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:ois this a joke?

LMAO

Bolarge:
@Consultant
Y'spoke my very mind.God bless you my sister.

@Topic
This article might be a little more illuminating:

Pornography in Marriage
Written by Lee Wilson. Concept by Joe Beam.

It's quite common for couples to ask my opinion on whether or not they are Biblically free to use pornography to help them get ready for sex or to enhance their lovemaking.

I have three thoughts to share concerning this issue:

1. The average female porn star retires by the age of 28 and the average male porn star retires by the age of 32. The reason for this is that the porn industry sees the human body as being at its physical peak between the ages of 18 and 28 for females; 21-32 for males. Her breasts are firmer and other areas of both the male and female bodies are without age spots or wrinkles. The person in a pornography video will never grow a day older or lose that "perfection," yet your wife or husband naturally will.

Here's the warning: If you choose to use pornography as a means to sexually arouse yourself, you are forfeiting the ability to become aroused by your spouse. Over time, it will become more and more difficult to be sexually aroused by your lifemate because he or she will age while the porn star forever remains youthful in pictures and videos. Losing the ability to be sexually aroused by your spouse is a very bad thing! Not only are you putting yourself at risk for the temptation of an affair, but you are killing what should be a beautiful experience shared by you and your spouse.

Furthermore, which is really the better body? Is the better body the one whose breasts nursed your children and held you close when you were scared or sad? The body that sleeps by your side at night? The world might see the young porn star's body as being the best, but which is really the best? Why would you want to give up the ability to be aroused by the best?

2. The use of pornography will inevitably destroy the self esteem of your spouse. Porn stars are selected because they are not normal. The females they select are usually far above average in breast size and in the appearance of other features. The males are usually far above average in terms of penis size and in the appearance of other features.

As your spouse is constantly exposed to the "perfection" of the people having sex in the video, he or she usually begins to feel ugly, inadequate and unwanted. In time it becomes painfully obvious to your spouse that a substitute is required to sexually excite you. Can you see how that would destroy self esteem? And trust me, it doesn't get better with time--it only gets worse as each of you experience the normal aging process while at the same time watching porn stars who are permanently young.

3. If you are using another person--even a picture of another person--to sexually excite and arouse yourself, you are commiting adultery according to Jesus. Jesus said, "You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart" (Matthew 5:27-28).

I certainly don't want to judge another person. Nor do I want to involve myself in another's sex life. Each person is obviously free to make independent choices, yet I feel that it is important for you to have all the facts and viewpoints at your access so that you can make an informed decision.

This question has been asked so often by couples around the world that we felt it necessary to provide an answer as a resource for individuals who want to please God in every area of their lives and to act in the best interest of their marriage and spouse.

Written by Lee Wilson
Director of Web Media and Literature
Family Dynamics Institute
© 2005 Lee Wilson. All rights reserved.

this is a nice one

he should be careful,these sort of people could be really dangerous

Read Isaiah and revelation then you would know why there are so many fake pastors around

this is sad

GOD can never ever make a mistake

NO and don't pray to ever be

this is a real tough question,your actually asking the living to know what happens after death

@kellybaba

thats not what he meant.but the way these pastors go about it

God has already forbidded it to happen to me or any body i know

NO NO AND NO

cheating does not neccessarily mean only having to sleep with the lady,also seeing a lady and longing for her or admiring her is adultery.cause you are suppose to have eye only for your wife,so there is no guy that is not guilty of this offence

kitaun:
Make sure you don't tamper with gizzard when u get there or else baba iyabo will shoot u in d leg!

chistiana:
@ topic

recently they invited Pastor William Folorunsho Kumuyi on Tv they ask him some questions about Tv,
he said he never said such thing, he never ask is Brethen not to watch T.V.
I also reason with him, u know cause there are some movies shown on T.V teens don't suppose to watch, cause @ times when u keep turning to channnels u will realise that most of them are showing romantic movies.

e.g)
i ve a little sister, any time we want to watch movies either sexy once or action movie, she keep practicing it, there was a day, i caught her with one of our neighbour son on bed, a little girl of 9 years, do u know what she told me, she said she's acting what RAMSEY NOAH AND STELLA DID YESTERDAY, i was shocked.

i think T.V and computer is more of devil instrument. watching porn movies on net, even in Nairaland we see most of them every day.

as much as i agree with you concerning most of the programmes or films being a bad influence to children.i don't agree with you on the television and internet being evil,i believe your little sister being spoilt has nothing to do with the television but has everything to do with you people's negligence.you could learn to control and choose the kind of programmes or films your younger sister should watch and should not watch.everything has to do with how well you control and are involved in a child's life.

i personally think its none of your business if they pretend or are devoted.it is not in our place to judge,salvation is a personal thing.everyone's got their own lives to live.

They can come visit but please they would go after visiting.

i learnt about love and the purpose of the advent season.it was so awesome

he would always be one of my favourite gospel musician,he style of worship justs wants to make you cry in adoration to God.it touchs the innermost part of your heart.

CELINE DION ANYTIME ANYDAY ,and celine dion got a better voice than mariah carey,all mariah does is shout at the top of her lungs,if she dosen't shout she has not yet started singing.

it does not work,no matter what anyone says its satanic.and don't forget when the devil gives with the left hand,he gets back with the right hand.no evil thing lasts forever.light would always triumph.no good ever comes out of any evil dealings,so those that keep decieving themselves and going to these evil herbalists are just selling their souls to the devil.

its very funny ,but yet it contains explicit contents,don't know

Welcome

what :oit is so disgusting,i think she is stupid

Welcome to Nairaland

@katherinae
exactly,cause there are lots of complications for an older lady,cases like fibrod.

3boys and 2girls.

i know it is very common in asia,but don't think its right in nigeria.

there are beautiful ladies everywhere

Two wrongs can never make it right.

the guys of course

i guess the Bride