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mariahAngel:
Would you still stay with an unfaithful woman?

If my wife commits adultery and she is repentant AND I LOVE HER WHY NOT?

And I remember telling you this lady that you must never ever compare a man and woman when it comes to matters such as this.

A man can marry as many wives as he likes, there Is no sin in it so if a man can marry as many as he wants then tell me if it is not madness that a lady will now leave her husband cos he wants to be with another lady?

Please I beg you, stop asking this shallow question again

Bunmhi:
Well said, that was my advice to my friend also, I was even begging her to consider her children buh she wouldn't listen, she told she's the only one that know what she's facing

The illogical reason many ladies give when they leave their marriage over infidelity is that the man will give them STDs and this always crack me up.

I simply ask them...

Will they ever in their life sleep with another man again without protection?

If YES then what is the guaranty that what you are running from won't meet you in front?

And if they say they will never have unprotected sex then I tell them why not just stay in your marriage and use protection for your hubby?

I tell ladies, if your hubby starts sleeping around, switch him from a hubby to a intimacy gadget and your booty call and focus on your life and that of your kids... Are there no better things to achieve in life than bothering your head over what a man does with his pnis...?
I honestly believe that the reason many ladies run out of their marriage is more because of the thrills of meeting someone new, of experiencing another dck without the guilt of adultery...

But when they realize that there are randy men out there willing to use them as intimacy gadget and perhaps after being passed from one man to another, they will realize that there is nothing out there except vampires in the name of crazy men looking for vulnerable ladies.

I repeat, ladies please and please once you are married just stay put... It is better to be single as in never married than to be a divorcee, the stigma will never go away, your marital seal can never be replaced..

Let me drop mic biko.

I enjoyed my dad's meal more.

He was an excellent cook.

Bunmhi:
Ọmọ the thing dey frightening me oo. Coz most of my married friends are complaining, one was even telling me she's going for a divorce after 2 kids like what the Bleep?

If only they know there is nothing out there..

The only reason any lady should divorce her husband is when there is a real threat to her life.

Infidelity is the most foolish reason.

Irreconcilable differences is another lame excuse cos you must always have some irreconcilable traits in everyone.

Marriage is about tolerance and forgiveness.

djon78:
Na those ones that act like Angels are the worst
They act like saints but bite like snakes

The ones that show you there flaws right from the start are the ones You will build a long-term fulfing relationship
Very reliable

I believe you 100%

mainman7:
Jude Okoye!!! I know you are suprised that we know that's you hiding under that Monika! I was not too suprised last year when I discovered that many Celebs and even Politicians are right here on Nairaland.

Jude, all I can tell you now is that hot and ferocious Judgement of the CREATOR of Humanity is about to locate you for being so satanically Tribalistic and for all the emotional excruciating Trauma that you put an innocent kind Soul like Lola through for years! Especially for the fact that you were so demonically inconsiderate of the fact that she pulled your whole family and generation out of chronic Poverty years ago when Peter newly brought her, without her knowing that your evil wish was for Peter to use her and dump her like a bad habit. Now that Satanic wish is backfiring on you tribalic Satanic Igbos Sad Souls!

It was years ago I later discovered that past Generation of Igbo bad-mouth Yorubas and try so had to make other tribes to hate Yorubas because every Glory and Greatness they have ever wished for, Yorubas have achieved effortlessly! Years ago, many Igbo guys created Online forums in competition with Nairaland, today all of their forums are dead with Yoruba's OluwaSeun Osewa's Forum being the Greatest African Online Forums for years now. Yet senseless Igbos still come on it to try to spread hate against Great Yoruba Tribe. Igbos created online Let all Igbos accept that stack naked Truth that Yorubas are eternally mentally, academically and Spiritually Superior to them, then Southern Nigeria shall Unite and become Great. Next time you see any Yoruba, duff your hat, kowtow and Bow!

Chai! This is serious

[quote author=Skmoda post=105004930][/quote]Lol! Thanks.. It was actually Chivalry I meant to write...

Grammar nah bastard.

