₦airaland Forum

osadogan1:
In my own opinion saying was never a issue but sorry doesn’t work for everything imagine you kill someone’s child and you bow down in tears and said sorry did you think you will be forgiven

Or someone smashed a heavy stone on your child and say sorry will you accept it and let it slide
My reason of using child as example is that no parent accept sorry when it comes to their children
I rest my case

Every action has a consequence. The law must take its course. Sorry no dey for law Court.

We are talking about human relationship not commiting a crime against the law.

SandraIkuboR:
I look out for CONFIDENCE, MATURITY

I understand that guys sexuality is very different from ours,so we as females have to give them all the pampering they deserve NOT bashing and urgent 2k whatever

To me their sexual preference and sexuality matters a lot

A guy has to know what he wants and go for it

So I can understand when a guy tells me that oh I was so much in the mood today that's why I needed your presence and all I would definitely understand and let him have his way

What do you mean by sexual preference.

kellylacey:
Attracting women is not that hard for some men but the rest of the male population are still clueless on what really turn women on. They are still not aware of the attractive qualities of men that women can't resist. To succeed in the dating scene, one must know the traits that attracts women. So what are the desirable qualities of men?

A positive outlook in life. Women are usually worry-warts and they need a man who can uplift their spirits and optimistic about life. A man who could bring a positive aura in one's life is really admirable. Who could resist such man? Most people do not want to be around gloomy people but love the company of people who have positive auras. Having an optimistic outlook in life makes you more attractive to the opposite sex.

Compassionate. Women are naturally softhearted and caring and so they are naturally attracted to compassionate men. Being an emotional being is a plus factor to connect with women. If you have the heart to show sincere kindness and compassion to others, most women can emotionally connect with you thus making you more desirable to them. Being able to show sincere compassion is one of the attractive qualities of men that can make any woman's heart melt.

Sense of humor. The ability to make women laugh is one of the attractive qualities of men that most women look for. Everybody loves a good laugh. Great sense of humor makes a man more attractive. Laughter is a great ice breaker and most women prefer to date men who can make them laugh. Laughter is contagious and the great feeling it can give is sometimes addicting and so women will look forward to be in your company. Make her laugh and she will likely be addicted to your company.

Dependable. Men are regarded as stronger than women so most women want their man to be strong and dependable. A dependable man is someone women can rely on. Women, no matter how independent they are still want to have someone they can rely on. They need a dependable man who can protect them. Women want men who can keep their promises and true to their words. A dependable man is not a superhuman who can do everything but he is someone who is willing to be there especially when she needs someone beside her. The attractive qualities of men that a woman can't resist include being there for her no matter what.

Self-confidence. Women are attracted to men who can take charge and know what they are doing. Men who are in control of their lives and can make decisions are truly admirable. Confident men carry themselves with pride and good at what they do. They dress well, stand with their head up and with good posture. They can handle life situations with ease and authority. Men with confidence are not easily pushed around and they are not insecure. They know what they want and they go for it. Confidence is definitely one of the attractive qualities of men that you need to acquire to increase your chances of winning the woman of your dreams.

Financial stability. This is not about being rich but this is about the ability to provide for your future family. Men with stable jobs or incomes are more admirable because it shows how responsible they are with their own lives and it shows that they have goals and plans for the future. A financially stable man is usually successful in his field of work or profession. A man usually becomes a provider once he decided to settle down and it can be a real turn off if you cannot at least provide for yourself because you do not have a stable source of income. Financial stability is definitely one of the attractive qualities if men that women find irresistible.

Intelligence. Most women would agree that they would want to date smart guys than dumb guys. Smart intelligent men are always in demand in the dating market. Why? Because the sexiest part of the human body is the brain and so intelligent smart guys are sought after by most women. Intelligent men are often confident and have something interesting to share. They converse well and can talk almost anything under the sun. The ability to converse well can be very helpful to succeed in the dating game. Women love to converse with smart guys.

Chivalry. You may think this is no longer applicable in this modern times but believe it or not most women still admire chivalrous men. Men who pull chairs or open doors for women are admirable because most women love to be treated like princesses. A chivalrous act is one way to show respect and care and women can fall for men who respect and care for them.

Creativity. It fascinates women to see a man with creative side. Your hobbies and interests could captivate a woman's attention and could make you more attractive. Some women could fall for a man who could play a guitar, draw a portrait or someone who is good in sports. Most women find men who have special talent on something interesting and admirable. Talented men give women an opportunity to see a different kind of world that they do not experience every day and that gives you an edge in attracting the opposite sex.

You do not have to remain guessing on what really attracts women. These attractive qualities of men can serve as your guide in attracting the woman of your dreams.

No wonder why all of them wan be with me.

