us by those who consider themselves, almighty and above God's Laws, Decrees and Commands, like Atiku etc. No! Nigeria has overgrown that kind of black market arrangement of puppet presidency, we don't want that kind of Democracy and it must end in Jonathan's Presidency. Again, why must one man, decide or anticipate when a tribe - the Igbo tribe that is a major contributor to Nigerian's Wealth, Development and History should be allowed to do what's right for her Country which she normally does and, does better - leading Nigeria to better Economic growth, Defending our Sovereignty (and not giving away our oil land in Cross River State) and maintaining stability in the Country, than the chaos we see every day up and down our country. No, there won't be any repeat match for those who have ruined our country. As every Nigerian is entitled to vote in Nigerian Democracy, the Igbo Leaders are entitled to contest for Presidency at will, if they choose to. Therefore, your use of Constitutional weapon to bar or prohibit our Leaders from exercising their Democratic Rights will not last for ever and you know it. If not that, where on Earth would people like Atiku feel they've got the power to mock the Igbos with his offer of Presidency come 2015 - what a joker? As a result, this Nigeria puppet democracy has to end and, our God Almighty will do his will soon in this country and we'll all live to see it happen. Imagine, the state of our Country since you guys have been ruling - chaos everywhere! Despite sufferings, scarcity and poverty Nigerians are enduring every day, there we have explosions here and there, killing here and there due to your lack of tolerance of others camouflaged, in religious intolerance. If they like, in their intimidation to control others, blow the whole world up but one thing is for sure - the Word of God stands firm 'Jesus is Lord', Amen![/size][/b] |
| Celebrities › Re: Dakore Egbuson set to wed Olumide Akande January 16th in Lagos by Theblessed(f): 3:53pm On Jan 04, 2011 |
jennykadry:[b][size=18pt]Did I hear Medicine?? Lies, lies and lies! Why No, student undertaking a serious course as Medicine or Law or the Sciences or other degrees would even have 2 mins to spend on this site and make it! Why When the mountain of course work, lectures and practicals are piling up for you every day, let alone someone who almost sleeps here with us, criticising people. Personally, I don't think she's a Medical student and no - she will not qualify let alone be registered for that honourable job. The amount of time she spent on negative criticisms of others progress, I think should be invested in her studies, seriously BOOKER TEEING, ok? Also, in my life, I have never seen a lady so consumed in jealous, that is overtly displayed in her negative criticisms of others on here, honest! Anyway, knowing how American education is, anyone could be bought to write that Medical degree for her and, for that reason, I wouldn't even want to place the life of my worst enemy in her magical hands for cure should he/she fell ill, let alone my own life and that of my relatives - if she ever QUAULIFIES as a Medical Doctor, otio!! I wish her luck but I'm afraid, at this rate, she will not qualify and, not when she sleeps on Nairaland doing negative criticisms of other people's achievements and beauty, no Mama gee won't make it to the board, period! |
| Politics › Re: Enugu Assembly Endorse Atiku by Theblessed(f): 4:32am On Jan 01, 2011 |
[size=18pt]Should this be true, my answer to it is nothing but--- Akpiri Ego o o o! Akpiri ego o o o, Ego Nigeria a a!!! Atiku u u u, Atiku eburuna ego anyi bia oo!!! Inwa ndi Igbo Enugu onwunwa, bu ndi anyi doro na ochi ochi. Ha na ile bu ndi akpiri ego o o o! Ma nka agbakasigi ndi Igbo, anyi agaghi agbakasi ozo! Anyi na ario gi Chukwu biko gozie Ala Igbo o o o! Biko Chineke Nna, ewe kwarana ndi Igbo Enugu, iwe o o o - Amen!! |
| Politics › Re: Atiku Challenges Jonathan To Debate by Theblessed(f): 7:51pm On Dec 27, 2010 |
youngmonie:[size=18pt]Look, your comparison with Obama is out of sync. Human memories are too short, it seems you've forgotten - America fought and are still fighting a useless war that cost them trillions upon trillions of Dollars that would take a long time to recover and, here you are wanting miracle? Please, think![/size] |
| Family › Re: Forcing My Mother-in-law To Leave My Home by Theblessed(f): 7:35pm On Dec 27, 2010 |
gfhotee:[b][size=18pt]You married a selfish woman that does not realise how lucky she is to have you as a husband. You are a very decent and God fearing man! Any error you may have made over this issue was a result of lack of love from your wife and you'd be forgiven. Just, don't take any notice of her - she'll tire after awhile and if your in-laws move your mum in-law near your home, move 100 miles away if you can handle it. They have abused your generosity enough and you don't need any more hassle/stress from them. Enough is enough! Your mum in-law is not your responsibility at all - she did not give birth to you - she gave birth to your wife and her siblings and they should look after her, not you. Because, there are other siblings in the family they should share the responsibility of caring for their mother between themselves, period! You have nothing to do with that! Your in-laws have taken too much advantage of your vulnerability, simply because of events in your childhood - you lost your mother at a very young age and growing up in a family without a mother can have great impact on our personalities and lives, and yours seems to have affected you and your siblings the more. Please, from now on, learn how to stand up for yourself and bite, because, someone somewhere might pull this stunt again, but in a different way! Be wise!!! [/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: Atiku Challenges Jonathan To Debate by Theblessed(f): 6:49pm On Dec 27, 2010 |
