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RomanceRe: Top 10 Public Alpha Figures In Nigeria, The Red Pill by tobechi74:
Mystiquefia:
Following the trend on nairaland where redpill critics often refer to TRP adherents as broke, some denying the actual existence of Alphas offline the OP has decided to compile a list of Top ten established Men of substance whose public utterances has at some point exposed to them to be redpilled.
It is important to note that not too long ago (1900s) TRP was common sense amongst men in Africa which is apparent with the stories and traditions passed to us by our forefathers, the movies, music and literature available to people as far back as the 1900s. So basically, TRP was general knowledge amongst men
since before we even had our languages until the main mainstream media became awash with purple and blue pilled Narratives targeted at whittling down Mens masculinity. It is also important to note that some of the persons on this list may have not come across the term "REDPILL" before, even though they represent all what TRP preaches.

Stay back and enjoy...
Alpha male and redpillers are not entirely the same ,Are they?

An Alpha male may not be knowledgeable of redpill codes since redpill is strictly on relationship with opposite gender.

Men Propose to beta girls and women propose to beta guys.
In the next decades, women would rule the world and Alpha male would fade out.

We can infer that Alpha women date their fellow Alphas but end up settling down with a non-Alpha. Alpha guys propose to beta women. Alpha women propose to beta guys. She has learnt to discard the traditional notion that women marry higher up. Such union is ticking time bomb waiting to explode . The competition for power and dominance is second to none . The world is changing in gender roles and Alpha male are yet to realise that. Men must not be the bread winner. Men must not confront situation outrightly. Certain problems require careful thoughtful dialogue.


https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/
RomanceRe: Top 10 Public Alpha Figures In Nigeria, The Red Pill by tobechi74:
Donald Trump would be one If he were a Nigerian,

Alpha male are also loosing it in other aspect of life. In Soccer, Jose Mourinho, an alpha manager is highly sought by so many clubs. His tenure in each club lasts a maximum of four years. He quarells with his players, fellow coaches, referee, football association, Physiologist, Ball Boy etc. The cost of maintenance is greater than the goal . Arsene wengar, A specialist in failure stayed over ten years in the club. Today, the beta coach works for FIFA. For immediate success, sign an alpha coach. For sustainability and long term project,sign s beta coach. .The highly successful persons are those who have mastered the art of building network. That involves cooperation and ability to compromise - an act beta male are understand quite well. Alpha leaders tend to be autocratic and conservative imposing his will on the majority. Beta politicians drift towards democrats. He is willing to let other person's view override his own . Alpha male may need to be more emotional sensitive. Beta male coul do better to improve their confidence and self confidence. Sleepy Joe defeated Alpha Trump in the last United State election. The top three richest men in the world do not qualities of a tough man. Mark Zuckerberg of Facebook is definitely not a macho Man. Bill gate is an introvert. The society is shifting towards computer and beta guys who enjoy working from home recorded huge profit during the covid 19 lock down.The law of diminishing returns is taking hold of Alpha male.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/13/passion-of-desire/
RomanceRe: The 10 Golden Rules Of Red Pill by tobechi74: 3:47pm On Dec 17, 2020
Making sence.
One who plays by another rules is inauthentic.

This is applicable for relationship you don't intend to take serious or short term relationship
RomanceRe: As A Man If You Reside In Nigeria And You Are Not Street Or Know About Redpill by tobechi74: 3:44pm On Dec 17, 2020
Redpill is overflogged
RomanceRe: New Specie Discovered In Nigeria by tobechi74: 3:42pm On Dec 17, 2020
StacyO:
Assuming you put this energy into writing a book @op,you would be done by now.

Smh


Nice creativity, wrong output.
He is starting from here, he will get there soon. Money is needed to publish a book but not to post here
RomanceRe: New Specie Discovered In Nigeria by tobechi74: 3:41pm On Dec 17, 2020
You made me laugh.
RomanceRe: I Reported To Access Bank I Was Scammed See Their Nonsense Reply PHOTOS by tobechi74: 3:40pm On Dec 17, 2020
They gave you the best reply
RomanceRe: Why Did God Create Ugly People, When He Knows They Can't Attract Opposite Sex by tobechi74: 3:36pm On Dec 17, 2020
Everyone has an assignment.
Some are here to learn relationship lesson. They are fine to attract suitors.

Some ugly girl are intelligent.
No individual is complete
RomanceRe: The High Rate Of Prostitution In Nigeria by tobechi74: 3:34pm On Dec 17, 2020
There is absolutely nothing wrong with prostitution.
Prostitution should be legalized.
The oldest profession
RomanceRe: Before Commitment Real Men Look Into A Woman's Past, Weak Men Ignore by tobechi74: 2:02pm On Dec 17, 2020
I thought the Bible says old things are passed away in new creation.
Can you do this and remain Christian

BTW, if you investigate, your discovery may turn one into a lunatic
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Been Disgraced In Public? Share Your Story! Mine..... by tobechi74: 1:58pm On Dec 17, 2020
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RomanceRe: A COUNTER TO: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School by tobechi74: 1:38pm On Dec 17, 2020
PinkPill:
This is the most illogical and selfish post I have seen and I'll speak from experience.

