Northerners enjoy Nigeria more. The overwhelm anything the federal offers. This thing may be borne out of lack of many other options, or it may just be sheer smartness.
Studio247: There is hardly a week that we don't get report on Ritual killing.
It looks like almost every Nigerian youth wants to leave the life they see on Instagram.
Some want to leave that life at all cost.
Just as there is hardly a minute that celebrities don't display wealth on their pages, there is hardly a day we don't get news of ritual killings.
So, I talked to few people if what young people see on Instagram is responsible for the quest for fast richies, some agreed that Instagram is playing huge negative role in pushing some people into doing the wrong things.
And some said NO, every wealthy person can flunt their wealth as they like cos they worked for it .
Your opinion.
It contributes without doubt. Internet and social media is one big reason why morals have gone down. Somethings that one before now may not be able to see in a lifetime is everywhere now on the net. Some before now, wouldn't really know how sex happens but it's nothing now online. This is the reality of things. We must react appropriately though and develop an education system that counters this bad exposure. The humans mind react to things dumped in it. The bible warned against showy display of ones source of livelihood as part of the things to be wary about. My God! The bible is so complete.
24brains: i know all that. But i speak from experience. When you over pamper women in the Name of respect or for peace to reign, they take you for granted.
now don't misquote this for beating women. just be harsh and tough sometimes but never raise a finger at her.
Ok. Maybe you meant to say firm. Harsh denotes something negative. But never u see a woman as somebody u can punish to correct, see her has somebody u can help address things. We have to be sincere with ourselves too and admit our shortcomings too.
24brains: who Maturity ep? Spare the rod(agression) and spoil the bride.
women naturally respect agressive men. wonder why we respect(fear) dad to mum back then?
Comon man, this ur mindset is warped oh. I must be sincere with u. Your wife no be your child or even younger sister for that matter, she be ur partner. You show respect and understanding to each other. CHAII
AquaBekee: Retired CP Ikechukwu Aduba Launches A Book, Authenticates The History Of Igboland And Origin Of Onicha Ado
Overtime, the origin of Igbos have been a topic of discussion with different opinions by different scholars. In a bid to weigh in and bring clarity to the subject matter, the Retired Commissioner of Police Ikechukwu Aduba wrote the book ‘History or Igboland and a reappraisal of the origin of Onicha Ado N’Idu. The book was launched over the weekend and was held in Onitsha, Anambra State was attended by the who is who of the Igbo community as well as renowned scholars and professors. Coordinator of the Book Launch committee Dr Walter Emerole welcomed everyone to the event and talked briefly about the efforts that have been put in place to make the event a reality.
Ikechukwu Aduba while making his author’s remarks succinctly stated that his radical shift from the old understanding of Igbo history and the origin of Onitsha people is to bring clarity on the subject matter. Aduba debunked through extensive research, the claim by Onitsha people that they migrated from Benin in the present-day Edo State. He wrote that there is no evidence either based on culture, religion or ancestry that supports the claim which he said is at most a myth.
According to him, neither culture, religion nor ancestry supports this claim. After reviewing accounts of previous historians, Aduba noted that none of them could state the exact date of Onitsha migration from Benin, nor the monarch in power when the movement took place.
Most importantly, he observed, Chima who was the Onitsha ancestor that led the migration did not feature in Edo tradition. He also wrote: “There are more differences than similarities in Benin and Onitsha political arrangements. “In Benin tradition, the ruler is called Oba, but in Onitsha Obi. The Royal regalia of both monarchs not the same. In Onitsha King list, there is no Edo name. Onitsha indigenes called their queen mother Omu while in Benin, she is called Idia”.
Instead, citing works of great historians and anthropologists, like V. C. Uchendu, Adiele Afigbo and Onwuejeogu, Aduba concluded that it may be that “Onitsha people originally belonged to Northern Igbo while the group which eventually became ruling lineage migrated from area in Western Igboland which was within the influence of Benin, bringing with it something of Benin pattern of kingship, titled hierarchy and other political institutions”.
Another concept debunked in the book by Aduba is that of Igbo Enweghi Eze (Meaning The Igbos Have No King) he believes this is both biased and lack of sufficient knowledge about the nature of Igbo politics.” The idea, he reasoned could have emanated from an autonomous homeland.
The Chairman of the occasion Chief Dr. Simon Okeke advised everyone to read this literary work as it epitomizes detailed research done by renowned scholars.
