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Was that it, the shaming of TV And it boils down poaching and re-posting pix of happy times

Let's see who the protagonists where shall we ;

Mindfulness - marriage wrecker husband snatcher, teef pikin join .
Shaybebaby - marriage breaker, unable to hold onto a man .
Chillisauce - Old cargo emeritus, marriage of convenience, porn is her comfort .

Anyone of repute? Anyone held in high-esteem in these parts?? Anyone of proven character. Just liars, decievers & covenant-breakers

Believe me, there are loads of people who would like to see me humbled , but even they know such a display, rather than shame me, would only expose them as coarse. There's a certain level of vulgarity people with basic decency cannot descend to.

Remind me again, what's the sin in showing pictures of family and happy times . You really must try harder - although you'll fail continually

More "reality disturbing" pics loading


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^{...challenge outstanding - https://www.nairaland.com/2912248/15-reasons-why-real-men/2#48630582 - zero expectations}

Chillisauce:


Pls when you locate it. Zoom it and put a red arrow on the location so I can locate it too.

...you'll need an expeditionary search party and some time to find it . And what happens when it's finally located? I wonder how grown women in supposedly happy relationships can spend so much time obsessing about another mans fundament or genitals . I appreciate how lonely and misreable y'all must be, but come on. For anyone that truly has a partner this is cucking? I actually feel bad for them. Would I even spare one second on any of you over the delightful woman I am off to pester ...I think not .

...fit hubby & hot wife combo + super-cute kids...what you all would die to have. I hope I'm helping you live it vicariously .


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cococandy:
Lol I didn't see any butt pic. (Not asking to though)

Well at least you don't have pot belly. That's something.

Mindfulness is the asst. curator for my picture gallery on NL. She has them all - even some I've forgotten. Ask and she'll provide...although not ones of my family, as they make her puke .

I'm logging off shortly...please make final request for pics...I have originals, and I'm happy to share - nothing to hide .


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Mindfulness:
Chilli, the front picture is here and it's disappointing. I have saved it too, just for you.

...a whole gallery . Hope you caught the last one...how sad and lonely you must be .

I'll post 'em all if you just ask...hope you got the last one. Chilli is it verité...old flaccid frenchie with garlic breath and gauloise BO . I free you. There's no way I can add to your frustration.

Orisirisi foaming over my pix and I'm not being paid. I feel cheated .

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cococandy:
Well I've always been on TV's behind (not literally) to loosen up. So maybe he's finally listening to me. If y'all leave him to me, it won't be long before I'll have him posting pictures of himself twerking in a night club.

You only live once.

TV is super loose, but highly moral and totally righteous. A husband snatcher and covenant breaker want to shame a guy having fun on holiday

You thought the butt pic was tight right . I've seen workput pics of your oga.

Chillisauce, be sure to stay hydrated


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Timbuktuo:
Francis18, TV01, guess who this is. . Yep, you guessed right. Diet coke.

...worse than ever imagined . This one called my pikins mama fugly ! Let me first go and tender my apologies to the Moose and Walrus communities.

And you married a bona fide Italian born EU passport holder...I see the old "hook-em by pregnancy trick"


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shaybebaby:
Why thank you! This must be your impression because I have never ever spoken about my looks on this forum( other than with respect to preggie) and saying I'm not a wor-wor as your mate's wife.

...one cannot boast of what one does not possess

shaybebaby:
You need to move into 2016, we are no longer in the days of Moses.



Say hi to burger lips.

...we call her fish lips...she pweety . I suppose they alternate between moose face and walrus mush for you .

Beats you hands down in every way...but to admit that will literally kill you. Pele...not just lies, but serious denial .


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shaybebaby:
That's not a moose, id1ot!

Rather a large nose than burger lips anyday spraying peeps with saliva when I speak.

By the way, have you seen YOUR nose? Don't think I didn't spot a brethren with you trying deflect attention away from it with yo azz

I know, but quite representative . The glasses only exacerbate you super hooter...avail yourself of a stylist...or a brown bag, as I doubt you'll be able to afford one .

A single mother is a LIAR. It’s how she gets what she wants. It’s how she manipulates people. It’s how she takes care of her kids. It’s how she survives in this world.
Single mothers lie. And they LIE ALL THE TIME. They lie to men about their age, their height, their weight, how many kids they have, the job they do.
On top of the lies they tell to others They lie to themselves. They lie about about how beautiful they are. They lie telling themselves they’re still a catch. They lie telling themselves they still have a chance with a good man. They lie telling themselves that their lives will be happily ever after one day.
The horrible truth is without those lies most of those single mothers would realize how pathetic their lives are. How they have no options in the dating scene. That they’re at the bottom of the barrel in the dating scene and the only men who want them are pathetic Manginas and thirsty Simps.

