₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
The OP is right, painfully so.

Traditionally a man can take as many wives as he deems fit. There is no part of the Nigerian culture that is against polygamy. More reason I am always shocked when some men say, “let’s go back to the ways of our fathers”. Nobody blocked the road to polygamy. It is very open for any man willing to practice it in 2021.

Polygamy is not having one wife and smoking loud with a 200L girl in a serviced apartment. Our forefathers didn’t do that.

Make your stand clear, let the woman know what she is going into and bring all of them home.

Gone are the days when men put all wives under same roof.

The best bet is to rent seperate apartments for them or build an estate and put them in different apartments

mariahAngel:
How do your pour out the boiling water without spilling over the egusi soup in the other section?

You can use your mouth to scoop it out... Ma yo mi lenu.

mariahAngel:
Smh!

Nah we suppose to dey shake head for you.

See there is no crime if you don't know something but it is foolishness if you don't know and you refuse to accept you do not know.

mariahAngel:
You wey get brain, oya tell me how you go manage use am cook amala and egusi? Convince me o!

When you say save gas it simply means exactly what it is.

If you boil the water for the Amala in one section then when it is at boiling point you put the water in a fresh pot and put back to make your Amala, YOU HAVE SAVED SOME GAS

jaeyking:
You are a lady oo but you are not applying your kitchen skills in this matter at all.

Simply remove the one that has cooked.
Then carry the one wey still dey cook out for the part wey you don remove.

Sister it's not too hard to think na.

You get brain na
Try dey apply am
You no go die

Not every lady understand kitchen matters.

Biglittlelois:
So are you saying all women who leave their marriage always end up with randy men?

I take GOD beg you, no argue on this matter.

8 out of 10 end up with even worse men but guess what? They just lock up and tolerate worse shits cos they don't want the world to start counting for them.


What is the point leaving your marriage cos your husband cheats when there is no guarantee that you will meet a better guy?

Many ladies who leave their marriages cis of infidelity in most cases usually end up sleeping about and even worse still with another woman's husband... And some of them end up lonely and frustrated or worse still get married to intimacy gadgets.

So if only 2 out of 20 are fortunate to meet a better guy probably after getting sampled by men in her bid to find a better guy then what is the point leaving her marriage in the first instance.

chatinent:
And the water from the rice will be entering the stew. The stew oil will be entering the rice.


Odiegwu.

I think it depends on the size of the pot.

mariahAngel:
Why am I not surprised? Only men would think that a pot like that would save you “gas”.

Do all foods cook at the same time?
What if you’re using both sections to cook different foods, and one gets cooked before the other, what are you going to do then?
Nonsense annoying “wonder” pot!

O. M. G! See as person pickin dey reason.

Did you just type the above?

Is it not common sense that even if one cooks before another it will still save some gas? Then you can transfer the other one to a new pot or if you don't what to just fill the space with another item or water just to balance the heating.

maureensylvia:
Only women who are married monogamously under the marriage act (in court or in an approved church) have the right to say “My husband is cheating on me”! If you are only married traditionally, your husband never vowed to be faithful to you!

when you are married only under native law and custom your husband has the right to marry as many wives as he wants and there is NOTHING you can do about it. Also your children belong to him custody wise under native law and custom.

Constrictive criticism is allowed

If you like marry in the world's most prestigious court, men will be men and you either stay in your marriage or leave to become sx toy in the hands of randy men

Never knew that Igbo ladies are also very daring.

Lalasticlala what do you think

With the soaring cost of cooking gas, could this be a good solution?

What do you think.

I barb myself and I do it well.

njokuuche77:
Alot honestly.

Apart from the fact I do Buis on nairaland, I met my wife here on nairaland and we are happily married and blessed with a beautiful daughter.

I go gist Una very soon.

Wow!

Nice one. Funny enough in my over 13years on Nairaland I have never dated any lady here.

Interesting.

Fireson:
Greetings to you all , I opened this thread so we can all share our benefits and also appreciate Mr. Seun and his team for their good works. However if you are not greatful for one , you won't see two .
For me , NAIRALAND has been a springboard . I got good gigs/ jobs and also met influencial and great connect right here . Thank you Mr.Seun Osewa

You can share yours ! smiley

I just love the interactive concept.