[b][size=18pt]It seems this Atiku has no ears - how many more time shall we tell him, there's nothing to debate that would make any difference to their evil control and management of Nigeria and its politics. A man whose hands are not clean is even calling for democracy he does not believe in, can not respect let alone uphold. You only have to look at his track record to realise, his 'selfish and wicked' political ambitions for Nigeria. To that we say - no, thank you Mr Atiku, we've had enough of you and your kind! All the time you've been willy dealy with Nigerian politics alongside your brothers, you never called for this and now, crook? Over 40years now, Nigeria has been controlled and managed by your brothers - there's nothing to show for it rather, abject poverty and suffering among Nigerian whilst you and your brothers swim in luxury - judge yourselves! If one man alone (in the person of Prophet T. B Joshua) is doing what the whole world is watching and applauding and praising God for picking him out of many millionaires, billionaires and trillionaires Nigeria has, to do what he's doing for the poor, the widows, the orphans, the physically challenged and scholarship granted to children who had no chance or hope of education in Nigeria and he continues to do so without complaining - why can't you all losers? You stole our money and subject Nigerians into poverty and suffering - why can't you? Abeg Mr Atiku, don't get me mad! Stop harassing us, Nigeria is not yet matured for this your idea. She might be ready maybe, by 2035 if you could wait then, your dream could materialise. Now, you want to make us run before we could walk - thank you, na lie be that and there's never gonna be any debate because, Nigerians are tired of your peoples backward leadership, gorit? Just, go and rest and never again, utter that word 'Debate'![/size][/b] |
| Family › Re: Forcing My Mother-in-law To Leave My Home by Theblessed(f): 3:05am On Dec 26, 2010 |
[b][size=18pt]Listen, I'm getting impatient reading this thread you posted here as it provokes anger in me therefore, can't read on and here's my view. Whatever happened to people's dignity, I wonder! It seems, your wife has none at all, and it doesn't surprise me where she got the genes - her mother. Did I hear she hasn't gone home, five years after her first visit? Right, if your wife still don't know up till now that you married her (not including her mum) therefore, wants to be with her and the kids alone, I suggest you inform her now. Also, that if you ever needed support with baby sitting, that you could ask both mothers - yours and hers for help (assuming they are still young enough to do so) therefore, it's only right her mum visited home after such a long time away. I'm assuming mum came to do Omugwo and decided to move in instead thus, overstayed her Omugwo welcome here, abi? Even the Baby mum came to do his/her Omugwo, his mates are about to start school now, and its time to go home mum. But let me ask you, since mum is always around the house, when/how do you get space to make love to your wife or do you quickly steal it when mum is not looking or in the bath Or do you go about doing it at mum's hearing. Abeg o o! Seriously, I suggest you give your wife a mandate and inform mum to get ready to go home on so, so, so date. Also, inform some of your respectable in laws with influence in the family i.e. your wife's relatives and your own family and then, gather some money and things she might need when she get home. I could hear some people questioning why inform the in laws? Remember, this a family we are talking about here, and grand children are involved besides, you never know when you might need their help and vice versa. Based on one Igbo idiom, one must not poo along the track on his way out else, on your way back flies will perch/rest on you! So, don't ever say, you and your in laws will never need each other because you will, one day! Remember, mum relocated a long time ago - 5 years we are talking about here, that's a long time someone is away from an environment and she might not even recognise her town or village, let alone her own house.  So, be prepared on that day, if your wife and mum refuse, get the police and get her out of your house immediately, your wife would then realise you mean business and take her mother to the motor park and home for good. In fact, this behaviour amounts to nothing but emotional abuse in your own house - na lie be that! Take action and mean it. After this action, if the in-laws would not talk to you again, so be it! After all, you've done your best and you alone can't solve the worlds problems, period. As far as I'm concerned, mum is their responsibility not yours. You're only helping and have done your best, if the in laws are not happy about your action, tough! To me, only shameless in-laws will support this selfish attitude from mum. So, it's not right to celebrate Christmas in the Office when you have a home, no! However, assuming your wife, is mum's only child and mum is getting old to live on her own then, I could see your wife's need to have her mum around therefore, I would suggest you bear it until the old lady passes away. Alternatively, you and your wife could build mum a Granny flat in the back garden/next to your house to enable you all, keep an eye on mum. Remember, we all have mothers and you wouldn't chock your own mother out from your house in her old age, would you So, in view of this situation, check and analyse things properly and make the right decision for your family sake.[/size][/b] |
