RIDOO: I had to face that reality when l was about to choose a life partner. I prayed and l watched.I have some that l like but they don't like me on the same percentage but the one that love me and l know deeply...l don't really like him .. But deep down l know it's the one that loved me more than l love him that will give me the package l want in a marriage. So,l settled down for the one who loved me more than l love him.... that decision worked for me cos with time l started loving him back and l so much thank God for the decision.
I was pursuing this girl who is forming not yet ready for relationship while their is another giving me all the green light, green light was so bright that we had sex before I even officially toast her
I realized I deserve to be love and simply go for who love me, it make my life very easy as I've never ever regret it
Let me paraphrase this so that it can make more sense. Would you rather be with someone who wishes to be with another person? Because this is the case if you find yourself married to the one you love who does not love you and YES people marry without really wanting to be with the person they are married to.
This may sound so twisted but it is not at all. It is the dream of many people to be with someone they love who also loves them in return but we all know that this is seldom the case as we usually have the feelings tilted in one direction and as they say, the person who loves less in a relationship holds the power over the other.
I have met ladies who i love and i have met those who love me and i can tell you for a fact that these two categories are not in anyway alike.
When you love someone and they don't feel same way, you usually see yourself having to do more of the work to make it work and in most cases, you are taken for granted because the other person cares less if you stay or leave..
But when you are with someone you don't really desire but the person desires you, you will feel very uncomfortable at the beginning but there will be this serenity in your life with so much inner assurance that you are truly cherished and you will feel so alive and loved so much that you will inevitably start developing strong affection for the other person. (The beauty and the Beast is not just a fiction very realistic)
As a man, if you marry a lady who truly loves you, she will submit to you, cherish you, treat you like a king and will never see any reason to be with another man. And in like manner, if a woman marries a man who truly desires her,. he will treat her like a queen and cherish her all the days of his life.
YES i understand how twisted this sounds cos whether you choose the one you love that does not love you or you choose the one who loves you but you do not feel same way, the bottom line is that there is still an imbalance in the affection.
But be it as it may, you can never know how special you are until you meet someone who genuinely desires you and sometimes it is best to leave the one you love to be with the one who loves you because with time, you will realize you made the right decision.
premierlead: I have no more trust in her since then. She knows well that I saw her and there is no more secret about it, only that no third party has heard it yet
DaBogu: Over the weekend I happened to listen nto a radio program and this what was discussed
If one decide to donate semen (sperm) to a married woman who hasn't given birth for 5 years in her marriage instead of engaging in fornication with the married womam as she suggested, is it a sin?
What are your thoughts?
There is no problem at all as long as you do not have sexual intercourse with her.
Iyaebe: lol just playing around and I don’t have access to the mail used in opening this account,as regards my gender it doesn’t really matter, at least a nairalander (peepydelan) knows me and my family but you can drop your number so I can just hello you
Fair enough. Unfortunately i can't drop my number here.
Iyaebe: Eiya same way I don’t like seun mynd44 And lalasticlala but like franchasng, toks2008 and thorpido
Lol! It is just a natural vibe. Same way the Cat can't explain why it can't stand the mouse yet they are so much in sweet union with dogs.
It is the same with humans, you just vibe with someone and no matter how annoying they may be, you just love them yet some people just piss you off even in their innocent nature.
It is a mystery.
I dont usually do this but i have sent you a PM. i want to know you outside nairaland.
I just want to believe you are a female lol! cos many people say you are a male.
obidr: Your Osibanjo is light years behind Amaechi in APC and Peter Obi of PDP. He has no experience apart from distributing 10,000 naira to traders. He has no idea on how to improve our economy and has no track record. Wake up and stop basing your arguments on ethnic sentiments.
With the news of the possible return of Jonathan i dont think osinbajo will show interest.
But if that is not the case then he will most likely declare and if he does he will certainly win.
All these sponsored political crusade against him holds no water.. I was even expecting to see vivid evidences but all i can see here are beer parlor crinkum crankums.
We have never elected a saint but we usually go for the best among all the terrible options we have and for 2023 professor Osinbajo is the most qualified and best out of all the terrible options available.
I thank GOD for my life. Nobody in the world can say i duped them in anyway. I don't indulge in any illegitimate business, I don't belong to any secret cult. I Just want to live, affect my world, Die and live in paradise forever.
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wordapostle: I learning how to apologize but I don't know how to do that before. Coming from a disfunctional family, with no example of a good father, books and Bible came handy if not by now I would have been in my 3 marriage like my siblings.
That apology thing has ruined many relationships.
I even created a thread concerning it. If we all can learn to apologize even when we are sure we have no reason to, we will experience the best union ever.
wordapostle: Once in a month or maybe 2 months, though if I notice too much peace I will create problems so she can come and beg me and after the begging... Marriage is sweet with the right woman. This is my 9th year, though it seems we are just starting.
For 21 years i have learnt a lot. Marriage is never a bed of Roses but if you can learn to forgive and apologize for no reason, you will have the best union ever.
Boko haram , banditry and Fulani herdsmen menace would end when Police, and the Military that worked for 35 years doing difficult jobs get the kind of benefit a Footballer gets for winning a 90 mins football match
Till then... Bon Voyage insecurity and men of the dark under world
PS: To the people lamenting on the structure... How else do you expect a Federal Government Low Housing Project to look like ??!
UK council homes and US Fed housing projects are not any better
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Stop the comparison. Uk and US homes are far better.