No offense but is this what you saw growing up? I've logged back in after goodness knows how long and I've come across at least two of your posts and they've been misogynistic; unless you're just trying to get a rise out of people and then...

k2039: It's an understatement for me to say, I was surprised. I saw this coming, when you see old athetes like Tyson Gay (30 years) with a long history of injury hitting personal bests, it only takes time to decipher the truth.

You've written nothing but truth.

I wish him well; watching him stand outside Loftus Road like a puppy still causes secondhand embarrassment.

davidylan:

I wonder why "she" is any business of you folks who cant help urselves telling us how good your own lives are. Live it and stick your nose out of that of others.

My preference is strictly what it is . . . mine.

Depends . . . many of you read stuff on the web posted by faceless goons and lap it up with no sense of reason at all. No shocks there.

pointless. Exactly what was this meant to convey?

1. that it is WRONG to "search hard"?

2. That it is better to pretend like the "independent, strong, black women" here and not search at all?

Oh YEAH i did search hard but it wasnt on here so i wonder how it was "painfully obvious". I've been barely a regular here since June so exactly when was it "painfully obvious" to you? And why was it "painfully obvious" to you? how was it your business?

I'd rather her than the morons here. She can look like the moon for all i care . . . the irony of it all is that none of the loudmouths crying here look 10% as good as she does. IF she were in a line with you and the others i'm sure 99% of the guys would pick her.

Enjoy your miserable lives.

Oh, see baby cry! I don't know or care about what others say but I do live a good life because I work hard and deserve it. Is my life always a bowl of cherries? No but whose is? The irony of you saying people should mind their business when you're quick to interject in the matters of others. You're obviously butt-hurt right now by the comments in this thread but I never imagined that you'd come sobbing and wheezing like a girl going through PMS. Take a Midol and just hush, sweetheart.

As for my comment about you looking hard, I didn't want to come right out and mention you coming off as DESPERATE for a mate. Your own comments convey how pressed you were to find someone, anyone to call your own. There's nothing wrong with that but you've got your heckles up; I must have struck a nerve, eh Davy? You must really hate women (I've already mentioned to you that you can be disgustingly hateful towards certain groups) to keep going on about "independent, strong, black women". Let me stop before I say too much; you've exposed yourself more than enough here.

As for picking your girl over the women here, you should pick her over us. "She's" your girl, doofus!   I don't care what a line-up of NL men (*PAUSE* Not everyone cares about acceptance from a group of 'faceless goons; we're not all like you, David the Desperate.) think as I already have a man but you'd have to take me word for it.   I'm not so hard up for attention that I'd post his picture on NL to just to prove a point.  

I don't know about others but you're very hateful/hostile for a Christian; you must be a CHINO. I genuinely wished you happiness and you say I should 'enjoy [my] miserable life'? Tsk, tsk! May the 'joy' you wish upon others be your reward tenfold. Let the church say 'Amen!'.

tpiah:

Nairaland Forum Rules and Regulations

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-1026.0.html


poster, why dont you go ahead and write up your own obituary since death fascinates you so much.

Rules and Regulations mean little on NL; even some Mods are keen on breaking the rules they've been entrusted to uphold.

The thread is in poor taste, though.

I'm sorry but I'm confused: you are Ghanaian but have a Nigerian birth certificate? Are you saying you were born in Nigeria to Ghanaians or that you are Ghanaian through and through but possess a Nigerian birth certificate because I'm not sure how the latter is even possible. If you're Nigerian born, I don't understand why you'd need to naturalize; did you parents not file the proper documents when you were born? Either way, I hope it works out for you. Why not just get an ECOWAS passport?

Spiked, no you did not call that girl Fiona! Wrong, wrong, wrong! She looks like she's eating good (real good) but if he likes it, you should love it.

So, David likes his girls thicky-thick?

*looks at other thread*

Ah-hah. . .Spiked busted you WIDE open, son. Hi-lair-ee-us! Either way, I'm glad you've found someone to share your life with; it was painfully obvious you were searching HARD. Love is a lovely thing; enjoy it and her. Whether she looks like Fiona, Rose Red, a linebacker, Queen Sheba or Grape Ape, she's yours and that's all that matters.

Again! Tiny is better than all this; Loubies and Louis aren't worth going to jail over, hun.

loabb:

@ naija_diva , pls can you tell me which states i can leave fine, that has low accomodation rate in time of rentage. Thanks

Houston and Atlanta are great places to start; the cost of living is lower and they both have large Nigerian communities. Good luck!

