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Agbegbaorogboye:
Mr. The video is on Twitter. There's nothing to show the guy was doing anything of such. The so-called DSVRT is just following the mob. Take a while and watch the video too. As a matter of fact, the guy got angry when the lady suggested he was masturbating

As far as i am concerned, that lady is a clout chaser and when im not rooting for the guy in anyway, i think the lady ought to have ignored rather than making a lame video that proved nothing. The people placing bounty on him are as clueless as the lady that recorded him and the people asking for his arrest.

No matter how many times people have seen him act that way, my point still remains that he can't be charged for anything not because he was not doing what they claim he did but there is no concrete evidence to nail him. This is my point.

Nigerians just love to focus their energy on inconsequential matters.

Affamefuna:
I love ur sense of maturity, ur type are very rare here. Welldone

Thanks boss. Ironically some people think otherwise but that is the beauty of life.

Cheers.

DrFunmisticGlow:
of course it won't be enough.

Either he gets more of give his children away for adoption before they die of poverty in his house.

Adoption ke! iyen ma le o.

Prospertochu:
I had money for one child and I was not expecting them to be triplets. My worst nightmare

Guy go get a loan if you must. Get a small shop for her and let her start food stuff buisness like retailing rice,beans and selling other food items and you can also add other stuffs.

There will be enough space for her in the shop with the triplets and she can always attend to customers whilst she attends to the kids at the same time.

Please dont kill yourself with thinking ..Pray hard and work hard and i belive that the same GOD who gave you the babies will favour you. Please dont regret marrying her, cherish her and the gifts she has given you.

I wish you the best.

DrFunmisticGlow:
that's 1983, not 2021.

Be pragmatic man!!

Funmi i expect you to understand my pragmatism in this situation.

I ask again..giving this unfortunate circumstance, will you rather prefer the guy do crime to savage the situation? or dies of high BP? even if he gives the entire salary to the lady it will never be enough. So you all castigating me for opining that he sets up at least a food stuff business for her should contact the guy and help him with funds to take care of his family.

I rest my case.

Weathered:
the man will go in for disorderly conduct any time any day! Na public sexual act be that. Stop hanging on the line of indecent exposure. There was one .

Try disorderly conduct or sexual act in public, Mr I-Too-Know Toks.

Disorderly conduct for putting his hands in his trousers to do whatever he likes with his genitals when he could as well be scratching or easing a painful phallus.

You see when you use the word ''i too know'' for another person making an opinion, it is a terrible sign of low self esteem. Make your point and stick with it. Don't label anyone for holding on to his or her stance. It is a terrible sign of low IQ.

Carry the guy to court and see how the case will be thrown out.

Weathered:
So public masturbation isn't a crime? Lolz;

You no dey ever get sense.

you guys will mention someone, make lame comments and then get insolent on top of it all.

I repeat...Does the video prove that the guy was actually masturbating? and if in any case he was, how did he contravene when there was no exposure of genitals.

sometimes i think it is best to ignore some comments and conserve my energy.

DrFunmisticGlow:
To triplets?

Oga Toks, be realistic.

As if im writing out of the blues.

My mum had twins in 1983 and she was still nursing a child barely 2years with another barely 4years making 4 troublesome babies yet she was still running her hairdressing business on a solo without any apprentice at that time.

I think i may have to stop responding to mentions on this matter again. As they say, desperate times call for desperate measures. Nobody prays for such a situation where a nursing mum of one will be expected to do any business simultaneously but as i wrote, maybe if that guy slums and dies of BP she will be forced to start something .

I rest my case.

Weathered:
how is a lady exposing her breasts equal to a man performing solo sexual act in public ?

The worse thing about you is that you genuinely believe you're intelligent when you're just a poor excuse for a sexist.

You had better not have anything to do with law else you will be a sorry case.

Can the lady prove that he was masturbating? did you watch the video at all? Even if he was masturbating how does that contravene when there was no exposure of genitals?

