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youngvikthor:
good day nairalander I meet this fair pretty young girl early this year and we started dating ,I notice she can't stay without s3x we have self amost everyday.she also have high body count which she promised she have change ,

she cheat on me several times,she is just 18 and all she want is sex please what could be wrong with her because I didn't think this ordinary how can I hell her mature mind please

Same here bro, the girl in question is not even up to 18 but with a high level of body count and unreal sexual appetite.

You want to hear the truth? Quit that relationship.

Jamestown123:
Who are the good leaders? Who do you think is capable of ruling and managing this country properly. We keep on recycling old men every four years, even if we give the youths chance na still war. Nigerian problem is so big.

You mean we can't find decent people out of a population of 200million? Listen my friend, these good leaders we have been clamouring for are among us, they live with the masses, we just have to look out for them.

Electing good leaders is the first step towards nation building.

illicit:
You haven't been around lesbians....

One dominates the other, that's how it works

My point exactly, the girl will still be dominated by someone however he tries to spin it

Bozopan:
I don't have a daughter yet, but I know that one day I will. When I do have a daughter, I hope she turns out to be a lesbian.

I'm sure most people reading this will be shocked at the title of my thread. Some would think I'm just fishing for attention or trying to troll. But they'd all be wrong. With all seriousness I hope my daughter would turn out to be a lesbian, and if there is anyway I can make that possible, I will jump at such opportunity.

I'm a man and I've had my fill of relationships and sexual experiences with different women. I can say this without a doubt that naturally, heterosexual women are created with a very stupid desire to want to be controlled and dominated by men. In essence their lives revolve around men. It's like these women cannot be happy without a man in their lives. And the nature of men is to want to own and control women.

A heterosexual woman has a natural tendency to fall for any man that plays his cards well, irrespective of whether he has bad intentions for her. All any man needs to gain entrance into the heart of a heterosexual woman is to act in a certain way and show off certain attributes and that's all that's required. it doesn't matter how smart a heterosexual woman is, she is vulnerable to the wiles of a man who comes prepared.

When a heterosexual woman falls in love with a man her sense of reasoning evaporates and she becomes his slave. The man can push her buttons whichever way he wants and she'll respond.

I don't want this sort of life for my daughter. I don't want her to be a slave to any man. I don't want her life to revolve around men. I want her relationships to be one where she doesn't have to be submissive to a man to be happy. I want her to have an equal, reciprocal level of respect from her partner. This can only be attained if she isn't naturally attracted to men.

Lesbian relationships are in my opinion the most healthy. None of the partners feel naturally obligated to control the other or to be submissive towards the other.

I want my daughter to be a lesbian so she wouldn't be shackled by nature's programming of submissiveness to men. She wouldn't feel a natural desire for a partner who is physically and emotionally stronger than she is. She wouldnt need a partner that is more financially capable than she is. These things won't matter to her. She will only want a partner who would love her. This is what relationships should be based upon not the stupid yearning heterosexual women have for men that are better off than them in every department.

I would like if you elaborate more. However, I think it makes no difference whether male or female, she will still be controlled by someone, so what you are saying doesn't makes sense.

Some men make apologies at night not really due to sex as some shallow-minds think. The serenity, peace , quiet at night makes it the perfect time to acknowledge and apologise ones wrong.

Billyddude:
...some people go dey deceive dem selves dey shout lekki lekki

And you know the irony? The people living in lekki, banana island, Asokoro, maitama and all the rest if the affluent neighborhoods we have in Nigeria don't even make up to 0.5% of our total population.

SperoQuest:
Mehnn and pictures of banana island, Eko island and maitama were uploaded on nairaland and lots of Nigerians were shouting words like God pick my call, Money is good, this and That.

And yet this is a picture of one small town In a city in Denmark is even occupied by locals and average people and yet it is more beautiful, more clean, more Serene, Sweet weather, more secure with level headed people than both banana island and maitama.

With the rate at which Nigerians rate Eko Atlantic and banana island, you will think it is amongst the best in Africa.

Even some estates in Ghana that you don't know of, are more beautiful than banana island and even more secure.

I think the problem of most Nigerians are poverty of the mind.

Even a Rich man in Nigeria can still have poverty of the mind.