Faiththatworks:
Hmmm,I'm an identical twin and fortunately I'm a mixed Nigerian,with my parents from 2 out of the 3 domineering ethnic tribe in Nigeria,I think I can give a little unbiased opinion about the psquare twins.
As a twin,one character is more dependent on the other,also there's always a leader and a follower among twins.
I say it unabashedly that Paul is definitely the weaker character,and unfortunately for him,he has separated from his twin that's supposed to give him strength in times like this.
Jude okoye is an interloper,a leech, parasite and financial tick on Paul,but Paul being the eternal weakling is still sucking up to him,Lola okoye was never the problem in the psquare relationship,it was the loud mouthed, parasitic and arrogant Jude okoye.
Unless Paul finds the strength to quickly reconcile with his twin,I can categorically say he might be in the beginning of a very terrible episode in his life.
God reconcile the psquare twins.

Your opinion which may not be the reality.

MartinsD12:
Now we know who the bad egg is here, Paul is not a committed family man, Paul is kinda selfish which might be the reason for the psquare break up and people who were seeing Lola as the bad person, you see what has happened

See conclusion..

SMH!

chatinent:
Reason with am na.


By the way, Nigerian ladies na minus for me.

I remember when these ladies came na when we begin dey hear frictions for the twins.

After the whole years of marriage...no report of adultery or anything, she'll still leave you when Wizkid shows interest.


Great respect to the better girls out there!


A Nigerian lady will love you and still marry who is ready.


A Nigerian lady will love you and go meet sb who impresses her.

A Nigerian lady will love you and cheat on you and still play the victim card: “you see what you made me do.”


Drops pen.

You too get sense.

I'm a red pillar with some level of Chivalry

I pity guys who allow these ladies dictate their life for them...

A lady will dump her faithful husband to be the tenth wife of a billionaire and she will not even think twice and will even defend her action....

I respect women and care for them so much but at the same time I no dey look uche face....i do what I want to do and I need no permission from any lady.

Kriss216:
Love and Money can't keep an average Nigerian girl.

It takes mostly, the Grace of God to find a faithful woman in Nigeria who will stay with you regardless.


No sensible man should go to an extreme to entice or impress a Nigerian girl, be her your girlfriend or wife.

Impress only your mother!



These daughters of Eve are out to add more burden to your life.

There are some ladies that will stress you like hell but they no go gree leave you and some will act like an angel and you will be so sure of her and boom from no where, she waka.

Ladies can never be understood.

This is why I am so so in support of polygamy cos in most cases, ladies are always at their best when they know they have a rival but the moment you make them feel they are your numero uno they will start acting like ogbanje.

EBMedia:
Paul Okoye's Wife, Anita Okoye Files For Divorce After 7 Years Of Marriage (Photo)



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I honestly don't understand the reason for this o.

Relationships like this is always difficult to dissolve... Dated for 10years and then married for another 7years

Anita I know you are reading this.. Biko try to work things out o... Nothing dey out there... You guys are more than couples but best friends...

azizsystem:
bro this your write up is just explaining the kind of confusion I'm in right now. In fact, reading this, I don't know weather I would be able to sleep again this night as it has further increased my anxiety and confusion. I seriously need your advice and need you to hear the full story as it has to bldo with a lady at my place of work. I just feel this thread is Godsent and made for me . pls how do I contact you...

Olakoredey@gmail.com

No comment.

AmazonTopaz:
It isn't the same thing.A 37 year old cannot be compared to an 18 year that is just starting life.

Age may be just a number but an 18 year old cannot be compared to a 37 year old it just doesn't make any sense.I personally am not comfortable with dating someone who is a decade or more older in any age it just doesn't sit right with me

Well everyone to their own. That it does not sit well with you does not make it bad. Nah your choice.

lalasticlala:
What do you think about a 30-year-old man dating an 18-year-old girl?

Very ok


Just make sure you point her in the right direction.

Just 12years gap.

The funny twist is that an 18 year old lady who sees a 30 year old guy as too old will see a 55year old man as very OK if she is still single at 37...

What could be responsible for the change in mindset?.... MATURITY

Age is nothing but a mere number.

BTW, are you still a Moderator on Nairaland?

