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Otunbascotty:
really! And you think it's a one way thing right? I am the greatest beneficiary because I control the relationships ok.

Stop deceiving yourself bro....they control you but makes it look as if you are in control... outside naija ladies read nothing to s*x so in essence you are their booty call and when they are done with you they toss you aside.

Otunbascotty:
Stupid man! You killed yourself not because of buhari but because of a Nigerian sperm bank. Useless man. And I am here cheating with 4 different nationals that's 4 varieties of pussy. Nigerian girls are mostly prostitutes and oloshoism is their calling in this life marry them at your own peril. Travel abroad date a foreigner and see a difference for yourself. Nigerian men are the best anywhere, anytime. Rest in peace tho mad man.

You are not cheating on variety of pusies but rather you are being used by them.

JasonScoolari:
What a moronic fellow giving silly excuse to take his life.....

There's no concrete evidence whatsoever that she's cheating or having an extra marital affairs.

Who knows, maybe the man was jealous of the male customers that patronise her, BUT, that's not suppose to be an excuse to take your life.

Let the host of hell torment your soul for foolishly taking your life.

There are other underlining reasons.

That #13 cracked me up big time

I smell Ban by NBC.

olajizz01:
These lazy fellows will never change, in fact they will intensify their efforts as time goes on,so those aliens living there should not sleep with both eyes closed in the night except only white men,see reasons below

All these quotes with Mugabe pics crack me up cos even the quotes he never made are usually attributed to him..lol!

I love boobs no doubt but not this type.

May GOD NEVER LET ME COME ACROSS HER TYPE.

cornerplus:
Toks2008

True that.

Untainted007:
So do u think sleeping with another ladies proffer Davido's true love to his wife as claimed by him?
Time will tell, but I wish them both the best.

Even marrying another lady won't diminish the love a man has for his wife one bit.

Untainted007:
Is social media going to die? Celebrities live is all in social media.

The worst that can ever happen is Davido sleeping with another lady and asides from the immoral twist, I don't see that affecting his love for Chioma.

Funmmyastic:
And he will still cheat on her.

Come closer let me tell you something...

Untainted007:
Chioma still they shack the guy. When she don born one, na that time we go know if he truly love the babe as claimed by him.

And how will you know?

irunoko:
this one wey go still cheat on her.its as obvious as the day

Baby reasoning.

Taniaa:
"Who could have believed that as at the time when Chioma was in a courtship with Davido that David could be nervy enough to impregnate two different ladies. Regardless of this mishap caused by David, we've never observed on the media where Chioma castigated Davido of his wrongdom. Instead, she endured the most terrible glaring missteps of Davido"

if this is the "secret" to marital longetivity then I'm not interested

You don't have to be interested dearie..different strokes they say.

Laslas nah out of court settlement.

Eyaaah!

Magnoliaa:
Exactly my point. I was only reiterating your opinion, which is that there's a high chance that the next guy out there is already infected, so just stay with your cheating spouse. Somehow, every guy out there is infected. You're just going to end up with an infected guy.

There's zero chance that you'll find a faithful guy, free from STIs, right? Because HIV/AIDS is that common.



Why are you assuming the lady will be leaving her marriage to get into another marriage again? Is that all there is to do? To life? Herself?

A divorcee doesn't necessarily have to re-marry again and if they choose to, or rather if some kind of men (or women) doesn't want them, well . . . good riddance.

So is it worth it leaving your marriage to be celibate forever? Let's be frank dearie.. it's not worth it except you just want to argue for its sake.

DonroxyII:
Your thread is a spot on and very well articulated but some of your arguments actually digressed from the subject matter and your arguments was what derailed the thread from the subject matter.

First and foremost, I use to say that in the olden days when the world has not become one village, there are 201 guys to one lady infact most villages use to book a female child down for the would be husband ..... Some female child are even booked down at birth and if the family accept, betrothal will occur and groom family will start paying bridal gifts till the reach marriage age.


Nowadays, the world is now one village and it is discovered that, there are many females to Male (I don't know the fact) but I believe Capitalism has decapacitated many Males leaving few guys atop of poverty bracket.

These few guys are what most ladies are competing for today .........

Your lesson and my conclusion :

For every one single Prince Charming that has the quality most women of today are craving for, there are 201 ladies who are competing for the total attention of that Nigga ..... He knows it too...

So, if you as a lady find yourself with such a guy, brace up for competition because you ain't the only one that want him, more than 2,000,000 (2m) other ladies also want the same guy. He can become a Casanova if he so desire....

Now, Toks2008 now advised that in order not to subject yourself and entire life to such emotional hardship, consider the hustling guy that is also craving for your attention and build each other up.

Me, I don't support this advise though because we are human and our life is not expected to be perfect neither is our desires.

Nice submittion.

CSTR2:
My own is that even if you want to select a guy, it should be on something he worked for.
Something he merited that gave him an advantage over others like education, character, even wealth.

But something as flimsy as height is just not it.

You will be amazed that some ladies won't date a beardless guy...it is that crazy.

Tina26:
i was referring to those who have good careers and money but can't find a husband because they have certain standards.

Oh yeah they need to lower their standards.

Many ladies don't want a husband but what they want is their mind made husband meaning they already have an unrealistic picture of the type of man they want which is totally different from what a husband is.

Only about 14% of the population of men on earth are 6ft and above and less than 5% of men have big dvck longer than 6inch or wider than 6inch in girth.