For example, take a look at how the new home of kinda ikeji and Davido in banana island, became a trend amongst Nigerians.

Corruption has made real estate in Nigeria to blow at of proportion.

When lots of few corrupt men set up an estate to hide themselves and agree to put a price range to the properties in the estate, so that average Nigerians won't be able to afford a house there.

But in reality, no house in banana island is worth 20 Million dollars in USA or Europe and yet a land In banana island is worth more than 3 million dollars in NIGERIA.

You see how they are taking us for a fool in Nigeria.

They fail to provide security, electricity and Serene environment, they send out thugs and cultists to put fear In our minds, they use the police and military for their own good and yet they came together and hide themselves in an island and inflate a price that will make us not able to enjoy the security that they enjoy.

Then they leave us to suffer in the environment that they created.

NIGERIANS!!!!! Wake up from your slumber.

It is either now or never, we need a revolution.

This people don't care about you all.

Cc mynd44 justwise lalasticlala

You spoke well and your points are amazing. However, IMO a revolution would not solve Nigeria problem, in fact it might aggravate the already pathetic situation Nigeria finds itself.

Is revolution even likely to happen in Nigeria? I think no, reasons:
-Tribalism is deeply ingrained in an average Nigerian psyche that in crucial times like this allows it to cloud his/her reasoning.
- the Nigerian authorities will do everything in their power to brutally suppress any uprising.
- the youth who are in the position to lead this revolt are beset with poverty and joblessness.

Issues likely to arise Post-revoltiob
- A government of oligarchs which will result to:
1. Favoritism and nepotism
2. Grand corruption and mismanagement
3. Nation building - new constitution, a complete overhaul of our federal beuracracy and lots of issues my guy

The best way to bring about desired change is by electing good leaders

That's my take bro

Obviously copied from Twitter, in fact it was trending. But it sounds fabricated.

History555:
Stop using dedorants, it doesn't go well with your armpits. My cousin had the same problem with dedorants. My uncle who is a doctor advised him to stop using dedorants or anti persipant directly on his skin. After some months it stopped.

Any alternative if he stopped using deodorant?

Noblejay7:
Until a Nigerian university makes it to the top 30 best university in African list, we are still joking.

What we have is quantity and not quality education.

UI is ranked 14 best university in Africa

BadRadio:
1 year in jail with hard labour

Punishment for false rape accusation; A year in jail with hard labor

Punishment for a convicted rapist ; severe torture then death

Wow, what a genius judge you are

BadRadio:
It's in the news that the house of rep has decided to come up with possible penalty for criminals who are charged for rape.

The sudden rise of this "epidemic" is totally alarming and there has to be penalty laws that regulates perverts to desist from this madness.

How about punishment for false accusation considering 1/3 of rape cases are fabricated?

longetivity:
guyz stay away from slay queens

As simple as your warning it carries tremendous weight.

Let he who has ear's listen.

mrNEMZY:
If 100 males are wrongly accused of rape in Nigeria, 99 of them would forgive the accusers. Let's forget all this internet shouting about going to court and getting justice.

I followed the case of one Somto, a man falsely accused of rape on tweeter, after the initial shouting of legal steps, he forgave the accusers after being begged.
I have also experienced this first hand, I created a thread about it last year.

Let's tell our selves the truth, can we be able to stand firm in our resolve after like more than half of our friends and relations not to talk about the family of the falsely accusing lady come and beg?
If we actually manage to fall into the 1% that do something about it, can we deal with the after math?
The society would see you as wicked, even though you did the right thing.
Can we stand the plea of virtually all our neighbors?

Let's tell our selves the truth. Hard man, hard man, shouting from one social media platform to the other, until you are falsely accused and clear your name, you would see that you wouldn't do-shit to your accusers.

Thank God false accusations are very minimal compared to the actual rape cases because on this topic, we are actually disadvantaged.
After shouting online, no one does anything.

Penalty for false rape accusation is a myth.

Forget begging or whatever BS ... A false rape accusation should be legally dealt with.

luscioustrish:
It's a loss on both sides


Nothing a simple/honest conversation can't solve, they both apologize and eat.. make-up Se..x is always lit

What a Sensible comment.

Coolabbie:
I will speak for myself and my experience.

