Family › Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(op): 8:01am On Apr 10, 2016 |
christinie: Why did 9ice divorce Tony Payne if he later confessed that she wasn't even cheating on him?
Why did Kenny St Brown divorce Eddy Montana?
Why did Charlyboy divorce his 4 wives?
Why did Uti 'divorce' Alex Ekubor (I support this one). God save us. In most cases its just the new feeling of meeting someone new,the thrills and chills that comes with a potential new sexual experience the fuels up divorce... Shortly after you meet a new person and the initiall gragra dies down,you may even come to realize the reality and even start wondering why you left your previous marriage. |
Family › Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(op): 7:55am On Apr 10, 2016 |
anukulapo: Solution rather is for her to make big money and bring it into the marriage. That is how to be a good helper. Case solved. She won't have to worry about lack of money I agree but not every lady can make big money before going into marriage. |
Family › Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(op): 7:53am On Apr 10, 2016 |
ckc: Leave all this talk abeg! it is easier said than done when u r not married. And what if i was? |
Romance › Re: Getting Married Even When You Are Broke by Toks2008(m): 4:20pm On Apr 09, 2016 |
I have written many times on this but our ladies seldom listen...abeg talk another thing...most ladies usually wait till they are overage before they start reasoning logically. |
Romance › Re: Searching For Love. by Toks2008(op): 3:50pm On Apr 09, 2016 |
Strahovski1: Lol dear. Actually I and "the moniker" have resolved our differences. Also, I let the past be the past and just move on with everyone on the forum including "the moniker". Regarding FTC, I'm usually FTC on lots of threads. Perhaps Perhaps a coincidence. And regarding support, also a coincidence that it's a thread I like. why is that word moniker used? Another word for user name i guess. |
Family › Re: 8 avoidable excuses people use as reasons for divorce. by Toks2008(op): 1:08pm On Apr 09, 2016 |
Lalasticlala i believe this is educative. |
Romance › Re: Big Breasted Woman In Lagos Causes Commotion At Computer Village (photos) by Toks2008(m): 11:43am On Apr 09, 2016 |
Law of diminishing return has taken its toll on those melons...Abacha |
Romance › Re: Guys Only: Answer These Questions by Toks2008(m): 10:22pm On Apr 08, 2016 |
Jadekitana: What kinda big english is this one? i'd rather not say the evil thoughts I have in mind here  Continum of bragadocio. Remember you are a scorpio so i know exactly how to put you in perpetual errotic eldorado cos i know all your weak points...Anyways let me keep mum. |
Romance › Re: Guys Only: Answer These Questions by Toks2008(m): 9:36pm On Apr 08, 2016 |
Jadekitana: So that line is sensitive? Now I know what to do to toks2008  Lol...empty bragado. |
Romance › Re: Guys Only: Answer These Questions by Toks2008(m): 9:19pm On Apr 08, 2016 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Suleman's 2015 Prophecy On Buhari Comes To Pass..? by Toks2008(m): 4:22pm On Apr 08, 2016 |
Keneking: No relationship because this so called prophecy can be said by any one. Imagine prophesying that Jonathan is going to be jailed. The probability of such occurrence is 100%. So what? I wonder o. |
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Romance › Re: Distant Relationships Hardly Work!!! by Toks2008(m): 10:43pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
Jadekitana: Hey dear, i'm very tired just got back home! Stopped for a brief hangout, the traffic was much. I just saw what you wrote, very nic one! I'd look into it tomorrow because right now i'm so so so tired Baa wahala...pele lo shower ko su..odaroo |
Romance › Re: Searching For Love. by Toks2008(op): 10:39pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
HateU2: Hehheheheh
Relationship Doctor
Tanks.
I have found him: lalasticlala is d rite man 4 me like seriously? that aboki guy |
Romance › Re: Distant Relationships Hardly Work!!! by Toks2008(m): 10:01pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
Jadekitana: Let's be realistic, you are very much inlove with someone you hardly see in months, it gets frustrating! It works for some but trust me a lot of people fall out of these distant thingy.Here are some reasons:
1) CONSTANT COMMUNICATION: it may be all sweet and cool when the love just started but give it 6months, long talks begin to get boring! These talks revolve around what's happening in your life daily,there's nothing new! Imagine someone who works morning till night exhausted and as usual you bring up those 1hour talks about your boss,exams,buhari,fuel scarcity, beef with one of your best friends....trust me, he/she may just get bored of the regular routine talks
2) DIRTY TALKS: nope!! This can never be compared to physical intimacy! We'v been talking dirty for months without actions, what's the difference between you and a celibate? It's even not advisable! Imagine sending naked pictures to your spouse,making videos and what have you, leaving them extremely h0rny, they become vulnerable. They ain't woods, any approach from someone they like can trigger anything immediately.
