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Cutehector:
leme ask u, do people make any vows in a court wedding?

Omotayor123:
The reasons are obvious my dear Toks2008.
My parent didn't get married in court ; Does that makes my mum single And to think my dad will wake one day and send her packing is imposibility that can never be possible

Besides, court marriage doesn't stop a crazy/unfaithful man from being crazy/unfaithful. It doesn't even stop them from impregnating another woman. 'At worst you will call for divorce'!

The important thing is marrying a good man your bone and flesh, even without any form of marriage, he will cherish and Love you!

Cutehector:
so dat means d marriage is legal then.. people who just do only court marriage stil divorce so...

kaziblake:
You are very correct,i concur.
1-Introduction ceremony

2-traditional marriage.

3-court marriage

Cutehector:
toks my brother, there is a register dat couples sign in church on their wedding day, I think it's a court register or smth.. wat hav u to say on that?

Fairytales:
Will you still marry him knowing the following;
1. He can marry other wives with ease
2. He can kick you out at any opportunity he gets
3. You have no protection under the law in case he dies.

Pls men, instead of ruling out white wedding, you can do a small one if money is your consideration.

Matured advise.

Cutehector:
Reaaly, I sure will come snatch ur fiancee soon

Omotayor123:
I disagree

goodmorning40:
What about protection of the man right what If it is the woman that wake up one day and say she doesn't like his face any more

icedbeatz:
some girls on nl reading this post have done worst and will do the same thing the girl is doing if only such option is presented to them believe it or not.
Happy Easter to my bosses; butchcassidy ronald4lif fuckshit toks2008 tai2

Youngpo413:
that guy is cute then, cos ladies can do anything for a cute broke guy.

Vikky014:
nice write up. bt being there for a man to me as a lady simply means dt i always give d said man a listening ear whn necessary. bt most ladies thinks it means suffering wt d person or helping the person during his lack. a giver or a helper shld always give or help wtout expecting any favour frm d receiver. according to eccle11:1 it says all genders shld do good whreva we go dt after a while the good u do will cme back to you...it simply means God rewards us anytime we help sme1 through many ways it must nt b frm that person u helped.

refiner:
only DAT point was fair enough?

refiner:
it simply means standing by a guy through thick and thin!.....


*...sharing d little he has.

*....providing some basic things he may not have

*....sharing his sorrows and joy wif him.

*....standing steadfastly by him during his most difficult times.

*.....praying and having faith in God!


hope dis help!

tosyne2much:
Me sef no understand wetin dey happen to Lalasticlala these days wey be say, to make FP wan dey hard pass to make heaven sef

tosyne2much:
In as much as I'm not a relationship expert like oga Toks... Lemme air my own opinion


Nigeria ladies are brought with the mentality that when a lady is dating a guys that's financially crippled whether he's a PhD or Masters holder, they feel they are actually dating him out of pity, hence, they see it as suffering and endurance, and as a result of this, they keep ringing to his ears that they are suffering with him now oooo, and that he would be an ingrate if he marries another lady when God finally answers his prayers.


Some of them will even consult a native doctor or strip unclad raining curses on the guy when he fails to marry them.

Well, when I say my gf was there for me, it simply means she stood by me through thick and thin, she saw the best in me and helped in nursing my future


Lastly, it means she was loyal, committed and had no reason whatsoever to cheat on me


Lalasticlala, abeg help us move this thread to the promise land

magicalBae:


Ladies who usually say that are those set of ladies that never add a drop of water to an ocean.

A supportive woman don't brag over stuffs like dat no matter what but if d opposite buy a recharge card of #200, she'll remind u d date n time she bought it wen u 2 hav lil misunderstanding.


U suffered with him b'cos

*u asked him for 10k n he gave u 4k ?
*u asked him to take u out n he said not dis weekend ?
*u don't get t'fare at times wen u pay him a visit?
* u asked him to buy u iPhone6 n he got u BB10? ..... nonsense!!!!

U're nothing but a liability to him.

healthyarena:
In case

currentprice:
for you mind he be lady abi

jimmyolasun:
No you getting it wrong. The phrase "I was there for him" simply mean that whenever he asks for "it" I give it without hesitating. Even if I'm miles away, I rush down just to satisfy his crazy urge... *guess I nailed it*

Omotayor123:
It means she was there for him in his trying moments.
According to a Yoruba adage :"The presence of people in your life is worth more than any money".

Being lonely kills faster than being poor!

tosyne2much:
Oga Toks don come again

adepeter26:
Oyah, ladies

Baseverb:
It can be both ways

Michellla:
it means she stood by him by actively contributing to his life by bringing him food or food stuffs,by giving him her money or helping him in
one way or the other materially or
monetarily

Cutehector:
U are definitely right toks...




The heart never forgets good deeds!.....

sweetmaris:
Hehehehehe I trust my FTA goons
You can come to this house and sell systems or indi
You would be swallowed up by the sharks

If am lying ask Toks2008

Happy Sunday sorry jare Saturday!

*Runs back to hiding....

Vikky014:
LOL.
Toks2008 is my only EX ..

kramfonos:
For men, this is easy 'cause by "exes" , I suppose you mean "people one was ROMANTICALLY involved with". On that note, friends-with-benefits don't count.

Some men have DATED less than FIVE females all their lives but they've had sex with more than FIFTY.

How about the females? Do the ALHAJIS , LECTURERS and CHIEFS who screwed them in school while they exchanged their bodies for favours count as "exes"? They didn't date these men, did they?


They more appropriate question would be, "WOULD YOU BE CONFORTABLE INVITING ALL THE PERSONS YOU'VE HAD SEX WITH TO A GATHERING?"