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If she can't deal with it, then she should leave him and let it be. but hope she doesn't later say "had i known"

jalether:
what do you guys out there think of these saying that
when you want women they don't want you but when
you don't want them they want you
in my opinion i think this is absolutely true

Based on what study, pls?

went on one for the first time last month which was organized by ma friends, it wasn't bad but don't wanna do it again. its so weird.

When a banana tree starts growing oranges.

Nahhhh it ain't possible, you either into one and have the other person as a standby.

Its a Capital No No.

He really is pathetic. as suggestions given earlier, simply ignore him, he would get the message and stop.

Look dude, if she ain't interested anymore and want to move on with this new guy, then let her be and do the same.
she ain't feeling you no more, so move on to someone else who's going to feel you.

A friend of mine sent me the message below by T. D Jakes. it might be really long, but it makes a whole lot of sense.


[b]There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk
away from you: let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into
staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to
see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

The bible said that, they came out from us
that it might be made manifest that they were not for
us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have
continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.


And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just
means that their part in the story is over. And you've got
to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep
trying to raise the dead.

You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you
something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I
believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm
faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong
to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to,

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ,

LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and
see your worth,

LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you ,

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge,

LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction,

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents ,

LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude,

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better,

LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take

you to a new level in Him,

LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken
relationship,

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try
to help themselves,

LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed ,

LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so
used to handling yourself

and God is saying "take your hands off of it,"

then you need to,

LET IT GO!!!

Let the past be the past. Forget the former things.
GOD is doing a new thing for 2008!!!



LET IT GO!!!



Get Right or Get Left
. think about it, and then ,

LET IT GO!!!

[/b]

Cadet:
If I like you, I'll let you know

If I don't like you, I'll still let you know

If I can't stand you, I won't hesitate to let you know

If I think you're unattractive and trying to hit on me, I'll let you know you're unattractive

If you have some flaws you're unaware of, you'll be the first to know

Word girl.

Miss ko, miss ni. abegi the past stays past.

There ain't anything like love at first sight. love is built. so whoever says i fell in love at first sight, definitely got jokes. cus they deceiving themselves.

Na wa ohh, your friend is one funny dude. he still lives with his parents, and he's talking of getting a flat and car for the girl.

Ok, fine. he can't get her all this stuffs to make her comfortable, but has he thought of the future, how is he gonna survive, trust me when a baby comes, lots of responsibilities come as well.

Tell them to inform their parents, so they can get help as well. cus its obvious they would really need it. yes the shouting and nagging would come, but they got to bear it because no one pushed them into doing it, so they have to bear the consequences.

It rarely works, if you can't handle it, then don't try it.

it affects my mood a lot.

When am not really happy, i go for very casual jeans and a shirt.

None.

yup, spoken to a few of Nairalanders this year. also been fortunate to make some really good friends thru the site.

Wow, thats really cool, congrats to both of you. so good things do come out of NL

And where did such conclusion come from?

Hmmmm, first date, it was splendid,

Geeez, tell her how you feel and stop punishing yourself.

But office romance, ain't really the best.

And you think NL, is the best place, to share it, you got jokes,

Yep, but it goes on,

If after three weeks she hasn't called you, then its possible she ain't feeling you anymore, so just let her be and move on with your life.

Yawn********************Next*************

I believe you did not reject the sex, when offered?

And what happens if things go wrong? where does that leave here?

good morning Mum and good morning dad.

but now, whenever they call me, i greet hi dad, or hi mum.

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Then you must be a dummy.

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Thats a million dollar question.

But in my opinion, if i guy loses interest, you also loose interest.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Can't blame them. . .they learnt from the best [/color]

Thats what am talking about.

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Yep,
by the way whats your definition of decent? huh?

Should your mum be the one choosing/making the decision of who you want to marry?
I think your making excuses, becus if you really wanna be with this girl, there won't be a single hesitation or doubt.