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@poster

regarding this man,i think there are a lot of questions you need to ask your self within
like
do you really love him now
did you ever love him
or are you just infatuated with him,especially now that he is with someone else?

talk to him,is the love of then still there now
you mention that he is engaged to someone he doesn't really love
hey if its only engagement and no pregnancy and stuff
you guys should talk the talk
and let him walk that walk
it isn't really too late
but only if you are both really really sure
only if

@poster

Nice one here
i bet many of our naija guys on here
wont comment to this

all they see is naija ladies spending guys money

thanks for bringing this up

@190

it seems that you are refering to nigerians based in nigeria

but i guess she was refering to all nigerians home and abroad
my understanding oh


or is it only the guys living in nigeria that suffer this fate?

@op
why dont you just ask her?

or buy her a bottle of expensive perfume,that you know she loves
you cant go wrong with that

@poster
two options

1.cut your loses and move on. Hope you learnt  a thing or two here

or
2.pls save more money - go back to facebook and look for another beautiful he/she and continue to spend  on them

either way
choice is yours

^^^

Thank God I'm not in the UK

No, you want to go to america too

they too dont bathe!

@op

i take it that you have never had s.ex before abi?

talk of casting the first stone!

see una big big heads

meanwhile is it not a fact that most guys in UK only bathe once a week?

excuse : too cold to bath

true or not?

^^^

you have issues

it works both ways you know

you fail to mention the time the ladies spend with you during the relationship abi

and don't lump me as a gold digger,
i am way to proud to dig the gold that men think they have

and meanwhile you don't have any money
so what is your own there ?

@190

tell that to him not me

but the issue remains why must they always EAT OUR MONEY - This is the first Ghanian Gold digger ive ever seen

In Nigeria its 60 - 1
Gold diggers everywhere

sorry but i have issues with that statement of yours
you keep whining about naija women being gold diggers
while most of you naija guys in UK are greater gold diggers
so i don't understand your beef here

I really feel sorry that this kind was not strong enough to get through his broken heart
i feel that there is a greater pull and story behind it all
whom am i to judge,but to condemn the girlfriend just like that without hearing her own side of things is one sided
meanwhile many girls have killed themselves after being jilted, i haven't seen you pointing fingers and calling the men gold diggers at all
stop condemning Nigerian guys
plzzz

email me @toyinzz@yahoo.co.uk

lets see if i have what you seek

classic!!!

nice one
u being the only male in your family house
i can only imagine the clash of pongs polutting the neighbourhood
criminal

who get ya time?

@sandy Jo

[b]Even your own women hate you with a passion.[/b]It really must suck that bad to be a nigerian man.Like i said before i prefer a good looking african american man to an ugly nigerian man.Besides i dont want aids since most of you africans are infected with HIV

Hnnnn that is so not true my dear.i for one would never date anyone else other than a Nigerian man.
I have been following your comments so far and all i can deduce from your description(thick neck,blood shot eyes and flared nostrils!) is the class of Nigerian men that you have been meeting are those old ones( 40-60yrs) who most likely have wives and children in Nigeria,but are looking for one mugu(like yourself ) to latch onto and build up their life. You were played, lots of others have too, but because you were too caught up in your excitement of finally snarling a man you failed to notice the warning signs.fool on you for that. you don't come here and rant at the whole nation for a being the fool

Remember one or two trees don't make a forest. Also remember that men from other nations are also scramers too

Next time(if that ever happens) don't ignore the warning signs.God gave you instincts for a purpose,use them

Peace

^^^

I leave that for you to figure out.

did that long ago
answer's a big yes!

^^^^

are you trying to get to America?

is that what it means>!

@uselesssugardaddy

@toyemz
No doubt you're one of those Naija babes with small CLITO-RIS. You were either not endowed with it or you lost it during childhood female g.e.n.i.t.a.l mutilation. Whatever the case, you still don't have it and you can't blame me for that. Okay?
I have bleeped over 100 of you ladies till date and it's only 1 (I repeat only 1) that has some sizeable clito-ris portruding from her womanhood. And as a proof of my obsession for that feminine feature, I've been bleeping her for over 2 years now and still no letting.

let's leave information of my body proportions or of my growing up out of it, it is of no use to u,since we have never met nor will we ever meet.