| Family › Re: My Wife Is Dating Her Boss. Pls Help Me. by Theblessed(f): 12:19am On Dec 24, 2010 |
[b][size=18pt]But, what are you men complaining about Nobi the world you men created? Na una created it, na una dey suffer the consequences, abi? Hmm, silence then??When you created a world where it's ok, for both single men/married men, to not only sleep around but also, sleep with other men's wives, daughters etc in Hotels, Restaurants and sometimes friends houses, what do you expect? And what make una think una wives and daughters go be untouchable for other men? I need an answer here? Hey the broken hearted, you, yourself wey post this thread are you innocent of this act? Swear since you got married, you've never eyed other women, let alone slept with them - married or single? Go on, swear! You see, what goes round does comes round sometimes, 10 x 10 = Now, give us the answer! I am not saying that what your wife did is right, no! She did evil and I'm suspecting even the children she claims to be yours, might not be. Since she's into this business of falling pregnant with the boss's babies, are you sure, your kids are really yours? I suggest you arrange for DNA test to clarify things - women these days are too cunning and ambitious including myself but there's no 'hell' I'd cheat on my husband. If I have ran out of love for him, I'll tell him, eye ball to eye ball - I don't love you no more and that would be the end of the marriage than secretly doing this instead of reporting the boss to my husband. For how long would a man or woman continue to hide their sins in darkness without the light of God revealing and shaming them one day, just as this. Also, I suggest you go now and check yourself for HiV because, as the wicked boss is abusing his position by continuously sleeping with your wife and so many other other wives and single women in that Office, trust me, you might not be safe!!! And Nigerian girls, knowing who we are, one boyfriend is not enough - we are as promiscuous as our men and as the boss is sleeping with them there are many other men outside Office hours and the chances of your wife contracting this dreadful disease from the boss and blessing you with it, is greater than falling ill with malaria or typhoid fever. Also, it could be that, the Chief Agent distributor himself - Mr Boss, might have (knowingly or unknowingly) freely distributed his gift of HiV Aids to these women without them realising it and as long as these women are able to satisfy the boss and keep their jobs, it doesn't really matter, does it? I'm sorry for the so called 'married women' who do this. Reason being that, so many of them are never satisfied with the little material wealth their husbands can afford them - thus, the need to chase the Rainbow outside their matrimonial beds. Listen, if you're one of those so called married women, one thing is for sure - 'You can run but you can not hide' because, every day, na for the thief but one day na for the owner, just as this woman is discovering now. Married woman, my butt! Bunkum!!! Finally, you are the Boss of your own home and all I can say is, depending on your pre-crisis relationship with your wife, the degree of love involved and the family you both created, it's really up to you to weigh up things and make appropriate decisions e.g. whether you can cope/forgive or move on. But, there are questions you need to answer? Can you find it in your heart to truly forgive and forget without this cropping up in your mind again, in the future and without tapping into it to make her life and that of the innocent children, hell? Can you truly love her again after all these Baby business with the boss? Can you live without imagining how this wicked boss had reached corners in your wife, you'd been unable to tap into, in the bedroom, at peace time? And, what are you going to do about her job? Are you going to ground her, change her job or move house? And who would say her relationship with the wicked boss wouldn't continue even after you moved her to Space? Personally, I'm not convinced your wife still loves you otherwise, why did she continue with this relationship all these 3 years when she should have ended it long ago, for the sake, respect and dignity of her husband? And, who would say they won't continue afterwards, when every thing quietens out - the decision is yours! Good luck in dealing with this complex matter. [/size][/b] |
| Celebrities › Re: Wrestler Dies In Lagos by Theblessed(f): 7:45pm On Dec 22, 2010 |
hollars:[size=18pt]Excuse me! Na Christmas trouble you want erupt now or what? It's seems you're daft, ain't you Some thing is blinding your eyes and you still went on to read/look at it, eh! How stupid! Now, get out of my face and never again near my work, silly! [/size] |
| Politics › Re: Ojukwu On Life Support Machine At Unth by Theblessed(f): 7:28pm On Dec 22, 2010 |
[size=18pt]Well, it's human to get ill, isn't it? And he who has never been ill, let him rejoice on hearing about Ojukwu's illness and after that, I'll suggest you and members of your own family never, ever get ill because if you do, that would be the end. It will be silly to mock others misfortune else, your own story would be told next, as their misfortune would be waiting for you, on your own domot. How about that So, keep rejoicing!As for Ikemba, we are all rooting for you to get well quick but remember whatever happens Ndigbo loves you, son - and will always love you!!! Unfortunately, CVA is a terrible illness that can affect anyone, any time - children, babies and mostly the elderly but with God all things are possible - you will be well again. We love you and we are all praying for you!!! Get well soon, Ikemba Ndigbo! |
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