My fiance is the one sponsoring me in school. I am a final year student.
He pays my tuition, rent and monthly allowance. He is a M.Sc graduate by the way.

Such people are rare. He must love you so much to sacrifice all that.
He's not being selfish. He's securing your future.
He's not securing you for someone else who didn't notice when you were in need.

Only an evil minded person will take advantage of such kind hearted people by deceiving and leading them on just for your own selfish reason.

I think the solution is to make it clear from the start, define the relationship and work towards it.

Please ladies, be wise and hold him tight. Because he only wants the best for you. EDUCATED OR NOT. He loves and cares for you. What else do you desire?

I have said it before;

"I AM NOT A FEMINIST"
I believe in equal rights and respect for everyone.
A man's duty is to LOVE and CARE for his woman.
A woman's duty is to RESPECT and CARE for her man.

Redpillers and MGTOW.. KEEP OFF!!
We know you hate women.
This is a thread for MEN who LOVE WOMEN.

Cc: PinkPill
Cc: Tobechi74
I admire your opinion. Your fiancee is not just a first degree graduate but a master degree graduate so he doesn't not fit into the first thread.

Let us make an assumption.
You finally discover that you both have AS genotype and you are not willing to risk it in marriage and you decide to leave the relationship.

How would he react?

a) let you go graceful as you both seek another partner. You may still maintain contact.

b)Angry at you for choosing to leave him AFTER ALL HE HAS DONE FOR YOU?


If his answer is A, then he truely loves you

If his answer is B, ?..................................??
RomanceRe: Ain't Nothing Like GENDER War, The Real War Is Among FEMALES. by tobechi74: 10:45am On Dec 17, 2020
Sad

Women need men to rule over them

Like sheep with a dead brain

Logic used to strip her off power

In an effort to maintain male dominance

Public participation an embargo

Officiating in religion a sin against God

Tertiary education a financial waste

Rearing of children,her reason for been made

Trading her own punny is not right

Whereas men exchange money for physical might

Men make the rules .Men have the final say 

Abide by the unfair system, follow the way

Gets raped amidst struggle and cries

Her virginity taken ,her dignity her pride

Difficult to proof,justice to be denied

Threatened into silence she hides the crime

Atrocity committed by her dad she Trust most

Without pills, without raincoat

Seed begins to germinate. Stomach potrudes

She wants it terminated.but that is a taboo

Shamed for considering abortion

Men only concern is more population

Her body is a decision to be made by society

Her freewill taken,yet another cruelty

Forced to become a single mother

With all its shame and stigma

Social distanced like one with covid nineteen

“Do not be like her” mothers warn their kids

The men do not desire second hand property

She bears it all alone amidst poverty

Develops a passionate hatred for male

Seeks listening ear to tell her tale

Find solace among fellow victim

Under an umbrella of bitter feminist

Relieved to discover she is not lonely

Now she got a chance to tell the world her story

Whom do we blame

Male or female

Power abused yields anarchy

Power used in fairness improves loyalty

The hunted hunts the hunter

Grudge not! Enjoy the karma
RomanceRe: Tattoo Can Hinder Your Getting Married by tobechi74: 10:35am On Dec 17, 2020
fati2001:
ONLY IN BLACK RACE TATTOO IS A TABOO (ESPECIALLY NIGERIA).


l would not only date but marry one, some tattoos have personal deep meaning.. ..


tattoo is art and also expression.

but all I know is that stereotypes still flourish in some people's minds
Exactly, when you see one with a tatoo, ask the reason behind it. You will be intrigued by their story. It is a good conversation starter.

I'm nigeria, it is a sign that the person is a cultist and wayworld.

A change of environment will cure many of our stereotype
RomanceRe: Men We Can Do Better by tobechi74: 10:31am On Dec 17, 2020
You made sence
RomanceRe: Men Are On The Loosing End In Relationships by tobechi74: 10:29am On Dec 17, 2020
Partially true
RomanceRe: Top 5 Bluepill Nigerian Musicians AKA Simps by tobechi74: 10:27am On Dec 17, 2020
I love your ability to investigate lyrics of songsvto fish out simp


Some lyrics are written to potray love. The men do not always mean it though. It could be for the rhymes
RomanceRe: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by tobechi74: 10:24am On Dec 17, 2020
Stand in love

Do not fall in love
RomanceRe: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Prostitute - Twitter Lady by tobechi74: 10:18am On Dec 17, 2020
This has been my stand


The society is to quick to condemn the later while praising the former. Both group do not like their job. An American based research revealed that about 85 percent of prostitute would leave their job if they were in a better financial situation. The statistics would rise in third world countries. Environment that breed hardship also breed sex workers.