That done, there seems to be something very wrong with your statement:

what would you say is the population of Nigerian women in Nigeria? you speak of 100,what fraction is that abeg?
since you want to claim Mr big Casanova, 100 women in 2 years gives you 50 women a year rite?
about 2 women a month? and you call your self a sugar daddy?
for someone who is bold enough to make such a claim about the female anatomy,you haven't done enough analysis
your figure needs to be higher
meanwhile if that all you look out for whilst with your women,i still maintain oh you no carry sef
weldone you hear

@poster
yoo made a mistake and you rectified it
I am so proud of you
thank you for this story and for lifting yourself out of that pit
but pls if and when the spineless lying doctor comes crawling back to you
pls and pls forget a heavy slap on his face

@tiniyata

If i buy u gold necklace would u take

somehow i love that question
sort of points to your personality
(thinking) though ,
no call me thief sha
who no like better thing?

^^^^


your middle name na!

@190

I need not say more

even[b] toyemz[/b] Na me give her husband

make she stay there dey run mouth

that one from ya village right?
come take i no want
you don't forget say na only you wen go small school from there
the rest all graduate in shoe shinning job
so thanks but no thanks i no want oh

^^^
Mhmmmm I see
and just how many naija girls have you slept with to butress your point?

and i bet my last kobo that you are one of those loud mouthed guys that don't carry!

keep bleating oh

@190_@ and maxtum

out of curiousity

have  you guys been ever slapped on your first dates with these foolish questions?

@lefulefu

na chop chop love all these homebased naija babes they exhibit to we bobos wey dey reside abroad

In your dreams right?

@OP
i guess you don't need any more insults abi?
this thread is kinda of funny
the females reaction , i understand, the barb's sort of directed at them
i didn't understand the mens' negative reaction until i realised that they had taken it deep personal as in it being directed directly at their mothers!
My two pennies for the men here is:
if you guys feel this bad over this one slur, don't you think that its hightime you stopped insulting the Nigerian woman in general in all your threads as
they too can be taken as a direct stab at your mothers too?

and i really beleive that the poster is g.a.y!

@poster
i understand where you are coming from
but you really need to understand the level at which your g/f is at
after reading all your responses, i understood what she is going through
Let her be, let her battle with her demons in the best way she knows how
she will surely get there
In the meanwhile,what you can do,is pray for her, or with her
encourage her, be there for her, be that friend that she seems never to have
put the relationship on a back burner for now
just be there for her as a fellow human being and then a friends
no strings attached no conditions made, no rules
just taking one day at a time
You will see, and thank God for the day, that she will turn to you
and declare her love for you
be patient ,be honest ,be strong and above all be steadfast
good luck

@poster
don't guys pose with blackberries too?
abi you don't see those ones?
take style do project, you self go surprise at the number of poising blackberry touting guys

@poster
isn't that the kind that is currently in vogue
right now
so i think its cool as long as w hat you have underneath the jacket is equally within the constraints of professional dressing
and not being slutty

Gin string ke
now i know for sure that you were hallucinating
and drunk!

@poster
it really is hard to detect what goes on in the minds of many Nigerian men, but many times it's easier to read between the lines
you feel in love with the guy and you married him
im confused as to where and how you met him?
if it is through friends,find out more information about him from them
if it is on a dating website,find out is he still on it? and why?
unfortunately as distasteful as it sounds, you will have to do a lot of snooping to get answers,since you don't live together
As for the frequent arguments,why keep having them since you know that it only end at square one?
For peace sake,let him believe what he wants to believe as like you said he hasn't travelled out before

and yes if he is still on the dating site
open another profile and pretend to be some one else,dangle the bait and he will surely fall if he has an agenda
easiest way to get all your doubts and questions answered.
Good luck

@op
sorry but it seems to me that you are just looking for a way out of your relationship? reason best known to you
I'm still confused about your so called platonic relationship with the Ugandan girl,does your girlfriend know that you are "friends" with her?
personally i don't see you heeding to any candid advice given her, as your mind seems to be heading for one and only one direction only. you seemed to have already made up your mind about the set course of action that you will take

if you want to end the relationship why not just come out and be honest, tell her that while you were away you fell in love/lust with another woman.
If you didn't find any fault with her when she told you about that randy lecturer then,why seeking for any now ?
just don't let her think that the breakup is her fault,it comes solely from you
be man enough to admit it at least.