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Mindfulness:
I take more pleasure from killing you slowly.
But Chilli was right, your azz looks better than your face and you know it.

...I will be changing my DP shortly . Super fine pic of me dat, let haters drool with envy. Perhaps alternate between me and wifey . You have nothing on TV, and nothing to show of yourselves or your "partners".

Thank me for making all your Christmases come at once .


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Mindfulness:
I will be in close proximity to anyone who he will feel the right to preach to.

...you've taken it down? Why now...leave it...do your job please...hype my left butsz cheek...I don't want to have to do my own PR when I have you and Shaybebaby moose nose put in the hard graft


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Timbuktuo:
Say what? You wear bra for eye?

...ahem...I don't think she has much use for bras


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Chillisauce:
See my oga own. Oya your turn

https://www.covermale.com/image/cache/data/CM166-White-M-600x600.jpg

....granma...I don tol you...stay off dem porn sites


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Mindfulness:
I had nightmare and lost my appetite indeed but I couldn't stop laughing too.

kneehighbootz, where are you?

...dayuum...I had to like this...real foine and super hot bobo....is that it? A regular beach snap of a happy guy having a fun time . Now where are your threats?

Ode, you would have had more leverage dissing me and threatening without showing it. Now it's out there, people will only envy and wonder if you need vari-focals.

Not only righteous...but also smokin' hot


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^{...let's see what y'all are working with....anybody? Didn't think so}

Chillisauce:
Where is the front view?

You are dodging me ekwa?

Ôk o.

...with your pacemaker?...that one na murder now


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Chillisauce:
So TV doesn't wanna post the front view let me size the sledged hammer?

Make I go clean my toilet. Show us bak view come dey hide the koko. Mtcheeew

...the same back view that has had Mindfulness unable to eat or sleep and talk of nothing else for over a month...give me my props jor .


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shaybebaby:
But not ugly like....

You know she puts you in the shade ...you and all the other GDT's up in here...and non of you can get the butt...only hype it


Prove me wrong...if anyone can post a pic that is finer than my wife...or a husband that is fitter than me, I shall provide all the pix and detail about me you like and deactivate...or stay and be your serf...10 mins before I go chop and catch upon the Olympics...20.40 UK time


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francis18:
TV01 SHAYBEBABY

IS THAT TROUSER?HOW COME THE SHOES LOOKS LIKE THEY ARE WEARING HER?

Totally as expected....no shape, no fashion sense, wack weave and as plain as photocopying paper...best remove it before the site crashes .


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Chillisauce:
Forget that thing. Iweight ke. Do you want me to post my napkin picture for you..

Mé wey get 4 packs.

Where the other part of the photo N'a. Let me know whether é reach 16 inches .

...how can I refuse?...giving old cargoes some succor and delight as their memories fade. This is Shabebaby' favourite - you can't DP this one, she will fight you .

Stay tuned, more to come...please, don't go and fight oga out of frustration 0!


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Chillisauce:
So our English master has been splashing his arrzz on this nairaland. Wonders shall never end. I thought it was a joke. Abeg where the photo make I see the shape of the arssss

Buhahaha.
But wait o. How the yansh carry appear here. I thought he was born twice.

Ewohhhhh.


Crackhaus wey your own yansh photo. Abi na black baret

...old cargo emeritus Chilli how far, how's your never-ending battle with the weight ? If you want to see just ask. Please change into loose fitting clothing, the sight of it will only be surpassed by the excitement you felt when your new dentures arrived .

Feel free to discuss it with the men in your life like Shaybebaby does


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Timbuktuo:
I would ignore you but, we know lies repeated over time begin to seem true. Prove, with relevant quotes, the comment(s) where TV supported my opinions which conflict with his religious beliefs. I asked you for this earlier and you azontoed away from the question misdirecting as always. Mindfulness, don't be a liar.

So, Shaybebaby is married?