It gives me the chance to relate with many people, those young enough to be my children and those old enough to be my egbon.... And ofcourse I see it as a great platform for expressing my passion which is freelance writing.

2Baba Nothing do you. Nobody holy pass.

But I hear sey you be atheist.. Biko if nah true just stop that rough play.

No matter what don't ever be caught dead without believing in GOD and accepting the lordship of Jesus.

Just go buy land and watch it appreciate.

Even Aso rock is not safe. Lagos is safer.

Lexusgs430:
Nah so...... Màtá of husband and wife....... Never carry am for head....

Nah ur head den go take break coconut..........

No be lie.

itsme01:
Tu Baba really loves Annie and it's getting to her head lately

See 2baba loves Annie to pieces cos I can relate with his story.

Good morning Lalasticlala. E be like sey you no like this thread.

Happy Sunday.

Kiss and tell. So Immature.

SMH!

Munzy14:
Despite the psychological preparations, I still find it difficult to believe this your hypothesis o...Even approaching it pragmatically, It is still a hard nut to crack bro.


Yes we expect the worst, but having that mindset can automatically mess up the relationship or marriage before it starts.
Again, it portrays one as not being genuine with feelings.I don't know for other men o, but someone like me, If I don't love a babe, I am not bleeping her...And If I love, I trust...Now imagine me keeping someone's daughter and not genuinely loving or trusting her because i dey fear break up?..lol it is not feasible.

As I wrote, it takes a level of psycological maturity to pull it off.

PrimadonnaO:
That's not what he's saying.

Of course you'd love to be loved back.

But express your love because your heart wants to...

Because you care about the person...

Because making them happy makes you happy...

Because the things you do with them makes you happy....


And not because you want your actions to condition their behaviour towards you...

Not because you expect that they'll stay forever.

If you're able to do this, if they eventually leave, yes you'll be hurt to see them go... but not broken.

More wisdom bro.

I'm freaking tired of how hard people find it to comprehend a clear message.

Gosh!

Munzy14:


If you like collect ben Johnson...You go still love up one day.

Heart break is something everyone need to experience one or more in a life time...It comes with an eye opener and a little bit of understanding of life in a different perspective.

Men need it more to sharpen a bit...If not na so person like fly.

It is heartbreak when you so much trust and believe it wont happen but when you are psychologically prepared for it i bet you will just shake your head and walk away. That is the point.

Even in marriage, still prepare yourself without letting it affect the way you express your love. As i wrote, it is about the mind-set but it may be a hard nut to crack for many people.

walkingshadow911:
you are trying to hard to defend this thing you posted. i can feel you pain

LOL! I think you have a penchant for comedy. Defend what? Who defends an opinion? it is there to be considered or rejected.

The funny twist is that 90% of the comments here either agree with it or paraphrased it but even if everyone goes against it so freaking what? It still remains an opinion. Stop being a comedian.

UncleKoboko:
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Stupid opinion.
This kind of relationship doesn't exist between humans unless you are only being hypocritical.

Another illiterate on the loose. You don't call an opinion stupid cos it is not a fact hence not binding in anyway...even a presumably mad person can give an opinion. You simply give a contrary one. I hope you learn.

pansophist:
You can't prevent heartbreak, unless you don't want to love genuinely. To love is to be vulnerable, and vulnerability is not weakness, its strength. Vulnerability is believing in your internal strength to lead you out of whichever predicament love brings to you. It's how a bird depends on its wing to fly, if the tree branches breaks off. Its strength is in its wings, not the branches.

People will always disappoint you, but you can minimise the impact. Love with your head and your heart, not your heart or head only. If your beloved is not reciprocating, quit it. Self care is the knowledge that you also deserve the same love you're giving out. Or else it will be a place of pain.

You just paraphrased my point.

Jaybee3455:
who is this useless simp

Another dumb person. Do you even know the meaning of the word you just used?

dogmart:
Toks I guess you have zero experience in the relationship section. Cus this your post says it all. "Love with your everything but expect nothing"
Stop giving relationship advices cus it is apparent you need to get them yourself.

Nah you no understand English and i no fit help you on that. Read again and slowly...Perhaps you will comprehend better.

MHBNeiman:
There is nothing to read again. Except you want me to start writing sermon.

OK then.

They should investigate well. I have answered phones several times while charging.

Maybe it is the charger cos people can manufacture fake stuffs.