I live in such a neighborhood and I love it. The calibre of people I have met just walking down my street is something that would never have been possible if I was living in low-income neighbourhoods.

Twice, I have gotten job offers without any mention of cv. One of them works closely with the governor, the other owns a radio station.
The people that offered me this job did not know me from Adam, they only know I am a neighbour.

Besides, nothing beats the inspiration gotten from walking around your neighbourhood and seeing beautiful mansions, clean streets, and breathtaking landscaping.

[/b]The quiet, the serenity, the security is something I will not trade.[b]

The sun even hits different here walahi

Please, don't do it if you can't afford it. But if social mobility is your thing, then it should definitely be an option.

#MyOpinion

You summarized it all. Nothing beats those things.

360clips:
Once they notice they have big smelly ass, gbam! They don turn stupid! They start to think with their smelly asses. They think every guy wants them and that they can get any guy they want or desire. It annoys me so much! Their brains are just filled up with their used tampons! Very annoying.

I feel your pain bro... I have had my own fair share of this bull shit.

Wolgrace:
Same way false accusations are cooked this period. The danger is many fakes will blacklist the truth.

1/3 of rape cases are fabricated.

Tallesty1:
And some idiots called me rapist when I said that this is a decayed society thing and not men thing

Ignore those fools bro. They reason with their anus.

Yes I am a virgin. Any problem?

Bring your head make I knock you

foolishman:
A twitter user said that getting caught is the only cure to the addiction, lol......


I'll be back to give y'all the gist I'm kinda busy right now.

TBC

A guy form Twitter? Don't you know some Twitter users are clowns and shouldn't be taking seriously?

Jullima:

I concur it ain't a culture in Nigeria, prove otherwise.

Ariza:
I have a Twitter account I hardly use.


We can be emotional, Yes. But all other things you mentioned aren't gender base.

By yeah I know. If you saw the trends on Twitter you would think this people are insane.

Techcrunchng:
Scenario 2: A girl was walking on the street, on her own, maybe around the hour of 8 pm. A guy waylaid her and raped her at the nearest corner.
Both of them has committed rape! But they will not likely get the same sentence if charged for rape.

I think your problem is lack of comprehensive understanding, the guy is trying to let you know that the emboldened has higher punishment than scenerio 1 and 3

there's nowhere he said ladies shouldn't walk around in the night nevertheless, females ought to take precautionary measures wherever necessary because there would always be the evil ones out there.

No man supports a rapist except the person committing that particular raping with the rapist (the co-rapist), OP a simple illustration from another dimension of what your so called "animal contact" ( your contact portrays who you are ) and many commentators here are trying to say is that:

1: A driver who don't have a driver's license and ran over and killed an individual on suicidal attempt who happened to intentionally jumped over the moving vehicle.
2: And a driver who purposely ran over and killed an individual just because he/she is provoked or offended.

The driver 1 will receive lighter punishment (maybe some months/years imprisonment with payment for damages) because the driver failed to possess the requisite requirement before driving a vehicle on the road, now you must believe me that the deceased has a share of the punishment indirectly because he/she contributed to the circumstances which led to his/her death, now who received the highest punishment between the driver 1 and the deceased? Of course the deceased because he/she lost his/her life in the process.

Now in the case of driver 2, he/she will receive a maximum punishment perhaps death by hanging or at least life imprisonment; from the look of things it's a win win justice here as there is no other punishment to be given to the driver 2 to exceed the havoc wrecked.

So back to main topic at hand, the above examples are applicable to a rape case. Rape case is judged based on circumstances although every rapist must be punished if found guilty but not on the same scale.

In a case whereby the victim contributed to the circumstances that led to the rape he/she will indirectly receive a punishment in the sense that the offender will surely be released after serving his/her term and rehabilitation meanwhile some rapists will be jailed for life depending on how it happened for example those that committed Uwa menace will never have their lives spared if caught.

So ladies be careful on whatever you do and whoever you mingle with because it's not everyone that's sound upstairs and we know every rapist must be punished if found guilty but my question is, based on the circumstances that led to the rape will the punishment heal the trauma and everything even if it's 10 years imprisonment?

This OP lacks the cognitive abilities to engage in an rational and logical discussion like this.