Safiaa:
Im 22, but toks is making me feel pressured . Why are you doing this now lol?

And now?

Ishilove:
Who is liking this after four years?

My threads are words on marble so expect to see likes after 20years if Jesus tarries and nairaland still dey lol.

What you wrote actually make a lot of sense.

Sonnobax15:

I think this thread is cool...like so damn cool..

Personally I've once made friends and as well lost many of them...Many wanted to stay but I personally decided to cut them off...Tbh,I'm an introvert,of which many people who have once had contact or been in friendship with me thinks I'm one kind of a funny dude whom they don't wanna let go...But I just keep letting them go....

For so long I've been thinking that involving myself in friendship may tamper my peace of mind,but I've been so damn wrong all these while...

I don use my own hands take pursue many of my real niggas

See in most cases, those annoying friends are the real deal.

Lalasticlala long time...

I think this thread make small sense.

spencekat:
But big ass is seductive naaa?

All man to his own o.

Me nah beautiful full and firm natural boobs.

Infact my wife can never have a fallen boobs cos I will use money to augment them when the time comes.

See those beautiful moderate curvy onion booties are far more attractive than the big ass babes dey flaunt upandan.

Why do most ladies think it is everyman that gets carried away by big ass?

Fahdiga:
No one knows when and how he/she will die including Buhari

Nobody o.

Nah to secure your life in christ sure pass so that when death comes, it will only usher you into a more glorious afterlife with christ in Paradise.

This present world is not our home.

Adaanna:
Chai!! God bless you abundantly Amen.

The way some people are treating their maids it's so bad. If you can't treat them like your own why bring them to suffer/punish them?

I always tell people around me to treat people well because you don't know the head that will wear the crown tomorrow.

It's not even about not knowing the head that will..

We ought to treat people with love, respect and dignity regardless of who they are.

It is how we treat people who we can't gain anything from that suggests who we really are...

And what is the big deal if a sick person uses stick?

Misplaced priorities

Incompetent people arresting yahoo boys upandan whilst overlooking the major yahoo men ruining our country.

Agbero pickin.. Well done.

Innocent hardworking lagiosians dey sweat dey pay your papa money wey dem curse before giving it out to his touts.

Rather than hide in shame that your Agbero father is subjecting people to hardship you are showcasing yourself to the world.

And have you not been advised never ti flaunt a boyfriend?.. Only flaunt your husband if you must.

Otunbaigwe:
Sometimes I imagine myself to be a footballer with this lifestyle. Honestly, there's money in football.

But it is as difficult as hell.

Sometimes all those collision we see casually on TV is like when two high speed okada collide.

Little wonder why some die on the field... No be easy thing o.

Calitoscassius:
Me wey dem born me for London 32 years ago wetin i go come talk now?

I wonder o... UK citizenship sef better pass America own..

Better health care,

Better quality of life

Better welfare

Better security

And lots more.

AprokoGirl:
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Why do people shamelessly go online to celebrate this citizenship thing?

The only time I will celebrate being a citizen of any place is when Jesus welcomes me as citizen of heavenly paradise.

Goldiness:
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I wonder to my brother, see a lot of young people don't know that polygamy is a terrible marriage, they think it's like before, polygamy is a terrible type of marriage in all forms; And for this generation to venture into it, makes it more dangerous. Instead of a young man to work and build an Empire with one woman in marriage, and build godly seeds for the next generation, he prefers to swim inside 2 vagina for only God knows why. May God deliver him speedily.

Guy or babe leave hypocrisy.

Most guys are freaking polygamous just that only decent few choose to marry more rather than the hypocritical one wife several side chics.

Leave story biko, polygamy is not for everybody.

Many ladies are even polyandrous cos they sleep with more than one man regularly.

makavelli80:
Better than side chicks

Gbam!

I hate that side chic thing with a Passion.

If you want more women, just marry them cos I don't know why a man will be indulging in adultery when he can simply have as many wives as he desires... It just doesn't make sense.

If you can't afford a second wife then remain faithful to your first wife rather then waste money servicing a side chic... It is a total waste of resources.