CHEATING: It takes a very disciplined person not to cheat and this seldom happens! I have friends whose girlfriends are in school or working in abuja or ph, they cheat a lot. They would tell you "yes I love my babe but body no be firewood" One recently fell for his bff and ended things with his babe after 2years, he just wasn't feeling the whole thing anymore.
MIND NOT AT REST: like it or not your thoughts always sway to his/her direction especially weekends. Questions like where is he? Who is in his house? Hope he's not camping anybody? Who is he hanging out with? You begin to stalk them 247 on social media, you start calling per second,if he/she is clubbing you stay awake keeping tabs on their movement *sighs* unnecessary high bp
LESS SPENDING: I know the guys would love this a lot! Stingy people! Distant relationship involves little or no spending, apart from fattening MTN's pocket due to calls! You don't hangout, you don't shop, you don't go to movies together, you don't go on dates! You just stick to your phone anytime you are free. I remember spending my allowee during Nysc every month flying to see this bobo, though he assisted in some other things, it DIDNT work because the whole process got tiring.
RELOCATING: this isn't always easy at all, especially when your company refuses to transfer you. Aside that it's not easy leaving all your childhood friends and family to be with someone who may just start acting up anytime, you need to think about that decision a lot.
If you have been in a distant rel for 2-3years and it's not heading anywhere, you need to use your brain and start plotting a Plan B before you receive the shock of your life. Like it or not Out of sight if cares not taken can very well lead to outa mind.
Btw Toks2008 how are you?  ok this looks like i wrote it but i would use the title..."Seven reasons why long distanceE relationship hardly work" Then the points will be numbered and i would substitute your points with. 1.Boring constant communication. 2.Dormant fantasy 3.Unfaithfullness 4.ERRATIC THOUGHTS 5.LACK OF SPENDING FUN 6.STRESS OF RELOCATING 7. FALSE HOPE ...where you elucidate on most cases where ladies date married men thinking they are single n hving false hope of marriage but beeing in close proximity with your bae will give you the vantage position to know more about him or her... So do these modifications and quote lalasticlala in a new comment and i bliv it will be beamed on fpage...cos its a good content. |
Romance › Re: Searching For Love. by Toks2008(op): 7:29pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
Lalasticlala have you found your love? |
Romance › Re: Searching For Love. by Toks2008(op): 7:26pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
misspicy2: So you get sense like this   missy how are you? My E-friend. |
Romance › Re: Distant Relationships Hardly Work!!! by Toks2008(m): 7:23pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
Jadekitana: Let's be realistic, you are very much inlove with someone you hardly see in months, it gets frustrating! It works for some but trust me a lot of people fall out of these distant thingy.Here are some reasons:
1) CONSTANT COMMUNICATION: it may be all sweet and cool when the love just started but give it 6months, long talks begin to get boring! These talks revolve around what's happening in your life daily,there's nothing new! Imagine someone who works morning till night exhausted and as usual you bring up those 1hour talks about your boss,exams,buhari,fuel scarcity, beef with one of your best friends....trust me, he/she may just get bored of the regular routine talks
2) DIRTY TALKS: nope!! This can never be compared to physical intimacy! We'v been talking dirty for months without actions, what's the difference between you and a celibate? It's even not advisable! Imagine sending naked pictures to your spouse,making videos and what have you, leaving them extremely h0rny, they become vulnerable. They ain't woods, any approach from someone they like can trigger anything immediately.
CHEATING: It takes a very disciplined person not to cheat and this seldom happens! I have friends whose girlfriends are in school or working in abuja or ph, they cheat a lot. They would tell you "yes I love my babe but body no be firewood" One recently fell for his bff and ended things with his babe after 2years, he just wasn't feeling the whole thing anymore.
MIND NOT AT REST: like it or not your thoughts always sway to his/her direction especially weekends. Questions like where is he? Who is in his house? Hope he's not camping anybody? Who is he hanging out with? You begin to stalk them 247 on social media, you start calling per second,if he/she is clubbing you stay awake keeping tabs on their movement *sighs* unnecessary high bp
LESS SPENDING: I know the guys would love this a lot! Stingy people! Distant relationship involves little or no spending, apart from fattening MTN's pocket due to calls! You don't hangout, you don't shop, you don't go to movies together, you don't go on dates! You just stick to your phone anytime you are free. I remember spending my allowee during Nysc every month flying to see this bobo, though he assisted in some other things, it DIDNT work because the whole process got tiring.