Ariza:
Another one bursting with emotions! But one question to you Madam how many rape cases hit the internet if it doesn't involve a celebrity, a gruesome murder, a church or anything people want to wail about? How many rapists have gotten true convictions through your so called Nigerian Police Force? Even Uwa's parents were told to pay 'mobility fee' before the case can be pushed. A police officer asked Uwa's father " was his child the first to be raped?" That should show you lots of things which I will point some out for you in case you aren't capable of processing it.
That statement means:

1)To most out there , Rape is just Rape until it becomes Murder, And truly many women have been raped the only reason they aren't making wave is because they weren't killed!

2) Rape cases are reported but dismissed. Even your so called Nigerian force have done a lot of sweeping under carpet and covering up.

3)Out of million of cases only one or two victims get justice, only few get to the internet. Before Ada, Jennifer and Uwa do you know how many others have been raped? How many will make wave that will prompt placards,hastags and ONLINE protests. Actions that died within a week or two. And then we go back to our normal lives until another gruesome one happens again then we come back to Rant.

The reality is, our society, government and Security has failed us, Women should stand up and fight! Protest, Guide yourselves,Speak out . Don't cover up rapists husbands, don't date rapists , stop false rape allegations then we will see way forward! And yes! Pay attention to your male child's sexuality like you do the female. Fight against Rape Across all genders, then we will have saner community.

Act and Stop Ranting! Be Realistic! It's high time Women, Nigerian Women like women of other nations arise and fight this battle and stop waiting on Men to. Move out!

So on point. Your gender folks are inherently hypocritical, rude and uncouth e.g this fool of an OP.

Are you on Twitter?

light099:
This case is obviously ganged-up blackmail and a case of some frustrated hoes and gold-digging losers, who felt so stupid after discovering a smart player has successfully shined their congos in succession, one after the other.


By the way, most Nigerian ladies do not know the difference between rape, hardsex and consensual forced sex. That is why 90% of Nigerian ladies who have had sex before always ignorantly claim to have been victims of rape at one time or the other. They always have fake stories to tell. Chasers of cheap clout.

So on point bro, a campaign by hoes and losers.

joseph1832:
24 women?

It's very prudent to investigate this matter before accusing anyone of rape. Rape is despicable. Accusing a person without even hearing his own side of the story speak volumes.

What's that say again... "innocent until proven guilty by a competent court of law".

This is the new normal - false accusation of rape. And we you challenge this fools for evidence they call you names.

What the fuuuk is wrong with this people?

missimelda01:
Kindly talk about what a girl could do to a guy that would warrant him raping her. This illustration of yours doesn't correlate.

All this your gra gra and foolishness prevented from realising we are all on the same page -that rape is inexcusable.

I feel like knocking your coconut head

Xavi2019:
She's just too emotional and way too uncouth.
Obviously her points alone are the way, the truth and the light, if you don't agree with all of them you're a rape apologist.
Btw, the guy in the chat supports rape clearly, he's just trying to justify it.
The comment sections is where she's getting it all wrong by misinterpreting people.

You are smart... Anyway leave me with that mothherfuker let me teach her a lesson.

missimelda01:
I should edit my post and add this for everyone to see.
What are you saying? You blame a girl for walking at night, which mean you blame Uwa for going to read at night. Guy this your illustration no follow at allllll.

I'm dating a guy and he rapes me, I'm supposed to take part of the blame for that too? Are you kidding me right now.. do you have sisters?? Damn.
Jullima I'm done with these guys.

You are just a fool as swear. When the Bleep are you going to understand that none of is justifying rape?

You are a very stupid girl, a waste of time and energy engaging with you with your stinking pussyy

missimelda01:
lol you are so angry because I called you out.
Rape apologist that's what you are.. hit your head on the wall if you're soo angry.
You can also help yourself by avoiding this thread, responding to everyone's comment and insulting me doesn't get to me in any way, I don't even know who you are.

Bring it on you dog...

Your opinion doesn't change anything;
- I know what I stand for and the people in my life cherish me for that.

So I don't care what a piece of trash like will say, you are worthless and what you say doesn't Change a thing.

You know what the women in my life will give
you a contemptible look for saying such trash.