I wont respond to any illogical mentions henceforth.

Tetehjewels:
Na akamu mixed with grass dey your head too. Read reports from other persons as well and then tell me what I said does not relate. Or have you forgotten there have been others who also went through same experience with this man who shared their own stories and based on this the authorities have been able to establish his regular route?

Calm down bro, i no dey fight you. YES i read the other stories too but they all pointed to the same direction.

A guy walks into your room and you call him a thief and he said NO, he is only their for something else...except you actually caught him stealing how do you prove to the world that he came to steal from you? you could charge him for unlawful entry.

This guy was always seen doing something with his hands inside his trousers and using a file to conceal. He could be doing a whole lot of things and even if he was masturbating, that does not contravene any unlawful act cos the pnis was not exposed.

You should not only read but learn to interpret.

All the best,.

post=99924205:
Check the below from Poco, she just buttressed both of our points

Hmmm! Impressive.

You sure have a penchant for saving some thought provoking posts.

descarado:
Hey guy, I have never qouted you since I joined this forum but I just did. Why, cos most times like this you want to appear logical and smart when you make no sense.
Give birth to triplets as your first, then come and let's discuss.
Withdraw and let people talk sense into that guy before he ruins himself and his family and live in regret for the rest of his life cos I tell you he will regret any action he takes against his wife in the future unless those triplets are all dead.

If you can't see sense in my post. Then believe whatever you want if that will make you feel cool. If you tell me a simple food stuff business in a small shop is not good enough for a mother of triplets then i can only wonder which planet you are from.

I grew up in a very difficult situation and i have seen ladies real time give birth in the morning and went back to business in the evening. I am not here to argue with anyone.

Cheers and have a great day.

post=99924092:
@the bolded.
That is Nairaland for you.
And we believe you know your onions having been on this forum for 13 long years now.
You surely know what you are talking about.
You see them line up and start typing the same thing after seeing the first 2 posts on a thread.
They cannot make their own post without following the crowd or waiting for some people to comment before knowing what to type!
They can never go against the tide.
Welcome to social media.

BTW, we no be bro o.
We are simply WE.

Lol ok. Good morning We. Cheers.

post=99923930:
Okay, that means you never saw our comment.
Which is exactly the same line with yours.
Sorry to quote you.
(We don't sound well to some people here also, but we will always say the truth)
Anyways,
Good morning and have a nice day.

*Initial quote removed*

Good morning bro.

Unfortunately people have the crowd mentality. They lack the cognitive ability to reason outside the box and some follow the crowd cos of fear of contradiction.

Its a good thing we all have the right of expression of opinion. Cheers.

Tetehjewels:
In Nigeria, it is an offence for a person to expose his or her genital organs or a substantial part of it, with the intention to cause distress to another person or that persons seeing it may be tempted to commit an offence. See Section 26 of the Violence Against Persons (Prohibition) Act 2015.

The Act states that: Aperson who intentionally exposes his or her genital organs, or a substantial part thereof with the intention of causing distress to the other party, or that
another party seeing it may be tempted or induced to commit an offence under
this Act, commits an offence termed ‘indecent exposure’.

Violence Against Persons Act will be liable upon conviction by a court to a term of imprisonment not less than 1 year or to a fine not exceeding N500,000 or both.



Like Someone already said, na akamu dey your head.

You see how you accuse someone of having akamu in their head but permit me to jokingly tell you that you have yours full of cement.

Please read that Act again and relate it to the video shared online and tell me if that guy is culpable.

post=99922734:
Toks,
Do you see our comments before you post yours?

I just woke up, saw the thread and saw some funny comments on the first page before posting this.

I may not sound well to you or many but this is my take.

descarado:
Stop please. Stop.
Have triplets first, then you can join the line.

what is the difference between a triplet and a twin with two extra toddlers making 4?