They can't marry a divorcee, they can't marry a man with kids, they can't marry a broke guy, they can't marry a short guy and the list goes on...

No rich guy will have your time but they want a rich guy that will also be there for them...so you see that ladies have standardized themselves out of marriage hence the need to be more realistic and same applies to men too.

Tharaja:
And Chuka my Basketballer friend be using his tall height to import different ladies to his apartment.

Lol! Imagine if every lady dey go for tall men who will marry the short ones.

CSTR2:
BTW, one of the foolish things I have seen is choosing a partner based on height.
It is a quality that you did not work for. It is just a function of chance.

Any fool can be tall if he is born to tall parents.

I just weak walahi. That moment when 99% of ladies desire 1% of the men and then cry latter that the 1% men now has eyes for many ladies. I just don't understand.

PrimadonnaO:
I don't need you to help me out. You're the one who in truth needs help... to re-orientate your mind to stop having such thoughts.

Are you trying to say there are some persons who are desirable by just one person on earth? And it is that person to whom they are married?

read my comment above.

Tina26:
sir toks can you write on woman lowering or holding on to their standards for men in today's world

It is not about the lowering of standards but the reality on the ground. Many ladies have been deceived by the so-called relationship experts or writers that encourage them to expect sexual faithfulness from their husbands rather than making them face the reality on ground and this is why many ladies are in the psychiatry today because of shock following acts of infidelity from their husbands.

I have seen many single mothers who are depressedand ridden with one form of mental illness or the other whilst the man they left is busy living his life and i kept asking myself ''For how long will this madness continue''

So this has nothing to do with lowering of standard...THE POINT IS AS LONG AS YOUR HUSBAND HAS QUALITIES OTHER LADIES DESIRE, BE PREPARED TO SHARE HIM WITH OTHER LADIES. And as i wrote, it will be his choice to either remain with you or not..it is not in your power to decide and if you leave your husband because of another lady then be prepared to live a life of loneliness and depression or become intimacy gadget in the hands of crazy randy men.

You may never read this truth from any other place.

ornicus:
ah, i see. the typical double standards you are known and celebrated for. i am sure all those first wives who have been relegate into obscurity are receiving the full respect that comes with their position

so, lets take what you are saying.
i marry my wife when i am ugly and broke.
after 15 years, i make it and am now a multi millionaire.

as a made man, i need some beautiful fresh chick that matches my new status.
i marry this woman [which already negates all the bullshit you posted earlier about women sticking with their struggling guys, as this new wife is there for the money and good times]

i relegate my loyal first wife to the shadows. that is what she gets for keeping with me through the struggling times

that is what you are saying. i feel sorry for the lady who decides to stick with a person like you through thick and thin. since all you can be counted on is to give her the full 'respect that comes with the position as a discarded wife'

I always weep inside when i see people digress from the subject matter to start writing crazy trash. If you had focused o the subject matter i would have given you an objective response but since you have deviated to act fooolish by attacking the writer then i will relegate you to the archives of stupdity. Good day.

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zezebabyxoxo:
From the abundance of the heart the mouth speakest. Based on OP’s post, no wonder he’s still single in his 40s. I’m sure it was this kind of mentality that led to the crash of his marriage. Any right thinking person should put God first in their choice of a partner and ensure that their values align. This formula of calculating their physical appearance vs their wealthy is all fool hardy. A cheat will always be a cheat.

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The most foolish post i have ever read in a long time and this goes to show your level of stupidty and lack of proper IQ. Your parents has wasted money on your education.

Next time please if you cant contribute to the subject matter just view comments.

PrimadonnaO:
I don't even know how to begin registering my shock and disappointment at this kind of mediocre and twisted logic... and the way you go on defending it.
So, a girl should marry a man that's gon be broke for life, yeah?
Poor people cheat with themselves... or you've not heard of face-me-I-slap-you tenants who are sleeping with other people's wives?

And my dear, attraction sure as hell goes beyond physical looks.

Please, stop emphasising reduction in cheating? What does that he even mean? He cheated three times as against 5?

Any lady who still thinks they have issues with their man being with another lady should just remain single for life or be prepared to cry a river.

My writeup will make sense to deep thinkers...it simply means as long as your man has or attains qualities that other ladies desire then be prepared to share him. If he decides ti be with just you then congrats but don't ever expect him to be sexually faithful to you. If you have issues with my stance im so sorry i can't help you out.

ornicus:
Complete Bullshit

Tell that story to Jeff bezos.
The babangidas, Marwas etc, those wives they parade are not their first wives.they married their first wives before they hammered. Those wives are now relegated to obscurity while some fine women are paraded as their wives.

There is zero guarantee that 'sticking by a man when he is struggling' means he will stay with you. That is the same reason why oyinbos have trophy wives while we have polygamy.

Why do you think marital faithfulness is the same as sexual faithfulness? This is where you and many people making comments got it all wrong.

Marital faithfulness in the real sense is when you remain married to your wife and give her all the full respect that comes with that position but that does not mean you can't marry another lady. POLYGAMY IS NOT THE SAME AS MARITAL UNFAITHFULLNESS.

This may be huge for you to decipher but it is what it is.

Hipsofagoddess:
So, what if you build with the broke guy until he becomes rich? Won't he start cheating? This your write up seems like you are expressing your grievances that girls refuse to date you cos you're broke and not so good looking.

Only dumb people jusxtapose a writeup to the life of the writer.

I repeat..marital faithfullness has nothing to do with cheating except you are referring to sexual faithfulness.