Desperate man. YOU WILL NEVER BE THE PRESIDENT. It s now you suddenly realize all these? Clueless fellow

Shebbi they have given states the right to generate their own electricity so let him sell the idea to his puppet The Governor Sanwo Olu to Implement.

Saint1960:
Being sorry all the time makes you look weak trust me

I disagree. Not that you will go about singing sorry to everyone.

1. Try to avoid saying it at all by maintaining proper decorum with people.

2. But if at any point people tell
you they are offended by you, just apologize and have peace.

Trying to explain yourself or defend your action is even more stressful and mentally draining. Just apologize for the sake of your own mental health.

Baawaa:
Tinubu is pushing for nothing

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Very Apt. Flesh and blood has not revealed this to you.

He is so desperate and Any smart mind can decipher that he is so scared cos he knows he is on a wild goose chase.

I have never seen a man so desperate.

Just be an extra wife.

Kobojunkie:
Again, stop dragging God's mention down into the muck that is your opinion abeg.

I am so sorry for doing that. Please forgive me. Oro e gba suru.

Kobojunkie:
Make una stop to dey try to belittle God by dragging His name and that which concerns Him down to the muck wey una dey dwell abeg.

Unlike the lies your Pastors and mogs have fed you by way of doctrines and traditions, the reason we are meant to ask for forgiveness from God when we sin against Him, this after we have apologized to those we wrong and also apologized to those who feel wronged by us, is because when you break his law in sin/disobedience, you do so in violation of the agreement you made to live your life in complete obedience of His Covenant and Law.

Afise ni fun e ko ma argue and contradict unnecessarily.

As the owner of Lagos.

Anyways truth be told, asides the fact that Sanwo olu is a mindless puppet of Tinubu, i think he desrves a second term cos he is performing.

His terribly role during Endsars will never be forgotten or perhaps never be forgiven by some.

Lalasticlala, happy sunday.

Candidlady:



Iam sorry is one sentence inever find hard to say!!

Icould say it twenty times a day although iwould have gotten on your nerves like 21times

I
Am
Sorry

That one nah troublesome "i am sorry"

But guess what, as ackwardly as you sounded, it will amaze you that each time you apologize to that person, he or she will calm down.

There is power in those words.

Many people have lost wonderful union cos they find it hard to say sorry.

These three words so simple yet so difficult.

These three words can make this world so beautiful, can prevent wars, can prevent break ups, can mend a broken heart... I can go on and on to elucidate on how powerful these three simple words can be. In fact, these are the most powerful words in the world.

Saying "I'm sorry" does not diminish your self worth, it does not mean you are weak or incompetent and you don't have to feel humiliated when you say i am sorry.

We all make mistakes. Nobody is perfect and this is why believers in GOD always ask for forgivesness from him every now and then so if we can be humble enough to admit how weak we are and ask for forgiveness from him then why do we feel we are perfect towards a fellow human?

The take home here is that emotionally strong people with very healthy self esteem do not find it difficult to say sorry but in actual fact, when you find it difficult to say I AM SORRY, it is a strong sign that something is wrong with you and you definitely have a very low self esteem.

Now here is the shocker... Do you know that saying i am sorry is not only when you are convinced you have done wrong?... In fact when you have no clue of what you did wrongly, you should still apologize if people tell you they are offended by what you did to them even when you believe you are absolutely innocent.

So i have pondered over these words in relation to human interaction and i have come to this conclusion...

That until you mature to the point where you are able to say these three words to anyone who tells you that h/she is offended by your actions or in-actions without trying to explain to them why they should not be offended or defend your actions, you should never bother going into any purposeful union be it friendship, dating or marriage.

Learn to sincerely say i am sorry even when you are not wrong and you will live peacefully with anybody.

Hope this helps.

simpleseyi:
We told you that we are ready to fight dirty, and we mean it.

If Osinbajo declares, that will make him another Judas, the traitor. We all know how Judas ended

Mumu talk. Nigeria is not a commodity.

In a true democracy, everyone is invited to try their popularity without any sentiment.

Are you guys so scared that you dont want to imagine Osinbajo coming out?

For the ignorant people who are so naive about the constitutional limitation of a vice president i won't bother explaining jack.

He who the crown fits should wear it.

dawnomike:
This is a nice gesture... I am not his fan but, I commend him on this

He should let people pay something like N10 to assist in the running of the place.

davit:
I can't stop laughing at some of you who think that Osinbajo will be any better. I'm not routing for anyone. But note this: Osinbajo is not who you people think he is.

He is the most qualified among all the terrible options.

We have never elected a saint.

Confusion everywhere.

All I know is that Osinbajo will declare his intent to be the CEO of Nigeria and when he does, the hosts of heaven will back him, Nigerians home and away will rejoice, on the day he declares, there will be rejoicing all over the land of Nigeria.

