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Jullima:
I don’t quote lengthy posts, it clogs up the thread. I truncate. No difference in choosing not to quote at all but addressing him with @. I didn’t edit a word.

I read his post and I said what I said. In the 21st century, mobilizing and the use of social media is very relevant and useful to fight rape, it’s not a waste of time and it’s not ineffective.

What you just typed and what she said about ‘precaution’ it’s what we women have been taught ad-nauseam since we could walk, we literally live our lives in fear of men and yet here we are. Rape is still rampart.

As women continue to take precautions (we never stopped), maybe we should also start the education and conversation on rape. People should know what consent means, they aren’t entitled to people’s body, rape shouldn’t be used as punitive measures etc.
Rapists and potential rapists get to hear/listen/see victims of rape and learn firsthand the destruction and damage they leave in their wake.

Also, most rape is done by people who are known to the victim, not some stranger lurking in the dark.

And oh! Yes! I am emotional, if you aren’t after seeing Uwa’s pictures online, then you should check yourself.

#justiceforuwa.

P.S. I participated on two threads a few weeks ago about male rape and male child abuse. Did you participate?

Threads or protest? If you mean the former then its a daily thing for me on the internet.

I have seen uwa murder pics, but I can't stand it, absolutely horrifying.

Lastly, you do realise most rape victims hardly speak out right? And that's like encouraging these beasts.

Jullima:
You absolutely make no sense.

Do you know who else is on social media and make use of hashtags? The Nigerian police, the Nigerian senate and house of rep, the president, lawyers, etc if awareness is not brought to a societal menace, long enough to remain in the consciousness of the people, how do we fight it?

Agitations starts awareness, awareness leads to conversations which then leads to learning opportunities that can change the rape culture in Nigeria.

All your supposed ‘action’ is what has been taught and drilled into the brain of women since we could walk, guess what? Rape is still rampant, a rapist only needs one moment of vulnerability. Also, most rape victims were raped by someone they knew not some stranger in a dark alley.

Very pretty cold hearted of you to shame her for being emotional that a young girl was brutally raped and murdered in cold blood.

What is wrong with you??

That is the problem with you lots, this guy you misquoted ( by editing his post) is actually on the same page with you. But heck hypocrisy and emotions has clouded your reasoning and you can't even realise it. He echoed the stance of many men by highlighting;

- As a sensible lady take precautions
- Learn some combat skills just in case
- move with the right people
- You are pretending like males don't get molested which is untrue. Why are you making it look like its a one way street?
- rapist have a predetermined mind and they latch on easy targets( avoid being one)
- 90% of men would be glad seeing a rapist rot in jaiil ( so that motherffucker - OP, who called me a "rape apologist" is a fool who don't even know what those words mean)
- the vast majority of gentlemen unanimously agree that rape is unjustifiable and inexcusable ( but heck this moronic OP is so stupid to even allow people butress their point before giving them insultive labels - OP you are contemptible, middle finger for you)

Like I said hypocrisy and double standards don't bring desired change, honesty and good reasoning do.

Benee1000:
Madam take it easy na, you were the first to use a dirty language on your own thread by calling a fellow human like you an animal. By doing so, you forfeited any right to caution anyone doing same.

Secondly, @ the bolded. It does actually, cos you actually called what your contact said about needing evidence before conviction rubbish In your reply to him, when he's actually right. It show that you support sentencing a person without evidence, simply because he was accused of wrong doing.

And finally at your question about what he meant In the chat you bolded? He is actually lawfully correct, even In a rape case. Let me give you a typical example how.
A jugde can grant a accused person leniency (reduced jail time) during sentencing, when he or she has been proven guilty depending on the circumstances leading to the committed crime.
In a rape case, an example could be if both couples were under an influence (drugs, alcohol, medical condition etc), and the rapist (male or female), has had no previous record nor has displayed a behavior leading to such crime as rape, when normal & under no influence.

Another example, could be if the rapist was forced to do it, like say, if a gun were pointed to his head & told he or she would be killed unless the crime is committed, so the gun possessor passively commits the crime of rape for whatever reason eg revenge at the framed rapist or the raped .

The same can leniency can be granted even in murder depending on the circumstances leading to the crime, for example, murder committed as an act of self defense, which would then be regarded as man slaughter, which carries a lesser sentence.

So you see? OP, the guy you called an animal is actually correct.

But the example he gave trying to explain his point was incorrect. That is taking laws Into your own hands.

Don't always fight people who have a contrary opinion to yours OP, for in the end, yours could be the wrong one. If u can't accept a person's opinion, leave them, it is their opinion, it is their choice and they have a right to make that choice. Don't insult people any how for their opinion especially if they didn't insult you first.

