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MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE #1
thinking that, as soon as a man dates a woman, he now should take care of her needs, because he has money, is not only narrow minded/foolish but it is also very dangerous.
are you really telling men that if they have money saved for a new car/house/business/better life or whatever, and they start dating some woman, they should forget about their own life plan and suddenly put that woman as the priority in their lives and spend their life savings on some deluded woman (who learned from men like you that begging is now a profession)?!?!?!? really?!



ARRANT NONSENSE #2
a man not spending foolishly on some deluded woman's BS has nothing to do with WHO HE IS AS A MAN. see how you foolishly value his all life on the sole ability to give money to some deluded woman, because they are dating. haba!
how did this woman take care of herself before meeting him?
how did this woman take care of her needs before meeting him
why should a man be generous to a woman, if he doesnt believe she deserves it?

no wonder so many woman view dating as a poverty alleviation tool, when we have men boys like you.



ARRANT NONSENSE #3
- LOVE has nothing to do with being generous
- a poor man can love and give absolutely nothing
- a bastard good for nothing cheating man can be generous
- doesnt this woman have a job...what about HER being generous to her man. is that against your "boys" rules?! or is it just a man thing to be generous while woman's job is to open their legs, cook and clean?



ARRANT NONSENSE #4
no man should be generous, just because thats what a woman desires. let this man decide WHEN he believes this woman deserves a gift. boys like you who use their money to attain the affection of women are seriously lacking. you are not dating, you are BUYING women with money/gifts.
the minute you make women believe that a man should be generous to them (regardless of who she is, what she does, how she is with her man), is the minute you have lost the plot of life.

as for you saying that a man should give 10% of his income to a woman.... ***spit on floor***

MJBOLT:

brothers do not listen to any rubbish this op is saying,it is better if a girl calls you a STINGY man than MAGA/MUGU

MrBrownJay1:
sadly, i blame MEN more than i blame women... because we all know that there will always be greedy/deluded people out there, but any smart man knows that with money, then YOU make the rules with these narrow minded goldiggers. thus a lady can have all the entitlement mentality she desires, so long as men DONT PAY, these women have absolutely NO POWER over us. there is power in the coochie, yes, but MONEY has much more power than coochie (when facing a money hungry goldigger).

sadly, too many men have misplaced egos (blinding them from common sense), and these men will do ANYTHING to not be called stingy.... and some would even become criminals or do "crazy" things in order to please these goldigging narrow minded women.

Karlifate:
When a man is prudent, they call him stingy just to collect his money & mock him later.
"What have you done, that no one has done before?!"
Some men will be familiar with this question.

GeniusHawlah:
Hello good morning. I need a professional advice on health issues. An Anonymous is currently at the hospital due to ovarian cyst complications. She experiences periodical stomach ache so she went for a test and it was discovered that her left ovary has cyst in it. Now they are saying she has to go through surgery which is scary. I need a professional advice on what other things she can do. Thanks.

Here is the medical test result that has the terms:

PELVIC USS
- The uterus is non-gravid, with uniform myometrial echo-texture. It measures about 40mm in its AP diameter.
- The endometrial plate is intact and normal.
- However, a sonolucent cyst mass with internal echoes is seen within the right adnexium measuring about 60mm × 52mm in size.
- Left adnexium and Pouch of Douglas appear normal.
- No Fibroid is seen.

CONCLUSION
I) Acyesis
II) Right Haemorrhagic Cyst

You may help me send this to frontpage, thanks.

fairfora:
Pregnancy is a thing of virtue. Women nowadays overdo things by showing this to the entire world. I have not heard where the women of old in the bible and quran exposed their baby bumps to the world. They pampered and kept them till delivery. To those claiming this is a modern day thing, continue.

To every lady who sees those rules surrounding pregnancy as myths, continue too. Not every body could be so lucky and giving birth to the baby after showcasing the pregnancy to every tom, dick and harry does not mean there would be no spiritual implications later in life....those who are spiritually inclined would know better. May she find solace at the bosom of the Almighty.

Kingpele:
RIP,, something's are best kept from public views,.. Pregnancy is one of them... RIP sweet boy.. U don't dance hard like that, in that stage of pregnancy, without attracting village people...

Kennedyiheme:
How can a prince leave his castle and his duty for a divorced woman who didnt even take his name?.. how can he disrespect the British sacred throne like this... sadly if there are lots of emasculated men like this, these desperate women will ruin this world.... so again we should discuss about a solution to eradicate this bacteria

Telegram234:
It will clear 4 aunty regina eyes dat this man will go and marry anoda wife.

Ejenavi18:
But Toks2008 you nor dey tire for ladies matter?
Everyday, ladies this and ladies that..

Anyways, you made sense with your write up. I agree with you 100%

ashewoboy:
awon feminist will not like this.


awon alpha males will like this.

rockstarB:
I think it has become more of a cultural thing than the real entitlement itself. Upbringing, society and culture adds to this as well.