Mindlessness is both godless and lacking a strong cultural heritage. Hence she lies like she farts - from any available orifice . Thanks for the challenge, hopfully enough people know her modus operandi by now. Mindfulness, come, which orifice did you pull the 500'000 Syrian refugees taken in by Saudia Arabia from .

shaybebaby:
You got that right honey bunch.
Son's dad is a whole lot more involved than these losers who claim they are the bee's knees.
Off out now to do my good deed day of the day for a friend but that slowpoke that posts pictures of his azz had better have pictures of him spending quality time with his kids in everyday life or shut up because imma spam this thread with pics and videos of a father whose life revolves around his son.
Hope you've had a great week.

...involved? All the way from Bologna every 4th weekend of the month. Get outta here


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Mindfulness:
He didn't but he chose to ignore your solution to the problem (CHEATING / ADULTERY = a cardinal sin in your and his world view - THEORETICALLY ) because you like to support each other - when you feel that you are not strong enough on your own .

For those of us whose righteousness is in Christ, our enemies will always be confused and confounded. While we will be as bold as lions .

Stop wasting your time looking for something to pin on me. Back to your duty station - go hype my left butzzz cheek . You wan picshure abi? Then earn it.

https://www.nairaland.com/3295175/why-common-most-wives-need#48583755

Hi Innovestor, nothing new under the sun. I applaud your desire to restore normalcy in your home. But please don't countenance covenant breaking or even threats of it as a means to that end.

I posted my piece before Tim. And, I didn't cherry pick any other respondents post either, not even yours. Though to repeat, Mindfulness, please stop giving relationship advice, you truly suck at it .


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Mindfulness:
Are you surprised?

And his best buddy TV, the self-proclaimed advocate of the sacred institution called marriage and Christianity, supports him on a thread where he tells a husband to cheat on his wife. Confused lot.

Ode Do you also need mudballs placed over your eyes to be able to see? Just like the dullard failed to recognise Tim' sarcasm here, likewise you failed to comprehend me there.

Following me around from thread to thread. Increasing obsessiveness. You've broken no laws sha, maybe I'll throw you a bone - pix loading. So, hows my left buttz cheek doin'?


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Obodo999:
Dishonest. A single mother is a LIAR. It’s how she gets what she wants. It’s how she manipulates people. It’s how she takes care of her kids. It’s how she survives in this world.
Single mothers lie. And they LIE ALL THE TIME. They lie to men about their age, their height, their weight, how many kids they have, the job they do.
On top of the lies they tell to others They lie to themselves. They lie about about how beautiful they are. They lie telling themselves they’re still a catch. They lie telling themselves they still have a chance with a good man. They lie telling themselves that their lives will be happily ever after one day.
The horrible truth is without those lies most of those single mothers would realize how pathetic their lives are. How they have no options in the dating scene. That they’re at the bottom of the barrel in the dating scene and the only men who want them are pathetic Manginas and thirsty Simps.

Shaybebaby, does this strike you as autobiographical ? Mindfulness shamer alert ! I should take lessons from this guy


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Sex in marriage is both a right and an obligation. Yes, one should pay attention to romance, certainly, one must be considerate given sensitive or difficult conditions or situations, but the fact remains, sexual intimacy is a particular of marriage.

The issue OP has brought here is not “his” problem, it’s their problem, and the will is lacking on her part. She should be looking at how to resolve this even more, or at least as much as he is, as she is failing in her wifely duties.

I laugh when I hear strident advice about what “he needs to do”, and changes “he needs to make”. Especially when the advice is all around romancing, woo’ing and pampering her .

The truth is, we do not know the root cause of the problem here, but a good and understanding wife should make all efforts to restore normalcy. If he has the worst halitosis, she can communicate that (as sensitively as possible) and support him through it. Likewise if he has any other physical or grooming issue.

And again, if the issue is the stress of their day-to-day life, she should be working as assiduously as he is to make fundamental changes and create time for them to rekindle their passion.

If the issue is her low libido, again, she needs to understand that she is obligated to make efforts to satisfy him. Like Timbuktou said, you can’t negotiate attraction, and likewise a man should not have to pander or graft for what is his by right. So I may prescribe a different approach, but I agree, men too dey eff up!

And if the issue is his loss of status or desirability in her eyes, woo’ing and romancing her will make his stock fall even further – she’ll soon despise him, or at best codedly friendzone her spouse.

It’s why I advise men to marry younger/fitter women, and ones who naturally acknowledge their dominance and headship. Not dominance as in being tyrannical, or for reasons of control, but leading and being in some ways more mature and learned. I wonder the age/status gap between OP and his wife?