Peace

What a lovely piece... She thinks she can just hurl any words without getting any backlash, what a tosser she is , she is incapable of reasoning so oga don't even waste your time debating with this emotional fool.

foleskay:
With the way the op is attacking every commentator and getting awry emotional, I think she's been raped before.

Bro its quite surprising how this op is so emotional, its irrational.

Probably she has been....... Before

If so my thought are with you OP

Ariza:
Here is the truth of this whole matter! I do not believe in placards, hashtags or online protests or threads they have done nothing and will have little or no effect. I believe in Action! In Reality! Let the ladies be on guard! Take precautions! Don't walk alone at night, have teaser and pepper spray with you, learn little combative martial arts, be fit to Run, let your No be No. Don't visit a guy at home if you aren't ready to go down. Do away with Male friends! Stop losing guards by talking and smiling at every guy that says "Hello" it's not being approachable but available! Respect yourself,have lots of Dignity and don't forget to Pray.

It's a dangerous world out there, don't think all #saynotorape rants will make any difference. Act!

Wait are you female? so much sense in one comment unlike that motherfuuking...... I no call name oo

Seriously you damn on point I just hope more ladies see this.

One of our major problem as humans is hypocrisy and double standards. Once again thanks for this comment bro

missimelda01:
Next time read properly before spilling trash.
Rape is a sensitive topic and shouldn't be used as an opportunity to bash men/ladies.

You and your so called guys were too quick to defend the male gender without trying to understand what I was pointing out. I guess we misunderstood each other.

Shut the hell up , everyone here is a witness of how you literally spill this thread with crap. You only choose what you want to hear. And that's bad.

You are assuming we men are potential rapist while its absolute nonsense. Let me tell you some of us won't even have an erection at the sight of your unclothedness, we have standards and don't just go for anything with vijay, please get this

We ain't fighting neither are we enemies but you sound so bitter, emotional and uncouth , you must be passing through a tough time , my thoughts are with you.

LilWarshy:
These are your problems;
You can't comprehend neither being cognitive.

Bro its tiring as fucck. The girl matter don taya me sef , she is too emotional

The lady is just misjudging people. Its ridiculous.

For the umpteenth time we don't support rapist in any way but we won't tolerate double standards and hypocrisy either

LilWarshy:
These are your problems;
You can't comprehend neither being cognitive.

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JAMO84:
That's a lie. The 80 billion include states debt and the 23 billion just approved by the house.

This government I mean APC government. Even at that could you name any projects?

missimelda01:
lol young man, this is the last time I'll respond to you so you better read carefully.
Nowhere did I mention you to bring your shitty thoughts into this conversation, but since you couldn't resist the urge to respond, you had to use this platform as an opportunity to express your hatred for the female gender, you dunno how stupid that makes you look. I carefully made my post without generalising anything because I know that there are good men out there.

I don't care what you or any other person think about me simply because of my stand on rape, you can as well ignore my comment the next time you see it.

I called you a rape apologist simply because you ignored the fact that in the conversation, the young man thinks that a rapist deserves leniency if the lady did him wrong in a way... Now what do you call someone who agree with such a thing? Or you skipped that part?

[/b]I believe that rape cases should be well investigation, an evidence is a plus but I don't believe a lady deserves to be raped no matter what.[b]

That is my point na and what I actually stand for( pretty sure most guys are on the same page with me)

Since we are all in agreement why prolonging things? Abi you dey vex ni ?

JAMO84:
That's a lie. The 80 billion include states debt and the 23 billion just approved by the house.

You still didn't answer my question.

JAMO84:
I wouldn't support this loan if this government have at least, 80 percent of the revenue the previous government had.


Add all the recoveries, loans and taxes, Buhari would still be at least 200 billion dollars behind Jonathan.


If oil was selling at seventy dollars and a certain government was taking billions of loans to pay salaries, is it now that it's 30 dollars that we shouldn't take loans? Will Buhari pay for all these gigantic projects with his military pension?


Please, anyone that cannot counter these with facts should not quote me, my mood is so bad I could curse anyone who mention me with shallow logic.

So far this government under buhari have so far borrowed $84 billion to fund infrastructure projects. Could you mention these completed projects?

missimelda01:
You better watch your dirty language on my thread, you feel attacked because you are a rape apologist.
My post was not meant to make any innocent person feel uneasy, this is not a war against the male gender.. but you cannot see that because bitterness has cloud your sense of reasoning.

I should watch my language? Says an uncouth lady who called me rape apologist without even getting to understand my point of view.

You guys are full of emotions and irrationality. Its pathetic.

