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Nigerian men talk as if women are the only one who cheat in marriage but they also cheat than the women. A man will be cheating on the wife or girlfriend but he will not want her to be unfaithful. What is good for the goose is good for the gander, if you want a faithful partner you must also be faithful.

Guerreroll43:
Where is st kitt again

Saint Kitts and Nevis is a dual-island nation situated between the Atlantic Ocean and Caribbean Sea. It's known for cloud-shrouded mountains and beaches. Many of its former sugar plantations are now inns or atmospheric ruins. The larger of the 2 islands, Saint Kitts, is dominated by the dormant Mount Liamuiga volcano, home to a crater lake, green vervet monkeys and rainforest crisscrossed with hiking trails.

About 90 to 95 percent of the citizens are Africa descendants. History told us that many of their ancestors were taken there during the slaves trade era. And when it was abolished, they could not return home. So they occupied the islands and populated it. Their skin colour is black and they have similar culture with some West Africa countries.
Rashford, the Manchester United number 10 player is a citizen of St. Kitts and Nevis before he moved to England to pursue his football career.

Nazgul:
Please which continent is that country? I'm asking for a friend

Saint Kitts and Nevis is a dual-island nation situated between the Atlantic Ocean and Caribbean Sea. It's known for cloud-shrouded mountains and beaches. Many of its former sugar plantations are now inns or atmospheric ruins. The larger of the 2 islands, Saint Kitts, is dominated by the dormant Mount Liamuiga volcano, home to a crater lake, green vervet monkeys and rainforest crisscrossed with hiking trails.

About 90 to 95 percent of the citizens are Africa descendants. History told us that many of their ancestors were taken there during the slaves trade era. And when it was abolished, they could not return home. So they occupied the islands and populated it. Their skin colour is black and they have similar culture with some West Africa countries.
Rashford, the Manchester United number 10 player is a citizen of St. Kitts and Nevis before he moved to England to pursue his football career.

Some people are not just wise in this country. They have made themselves tools in the hands of politicians for a penny.
These same people are in Nigeria witnessing corruption and oppression by the government, they never stage a protest. But they can protest about Atiku's association with Hushppupi. Smh.

You said you read law but you are not a barrister but a pastor.
Be careful of those who carry Bible in the day but AK 47 in the night.


It seems Oshiomhole has ruined Ize Iyamu politically.

Made4naijalove:
This girl main boyfriend, will be crying by now

I can't just stop laughing at this your comment.

In another news, APC and PDP swap candidates.

PrecioussB:
If you send a pm now that would be better

I'm afraid of your true identity because most guys here disguise as females.

PrecioussB:
Deal?

Yes, a dating deal.

@op If you are serious about dating or building an honest relationship, let's strike a deal. I am single without girlfriend. If you trust yourself you can trust me.

Buhari will be shocked about this again. These people wey dey shock Bubu, ema shock e pa ooo.

SouthWestBlood:
This can't be true because that guy is a comedian and goes by the name CALLMEWYZEE on Instagram. I guess none of the onlookers recognised him.

Yes you are right. I just checked him on Instagram now. See his profile below.

All those in Naija shouting justice for George Floyd should come out and protest against this brutality.
Blacklivesmatter

E be like say na rape dey reign for Naija now. What is happening? Coro is no longer trending.
Anyway, I don't want any bad news today because it's my birthday.

I want to use this medium to appreciate the managements of nairaland for wishing me a happy birthday.

However, my profound gratitude goes to the Almighty God for the gift of life and His preservation power in my life.

I will be ungrateful if I do not thank my father, a great discoverer and an inventor who discovered my mother and invented me.

Finally, a big thanks go to my mother who hid me in her womb for the ordained period of conception. Thank you mum for your labour and nurturing skills.
Happy Birthday to me.

Me Governor, please open worship centres sharp sharp. I need to go there to give thanks to my God. It's my birthday today.

PigTormentor:
And you don't think that this kind of acts happens in America on daily basis in each city of America?
Think again. The only reason that this has generated so much heat is simply because it's on VIDEO. This happens way more than y you can imagine and thr cops always get away with it.
Frankly you have a higher chance of getting killed by cops in the US than you do.in Nigeria.
And the worst part is this, if a police officer should kill someone in the US, the city, State and the fvcking police union will defend the police no matter how bad their offense is. In Nigeria, yes police do kill also, but the difference is that in most cases, the officer is often arrested and charged to court before things even gets out of hand. That's the difference.