Younger/fitter, because when the stresses of life come upon women, the older and less fit they are, the more less likely they will be make the effort required to keep in shape and make pleasing you a priority. And the more likely it is that you will find yourself in a place where you are duty bound to fulfil your obligations, but getting little by way of satisfaction in return.

Would a dutiful husband become a vassal in his own home? Does OP develop headache when the bills are due? Or when his wife needs aso ebi or favors for her family, does she first clear a weekend and map a schedule of extra special TLC for him ?

Men run your homes. Address issues at root and be prepared to make long-term structural changes if required. By all means romance her, certainly woo the butt of her. But do it because she deserves it and you want to. Not to curry sexual favor, or pander to her sense of entitlement or failings, dammit! I’ll stop now lest I punch a hole in my lappy .


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Hi Innovestor, nothing new under the sun. I applaud your desire to restore normalcy in your home. But please don't countenance covenant breaking or even threats of it as a means to that end.

First peruse this thread, and particularly my comments therein - https://www.nairaland.com/1845744/intimate-incompatibility-marriage#25285431. That speaks mostly to the bio-mechanical aspects. Please appropriate what is relevant to your situation.

There may be some overlap from the above post/thread, but equally important is to touch on the bio-dynamics. That is the situation in your home, both your family circumstances and the "mutuality" between the both of you.

Men and women view sex differently. Indeed, their perceptions and oft times responses to every stimuli or situation is typically different, and usually for good reason - and largely by design. Understanding our differences and working to harmonise them is key to healthy relationships and happy homes.

Your situation could be due to;

1. stress/work overload, leaving your wife tired. Things like work, anxieties, childbirth etc. have to be managed and hopefully overcome to restore normalcy
2. the attraction - painful to say, let alone hear - may have waned/died. You have to take steps to restore/revive it. Basically increasing your status/desirability in the eyes of your wife. Women will make an effort to please men they respect
3. she may simply have a low drive - see above post. If she is well cultured or of deep faith, she will actually know it's her duty to please you. If you are, go to God sharpish.

Try and pinpoint the main issue - as there may well be a combination and take it from there. Please learn to ignore the godless misandrists that abound here, they'll just enervate you and cause a loss of focus.

All the best as you build your home.


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Stillfire:
I'm pretty fine!!!

Good to hear. Always good to hear from you up in here...

Stillfire:
They are 'exodusing' to the land of options and FOREIGN opportunities.

...but I often have to disagree. . Be it foreign men, or foreign men in distant lands, at a community level, na lie.

Nothing has changed. Black women are as a group lower down the desirability hierarchy. This is plain fact. Would this additional toxicity you speak of make them more or even less desirable? Not to mention they are still not shot of the cray-cray, wahallasome, ghettochick image they have long struggled with .

Stillfire:
African American women have been sold the disastrous ideology of black men only. Not any more! The black community is toxic.

AA women have, do and will always prefer black men . Same as black women the world over. Only black men match them for the high octane intimacy they crave - you get me

Stillfire:
Over 60% of black women have been sexually assaulted before they reach 18. Any sensible black woman would have as little as possible association with the toxic black community. http://sojournerspassport.com/last-call-to-evacuate-black-residential-areas-before-the-peace-walls-go-up/

Women of other races/communities claim equally horrendous figures. And the scope for what constitutes sexual assault is so wide as too trivialise the problem. It does not actually change anything.

Stillfire:
Numerous blogs have been set up to aid in the campaign of killing this damning 'black men' ideology. Black female consciousness INDEPENDENT of the toxic black community is being encouraged. The efforts so far have not been in vain. There is now a proliferation of non-black men and black women relationships. That diehard black man only mentality must die! I reject it!!!!

Black woman, non black-man (of any race) is still a minority pairing. At an individual level, it will work, and possibly quite well for some. Others will manage, some knowing they settled. I have no problem with male/female pairings of whatever hue and for whatever reason.

The good news is most black men - like other men - marry women of their own race. And all races can easily accommodate some admixture. It shouldn't do any harm and will likely be beneficial.

Black women (and men) would be best served by restoring a healthy male/female dynamic between them, and strong families to facilitate this. That would make them all round more desirable. Then, when they did choose to marry out, their superior pedigree would command a premium .

Please don't reach for your colt 45 - spoken as a lover of black women and happily married to one

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Mutaino7:
If this post has not enlighten some people then maybe you should stop discussing it further.. It will be a precious waste of time to write something as clear as this and the targeted audience are still wallowing in arrogant ignorance. But oga Tv dem NL syd chicks like you oh! keeping your pics Ha! When next you dream about masquerade chasing you, then know NL chicks aint faraway.

