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Blackdeewhy:
Body shape MATTERS a lot in choosing ANY attires. Stick to what suit your purpose. I don't mean to be a bully but this things she's wearing ain't meant for her boobs. Its an eye soar!

I no blame the babe jorh, nah we guys wey dey give some girls hope say them dey sexy... Imagine this babe now her boyfriends go don give her hope say she is sexy, she self want come show say she sexy .. some girl dnt even have dressing sense at all..

Priceless007:
Hello Nairalanders,

It's a long story, but I'll try to keep it short and to the vital points. Please endure the length.

There's a girl i met at a theological college in where I was studying to become a clergyman and also learning a skill under the civil engineering department of the college. She was my junior in the course, as I was a year away from graduating from my first course, while she was just a fresher. She was always having issues getting through her courses and projects and would always ask for my assistance since I was the course rep in that department. It was forbidden to have any intimate relationship with your course mate or anyone in the college for that matter, the penalty would be expulsion. But unfortunately for me, out of sheer lust and seduction on her part, and gross indiscipline and lack of self control on my part, I got intimate with her and we ended up committing fornication during one of our semester vacations. And it just happened once, of which out of deep regret and remorse I confessed the matter to the college Admin when the next semester resumed. We were panelled, after which I was suspended, while she was expelled.

During this time I was learning a skill sponsored by the college, of which I use to get paid some weekly stipend. After I was suspended I was also stopped from continuing my apprenticeship, because I was not to associate with any of the students or lecturers in the school while my suspension lasted. So I was without a job and without a source of income since I wasn't yet mastered on the skill. The condition that was given to me to resume my studies and apprenticeship was that I should go and get married before I could come back to college, so as not to be tempted to repeat my error. But I wasn't ready for marriage whether financially or any other wise for that matter. So while I was contemplating my next move, this girl came to me that she was pregnant, that she needed us to go and see her parents. I told her I had no money neither was I ready to father a child at this point in my life. I pleaded she should give me time to think about what next to do. Two weeks passed, and I called her to enquire about her welfare but her number wasn't reachable, I decided to go to her place, but I was told she had travelled a week ago to go see her family. A week later, I received a call from a woman telling me she was the girl's mother, that her daughter came home with a pregnancy, and she asked me if I was responsible for the pregnancy, I answered her in the affirmative. She then asked when I was coming to see her family. I told her I wasn't sure about coming to see them that I needed to speak to the girl first. She said okay, then later that day the girl called me, and I told her to come back for us to talk deliberate on the way forward. When she came she told me her parents (who are by the way divorced) will not accept her nor the pregnancy without me coming to see them for marriage arrangements.

I explained to her I wasn't ready for any such thing, that I have a calling to answer and a course to finish, that what happened between us was just a stupid and careless mistake that has been as a setback for me to achieve my goal, and that I was ready to overcome the trials and get back on track, and I explained to her that before then I had neither dated nor been intimate with anyone for over seven years, and so any kind of relationship or marriage was not even in my nearest future plans, and besides, I didn't even have a job, not to mention having enough money to embark on a marriage plan. She said she would never accept such excuse, that I should look for whatever means to make sure I come see her parents before her pregnancy becomes obvious. She also said that she needed money to move her belongings back to Imo state where her family resides. I agreed to raise some money for her. I went to do some menial jobs and raised some money, about ₦20k, which I gave to her and she traveled back to Owerri. From then on her parents kept calling and pressuring me to come and see them for marriage arrangements. I told them I was going to come, but just to introduce myself to them as the person responsible for their daughter's pregnancy not for any marriage arrangements. But they disagreed, that if I wasn't ready to come for marriage that I shouldn't bother coming. I pleaded with them to give me enough time to look for money to come and see them, but they instead started threatening me with court cases and arrests, at one time they brought the girl and some soldiers to my family house and harassed my family members including my mother.

So I later traveled to Benin city to go look for money. After one week of my arrival in Benin, I lost my phone and I couldn't retrieve my number. I lost connection with them until I got back to Uyo where I got her phone number from a friend of hers. At this time, I was told that they came to my house several times with police officers claiming I raped their daughter and impregnated her then absconded. At this, I established contact with the girl again and she told me that I should not bother her that she wasn't in the mood to talk to me, I kept calling her but she often ended up abusing me or we often times ended up in quarrels, so I left her alone for sometime.

Two weeks ago I related the matter to one of my distant uncles, who advised me to gather some money and go see her, I called her and told her I wanted to come and see her before she puts to bed, which is expected to be sometime next month (August). But she told me that she still stands by what her parents had said, if it's not for the marriage issue that I should not come, that I should rather send her the money I would use in coming so she can use it to buy the baby clothing and buy some hospital requirements before she puts to bed. I called her parents and they told me the same thing, and said if I don't come for the marriage agreement before she puts to bed, that after she's delivered of the baby I should forget ever coming, and should never mention that I have a child anywhere not to mention coming to claim it ever in the future. And that I should just forget about her and the child.