He will contest and he will win.

I present to you the incoming president of the federal republic of Nigeria.

This is remarkable.

If she can do it, no naija lady should have any excuse for having big tummy or fat body.

Ayomide002:
Is this not so glaring that Tinubu is the only aspiring candidate?

All na psychology

Osinbajo will declare after APC convention.

And when he does, we all will see the reaction of Nigerians and then we will know that indeed he is the next president.

Slurity:
Who told this people that Osinbajo is even contesting before? Maydid not even know anything about Yoruba culture about Respect and loyalty,

Yoruba Loyalty and respect kee you there.

This is the future of our kids we are talking about here and must not be sacrificed on the table of crazy sentiments.

Awon werey.

He will join and he will win.

Hilarious comments.

Naija

IPIGSRDOTARDS:
How some are so dumb to think and believe that anyone can make money via ritual still baffles me.
Goes to show that we have too many semi educated and educated brainwashed shallow low iQ mumus in Nigeria.

You are the one with a very ignorant mentality.

There is blood money. Stop being naive

Atiku will win if Tinubu represents APC.

ONLY AN OSINBAJO TICKET CAN DEFEAT PDP

Dsalvo:
Lol. Osinbajo is nothing without Tinubu. That is the kindest compliment I can pay Osinbajo who I love almost as much as BAT.

What many of you dont want to accept is that BAT is an institution whereas others are mere politicians.

Lame

Sedonxavi:
You hot it wrong because Osinbajo will never make any declaration

Lets see

Dsalvo:
When will some of you learn to admit to the truth like grown and responsible adults?

You are talking foolishly of Ghana must go bag when you know in your heart, as we have told you again and again, that Tinubu is loved iconically by his political peers as Buhari used to be loved by talakawas in the North.

Bro, life is not is not accidental most times. In most cases, we all get what we deserve. Even those you hate will not get misfortune because you hate them. Rather karma deals them good things if they deserve it.

Tinubu has genuine love from his political peers because of a lifelong career dedicated to doing good by his compatriots and helping each and everyone of them as much as he can be they his Party men or from the opposition.

The endorsement may pain you but it is genuine. If I show you videos of the mobilization private groups are doing for Tinubu in London you will slump walahi. Forget your talk of bullion van and such nonsense.

Many have genuine passion for the man. Dude is not paying me a dime. I don't need his money but will spend mine to make him President. Many, many, many are in my category.

As i wrote above. Wait for osinbajo declaration and then come back to write this.

Tinubu of all people ought to know that this is lamba.

Or is it not politics?
And furthermore biko are the reps and senators enough to vote him in?

Tinubu is becoming more and more delusional each passing day.

Lets just wait for Osinbajo to declare interest and you all will see the body language of the real electorates which is you and i, then it will be clear who Nigerians want.

hynodo:
The 2023 General Elections are almost here and political parties are expected to hold their Primaries in a few months. So far, Only Bola Tinubu has been working hard and making moves.

He has majorly been canvassing for votes and cementing his structure.....What's happening with other aspirants?

He is only acting desperate.

DonroxyII:
If you bring 100% Economic Resources to the table and your woman is not bringing atleast Peace of Mind to Your table is your fault.

I totally agree but simpletons will continue to be foolish.

truthsayer009:
@Toks2008

It is funny because this was exactly the topic an old friend of mine was talking about at a restaurant yesterday, this issue is actually a big epidemic for single people abroad than in Nigeria, we can arguably say women are marginalised in Nigeria in some areas and therefore the issue of who has nothing to bring to the table may not occur as men have more societal power, marriage and other things included. As a man if you put 100% of your resources down, both the lady and her extended family will respect you. Even if she is a mad person, she will still give you that respect.

Once you are abroad, the equation changes drastically because equality is encouraged by the law over there but the "supposed educated lady" you brought from Nigeria doesn't know any thing about equality, her former spouse/boyfriends/partners has been taking care of the bills ever since she became 21 years. She has never paid on any romantic dates or hangouts, even her transport fare to and fro would be given to her.

At the same time she expects to be accorded with the equal respect as partner in this new environment abroad while not doing anything tangible as she only came along with her tailoring skill (usually named Fashion Designing) which is not useful in any professional environent.

So when you think about it, what's the point?

How does the family cope with one person's income in the West, with the crazy tax system which is not even enough to finance a home, 40% tax system in Germany and other similar crazy tax system in other countries. Your spouse has to bring something to the table else you become poor in the long run.

At the end, the men being 100% provider mentality may not be sustainable in the long run.

Very apt.

A man providing 100% should end at the Nigeria international Airport.

In the western world, it is sacrosanct that a lady brings something to the financial table.