Hey, I am not only referring to the act of the police but the brutal killings that happens everyday in Nigeria, especially in the North.
Yes, it generated attention because it was captured and posted on social media. But what about the one that happens here and we are aware of it? Do we see any unanimous cry for human right protection? The answer is No because we don't see ourselves as one.
Please I am talking about unity that exists among the American people and nothing else.
Even though we are all blacks in Nigeria, are we united? Do we see ourselves as one mentally? We have allowed religion, tribe and politics to divide us and we can not rise in one voice to cry for justice to reign in the country.

This is a country where they see themselves as one and are trying not to allow anyone to divide them. The white Americans are the ones protesting mostly against the act of racism which led to the murdered of a black man. This is to tell us that they see themselves as one and they will not allow any government agencies to divide them. But the reverse is the case in Nigeria, we profess that we are one but we are divided in our actions. This type of inhumane treatment happens in Nigeria every day, but how many times have we united to protest against it? We can't do this because we are mentally divided.

VickyRotex:
Mr. English Dictionary, welldone! So what is the definition of fornication?

I stopped reading at this point: "Many will say its fornication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible"

Like are you for real? please scholar, what's the "true" meaning of fornication in the bible?

The fact that we go against some set rules/moral standards (and I'm talking in general here) doesn't justify our acts, neither does it change what is right.
It's even funny how you reference the other people living in the time of Mary. And so what? Because they engaged in pre-marital sex automatically means its not a sin? It's like saying because "sinners" existed in the time of Jesus and some even became His disciples, so believers should also keep sinning that Grace may abound.

I'm so happy you're ranting. you know why? its because you're being convicted for something you've done or planning to do. You just dont know it. There are different phases in conviction, so dont worry, you're getting there.


And it's so funny you say African mentality? really? is that what you were told? because a lot of foreign churches actually preach marriage and purity. maybe you should make more research on that and expand your knowledge.

I understand if I'm having this conversation with an atheist, but if as a "believer" like you claimed you are, you dont see fornication in the bible the way it is clearly defined, then I dont know what to say to you.

And please don't bring up the "let he who is without sin" card. There's a difference between admitting/acknowledging one's sin vs being ignorant about it and defending it at all cost.

Btw, please dont quote me. Cos even if you do, I wont be responding to any quote on this thread.

Selah!

I am sorry to break your instruction of 'don't quote me' but I am doing this to appreciate your response to the devilish and misleading message. It is well said, he that has an ear let him hear.
Thank you.

This is what happens when you are dating the leader of Ahoi-Seadog.

One of his slangs is Ovoko.

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
Afonja boys leave igbo gals alone abeg.

see as she fresh like tomorrow bread, see skin like milk. Something afonja girls bleach and destroy their skins to achieve is what this fine igbo gal got for free.

EDIT: AFONJAS please stop quoting me to say trash!!! I said what I said biko

Some people are mumu on this nairaland, they must turn every post to tribalism. Whether it is informative, educative or entertainment and it is the same people who condemn Biafra and keep shouting one Nigeria. Smh

This line got me laughing: I never meant to kill him. I only wanted to threaten him on the chest.

slyfox35:
Best friends or closest friends as some people term it is quite normal in the life of 80% of world population, I had one too.

We grew up as teens together, matured as adults together, he came to our house always and ate all his meals with us. My mom was really nice to him when she was alive. He wore my clothes and never returned them. I did not ask because my parents always provided for me although they were average citizens.

Then the worst thing in my life happened. I lost both my parents within the space of four years.
Things turned downhill for me (orphans do suffer a lot.. Too much suffering for you to believe there is even God in heaven who takes care of the fatherless and motherless).

My friend travelled to an African country. He kept telling me to come over there to work that things are better there. I kept declining but after a year of constant pressure, I decided to man up, packed my bags and travelled to meet him.

Guess what? I did not stay up to 5 days with him!!!