Dont get me wrong, im not saying it is not tasking infact giving a case where the guy can fend for her and the kids i wont advise that she lifts a finger to do any other thing but as the case is, she just has to else the die will just die of High BP then she will understand that she is on her own.

landforeast:
Wow which means by the quote all the women who expose their breast to the public are......
I have learnt a new thing this morning

Meanwhile self control and discipline could have helped this man avoid such national embarrassment although we need to hear his own side of the story and not judge from one angle.

@The embolden YES ladies who expose their breasts and appear semi nude are even more culpable than this guy who concealed whatever he was doing. That is my point and that is why i see the Lagos state government as dumb for placing this nonsense bounty.

It was the lady that actually committed an offence here by infringing on the guy's right of expression and recording him without his consent. She is a clout chaser...the guy ought to be ignored until he actually crossed the line by actually exposing his dick or touching the lady inappropriately.

I see lame comments on this thread regarding this and i wonder how some people reason. What if the guy claims he was only scratching his penis as a result of an infection?

reuben81:
leave the idiot

You are the one that should calm your head and reason logically rather than getting overly sentimental. Sentimental people are rarely smart. Stop following the crowd, think logically.

Utter nonsense and misplaced priority placing a bounty on a guy that committed no offence.

Indecent exposure is a legal expression that describes the deliberate public exposure by a person of a portion of their body in a manner contrary to local standards of appropriate behavior. Laws and social attitudes regarding indecent exposure vary significantly in different countries. It ranges from outright prohibition to prohibition of exposure of certain body parts, such as the genital area, buttocks or breasts.

The guy in this case did not expose anything at least from what i watched in the video hence he can not be charged. It was the too know of the lady that we should worry about. She would have ignored him until he actually touches her.

I think the state government should also place a bounty on ladies who go out dressed semi-nude and in some cases practically naked.

Let anybody quote me out of context and such will recieve an E-slap.

Let people be.

Mindlog:
Am glad you mentioned older siblings which was a plus because they served as minders even if they were minors themselves so your mum could focus somewhere else and was running her hair dressing business before the twins but a first time mother with triplets which no extra hand (at least the OP didn't mention they have). I am imagining a woman breastfeeding triplets, cleaning them up regularly, cooing them individually to sleep will effectively run a business.

Im sure you read where i wrote older siblings that were also children. What is older in a 4 and 2 year olds combined with twins. Are we not talking about 4kids here?

Sometimes Some women just want to hang on to that as an excuse. There is a type of business for every situation so lets be reasonable here. Even if the guy makes 200k a month, it will still be a struggle to raise triplets with such a salary howbeit 55k.

The guy should think outside the box and see how he can establish the woman to make side money on her own.

Mindlog:
Suggest what she can do with 3 babies that needs round the clock attention.

My mum was nursing twins with older siblings that were still young and she was still doing her hairdressing business.

What sort of question are you asking? There are lots of business she can do. She can open a small business like small shop to sell provisions or food stuffs as well as other types of businesses even if she is still breastfeeding the children...

The guy is trying abeg.

descarado:
I tell you.
Triplets, even for a rich man is quite handful.

25k for a woman with triplets, then his mum 10k.
Ogaa o.
People are already asking what is she doing.
What will a woman with triplets do bikonu?

The only money you need out of your salary is tfare. The rest should go to that lady. For now, she need all the help she can get.
Why are you giving your mum 10k when you all live together? Is she not making her own money? She is rent free.
You should be cooking and eating together.
Wifey will manage the food industry, if mum is idle, she should help take care of the kids and wifey should look for ways to argument. I hope as you are giving your mum, you remembered she too have a mum.

When u start doing the right thing, even with all the stress of taking care of triplets , you will enjoy that lady to the fullest.

What do you mean by what will a lady with triplets do?

There are several businesses she can do.