And get this into your thick skull; the vast majority of guys are gentlemen and will never support nor fold their arms watching such an inhumane act occur. We will never condole such rubbish.

But the problem is you guys are just too emotional,hypocritical and always trying to claim moral high ground, WTF? What in tarnation is wrong with you MFs? little thing boom; you are an apologist bla bla, insulting people you knew absolutely nothing about. Its embarrassing and you are an utter disgrace to your gender.

Look no one will take you seriously with such attitude. Because you obviously are not reasonable.

Ningen:
He's not an animal. He's a man.

The sooner you accept the capabilities of what a man can do, the safer you'll be. See him as a man and nothing else. Don't pretend abeg.

Bro this moderfuckers are Becoming ridiculous. Notice how she was quick to condemn the poor guy without hearing enough from him. Holy hell! She even brought their chat which is meant to be secret and secured here. Like WTF? What on earth is the problem with this bitches?

dairykidd:
So much stupidity in one person.. wtv u choose to believe, believe. I ain't no rapist. ur just looking for who to vent ur frustrations on. Leave me alone pls. I have no energy for what u want

Bro ignore this motherfukker, she has siblings on Twitter who hurled the word "rapist" just for the love of the word.

They are hypocrites and pathetic losers.

PoliticallyInco:
Went on some assignment and as with my job I was lodged at a top hotel in the city. A relative came with school mates (from the University) to see me in the hotel. 2 guys and 2 girls. Both girls were very pretty but one was more than the other with respect to curve statistics. A 9/10 and a 10/10. To enjoy the visit they arrived early in the morning. Around 7 am.

As students,they wanted a feast. Coming to the hotel was exciting. Free food things and students. I allowed them order whatever they wanted. They played , watched TV, play-fought, gisted, used the pool, used the gym, free Wi-Fi, etc. All this while, never knew the girls were "eyeing" me so to speak. I was too busy with my task on my personal computer and paid them no attention. I recall I was playing Yani, listening with my head phones and working on my laptop.

When it was time to go,they informed me and I left the table to get or do something. Perhaps to get them some transport money or something. But I know the bolder girl amongst them slipped her name and number on the notepad close to my laptop. No one noticed her do this. I didn't either.

When they left and I got back I noticed the piece of paper. Sent a message latter and she replied that she would love to return to the Hotel that night. I obliged. Made mad, crazy and insane love that night from the door of the room. Realised she was shy but when she lets loose she is crazy and energetic. She latter told me she was 25. So I told her to just relax and allow me show her things. She liked the idea of a lot of the naughty things we did. Swapping sex positions, not being shy when she shakes and quivers from orgasms as a result of clitoral and g. Spot orgasms. Ended up making her cry latter because whenever she asks about my coming to their state again for work and I honestly tell her I don't know yet. Eventually tried to scare me that she thinks she is pregnant. Told her we used protection. She claimed it wasn't 100 per cent safe. Told her to have the baby. Which angered her. She never talked to me again. Checked on her through my relative. He told me she was perfectly fine.

Now, the funny thing about it is the quieter and prettier one also stole or got my number and called few days after. I obliged. She was quieter. And I discovered she wanted to learn and experiment. She was 20. Thaught her how to be comfortable and allow a squirt happen. She initially didn't understand the urge to pee sensation/feeling. etc. Really corrupted her. In no small way.

My guy chop better pussy . Nothing do you baba.

That said, be careful of free pussies like this, the consequences could be grave. As the legendary Robert Greene once said "despise the free lunch"

sultaan:
At a time where most of the stadiums in this country lie in ruins, why will anyone waste money building another one.
One good road that leads from the farmlands to the city is better than a hundred stadiums because it adds value to life of the people every single day

Guy do you stay in Kaduna? Where exactly? For this comment you deserve a chilled bottle of malt.

Commendable!... But why is everything Nigerian outdated and old-fashioned?

These are old busses for heaven sake

GeneralPula:
But what you said is much more than what I said lol.

I only tried to add some explanations, probably you should reread my comment. I always get to know I’ll be able to fuc a babe right from the first start. Don’t you get it?

My approach will land you 90% of pussies within 24 hours

You still day learn work baba

LikeAking:
Guys don't forget to do it without a condom.

LOL.

You will return with a testimony.

I assure you.

Tell me your location and I will wipe you from the surface of the earth.

GeneralPula:
If you want to talk to any girl, either pretty or not, either you be shy type or not, just be firm at your first attack.. Here’s me:

Me- Hi sweet looking. Hru?
She- I’m cool
Me- You sound very amazing. ( I don’t usually say this if she doesn’t tho lol)
She- Thanks.
Me- Do you mind to have a new friend?
She...
...If it’s; No I don’t mind—( Then you can proceed to introduce your self to get her contact)
...If it’s; No I don’t need a new friend. ( Free her..)
You don’t introduce yourself until you get sure of whatsup. That way you’re going to be starting on a lively mode..