His attitude changed by the second day, he yells at me at every given opportunity, from his best friend, I turned to his boy, the heat he was given me was so bad that when he leaves the house and he comes back, I get scared just by hearing his footsteps. I virtually turned to a nonentity to him. I had no money on me because the little I had left, he collected it when I arrived. I knew no one, I felt so miserable and alone and I started regretting why I left Nigeria.

On the fifth day ,I woke up early in the morning and shook him up. I don’t know what got into me (but I am glad it did), I told him I can’t stay with him anymore and I want to leave. He did not even feel bad about this, he did not think of the fact that I know nothing and nowhere in this country. He let me go.

I packed my bag amid tears and went into the street. Mind you, I had no one to call back in Nigeria... It was tough on me but as a naija guy and as God will have it, I did not spend even a night on the streets. I was shocked that a total stranger took me in, clothed and fed me. He taught me everything he knows. I worked for 6 months and was able to make 2 million Naira. This was like a dream to me (If you get money ehn, to praise God Dey sweet o)

I came back to Nigeria, rented an apartment, furnished it and continued working from here.

This so called best friend of mine saw my posts and pictures on Facebook and video called me to check on me (I guess his eyes did not believe what he was seeing) he asked me if I am in a hotel, I said no, I am in my apartment. He was shocked (me I nor keep any grudge against you) he told me he was coming to Nigeria and that I should please forgive him and forget everything that happened. I told him I can forgive but can’t forget.

What surprised me most are this exact words he said “my guy, if I come, na your house I go relax first abeg”

Now my fellow Nairalanders, I am asking, how should I go about this?

I have forgiven him but should I allow him into my home?

It is good as you have forgiven him but you must be careful with him.
He is like a gold digger, when things were smooth he stuck around but when it was his turn to reciprocate he tricked you into a foreign land and abandoned you. Such a person does not worth being a friend, do not allow him into your house or life again. He has the feature of a chameleon and he could get rid of you because of envy.

SeunWedsLinda:
My sister recently started having black spots all over her face. Been to the pharmacy and they gave her a cream which didn't help in anyway. Please what remedy can I use to quail the growing spots?

You can use Green Tea, it works effectively. But I don't know if you can find it in Nigeria. I have attached a picture of it, you can go to those who sell creams, they will find it for you.

Use early morning urine to wash your face

This is wrong.

Use early morning urine to wash your face

Which kind of wicked advice is this?

powerfulguy:
Pls what does the bolded mean?

Herbalists are Yahoo, (scammers).
Everybody is a thief.
Anyone that the breaking of the dawn meet is a thief. That is, everyone is a thief but anyone that is caught in the act of stealing is the one that is called a thief.

@op, what nonsense is this? In a letter addressed to President Muhammadu Bihari intimating him with the development.

You need to apologise to the darling daddy of MannaBBgrill before his nairaland son arrive.

Where is Honourable Madiba? He needs to motivate the poster. Let me even stand in for him.
Poster, you are not serious! You are still living with your parent at the age of 20 and you have the gut to complain about her accusation. Why won't she accuse you of theft?
Let me shock you.
I started living alone at the age of two years.
I drove my first car at age five.
You are writing for opera hub at the age of 20, you are not serious. Let me shock you again, I started writing books at the age of three. Do you know Wole Soyinka and Chinua Achebe? I thought them how to write books. I have written one million books before I clocked 20 years old.
How much did you say you have in your account again? 19k, you see, you are not serious. Why not 19L? At age 20, I was controlling billions of dollars. Go and ask Bill gate about me, I lent him money to start his business. Ask Dangote, he will tell you about me. People call me financial immortal, the motivational guru.
In fact, I am angry with the poster because it is this type of story that sent my uncle to Sambisa Forest.
Poster, you need to stop dependeologistcalistic.
Honourable, what does that mean? Do I know?

He went there for a chat, if you know you know.

This is a very good point that you have raised but many people here will not see anything good in your write up. Most of the nairaland members nowadays are teenagers who are still depending on their parents and those ones who are grown-up are filled with different sentiments. So, I will advise you to publish this on a different forum or on popular newspapers if you want a solution to what is happening in Kaduna.