Showing his passport means that the allegations are untrue? How about an HIV test, boy-o?

nopuqeater:

^^^^ Chicago has a lot to do wit it. Your heart is very hard.

You are using the barometer of America for African issues.

We have culture. We have shame.

How many of our women in America are sleeping around, unless for necessity?

The Africa culture in Africa, demands people to where their humanity and have shame.


While the greed for the green in this United States will make people lose their humanity, it is rarely the same in Africa, until you copycated the people who are shameless. please go exchange your heart for what is more humane, instead of the basic quality you have displayed so far.

You're typing jazz and you know it. You're talking about African 'humanity' and 'shame'? The same 'humanity' and 'shame' that enlists child soldiers, embarks on unrepentant genocides and loots federal coffers? Just think about what you're saying. If you really think African women aren't sleeping around except for necessity, then you are terribly naive. The sex trade isn't an 'African issue'; it's a global one and there are millions of men and women that are legitimate victims of unscrupulous people. On the other hand, there are people that have lower moral standards that see turning tricks as any other job and are happy to ply their trade.

Where I am right now, I can name two women that are well-known restaurateurs that were sleeping with the same man; that same man was respected in his own right and lavished gifts on them (and other thirsty birds). The story only broke because the man recently died of HIV; now, tell me: what forced these married women to spread their legs for an outsider? Was it because their light was about to be disconnected? Or they needed money for medical treatment? No, they were loose and wanted the baubles they could have easily purchased themselves. Hookers come in many forms but that doesn't mean they are all victims. Visit a Nigerian university; I'm sure you'll find girls and boys that sleep around because they like the fast cash.

When was she ever 'pretty'?

nopuqeater:

@4llerbintu and the travelista in Chicago: There is no single person who is born, wanting to do evil, eg Prostitution, if there are other choices and the society that they are personally living in and experiencing do make it seem okay, acceptable and no personal shame in it.

One of you is a woman; the traveler in Chicago is, between death and prostitution, even a morally upright person may consider prostitution.

What has been reported is that each of the women did not say that they consciously chose prostitution. It becomes a necessity for them.


For me, I pray that God Almighty extracates them from this, and gives each of them something better. Amin.

I have females in my family. I am a very jealous man. I would be heartbroken if any of my blood is in this condition. This is similar to the cases of Chinese brought in to USA and forced to work in "slavery" conditions. And there are evil people out there who will lie to anybody, especially woman in need.

Travelesta, I cope those horrible things that Chicago are known for hasnt clogged your Nigerianness. You seem to be loosing it. I dont think 4llerbintu for a man knows reality. Bintu is a woman's title man. it is a daughter unless you are gender bender, then it fits you. thats worse than straight out prostitution. And not all victims yell out, chicago woman.

What does Chicago have to do with any of this? I'm not hard of heart but I like to call a spade a spade. Not everyone that turns tricks does so because they have no other avenue. Do you know how many girls turn to sleeping with men/women for material gain and do so because they like the fast cash? Go visit your local university; you don't need to be in need of money to become a hooker. There are girls/boys selling their bodies when they don't need to; they have parents that easily and happily foot their bills. They sleep around and get paid for the thrill and because it's easy. As I said before, some hookers ARE victims but not all of them. You'd be surprised at how depraved mankind can be; imagine, I know girls from law school that were high-priced escorts. Do you think these women can be considered 'victims'?

Papa Sienna, e jo, don't mind Mutter. You and the Missus have a great thing going because it works for YOU BOTH.

@Mutter: Haba! Your poor (former) DIL.

I can't cook Nigerian food. (Don't judge me, I'm learning!) Luckily, I'm marrying someone that is a good cook, very patient when it comes to teaching me recipes and isn't against us sharing cooking duties.

I believe that a man should be able to support his girl but this girl is all sorts of extra with her demands. She's going to find herself 40 and alone if she doesn't stop with the 'Gimme! Gimme! Gimme!' attitude. And isn't the same one saying she's becoming celibate until marriage? Good luck with that one, hun. She really has nothing to offer it seems, yet is demanding the world on a golden platter. How old is she?

MRbrownJAY, you are dead wrong for posting that Kirstie Alley pic; she looks like Jabba the Hut in that photo.

Well, David's said it all. OP, you got caught with your pants down. Tough cookie; better luck next time.