Prospertochu:
I got my girlfriend then now wife pregnant, I wasn't ready for marriage. My plan was to take care of her and my baby while she stays in her father's house, her mother was fine with it as long as I take care of my responsibilities, but everything changed when the scan confirmed that she was carrying triples, her mother said I must marry her because there's no way her daughter will still under her roofs with 3 children.

I pleaded with her to give me sometimes to find my own accommodations because I was living in my father's family house after his demise I stay with his siblings while my mum left with my younger sister.

My mother in law refused saying I must do something fast because she doesn't want people to mocked her that her daughter has gotten pregnant out of wedlock not just with one baby but 3 so I managed to save enough money to get a place for our own but her mother refused saying I must pay her bride price first, I didn't have any more money so i have borrowed from friends and added to the money I had to pay for her bride price. It wasn't a big party just something small, I took my wife to my father family house where we are living now with our triplets but things hasn't been easy for me, taking care of 3 children it's not easy, I am grateful that I am rent free but household bills are killing me.

My wife and I are always arguing because she keeps asking for more money my salary is 55k I use to give her 20k monthly, 10 monthly to my mother and I use 20 and save 5k she said the money wasn't enough that I am stingy, I now started giving her 25k she is still complaining about the money not being enough. I refused giving her more she started staving me of sex and foods. My family are tired of separating us fighting almost every day, my uncle has asked us to leave the compound because we are disturbing there peace and I had to beg him to forgive us that ur shouldn't be happening again and I cautioned my wife but she is threatening to abandon me with the kids. I have told her to do her worse because I am tired of her madness. I wish I never married her in the first, all I could've do is to take care of my kids and let her be I know it's too late now to change the past but what should I do?

Why can't she find something to do at least to assist the family?

I don't understand.

I love beautiful boobs but it has to be beautiful not necessarily big.

But it must be concealed under the cloth... Overexposure is a turn off.

MetroBaba1:
How them take arrive at 70million years?

Very simple and I will explain the mystery of creation to you at least to the best of my knowledge.

The Bible says a day in heaven is like a thousand years on earth.

Now when GOD was creating the earth, it was not stated specifically if he did all one day after the other but we were told that he did the creation in 6days meaning he just might create the beast and let them be for years(By heaven calculation) which may translate to millions of years on earth.

So each day of creation may have several heavenly days in between.

Intact using simple human logic, I believe there was no need for GOD to rush the creations cos there will definitely be need for him to see how each creation thrives on earth before adding another one.

I may be wrong o cos I'm not GOD but just judging by the scriptural reference of 1000years on earth is like a day in heaven.

I hope this makes a little sense.

With the way the country is right now I wonder if laying down one's life for Nigeria is reasonable.

As long as it is on social media, it is Audio money.

These people should learn how to keep their lives private. No one is interested in their clout chasing. Let them continue to advertise themselves for kidnappers...their headache.

Abigirlsuen:
Make we for hear word from davido fans

I still prefer David's songs anyday anytime.

Grammy is overrated. Cangrats to them all the same.

JESU CRISTI!

On top wettin?

DoubleMind:
You are a foolish gay man. Why should you ask this question

Are are you normal?

How does your comment correlate?

Nicenancy:
Why do some men find other people's wives attractive?

Doesn't the Knowledge that another man (her husband) screws her alone disgust such unscrupulous men

When there are innumerable single women pretty out there?

I never knew how disciplined I am until I practically looked away from few married ladies I have come across and I'm talking about ladies who are willing to play ball.

I believe any man who knowingly sleeps with a married woman is on the verge of total destruction.

Adultery is a grave sin and GOD so hates it so much that he wrote against it with his own hands.

Another crazy twist is when a woman leaves her husband and starts claiming that she is separated without going through divorce and then starts sleeping with another man... These set of ladies scare me cos in my opinion, they are only looking for ways to screw other men whilst still holding on to their marriage.

In all these I blame the ladies cos if they are disciplined enough to respect their marriages, the randy men will not have access to them.