Its just some secs for the first attack. You can talk to any girl at anywhere..

You are still a learner bro... First impression really matters.

Why pass through all this stress just to woo a girl

Me: hello
She: she looks in amazement

Me; you look good
She: thanks

Me; I would like if we exchange numbers
She; no problem

Me; I'll call you later
She; OK

Within 5 minutes you've rack things up

Note;its likely you guys might chat on other stuffs but the main point is to be straightforward and to the point.

Later in the day

Me; *call her her* hello its me bla bla
She : yeah I recognize you bla bla

Me; let's meet at ( any decent cafe, restaurant)
She; OK ( agrees to come)

You guys finally meet, dine and profess love all in a single day.

Note: if she is interested she will show you right away if otherwise befriend for a year still won't change her mind. That said, I don't claim this to be the only way to woo a girl but I just like this approach.

akaahs:
To me, isn't difficult at all. Once I don block or deleted everything concerning her, she's as good as a dead being.
It amuse me when people say, they find difficult to move on from their ex.

We are different ya know... I find difficult to stop thinking about my ex, infact two years and counting.

Rozz:
Its not as easy,im struggling with it. You won't understand, it's something that's rooted inside,its difficult.

I feel your pain.

Galactico4ever:
Since you are the one who friendzoned him during your 100lvl,bae I don't think you have any chance of having a romantic relationship with him.Just maintain your friendship and since you a still young,a lot more guys better than him will surely locate you.

Baba you wise

saintpadrepio:
Some dirty and polluted minds are already insulting me for writing the truth, you misguided folks think you are doing me,nah nah in the least.

The truth hurts though as my friend will always say.

What will you gain by typing this load of rubbish ?

You must be a freaking idiot thinking you can change what people do in their matrimonial homes.

saintpadrepio:
Good afternoon everyone reading the truth.

The sanctity of sex should never be undermine or compromise for sinful pleasure.

This thread is not to join anyone in argument or judge you.
It is simply telling you not to engage in this during sex and if you are still doing it pls stop for you are polluting your life.

As a morally upright couple that just got married your mind will be on how to explore and try different sex modes with your partner.

You should take this serious for your own overall wellbeing.

Some beautiful relationships has been terminated on the altar of this evil sex mode or type.

Mouth action

Anal fingering

Fingering

Anal sex

These and some other filthy types not mentioned here is the design of the devil to rubbish the sanctity of sex.

You can satisfy your spouse without engaging in this dirty acts.

We all know pornography is entirely dirty and filthy and it is through it some people are learning different sex type that are bad for them without knowing it.

Some spouse may see you as a pervert if you tell them to engage in one or all of these and this has lead to breakups in relationships.

Some people had got sexual disease for practicing this rubbish.

You can't satisfy your spouse if you practice or keep doing it,that is why many porn stars later quit the porn industry because they know deep down that they are in emotional and psychological pains in what they are doing in order to earn big.

No porn star is happy and satisfy in what he or she is doing.

These types or modes of sex is abhorrently, abysmally, egregious, filthy, dirty,detestable, disgusting,disgraceful, shameful and totally and completely egreggious to say the least.

#istandwithsexualpurity

Any scientific evidence to back your claims?

[quote author=ObaOfUyo post=90180401]The killer Cop..........how is he feeling now
If only he knew the long term repercussions of his actions, he would have stayed home on that day. [/quote

Baba, sometimes life is unpredictable, you never know what will happen next.

bigstan11787:
Tomorrow

Its today

Righteousness89:
The Protest should be about the Unnecessary Killings going on from Continent to Continent!

[s][/s]Lives in Nigeria are slaughtered like chicken because of their Faith...[s][/s]

Until Humanity return to GOD in Humility and We Completely Surrender to HIM we will keep seeing this Evils..

Human life has Suddenly become Valueless..

We need Conscious Action not Just talk.

The World needs to Return to GOD and do away with Abominations and Wickedness

What will you gain from fanning flames of hatred and religious fanatism?

How about those who were killed by bandits in katsina, sokoto and zamfara? Hell no! You choose to turn a blind eye and only focus on southern Kaduna.

Damnit!

wman:
Bro, please don't even go there. It has been happening to blacks for so long, and nothing is been done.

The police respect you as a white more than a black.

I hate to tell you this but in 2019 US police killed more whites than blacks

foleskay:
Lol. Well its a win win situation. So far I dnt catch her while doing it. Or I dnt know or find out about it

I hope you are using protection ?