The issue now is this, I am a bit frustrated because I seem to have lost everything at the moment because of this issue; my calling, the skill I was learning is gone, I have no job aside the menial jobs I do at construction sites which isn't available regularly. Now the little I have saved so far, I am contemplating on whether to use the money to pay for my skills training and continue with it and start my life afresh and forget about her, the child, and her parents, or use the money to support her in her hospital requirements for her delivery. Because I don't want to be seen as abandoning her when she is in this condition, and I also don't want to give up on the child, though I'm not capable of taking care of the girl and the baby right now, and probably, I might end up getting married but not under my present circumstances. I know I've made a grave mistake and this is the consequences for not being true to myself and my calling, and I deeply regret it, and I've suffered for it in any way I can possibly imagine, but I also need to put my life back in order, because right now I'm so devastated that I'm contemplating terrible alternatives to survive the storm, I'm at a very critical moment of my life and I just feel like giving up on life altogether. Please I need your help and advice on this issue. Thanks.

PS. Please if anyone is willing to teach me any skill, I would be very grateful and willing to learn.

Guy you Bleep up big time , a man must be ready to face his actions. There things I need to point out here
1. When she told you she is pregnant you should have dose things out smoothly not acting like you are denying your responsibility or actions.atleast when you were digging her deep you know she might be pregnant
2. She might not even be pregnant, she might be trying to pay you back for the punishment she is recieving reason why I said this. She didn't want you to come except you are ready for marriage also she is more than willing to recieve any money you send to her. Guy smart up. She might not be pregnant.no evidence she is pregnant before she left your place .since you didn't mention.so I may assume she is not pregnant she is only extorting and she want you to pay for her punishment
3.why not visit her whether marriage or not.As a man your decision must be respected if they want you to marry their daughter why wouldn't they allow you to come and see her.. that means they are hiding something from you...if you can't lie that you are coming for marriage can't you atleast prepare some marriage paparazzi to ascertain the girl state if she is truly pregnant.provided you have not seen her that she is pregnant before she travel to see her parent.
4.my advise is if you can't summon the courage to go straight to her family then how are you going to make a good husband. So go to meet her whether ready for marriage or not.... If they put the action on you then they should let you carry the responsibility.... This should be a great lesson for you.... Is better it happen now than to have happen after you have attain you clergyman dream.
Best of luck

Indomixx:
Hello guys
I've noticed over time that I'm a huge fan of graphic images. Anytime I see a post on nairaland where "graphic image" is, I rush to view it so I can see the graphic images. Those bandit stories where people are killed, bomb blasts involving dead victims actually thrill me, even accident scenes where people died . I don't know if something is wrong or I'm possesed. I need help, I don't think it's normal.

I swear same thing to me ooooooo, I do feel the same well. Sometimes I even go to the extend of zooming the graphic image . Hope we they normal Sha?

There are3 important question I will like to ask
1. What is passing through the hose, cos that hose is is a hollow tube. my guess combustible fuel I guessed
2. How does a solar energy become combustible flame, allien science I guess. Solar energy can only be converted to heat energy, which can be inform of infrared radiation etc not flammable fire.
3. Why does the flame look like a candle flame also it seem the flame isnt coming from the outlets nozzle of the burner(not all the nozzles holes)

This one nah double meat for the hunter ooo , big python and free cow meat.. double blessings

Northurmate:
The moment a truck loaded with bags of onions was hijacked and looted in Imo state.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KxhmUeO8pBw

This video was during end sars protest,... Nigerians we are the problem of this country... Is imo state that the stay at home is so observe that truck of onions is moving around

There is one things you people don't really know about a male bestie to a lady. If your wife have a male bestie nah big problem you don enter, because naturally she will be comparing her husband with the male bestie that is inevitable. Secondly since the male bestie is jxt a friend, that extral ordinary caring will be coming from him that will make him look more caring than the husband. So if mistakenly the husband slack in one area the male bestie is good at problem don start .
Also having male bestie is never a good outcome, no matter how long the relationship last it will end up in pain. Either from the woman or from the man, so I will advise the op to be careful with the situation cos the wife in is on the fence. She either fall to him or fall to the bestie side.

Richy4:
They will steal your phone... yes but it will be useless.. because you will report and it will be locked. before it's opened, Questions like
IS it a SIM Locked? Was this phone stolen or lost? and so on ..All this uncomfortable questions would be asked and it will be dictated in the system when the person comes to unlock... It would deter some people from buying stolen phones..And before any phone is opened, you come with some ID...Like international passport, Local ID not birth certificate ....

