₦airaland Forum

@ topic

didnt know you were attending church before.

shades:
nairalanders, i need your candid opinions on this issue.i just got married to my wife.although i knew she was not a virgin, we never had pre-marital sex due to her new found faith and religious beliefs. now we are married and my wife complains that i demand too much sex! frankly, i dont ask her for it more than three times a week, but she feels am demanding too much. this is not minding that she wont allow me to do it more than once on the night. besides, she is not romantic at all, though i know she loves me and we so much compliment each other.please i need to know how many times one can make love to his wife and if i actually have a high libido by demanding for sex three times a week. it will be right to let you guys know that we dont have a kid yet, though she is 2 months pregnant now. i beginning to think of extra marital affairs because of this issue.

demanding sex wont put her in the mood. And its not only pregnant women who get tired of sex every now and then.  One of my friends refused her boyfriend once, and they werent even married at the time.

Like people pointed out, good sex isnt always about fast wham and bam. Sometimes you have to set the mood during the day.

but since your wife is pregnant, her hormones may be acting up.

Are you asking about her feelings and doing other things to make her comfortable and happy?

and no, dont forget the art of toasting. You dont have to stop just because she's your wife. No be the same moves you go use when you're scouting for other women?

I dont really see why this issue is such a big deal.

Jews of today are a mixed bunch, just like the Jews of ancient times. They arent the original Hebrews of the bible (who were also mixed btw).

They've always been mixed ever since the relocation to Egypt. Likewise, they got more admixture during their stay in Babylon. By WWII, many were in Europe and most looked exactly like Europeans. Why? Because they were Europeans.



Olaudah Equiano obviously included that part of his narratives because he heard it from somewhere.

The reason the Jews always stood out in ancient times was because they rigidly stuck to the worship of one God, no matter where they were. At least outwardly. Back then that was unusual (and very stubborn) since 98% of other nations were idol worshippers.

anyway, to each his own.

all these personal problems shouldnt stop people from doing their jobs.

This is why I fear politics- its a dog-eat-dog situation and also a dirty game.


btw, i thought two army officers confessed to delivering the parcel?  Or do I have the wrong version.

Sad Dele Giwa had to die in such a manner though.

lord help us.

Saddam was tracked through his calls to his second wife.

so?

is your problem that he's drinking a foreign brand instead of a locally made one?

more people are keeping to themselves these days for various reasons, including the lack of privacy and invasion of personal space which is very common abroad where every tom, d*ck and harry is all up in your personal business.

However, it could be a phase.

Easy internet access doesnt always help matters, I'm afraid. if you're not careful you get used to being either on the computer or staring at the tv for a good part of the day- time that could better be used resting or doing some other activity.

You can also look for some kind of club that does things you're interested in or would like to take up.

No man is an island, but I think you'll probably perk up after a while.

geez, not this kind of thread when I'm trying to cope with my stretch marks and love handles!

Didnt they already have one about Nigerian girls looking pregnant?

I tire for una!

if nairaland girls are fat and ugly make una go find girls for another forum na!

you dont seem that westernized to me.

maybe to others sha.

The EFCC arrested my husband and put him in jail for two weeks

seriously, they tried on your behalf.

He was locked up for two whole weeks? You must have moved mountains and put pressure on various people.

I'm absolutely not joking!

easy come, easy go.

[quote author=Sunny_bobo link=topic=281409.msg3996168#msg3996168 date=1244483129]@ Tpia,

Look at the belt loop. is that the kind of loop u have on your green trouser[/quote]oh, you mean the belt holes.

ok, you've convinced me.

However, I'm sure I can buy the required outfit should I need one.

And my main question still stands:

Is corporal punishment a part of Nigerian culture or not?

what other forms of discipline do we have in that country?

no, but I enjoyed reading yours.

I may have had an unknown crush before, I guess. Nobody comes to mind right now since I always blab whenever I'm crushing on someone. Cant keep that kind of secret.

IFELEKE:
But Seriously, This can't be The N.D.A with it's Reputation as the best military school in Africa.
Me-think the poster is just showing off some rountine man o' war trainings.

I've never heard the bolded.

Since when did the NDA become the best military school in Africa?

Do you mean in Nigeria?

bawomolo:
shouldn't our soldiers be held to higher standards?

I'm not rushing to judgement based on some nairaland photos.

But you can go ahead.

I'm not even saying the OP's claims and photos (minus the last one) arent valid.

However, Nigerians as a whole tend to go overboard with corporal punishment.

parents flog their children, teachers flog the students, tribes flog each other and so on ad infinitum.

So someone who didnt go to the NDA at Kaduna wont experience any of these things pictured here, in that Nigeria?

yeah right. Can I have another story.

[quote author=Sunny_bobo link=topic=281409.msg3995920#msg3995920 date=1244480078]Madam Tpia, i hail o


Can't U see the green trousers worn by both with that of the trainee almost covered with mud?[/quote]Oga Sunny-Bobo

I have a pair of green trousers in my house.

Should I put them on and take a picture?

Mud is also aplenty. Likewise green plants.

@ michelin

Scantee

Be grateful to Tpiah for having this thread locked down. I swear you must love.

you're a slowpoke for this statement.

Nigerians like you bring that country down, I swear. Thank goodness you don pack your issues go italy. One less nutjob- millions more to go.

Speak of the devil. Does this michelin person have an agenda or is nairaland policy against people relating by state.


On this list of hers, she didn’t even include any state besides Abia and Anambra but only mentioned the tribes.

And if that’s an oversight, then why is she going around discouraging people from interacting by state?

Looking For A Thread? Check Out These Links!

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-231017.0.html

I knew you’d lock the Enugu thread and delete my post. You aint seen nothing yet.

Enugu State Indigen Only (biko Ndi Enugu Bata Ebea Ka Anyi Kene (coal City)

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-280331.0.html

So now one should interact only at the tribal level? (effectively sidetracking people like me wey no dey speak Yoruba for Nairaland. What nonsense.)

This Michelin is Igbo crazy I swear.

A lot of Nigerians have serious identity issues. Smh.

What if I’m interested in learning about my Enugu boyfriend’s home enviroment?


Re: If You Are From Edo State, Represent The HeartBeat of the Nation

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-55693.224.html





Members From Edo State

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-81033.0.html


Edo State Forum: If You Are From Edo State Please Identify Urself Here

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-275665.0.html


Ondo State Indigenes Let's Know Ourselves

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-64351.0.html


Ekiti State NAIRALANDERS. . . plz identify Yourself

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-100842.0.html



Re: If You Are From Cross River Or Akwa Ibom, This Topic Is For You. Sosongo.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-69425.96.html



Where Ya'l Nairalanders In Cross River State?


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-163123.0.html


Ndokwa / Ukwani Nation Delta And Rivers State

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-148184.0.html


Best Places To See In Kano State

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-3416.0.html


Kogites In Da Hauz

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94127.0.html

btw, if your finger is still on that delete button go right ahead.

bandely:
Donno what to say, and I can't believe that the whole story is truth.
BTW, why would this man reveal such things when some of those involved are still alive?

people reveal things all the time.

However, the public is free to analyze, believe or disbelieve what they hear.

Sunny Bobo, do you have any evidence showing that last picture is related to the thread title?

Your signature alone has given you away.

And you want to prove Nigerian disciplinarian tactics are found only at the NDA, right?

No Nigerian has ever been punished in their non-NDA school or at home.

Corporal punishment isnt part of Naija culture, abi?

Dajonez

nice colors/typefont.

luxoire:
whether for the right reasons or the wrong reaons a woman never forgets her first LOVEr

interesting thought.