RELOCATING: this isn't always easy at all, especially when your company refuses to transfer you. Aside that it's not easy leaving all your childhood friends and family to be with someone who may just start acting up anytime, you need to think about that decision a lot.
If you have been in a distant rel for 2-3years and it's not heading anywhere, you need to use your brain and start plotting a Plan B before you receive the shock of your life. Like it or not Out of sight if cares not taken can very well lead to outa mind.
Btw Toks2008 how are you?  Now im scared.... You actually lifted this topic and the contents from my brain. |
Romance › Re: Whats With Fat Ladies, Insecurity And Violence In A Relationship!! by Toks2008(m): 7:00pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
Jadekitana: Kikik ok how are you baby? Btw i'm fine, stuck in traffic Sowy.. Take care dearie. |
Romance › Re: Whats With Fat Ladies, Insecurity And Violence In A Relationship!! by Toks2008(m): 6:56pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
Jadekitana: Hey boo how are you?  LOL! I no be boo o!I be bae(Before anyone else) lol! According to wiki,Boo is an onomatopoeic word for a loud, startling sound, as an exclamation intended to scare, or as a call of derision (see booing). Boo or BOO may also refer to: .. A boo is also a dog  So how are you shakara baby? |
Romance › Re: Searching For Love. by Toks2008(op): 5:52pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Whats With Fat Ladies, Insecurity And Violence In A Relationship!! by Toks2008(m): 5:41pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
konkonbilo: Jadekitana,Seun suppose employ you as an MOD because the way ur thread always pull traffic ehn,just Luke people queuing for feul in NNPC.by the way I dey always enjoy ur thread and you will be fun to be with. The babe dey create controversial threads pass me sef and i just love her creativity and doggedness lol!. |
Romance › Re: Whats With Fat Ladies, Insecurity And Violence In A Relationship!! by Toks2008(m): 5:38pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Searching For Love. by Toks2008(op): 9:13am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Maxi112: am sick and tired of all this love and relationship issue..
honesty speaking!! Im sicker but its the opium of life. |
Romance › Searching For Love. by Toks2008(op): 11:21pm On Apr 06, 2016*. Modified: 10:39pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Does real love exist? can we ever meet someone in life who will love us genuinely? Is there anything like mutually balanced love?
Many people have searched for love in many ways and at different locations. Some are so desperate to find it while some are calm about it.
In all my years on earth,I have come to realize that indeed you can meet someone who will love you genuinely if you are vigilant enough to look in the right direction as we tend to make a huge mistake longing after people who don't truly want us.
The honest fact is that those who search for love hardly finds it because they tend to focus in the wrong direction so stop searching,Stop worrying.Just be yourself and be sensitive to know when you meet that person.
Get busy with your life and Love will surely find you when and where you may never expect it. |
Car Talk › . by Toks2008(op): 11:11pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Toks2008(op): 7:46pm On Apr 06, 2016*. Modified: 4:23pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
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Business › Re: Forex Trading - Season 15 by Toks2008(m): 7:41pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
oLuwaDre: can I have your contact Bro? 08023146046
forexrefuge@yahoo.com |
Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Why I Don't Indulge In Indiscriminate Sex. by Toks2008(op): 2:55pm On Apr 06, 2016 |
amokeme: lol, you could be part of the few na  Fine pickin. |
Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Why I Don't Indulge In Indiscriminate Sex. by Toks2008(op): 7:49am On Apr 06, 2016 |
Manofvalor1: @ op. How can you be an MouthAction lover and say that indiscriminate sex is a sin against God.? MouthAction in or outside of marriage is also a sin against God. Both MouthAction and fornication are both sins against God. GODS standard of holiness is total. There's no room for hypocrisy and self-righteousness that can not save. I am sick and tired of people who celebrate their deliverance from the bondage of masturbation only to celebrate their admission into the bondage of fornication. What an irony. Ur post is okay but not good enough, u should have left the religious aspect out of ur points. If you claim you know the spiritual implication of sex between two people then you should also know the implication of MouthAction between two people-whether you believe or not MouthAction is the highest form of blood covenant & eating of blood and goes against Gods laws. loool..mouth action within marital confinement a sin? like seriously? Dont worry,you will know better when i decide to write on that... Infact you are missing out if you dont give your wife good M.A.... |
Family › Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating On Me by Toks2008(m): 1:52am On Apr 06, 2016 |
lebroske: Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new. i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why? Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof. Please no insult. Thank you Its unfortunate that you have a lady who is this secretive and that is a bad sign. However,i will advice you let her be,just ignore and assume she is faithful. That is how you can have peace of mind. |