Word bro', it is onerous and tiresome. Truth however, has to be defended. I don't do it so much for the soi disant "enlightened", but moreso for those that may be swayed by the pleasing sounding but deceitful clichés that pass as reasoned debate, and those that may not give it much thought.

You honour them "syd chicks" is way too lofty for them. Some of them have whole galleries of my pix posted over the years, and wait longingly for more . Many spend evenings reading and re-reading my old posts. Masquerade ke? I always sleep peacefully and have sweet dreams. Although some of them could pass for such in the flesh .


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pippimp:
Your religious belief. Really? An atheist could as well use that same argument to deny you freedom on various levels.

Simplistic and untrue. You are free to view believers as abnormal and religious belief as immoral. You are in no way forced to participate in religious celebrations.

And again, not only people with religious belief abhor homosexuality/notions of "orientation". Many non/unbelievers do so too. Hence my reference to religious belief and conscience.

And more importantly my religious belief makes no demands on an unbeliever. No non/unbeliever has to teach his children that religion is good or moral. They don't have to accept there is a God, or worship Him. They can blaspheme with no consequence. It comes with no rights that demand participation or assertive action by non/unbelievers.

pippimp:
That he does not believe in any God and would not want to compromise his/her right to his/her beliefs or, compel them to violate their conscience, by accepting you as normal and being forcibly made to participate in your celebrations. It's a slippery slope dude. Why is this concept of individual freedom so difficult for you to understand?

Poor attempt at an echo that does not actually follow. You are free to view religious belief as abnormal and/or immoral. You are in no way forced to participate in religious celebrations. Of course if you could show how people are forced it would help, but you cannot. If you've anything other than trite reductionism in the manner of "love is love" , ideological cant, or false equivalence, please share. Otherwise I'm done.

The wrongful notion of "sexual orientation" comes with demands on others as it is coupled with a slew of supposed rights. It impairs the individual freedoms of those who do not subscribe or wish to participate, for belief or conscience sake.

It produces clashes and conflicts with other supposed rights such as religious freedom. These are often contrived by activists to cause harm to those simply exercising their freedoms. Hence questions like this are both reductionist and deceitful

pippimp:
How does someone else's sexual orientation hinder your rights and freedom?

But you must know that. Try leavening your enlightenment with some truth.


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^{...and to be clear, I speak as a Christian, don't expect a defense for other, or all faiths/religions.}

pippimp:
How does someone else's sexual orientation hinder your rights and freedom?

You didn't, as requested, define sexual orientation in law or science. You've merely resorted to a simplistic reductionism. But I'll play to make the point.

Why should someones "sexual orientation" (not that you've shown it's a thing) compromise my right to religious belief or, compel me to violate my conscience, by accepting it as normal and being forcibly made to participate in it's celebration.

There is the rub. Have whatever "sexual orientation" you desire, but I should be free for conscience sake to decline involvement, or agree that it is moral, or worthy of normalising - by right. So your whole "forcing of beliefs onto others" assertion is something demanding rights on the basis of "sexual orientation" demands of others.

And we haven't even touched on the social cost.

All you have is cant.


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pippimp:
I really don't have too much time so I will he quick. In America, you cannot deny a person service because of race, colour, or sexual orientation. In the 60's, blacks were denied services because of the colour of their skin. Think about that.

I already outlined why the whole notion of "sexual orientation" is nothing more than an ideological ruse. And one designed to hep destroy notions of morality and common decency.

But let me indulge you. How in legally, medically, or biologically is sexual orientation defined? What hard science is behind it? We all know that things like race, although essentially social constructs, are immutable physical traits.

How is sexual orientation rightfully afforded the same status/categorisation as something like race or sex. What is this enlightenment that has come to some countries and people, but not others? Why does a preference for certain sexual acts by some people engender privileged/protected status and a whole slew of rights and benefits?


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Timbuktou:
Don't mind the wench. She is unworthy to unlace Mrs. Tim's shoes. She wan look free cinema but ma lie.

...no min' am, she wan look better thing and torture herself reflecting on her sad and lonely existence. Has she ever posted a pic of herself? Partner lasan lasan


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shaybebaby:
I dare you to post her picture again. I reiterate..she is minging!
Timbuktou, if the lady standing with your son decked in blue is YOUR mrs, then.................

She is a minger as well. Sorry to the pair of you :p

....dad...did she just call mum a minger?


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