I was born and bred in Kaduna, although I am from the west. I spent 35 years in that state before I left Nigeria. So, I am fully aware of the marginalisation.
You see, the Kaduna state did not mainly belong to these Hausa people, it belonged to the Gwari people and those from the south. But Hausa people came as visitors and began to dominate and conquer most of their regions. All those places dominated by the Hausas today were dominated by the indigenous people who are Christians. This is why Hausas and Fulani must not be allowed in the west or east or south, otherwise, in no time they will spread their tentacles and fight for dominance. Places like Rigasa, Angwar Rimi, Angwar Muazu, Tudun Wada, Birni Gwari, Zaria to mention but a few were populated by the Christians before but the visitors they allowed among them have driven them out and took their lands.

Regarding the Kaduna state politics, most of the learned Christians in that state are not the indigenes, they came from other states to do business and they settle there. While the real indigenous people who are supposed to team up and fight for their political rights are struggling with the spirit of Judas Iscariot who betrayed Jesus with a kiss. The only time you will see them together as one is during a crisis. Their young men, old ones, women and children will join hand together and fight their enemies. I wish they could practise this fellowship in politics but it is difficult. Their leaders have sold and are still selling them. And this is what El Rufai and the likes are taking advantage of.

The Christian bodies in Kaduna state and some of their sensible leaders have tried to speak about the marginalisation of the Christians but no one cares to listen because it was a long term fulfilled agenda and their principal force is the one "ruling" the country.
Late Governor Patrick Ibrahim Yakowa who would have been a major voice was logically killed. Another man was Isaiah Ballat, I can't remember his full name again.
Bala Bantex, the former deputy governor had issues with the governor about his system of governance in the state and it led to physical combat between them. He slapped him and he returned it back. This was the major reason he was ousted. Elrufai did not want anyone to oppose him and that is why he chose a Muslim woman to deputise him.
Imagine, churches are paying electricity and water bills in Kaduna state but mosques are using these freely. I have a lot to tell about Kaduna but I will stop here.
Please, publish your article on a better forum where you can see like-minded people.

TonyeBarcanista:
THE BRAZEN ACT OF MARGINALISATION OF CHRISTIANS IN KADUNA STATE BY GOVERNOR ELRUFAI

By Tamunotonye Inioribo @TonyeBarcanista

Kaduna state, a beautiful state located in the heart of the northwest, is popularly referred to as a miniature Nigeria. This is because the state has a sharp religious demographical spread of Islam and Christianity adherents between the northern and southern zones of the respectively similar to what is obtained in Nigeria.

Muslim-Christian Demography
Kaduna has 23 local government areas spread across the northern senatorial zone, central senatorial zone and southern senatorial zone. Twelve of these 23 local government areas are predominantly Muslims while eleven are predominantly Christians. The state is also constitutionally divided into three senatorial zones, namely; northern, central and southern zones.

The northern senatorial zone, also called zone 1, consists of eight local government areas namely; Ikara, Kudan, Kubau, Lere, Makarfi , Sabon-Gari, Soba and Zaria local government areas. Of the eight local government areas in this zone, only Lere local government area is predominantly Christian, while the other seven are predominantly Muslims.

The central senatorial district, also called zone 2, is made up of seven local government areas namely; Birnin-Gwari, Chikun, Giwa, Igabi, Kaduna north, Kaduna south and Kajuru local government areas. All of these seven local government areas are predominantly Muslims except Chikun and Kajuru local government areas that are predominantly Christians.

The southern senatorial zone, also called zone 3, is made up of eight local government areas. They are; Jaba, Jama'a, Kachia, Kagarko, Kaura, Kauru, Sanga and Zango-Kataf local government areas. All these eight local government areas in this zone are predominantly Christian.