P.S. I'm sorry but your post is hilarious. You're screaming about human rights after breaking laws (societal and biblical) and you're a theologian. Seriously, where do people like you come from?

mutter:

Travelister you lack love and compassion for your fellow man.
Women that are corporate love-peddlers. Those are the real love-peddlers. Those that have and want more.
I am talking of the poor girls caught up in the viscous circle of poverty and despair.
These girls are only victims of a callous society.
I wish we had more love for our fellow men that would go a long way.

You need to explain the bold; I really hope you aren't headed in the direction that I think you are.

I have compassion for my fellow man, so get off your soap box. You make me really nervous. I swear, you flip-flop like a fish out of water. One minute you're wanting to practically burn hookers at the stake and the next you're their Mother Theresa. Really, what's good, Mutter? Not everyone is a victim; some just see hooking as easy money because they are too lazy to earn money any other way. Are some of these girls victims, yes. Are all of them? Not even close.

*stares at this 'Press Release'*

Did he write this himself? I refuse to believe he actually paid someone to write this but the dude is low-budget and would deal with low-budget entities. A GMail account? For a PR company? Where do they do that at? Do they even have a copy editor? Oh, my gosh. This guy is just busted from head to toe. I can't believe what I'm reading. Just damn.

mutter:

It will indeed be harder for many nigerians to be forgiven for what they did to the country than for a camel to pass the eye of a needle.
These girls bodies are being sold but some people out there are selling their souls.
A country where no one is guaranteed their fundamental human rights and needs.
Nothing surprises me any more.
I shed at seeing a sister being reduced to this state of decadence and hoplessness.

Travelista when a human becomes desperate he throws caution to the wind.
A woman that love-peddlers to survive is a victim. She deserves help and respect for what she has to endure.

Spare me. There are some women and men that turn tricks because they want to; not everyone is a 'victim'. I'm sure they aren't screaming 'Victim!' when they are paid for their services. Quite frankly, some people are just plain harlots; might as well get paid while you're at it.

Looks like Hammurabi's Code needs to be implemented again. That woman is just a filthy barbarian.

The local Igbo organization used to hold an Iri-ji Festival but they've since stopped. I always wondered why.

Sad but they can't all be victims; some are hookers because they choose the lifestyle. To be honest, if some of these women exercised caution, they wouldn't be running to another country to work a job site unseen.

I couldn't imagine not knowing what my fiance makes, talk less of a spouse (and vice versa). I don't understand this need to be secretive; when you rush to hide your pay, it would make me feel you're doing something you're not supposed to be doing. If something as intimate as finances are a no-man's land, I'd wonder about the rest of the relationship.

My Dad was just there on business; he says it's a really nice place and something about it being a tax haven.

VPersie:

@Travelista, Cow, and Ileke-Ido


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=503511.msg6647451#msg6647451

Can the three of you pool your brain-power and collectively say something that makes sense since you seem incapable individually.

I saw your thread already; that's why I opened my response to you with a smile. Try again, bozo. You aren't the only one allowed to make jokes.

mutter:

Unfortunatly I do not have a mother in law.
As for your brother, he is a big fool.
HE should kick the silly woman out of the house and take his mother in. If she is willing she can come back and beg.
Marriage must and should accomodate in laws.
When our in laws visit us the always get the best treatment.
Please tell him to be a man and act like one.
A woman that geve him life, he is now turning his back on her.
Which woman is worth this sacrilage.

Mutter, no offense, really but are you a battered spouse? I am being dead serious because you have some of the most twisted advice on NL when it comes to relations between men and women. You sound like a woman that doesn't believe she has worth compared to a man and that's sad.

How about Gene find a husband of her own?

She's a buttaface.

nopuqeater:

@Travelista: Its not so difficult to drop american citizenship at all. Many whites, showing their privileges do drop her as a country, for all sort of reasons; always because of disagreement with her momentary value directions.

There was a wealthy american who felt that he felt taxation is a bother, he renounced his citizenship by become ambassador at large, in USA, residing in Florida, for a south american country.

that does not mean you cant take it back, again. All you have to do is to go to the embassy of america in the country you are residing and declare that you are no more a citizen. Its that easy.

You're very right. No matter what he says or signs, the fact that he's born on US soil, he is American until death. They did nothing wrong and basically came after a citizen.

hauler:

^^^
Oh shut up! You never have anything good to say about Nigeria

Hauler, I'm tired of you saying I have nothing positive to say about Nigeria. I am CONSTANTLY talking about how much I love Nigeria and here comes your stalker behind adding nothing of value and taking a comment out of context. Seriously, go back to your miserable life and leave me alone.