₦airaland Forum

obembet:
Guys which of this lady you can consider as your life partner:

A girl would stood by you when you have nothing
or
A girl who help you to become somebody today?

Kindly Choose one and give us reasons.

adorablefwb:
If I wasn't up to standard, I wouldn't put this CONFIDENTLY. Thank you!

adorablefwb:
I am a tall, light skinned physically appealing lady looking for a male friends with benefits. I have a good sense of humor, outgoing, very lovable and intellectually sound.

I do not need financial benefits as I am fully employed and take care of my bills. I need a friend and companion with whom to enjoy good conversations with, go out together and get to be cool without strings attached - whenever we are both free.

He MUST be at least 6ft tall, have a good sense of humour, must be very good at conversations and highly intelligent (this is very important to me). He MUST be employed with a good and decent job, must be chivalrous and have charisma. He MUST be sexually attractive and very active. Physically presentable (very important) and knows the importance of always smelling and looking nice. I am in my mid 20s and expect someone mature and sensible.

Must live on the Island or on the Mainland.

Please those in Ojo down to Badagry or Festac and anything from Ipaja and it's environs should not bother claiming Mainland. Kindly do not send me a mail.

If you're interested, kindly send a mail to "fwblagos@gmail.com"

You should please attach a photo as well because I do not have the time to waste in talking or engaging you in discussions when I do not find you appealing as everyone I believe has a taste. Don't attach a fake photo, we will have video calls and I will definitely turn you down if it seems so. I assure you that your mails, messages and anything that comes out of this will be highly confidential.

I will definitely meet with you after I'm okay or find you interesting.

Please holier than Jesus, do nor judge me or act like a Saint. Do not preach for me as well lol. I know this is nairaland and there are people with all the characteristics listed above.

Thank you in anticipation.

Ishilove:
Which is why when ladies are praying for spirit filled partners, they should be specific on what kinds of spirit. Demons are spirits too

jikaseo:
I'll not continue this argument with you, I hope experience teaches you better. It's so easy to sit at the comfort of your phone and imagine these things, wait for reality.

jikaseo:
But it is okay for a woman to slap a man, right? See you speaking from both sides of your mouth. Domestic violence is bad regardless of the gender giving it.

pocohantas:
This is the only truthful thing you have posted on Nairaland.

RIP to him.

Eval123:
Please I need advice.

I am a young guy age 28 currently in my final year hoping to graduate this year by God's grace. Am in a relationship in with a gal I love so much and the love keeps growing day by the day.

She is 30 years old and just graduated this year but she is talking of waiting for me so we can serve together. The thing now is that I wish to get married to her but am not ready now. But she says she can wait for me if only I won't disappoint her.

Now am confused, if she waits for me for 5 years she would be 35 by then and am not sure if it's right getting married to someone 2 years older than me and someone at the age of 35 or above.. to add to it, she doesn't look her age, even if someone sees us, they won't believe she is my senior..

Pls am really confused, have never dated someone who understands me like she do.. Note: she never knew my age, she thought we were age mate cause of my voters card she saw which doesn't carry my real age.

adadike:
Rest in peace sir . Na wah o, This world is really not our home

Karlovych:
Another emotional ramblings, feel free to go and tell her to divorce her husband

tellwisdom:
Can you just shuttup?? Stop using foreign standard on us. She’s old enough??

Can your 18years old sister feed and take care of herself without the help of her parents? What Life experience does she have?

Old enough! Old enough! She’s still living with her parents! Old enough but Still feeding under her mom!

Una go just open mouth de yansh talk

Henrydonland:
I don't think you picked the call. I just tried to help your situation but it looks like sense is far away from you.

Henrydonland:
Please read your first paragraph 10 times.

Oya pick the call!!!!

LilMissRobbie:
So it's not abominable for a man to marry his grand daughter? Do you even know what you're saying?

LilMissRobbie:
I've never seen or heard anything about this guy in the news before except this sacrilegious act. A whole minister of agriculture, what has he done since he was appointed? NOTHING! Na to chook small pikin him know. God will punish Buhari!

Henrydonland:
Getting married to a girl who is old enough to be your daughter.


I also blame the girl, all these small girls like Regina too like money or what else would cause this type of madness.

demmymoney:
Nooo

The man is the absolute head and she must submit to his frame to enjoy her marriage and ensure its a long-lasting marriage

NiceMen:
Anything or any girl that will give me headaches will not be accepted into my space. I am very gentle person and my mind is my most power asset. So stressing my mind unnecessarily is a no no and I also know my worth is hard to come by based on what I bring to the table...

I can't settle for less any more

NiceMen:
okay. I understand but I wasn't insinuating that ALL of them are like that.

It just never worked for me cos I actually want effort from the other person, which hardly ever happened.

NiceMen:
You should remove have pics please. And the pic is of someone in her early twenties....

chatinent:
While courting, you were better halves. What happens after marriage?


What happens after a week living together? and months, years? What happens to forever?


Does the love remain the same? Does it fade by itself? Are both parties always striving to resurrect it?


Of course, I understand it is not advisable to plunge into marriage!

What is life like in marriage?

What happens during a quarrel?

Does a partner always prove they are right?

Are there complaints? Complaints like one person washing the plates, and the other making it more tedious? Are there arguments about how the WC is to be used?


How and when are responsibilities shared?



What about insecurity?
Does it come on its own? Are there hidden thoughts one's partner may be cheating always?


What are the main responsibilities to keep a woman/man forever young in their hearts? What are the major needs?

What can make a woman still look very good even after childbirth?

Should the husband also do minor chores?

What happens when she becomes pregnant?

What is the major emotional need?

How is trust built?

To wives and husbands, what do you call satisfaction in a husband/wife? What needs does he/she fulfills make you feel satisfied?

What would you ever wish for?

Does the care and love remain the same?



I need experienced persons (married couples probably) to clarify me.


I've been thinking about these questions of late.

NiceMen:
Hello,

I will like guys to share their experience dating Nigerian broke girls from poor homes.

I personally have had an awful experience with them and from observations, most have identical patterns in handling relationships, which is why I vowed after the last one never to go near anyone again. Yup...I told the last girl to her face that I do not want to go near any girl from her kind of background till I die.

Things I noticed about them are that they are often greedy, selfish, self-centered, unaffectionate, exploitative, and money-focused. Most do not even call.

Are my observations correct?

However, I do not want to conclude but will like to hear from others in order to be certain that I am not stereotyping or generalizing.

What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes?