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Bring me some ijebu garri and well roasted groundnut. .yum mmy

bellong: ^^^ Marriage is only a gamble for those who do not understand its purpose. If things are done the right way, the right results will be achieved.

Marriage is full of uncertainties-that is the gamble.If it weren't, why would you need to work at it?You don't know what the end result would be but you work hard at moulding it into your spec trusting it would turn out just right.

You've still not highlighted what the problem is..
Did you turn out bad? Do you miss your mum? Are you scared of committing to a relationship?
What exactly is the problem?

Marriage is a gamble. One can only hope and believe he's the one.With prayers and supplication and a whole lot of hard work thrust in ensuring it works out.
Love is no longer the only yardstick, aimoye love.

*The moment I set eyes on him/her, I knew he/she is the one*

No be for this era..

Hmmm..awkward truth!

No! My husband must have his own identity, a good one albeit . He should be unique, in a good way ofcourse.
A man like my father? mba!!!

dmcdad: ^^^^ I know this is depressing and all but C'mon, how long will you continue like this? I have tokd you to take the bull by the forelock.

No go kill yourself because of this matter . Handle this as a man and stop this [b]play acting [/b]abeg. You are adding insult to injury

I bet you're not married or you've never been betrayed.
I can imagine how hurt the op is . It's so sad.
I'm so sad for you op.

Op is a learner

Wow, her kids have grown. Lovely picture.

okpara ugo: First of all, good technology...

What technology? This is a mere modification..one I'm kind of iffy about if you ask me.

One verdict
"Cursed from beyond"

Did she actually back the hair?
Trouble sleep, iyanga go wake am..how someone would deliberately burden herself is what I don't understand. .

Oh, guinness world record!! explains it.

All these talk, what has it yielded?
Na today? ? promises upon promises..whom do these politicians think they are decieving?
They should tell us something new..talk is cheap!
Oh! 2015 is around the corner.
* sings 2face's 'it be like say'*

What do girls see in this guy? ? Really? Looking at his pic now, I want to puke

So all the girls that crushed or are crushing. .hope lost! Not that there was hope for you lot before anyway

bukatyne: I would suggest a woman goes for surgery after marriage so that she can no longer be recognized by those who knew her before. She would be able to live a new life after marriage.

Behold... old things have passed away, all things have become new

I wonder o.

Lool..See Advert o
Advert without payment let Seun cash (catch) you.
Btw Op , can the I better pass my neighbour gen run a refrigerator?

My country's state is a sorry case..
Our hope for the future is dwindling. How long are we going to hope for? since my childhood, they've been saying Nigeria would get better, no! We are regressing!
Education that's meant to be our ray of hope is now a joke..
ASUU , FG pathetic !!!

Na wa o..after 16 years! !
But wait, could it be that the girl feels her father has suffered enough and wants him released. .hence lied about lying..
People and their complicated lives!

Cut the op some slack jare. .how many people here can tell what friend? ? She's as anonymous as the op.so stop all these friend, fiend , foe talk
I bet the op brought the issue here to get people's thought on it..she(op) might have felt weird about it and wants to hear people's opinion.

kama1210: just thank your God you are not married to such men. Such practice is prevalent even before now. Many men however does that to cut off communication with any ex.

Is the wife some ten years old girl?what do these men see their wife as exactly? A slave, a child or a possession. .because I just can't wrap my head round it.

And talking about keeping an ex away..so a changed no is an automatic "ward off sign" for an ex.
How insecure are some men really

Lol..Na wa for the men some women marry or is it the other way round.
The op even said "must"..hehehe.
Maybe those that married underage children..
in fact, nothing said..

Omg!! Why are some families just wicked? ! ! poverty, greed and plain wickedness has eroded the human(e) in some human beings.
Poverty stricken family! Smh.

I believe the wife should be able to follow the case up legally..what does the law say to cases like this, where the man has no will( sorry entitlement)..if she's a legal wife I believe she's entitled to his properties . .We don't leave in a lawless country. .Justice must act here.

Rubbish family! !!In the face of the law their tune changes.

Hmmm..op, you seem very smart.I like your approach to your property acquisition and wealth creation.

Though, I wouldn't advise that you use your building as a collateral to get a loan from the bank..what if something goes wrong? I have witnessed enough cases of people in wealth going back to penury(a lil exaggeration tho ) and I think it's what's fueling my skepticism.

Anyway, if you've got more than one property, I mean enough to make the loss of one not a huge or fatal blow ,then you can by all means take out a loan and use that as a collateral. Otherwise, I'll stick to my initial advice of you saving up.
I know everything has got its own risk(s) but it's also advisable to weigh the risks before venturing.

I hope your decision works out for you.All the best.

honey86: All na wash. I'm sure if the subject of your their lust is HIV positive, matter how attractive, they would sure be able to hold body.

Hahaha. .true!

This is good . When I first saw the headline I thought it was somewhere abroad. Glad he got a fair judgement and I hope it serves as a deterrent to other petty thieves.

She's got beautiful eyes..
Nice pictures.

Ujujoan: I'm more concerned about how you made that much money from nothing

Hope it's not yahoo yahoo thingz oh . . . or worse kidnapping!

Hahaha. .I thought so too. .but decided to give him a benefit of doubt and assume it's an inheritance .

timothy001: ,800k for something worth 20m is really nothing.Except if your family r stayin dere.

I'm wondering too

I think the op touched on two important aspects
~Living for one's kids
~And living one's kids life
I believe as parents you're obligated to be responsible for your child(ren)'s welfare but there's a point where one begins to overdo it and start encroaching on their individuality, independence and privacy..it's at this point parents start living their kids' life .Which is wrong!!!

In short, respond to their financial needs and other aspects they need or require your guidance for. .As they begin to mature,start retreating and recognising their adulthood whilst giving subtle guidance and counsel on life challenges.

So why did you post your picture?
Law I believe concerns itself with the judiciary system of a nation..anything relating to legality.
Political science on the other hand is all about the politics of the country, governance and leadership..

Opinion of someone who studied neither.

I think this post is better of in the business section. .you'll get more professional advice..
My opinion, just as baby has said, it's better you save up..you've got a steady source of income so saving shouldn't be a problem.
How much money you have right now and how early you want to venture into the business are things you should consider too.

Nashville: Can Nairalanders just stop saying Cheaters please. This should be added to the rules Ms. Moderator. It's bad English. Please no more cheaters!

Apparently it's American English . I hate the sound of it too but it isn't wrong.

@topic,If men can't forgive infidelity , women shouldn't either . what's good for the goose should equally be good for the gander.

whiteroses: not far at all tho about half an hour walk in fact 15 minutes if you know short cut
Them corner corner babes that must enter madison lounge by force na so them they do am

Really? Me no know. .lol..was thinking of rochdale road route.
I can count the no of times I've been to Blackley so not really conversant with the routes.