NockMedia:
Well written. I can't fault ladies for preferring to settle down with a wealthy man or a man with the potential to be successful in life.

Now, ladies are innately wired to seek out mates with the ability to provide for 'her' and 'her' future offsprings. It is a natural phenomenon and every lady is guilty of this. No matter how hard some ladies try to deny this fact or sugar coat it.

The fact still remains this - Women want to be taken care of financially, materially e.t.c.

As a young man, it would be quite smart on your part to choose the best lady out of the lot when you decide to settle down without lowering your standards. Go for the best. Never settle for less. Humans are innately self-centered, regardless of the sex. Every Human.

Kobojunkie:
Yes you can and it is not by your power but the Spirit of God living inside of you that you can achieve it.

Do you not trust the word of your own God that He will do it through His own Spirit who lives inside of you?
Grace means nothing as far as Sin is concerned. If you understood exactly what Grace means, you would know that it cannot help anyone who is not born again quit sinning.
Grace was not designed to prevent or help our sins-it was not designed for that purpose. It does not help make sin a thing of the past in the life of a born again either; the Spirit of God is the one who does that. That is what Jesus Christ Himself said. God stated this in the Old Testament, several times too.
Those who believe in the power of the Spirit of God are not in hell but the ones who are living in the Kingdom of God. For the Spirit of God is God Himself, the very seal of the new Covenant that is Jesus Christ Himself.
It is a sin to adopt the doctrines and traditions of men over the word of God Himself. It is a sin and nullifies the very power of God in the lives of those who do this. Jesus Christ said this very thing... warned against it but because so many who claim to love Him and belong to Him have turned their very hearts away from His truth, they live in ignorance of what He said and commanded.

Those who are born again submit their lives to the lead of the Spirit of God Himself. No longer are they at the wheel of their own lives and as a result, the Spirit of God, the Spirit of Truth Himself directs, teaches, helps, comforts, and counsels them in all things. By this God's word is made true in their lives... They live above the law of sin and death but are submitted to the Law of the New Covenant that is Jesus Christ. Read John 14-16 to learn more.

I am afraid you are wrong there. You forget that every letter Paul wrote was written to those who were already born again, and none to those who were still sinners. Salvation is a process and not an easy process.

There are costs involved and those who do not understand find it hard to make the necessary leaps. It is impossible to do it without doing exactly what Jesus Christ has stipulated, after all, He is the way, the Truth, and the Life that those who wish to be saved, seek to find!

Kobojunkie:
I read through your post and not even once did I find any mention of Jesus Christ's words indicating how you arrived at your born again status(only those who have the Spirit of God living inside of them are truly able to live without sin).

I remember that while I was an atheist still, I was able to achieve sinlessness through self-control and the lot. Yes, I used to be hypercritical of myself... I still am. But one thing remained, even with all that sinlessness I was able to achieve, I was not God's. And when I did eventually think about searching for God, I found that the only way to Him is to pay the cost of entry that Jesus Christ has stipulated, and that's what I posted above there for those interesting in FInding God for themselves to see that it is not an easy trip to make, and you forfeit yourself in the process.

Kobojunkie:
Please be sure you are really born again. To accept Jesus Christ is to obey the commandments He has stipulated for those who are His. No one can become a follower of Jesus Christ simply by wishing for it. Jesus required that those who choose to follow Him do the work that He commands they first do.

1. Be prepared to abandon parents, brother, sister, children, spouse, in-laws, e.t.c.
2. Abandon all that you know/believe, have, and all that you are
3. Bear your own burden (not someone else's cross- not even your family's or children's)


4. Become a child again in your thinking and your actions

5. Be prepared to lose life(reputation, career, control, property, etc.)


6. Desire above all to find and enter the Kingdom of God and also walk the path of righteousness, with God as your guide every step
7. Let go of all control you have over your life and circumstances, allowing God to take care of your every need

Those who are led by the Spirit of God live above sin because sin no longer rules them. The Spirit of God removes from them what causes them to sin. Their addictions become like nothing to them and their focus is shifted to God and the things of God.

Snowale:
When we talk about polygamy, they say we should shut up, that our culture is rubbish. Now they are busy sleeping with prostitutes, house girls and their children. A white man would say, polygamy is wrong but gay marriage is very right, while 100000+ divorces occurs per month in US, most of which are due to infidelity. 90% of extramarital sex comes from the husband.

A man that isn't satisfied with what he gets from his wife should be allowed to marry another lady. Instead if sleeping around - getting STDs and babymamas.

We shall see which culture is the best.

obowunmi:
Lies. Lies from the pits of hellfire.

My father was a terrorist. My mother was passive in accepting his terrorism. Their marriage was painful and brutal. It was unkind and devilish. Painfully married for 40years.

I can never be with human beings like my parents.

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

omenka:
Dino flaunts it just like Hushbingo- lifestyle exotic cars, exotic caskets, exotic graves, custom made shoes and furniture, name it.

If quacks like a duck, chances are it is one.