The official population of Kaduna state was put at 6,113,503 with spread as follows;
Northern Zone (Zone 1)
Ikara LGA -194,723
Kubau LGA - 280,704
Kudan LGA - 138,956
Lere LGA - 339,740
Makarfi LGA - 146,574
Sabon-Gari LGA - 291,358
Soba LGA - 291,173
Zaria LGA - 406,990
Total: 2,090,218
Central Zone (Zone two)
Birnin-Gwari LGA 258,581
Chikun LGA - 372,272
Giwa LGA - 292,384
Igabi LGA - 430,753
Kaduna North LGA - 364,575
Kaduna South LGA - 402,731)
Kajuru LGA - 109,810
Total: 2,231,106
Southern Zone (Zone three)
Jaba LGA - 155,973
Jama’a LGA - 278,202
Kachia LGA - 252,568
Kagarko LGA - 239,058
Kaura LGA - 174,626
Kauru LGA - 221,276
Sanga LGA - 151,485
Zangon-Kataf LGA - 318,991
Total: 1,792,179

From official population as seen above, the Muslim predominant north has 2,090,218, the central zone has 2,231,106 population and the Christian predominant south zone has 1,792,179 population, but there is no official fact to ascertain the true population of Christians and Muslims in the state. Nonetheless, the state governor, mallam Nasir Elrufai, a Muslim from the northern senatorial district, argued that the religious demography in the state is 70-30 in favor of the Muslims. The Southern Kaduna Peoples Union (SOKAPU), the umbrella body of the predominately Christian southern Kaduna people, put the religious demography at 50-50. While neutral observers posited that the religious demography in Kaduna state should be between an evenly 50-50 spread, or a 55-45 spread favor of the Muslims.

Political Marginalization Under Governor Nasir Elrufai
Despite the predominance of the Christian population in eleven out of the twenty three local government areas, the Kaduna state government under Governor Nasir Elrufai, a Muslim, chose to perpetuate a brazen act of marginalisation by excluding the state's Christian population from participating in the affairs of the government since the commencement of his second term. For the first time in the history of Kaduna state, no Christian is found in any of the principal positions across the three arms of government and the civil service.

Governor Nasir Elrufai started the marginalisation in 2018 when he broke the traditional Muslim-Christian ticket or Christian-Muslim ticket in any gubernatorial contests to nominate Hajiyya Hadiza Sabuwa Balarabe, a fellow Muslim as his running mate for the 2019 gubernatorial election after his former deputy, Arc Bala Bantex, a Christian, opted to run for the Senate to represent the people of Kaduna south senatorial district under the platform of All Progressive Congress.

After his victory at the hotly contested Kaduna state 2019 gubernatorial election against Honourable Ashiru Kudan of Peoples Democratic Party, Governor Elrufai shut out Christians in the state from the running of government. This he did by ensuring that only Muslims are appointed as senior principal officers in the government. This is aside the fact that himself and the deputy governor are Muslims.

The principal government officers are;
Secretary to the State Government - Mallam Balarabe Abbas Lawal
Chief of Staff to the Governor - Muhammad Sani Abdullah
Kaduna state Head of Service - Hajiyya Bariatu Yusuf Mohammed
Principal Private Secretary - Dr. Salisu Suleiman.

No Christian Among The Entire Presiding And Principal Officers In Kaduna House of Assembly
The marginalisation continues in the legislative arm of government with no single Christian as a member of any of the presiding and principal offices . The Speaker of the House, Honourable Yusuf Tanimu Zailani, the Deputy Speaker Honourable Muktar Isa Hazo, the Majority Leader Alhaji Haruna M A Inuwa, the Chief Whip, Alhaji Idris Abdullahi, the Deputy Majority Leader Alhaji Shehu Yunusa and Deputy Chief Whip Alhaji Salisu Isah, are all Muslims. Meanwhile, the clerk of the Kaduna state House of Assembly, Bello Zubairu is also a Muslim.
Also The Judiciary...
The head of Kaduna state judicial arm of government and Chief Judge of the state, Justice Muhammad Lawal Bello, is also a Muslim.
As if that is not enough, the only two ministers from Kaduna state in the cabinet of President Muhammadu Buhari, Zainab Ahmed, the minister of finance, and Muhammad Mahmoud, the minister of environment were chosen from the Muslim population.

The development in Kaduna state is indeed a bad omen. It is bad that a state with significant Christian population that are predominant in eleven out of the state's twenty three local government areas, has no senior principal government official across all the three arms of government of the state. What is more disturbing is that Governor Nasir Elrufai, the perpetrator of this brazen act of religious marginalization in Kaduna state, is aspiring to run as presidential candidate at the Nigeria's Presidential election at the termination of his second term in 2023.

Written by Tamunotonye Inioribo|| I can be reached at tonyebarcanista@gmail.com