Other notable guests at the event include: Chief Chuck Nduka-Eze (Chief Launcher) Professor U.D Anyanwu who delivered a resounding keynote address. Professor Johnclif Nwadike did a fantastic review of the book in local ibo dialect, pointing at the touch points and areas to take note of as it relates to Igbo origin. Special lecture was delivered by professor Chidi Osuagwu . Guests duly represented were Barr. Nnamdi Ibegbu (SAN), Ugwumba Uche Nwosu, amongst others.
I can't take all this books seriously until our archaeology science develop. Many of the claims their will just be postulations. History of origin is very complicated. Many at times chromosomes of native speakers are examined to observe links. This are still science that hasn't been developed in this part of the world. Some people might not be close to other IGBOS but just took up the language because of the native speakers influence or proximity. What looks certain is that Benin was so big that it exercised sovereignty over many tribes that was close to it. We see traces of this in the monarchies in Bayelsa, Delta and even in onitcha.
gasparpisciotta: Bro present day woman no like man wey dey do sme sme!!!
Shout for her head make you threaten to boycott her and her food for the time being unless she change.
And if she no change become more aggressive towards anything that concerns her!!
What she sow she must reap!!!
Once you see say she don calm down, bring her close and take her out but don’t let that be your only joker.
Change tactics from time to time
Who tells you ladies respond in a definite way to aggression? Aggression or threat of it is the lame approach to take. Court a woman enough before marrying her. You can disregard her food and even take a leave in a calm way. In a mature way. It works better
Philip94: My newly wedded wife always capitalize on what I did and said wrong eventhough she does and says wrong things to me which I most times overlook.
On many occasions, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless times to always address issues she has with me immediately before it turns to a big quarrel.
She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have.
Please, how can I find a lasting solution to my wife's unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.
When we advice una to dey court, una no go hear. Small money una go pick any available lady. This kind of issues is discovered and address during courtship. Marriage is settling down with the good and the bad you have known not to start complaining about them. Pray oh, because divorce is not an option. You guys can't be littering everywhere with second hand people.
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This system should be regulated. Its risky. What if the boss even dies? There are some that find a way of accusing their apprentice of theft to avoid paying them well. There should be a system whereby the boss put aside something every month in a bank for the boy.
yuping: Parent often hide under my children, the truth is if you are not mentally stable and happy you can't take care of kids. Peace of mind over everything, if you are causing pain to someone and expect the person to stay because of kid eventually the person is going to die young and still leave the kids behind. Peace of mind over everything jare.
Balance must be found. Sacrifices must be made. Compromise must be reached. Having issues with three women in a space of a short petiod of time point out that that man isn't getting those things right.
yuping: your uncle don't tolerate nonsense, as long as he is happy with is decision let him be.
That's selfish thinking. How about the "okaness" of the women a d the children. We shouldn't make decisions just based on us, we should consider others. The world will be a lot better this way
There is this particular guy that I met on Facebook about two month ago in Facebook, we have been talking and he calls me almost everytime, he has tried to invite me to his house in osun state on different occasions but due to security issue I had to decline his invitation..
We planned to meet on Wednesday and he told me he was coming from osun state, so I told him to drop at Mr Biggs in Iwo Road Ibadan..
I stay at challenge so I had to #200 cab from there down to Iwo road, I was having about #1300 with me before leaving the house, I was already waiting for him for about 40minute before he showed up, he told me his car has fault and that he had to call his mechanic to fix the car for him, we sat down and talked.
During our discussion, he told me to please give him 1k to get something to drink, that he had forgotten his wallet in the car and his phone is off to make a transfer, I gave him and he ordered for soft drinks and meat pie..
Along the line, he told me he needed to make a call and requested for my phone so that he can direct the mechanic bringing down his car, I heard him calling and was directing the man down to Iwo road, all of a sudden he just went outside and before I could know it this guy has dissapeared with my phone and was just looking at him from afar..
I couldn't shout as I was just looking like a fool because I don't know what's happening, I waited for about 1hr thinking he has gone to pick the mechanic, I tried calling my number but was switched off, he has gone with my phone and I don't know his number off hand. I had use the #100 left with me to buy recharge card and was left with nothing.. It was a bitter experience for me as I had to trek all the way from Iwo road to Olorunsogo, When I couldn't continue with trekking I had to approach a lady to please help me out with #100 after explaining my situation to her and she gave me #500 and wished me well.
I thank God it was not more than this, he only went away with my phone, what if he had used me for ritual?
Please ladies be careful about the kind of guy you hang out with, always take your time to know the person you are moving out with..
I had learnt my lesson, and have handed him over to God .