No parent who have children he cannot train would fold his arm and watch the child die of hunger.He would send him out to hawk for himself. Of course that is child labor and the parent ought to be punnished. The child is the victim here. To protect the child from harm, parent provide a framework- a shop close to the house – where the child can assist behind the scene.


Similarly, financially motivated prostitute are victims of the society and do not deserve to be punnished. Imagine standing semi- naked in the middle of the night exposing ones body to cold not go mention the various incident of non- payment and rape. The job is illegal so they cannot report to anyone. When they do, society turn a deaf ear.


Criminalising prostitution does not help the victim. A law should protect the victim from harm. The prostitute are not harming anyone.

Holland ,one of the few countries go legalize prostitution reports a thirty percent reduction in rape- reported cases. Would plying the route provide a glimpse of hope for the oldest profession in the world?

https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/27/divorce-marketer/
FamilyRe: Best Gifts For Dad by tobechi74: 11:46pm On Dec 16, 2020
Condom maximum protection
RomanceRe: My Neighbor Is Chasing My Wife Behind My Back by tobechi74: 11:23pm On Dec 16, 2020
Badadvisor:
Wisdom no no kee you my brother i dey owe you 50k automatically because of this comment
I need am to get more wisdom, make. I send Acc Number?? �
RomanceRe: This Married Man Friend Does This To Me by tobechi74: 11:21pm On Dec 16, 2020
Nicenancy:
This married man friend calls me on the phone every Valentine's day

Every single Valentine's day
Is it normal for a friend?
Or he has ulterior motive?
A friend of mine calls every female contact on his phone every Valentine day including his sister, mother. He must have ulterior motive
Nairaland GeneralRe: Is Buying A Car An Achievement? by tobechi74: 11:17pm On Dec 16, 2020
Buying any item costing over one million naira causes me my peace of mind. I cannot sleep thinking it is stolen
Graphics/Video MarketRe: Am I The Only One Disgusted With This Thing Davido Did(pics). by tobechi74: 11:15pm On Dec 16, 2020
Leave wetin dey write for motor,enter inside the motor.
Jokes EtcRe: Try Not to laugh by tobechi74: 11:14pm On Dec 16, 2020
Try not to cry
What an ignorant virgin passed through


She did not dare to dance

Or jump the gutter

She did not jump the fence

She would not stand in front of a man

Nor widen her legs

She slowly passed out urine

For fear of tearing her hymen


Sexual miseducation
She swear it was not her fault

Her hands shakes vigorously

Mumbling words beneath my understanding

She felt the bite of a mosquito

In between her pure legs

She has been disvirgined

She fears getting pregnant

https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/13/passion-of-desire/
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: How Do I Join A Good Social Club by tobechi74: 11:08pm On Dec 16, 2020
Good.
The only social club most people join is their religion
CrimeRe: Police Investigate Five Secondary School Girls Who Raped Biology Teacher To Coma by tobechi74: 11:05pm On Dec 16, 2020
luminouz:
Wrong again!!!


These chicks will wake the peninsula up. I heard a story where the girls used champagne/chelsea dey gin to suck the flaccid dick when the guy was too tired to fuq. The diickk stood up and they ended up raping him to death. That's a healthy guy o...not to talk of a sick one.
You are too knowledgeable in sexuality affairs. I suspect yo. Na you teach Dem���
CelebritiesRe: E-Money Reacts As Prophet Odumeje Speaks Of His Numerous Spiritual Powers by tobechi74: 9:07pm On Dec 16, 2020
And he apologized to s native doctor with fewer power�️
FamilyRe: Italian Man Walks The Equivalent Of Abuja To Kano Distance To Get Away From Wife by tobechi74: 9:05pm On Dec 16, 2020
Sad
RomanceRe: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by tobechi74(op): 6:41pm On Dec 16, 2020
Pierocash:
in other words ,what you mean is that she can be married as illiterate, and keep her like that is the best right?

But loving her,and support her to fulfill her dream with the intention of settling down with her is a business transaction abi? So marriage is business if it involves supporting her dreams right? But marriage isn't a business if you can marry her as an illiterate and keep her like that is the real thing.

We need to check your brain.

Even God doesn't bless people he knows won't be useful to His kingdom.
Help anyone achieve her dream . But she does not owe you anything in return. I have heard cases of men insisting their wife paid them half of her salary because she sponsored her education. That mindset should be abolished. She does not owe a guy marriage because he sponsored her education.
If she no longer finds him suitable for marital commitment, she can bail out at any time. She must not marry you the guy as payment for debt owed.

If you want to invest in her, draft a contract first and state the terms and conditions. Then enforce them in a law court. Then, this is a contract and not done out of love.
RomanceRe: When Is The Right Time To Meet Her Parents? by tobechi74: 3:09pm On Dec 16, 2020
Whenever she mistakily get pregnant

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