Dino, your beans go soon done.

haekymbahd:
I don't think so not when Allah is the true One God then you will have a lot to lose.

Allah SWT said:

إِنَّ الَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا وَالَّذِينَ هَادُوا وَالنَّصٰرٰى وَالصّٰبِئِينَ مَنْ ءَامَنَ بِاللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْأَاخِرِ وَعَمِلَ صٰلِحًا فَلَهُمْ أَجْرُهُمْ عِنْدَ رَبِّهِمْ وَلَا خَوْفٌ عَلَيْهِمْ وَلَا هُمْ يَحْزَنُونَ
"Indeed, those who believed and those who were Jews or Christians or Sabeans [before Prophet Muhammad] - those [among them] who believed in Allah and the Last Day and did righteousness - will have their reward with their Lord, and no fear will there be concerning them, nor will they grieve."
(QS. Al-Baqara 2: Verse 62)

* Via Qur'an English http://quran-en.com

The question you should ask yourself now is am i among?

This shows Muslims also believe in Jesus too what Allah is only telling you Christian don't make the mistake of calling Jesus God or his son.

Allah does not die, sleep, eat, drink, get tempted by Satan, jesus prayed to him, he only accepts or reject and pend prayer request reasons for that Allah knows best and most importantly he is the only one who knows the hour not even Jesus or holyspirit.

A Muslim is someone who submits to the will of God. Even Jesus submitted to his will he said "Father let this cup be over me not by my will but by your will" definitely he was a Muslim.



Matthew 7
21 Not everyone who says to Me, Lord, Lord, will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father Who is in heaven.

22 Many will say to Me on that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name and driven out demons in Your name and done many mighty works in Your name?

23 And then I will say to them openly (publicly), I never knew you; depart from Me, you who act wickedly [disregarding My commands].(C)

24 So everyone who hears these words of Mine and acts upon them [obeying them] will be like a [p]sensible (prudent, practical, wise) man who built his house upon the rock.

Have you submitted to the will of God (Commandment)?
Being a Christian(follower of Christ) doesn't guarantee you heaven unless you are a Muslim(submitting to the will of God)

Numbers 23:19 New International Version (NIV)

19 God is not human, that he should lie, not a human being, that he should change his mind. Does he speak and then not act? Does he promise and not fulfill?


A word is enough for the wise.

ksstroud:
Religion apart.
I'm not a religious man because I don't have any religion.
I believe there's a Supernatural being that is God in the context of One that controls the affairs of the universe.

To your questions, if you believe in God and live rightly and at the other side, there truly exists the heavens and the hell, then you have something to gain as a reward for your belief and righteousness.
If there exists no heaven and no hell, then you have nothing to loose as your belief and righteousness cost you nothing than just having gone as good man in the face of the current people on earth.

Philosophically, I will rather believe in God and live rightly, get there and meet no heaven or hell than not believing and live rightly,then get there and meet heaven and hell.

At last, it's all about CHOICE. Nothing is by force.
But tomorrow will always be the product of the choice we made today.

Selah

Samueltemi337:
When you die you still won't know anything


Your memories would all be gone


And you would start all over again

rapid101:
blessed re d meek for they shall inherit d earth

plz I want to be here wen it has turn to paradise
u can go to ur heaven
bye

monichannel:
I got this topic few days ago, was amazed I saw it here.

God bless you for passing the message God gave to me and you.

Happy Sunday everyone

LordReed:
LoL! What does self acclaimed atheist even mean and how is it relevant to the discussion?

You have no sufficient answer because most likely you never give any deep thought to these things and you also are not exposed to the wider world so you think your experiences are standard.

Ustec:
Those reasons actually proof to you that all Muslims believe in prophet isa(jesus), it is actually one of the pillars of Islam;believe in prophet Mohammed and those that have come before him which the Quran has mentioned.

The story of how Jesus was born and the miracles he performed is in the Quran,Infact there is a whole chapter named after Mary in the Quran.
Don't let those pastors deceive you, the Hebrews has altered so many things in the injil(Bible)

As a Muslim it is believed that your prayers won't be accepted if you dont believe in the holy prophet and those that have come before him (including Jesus)

Search for "gospel in Islam" on Wikipedia

LordReed:
Who told you nonbelievers in your Jesus don't feel sorry for wrongdoings? Who told you they don't try to make amends or mend their ways? How are you different if you still do wrong? You think praying for forgiveness to an invisible man in the sky makes you better than others who don't?

XXLMANDIGO:
I wonder why God Almighty didn't give us a glimpse of what heaven looks like. It's a mystery that has existed since Adam. Also I wonder if reincarnation is real because Pre-European culture of our ancestors strongly uphold reincarnation. Everything changed since the advent of Christianity. What could be missing?/Please enlighten me.

Lifepodcastng:
Well even the Bible talks about reincarnation in Moses and Elijah but how long will that be? This world isn’t build for eternity. Reincarnation itself is according to the will of GOD. We as people in Christ don’t have to deal with that. What we should be more concerned about is Christ and being in his kingdom