I can't blame you. He must have appeared nice and you got emotional. I can't blame you for trying to give love a chance but ofcourse I know you will be smarter next time. You will balance your head and heart. I am glad you didn't first go to meet him at Osun. Importantly though dear, track that fucking phone. It's a responsibility. God would be happy
Reno has been reduced to a blogger of conspiracy theories
Imaginary surface-to-air missiles!
He might not be right about Buharis reason, but those bandits do have that capability now. Yes, they have anti aircraft gun and varieties of missile. I am sure about surface to surface missiles
And if you think that you are addicted....the solution is that you need to first stop thinking it is a bad thing....so you won't be feeling guilty after masturbating.....
You know the funny thing When you stop feeling guilty about masturbations and stop seeing it as a bad thing that is the time you start to limit it without you knowing.... masturbation is not a bad thing
if anything, you know it weakens the penis muscle? And in some cases masturbation reduce your urge towards your partner. Do you know this too?
BadNews: A Trending Video Online Shows suspected internet fraudsters defecating and 'Eating' the waste at IMSU junction in Owerri, Imo state, today January 26.
The two young men carried a potty to the junction, pulled their trousers, showed their bare butt, and began to excrete in the potty.
One of them who was holding a loaf of bread inserted a piece of the bread in his buttcrack, ate some of the bread and gave some to his colleague.
Reported That One of their friends was present to film them carrying out this act.
Some people however suspect they might be skitmakers.
You know some of these people aren't even yahoo guys, they are playing out a script to cause sensation and to increase followership on various social media. The thing anyways is that we are in a really sick world, where people do a lot of thoughtless rubbish for money and validation. They don't give a hoot about others feelings. And they still have girlfriends!��♂️ BIRDS OF A FEATHER...
You know all of this but still pay these destiny destroyers for just a few minute of pleasure?
You should use your own advice. You need it more, if you want to go very far in life.
Did I tell u anywhere there that i pay for sex? Read well my friend. That was an honest piece. In writing that i hoped to help the brother and help myself
Tired2022: I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.
Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.
I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.
So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.
I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.
I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!
My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............
I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!
I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.
Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.
Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.
Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.
She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.
This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.
I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.
Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.
I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!
I feel for you. There are battles that just seems bigger than one. You feel helpless in it. First though; since you don't have a girl that will feel betrayed if you don't marry her, don't get into marriage yet, as u will punish the woman with ur lifestyle. I am sure u are very convinced it's a high risk lifestyle, especially the chance of contracting serious disease like HIV. This chance is just one encounter away. It's good you want help. It's an achievement on the part of getting free. Never stop wanting to rid yourself off the lifestyle. I notice with horror that it's not just the sex but also the feeling of conquering different girls that fuel you. You even keep a catalogue. You know the exact numbers. It's a serious situation you are in. You will notice I don't have a specific solution as though I have never done prostitute or masturbated before, but I have issues with wooing and having sex with different girls. I have done 8 already this January. It drains me of my little finance, but I also feel helpless. I enjoy it kinda...I don't feel like I am very motivated unlike you to stop yet, though I know it's my main problem. Just keep wanting to stop and seriously want to. Consider the disease aspect and consider that if you defile a minor it might be the end of you. Continue to tell yourself why u have to stop and pray. Something crossed my mind again. Tell a mature friend that isnt inclined to that lifestyle. Seek out good friends...male. Be intentionally about it. Then find a good social, educational or sport activity, one that is rigorous and demanding to fill your mind with. May God help us.
If Asiwaju could be gracious enough to concede the ticket to him, that will be spectacular.
Either way, it must be a Yoruba agenda in APC and all hands must be on deck.
The yoruba agenda u mentioned at the end gives u out as somebody different from the like of Osinbajo. Why must it be a yoruba agenda rather than a Nigerian agenda for a better Nigeria. You are not better than those illiterates that only want a national leader to be from their tribe. Any tribalist is a plaque of the society. U should hide ur face in shame
Premiumwriter: When I read stories like this I get depressed.
Not about the people in the story but about my own girl. She's sweet and innocent.
But What if after everything we've done together and I fell out of love with her? What if after all the promises, things don't work out?
I know the sacrifices that girl has made including her religion.
Can't imagine how the op's girl must be feeling right now. 3 abortions, countless sex to please and still lost the man.
This is why I find it hard to hate on women even as a redpiller. The game of life is hard on everyone
If we SIMPLY obey the bible, a lot of problem and complication will be avoided. It's the far better way. Myopic people will think that they should test the product first. Too much testing spoils the product for others.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 104,403 Northerners, 23,088 Southerners Apply For 2021 Police Recruitment by thinkmoney(m): 1:29pm On Jan 31, 2022
your uncle don't tolerate nonsense, as long as he is happy with is decision let him be.