What of a situation where the phone was stolen and the person that stole the phone used it to commit crime or the phone was trace to a crime scene. Nah another problem be that , note in this country where even if you complaint to Authority immediately after the phone theft , they will still be harrasing you for questioning.... Although it is a good idea but the laziness of black man will not let the good motive of the initiative to function well.

Sikay19:
Another job opportunities for some fortunate people. But why is it that only the Northerners are the private individuals who are doing well in respect to industrialization. What are other business persons doing with their billions
This is not healthy enough in my opinion though.

Because if other tribe or section of the country try to do it, Nigeria government (a. k. a Northern government) will kill the individual struggle with policy that will not favor business..... Ask Ibeto cement about it.....

Great, hope the baby wouldn't be very small ooo

buckeyemedia:
Like he said stop been cowards, a whole village needs ammunition to fight 10 Fulani persons that trespassed their so called ancestral land? Intelligence is what is needed not arms, you have the numbers.

So after gathering the intelligence who will make use of it... Is it the police that had been shielding the herdmen or the military dt as been protecting them?.
If the idiot mean what he said maybe they should license gun to every citizen that could afford it and see if everyone will not be on there lane...

Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.

I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.

When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.

Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.

Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.

I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.

Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.

That is a sad incident u have faced, but there nothing much to do about it than to abstain from the guy.. if you are thinking of arresting him, also remember you need concrete evidence to support your claim. But I will advise you let go and try not to trust a guy easily. A real guy will not pick offence if u try to prove difficult in getting. So make your game tight next time while you also watch out for a genuine love... Get over it and be strong

ogododo:
https://punchng.com/students-abductions-buhari-govt-responded-better-than-jonathans-says-adesina/

Buhari is northerner while Jonathan is Southerner

All of you are given this dude advice no one ask if is a minor,his age should be the first things u people should ask him not all d silly advise.....he might be under age and u people are corrupting him [color=#990000][/color]

DrNefarius:
The power the youths carry is being materialized.
Who would expect this sudden, change? Especially as Bubu just recently insisted they won't be paid unless they join IPPIS or whatever, now story don change.
What a time to be alive.

Government only want to take the youth away from home.....so endsars protest will reduced

mandalorian:
Hello house, my boy is barely one month old and he developed this skin issue. One of my colleagues said it is Ela(Yoruba) but from my experience, ela use to manifest as very red tiny rashes around the neck and joints.

Now this one is not on his neck (though it is in both his elbow joints, scarcely on his Tommy and this morning I say it at the back of his knee), his skin molts around the rashes. I just can't completely describe it that's why I included the pics.

I need help elders in the house. I took him back to the hospital where he was born but they said it will go but I don't like the look.

Mods pls help me push to fp.

There is no cause for alarm, what you are seeing is just a reaction to some Ash condition,
The following should be check
1.the water used in bathing the baby ,is it clean or not
2.the soap, avoid using too strong antiseptic soap. The baby skin is too soft for it
3.heat or high temperatures
4 after bathing him use baby powder to cool his body temperature.
Dnt be scare is a normal thing. Some baby shed off their skin, u should be aware of that as a mother. So stop panicking

Samakus:
Let me get you. Is it that you don't have erection again at all at all?

Op you are okay ,if you didnt have erection it does not mean you have fault or issue,.... Why will you start with prostitutes in the first place.. Look for one babe whey u fit used to reset your body functions.

FlutterDollar99:
This is an attack on SE

He stole the masses money,... How many of the share get to south east

Nice one, atlist money taken is return for the good of all

picoba:

That we be inconclusive project. Mad government. Why can't they make sure we have regular electricity light before going to other countries. Ghana has gone far in term of electricity.

The truth you people don't know is that is a must we supply those countries light. Otherwise they will resort to building their own dam on the same source of water. They had every right to obstruct the river because is within their territory.
As a civil engineer, I know that for you to obstruct water way with dam you must go into agreement with neighbouring settlement at both the upper course (where Ghana, and other countries belong) while the lower course (that is where Nigeria belong) .and since we all know water flow from upper course to lower course Nigeria is at disadvantage if any of those countries at the upper course erect or obstruct the river. So for them not to do this will have to supply them light.

Investmentfreak:
FTC finally
Please what can I do with 100k Naira, it seems useless in my account... quote me I am waiting
Business ideas only

Invest it wisely, start by know what you have Interest in. Forget about business idea, no matter d ideas given if u dnt have interest in it. U will run at loss

crackhouse:
....but this bridge is too small to have killed somebody during its collapse. How come?

Sincerely I thought I m the only one who noticed that, water is not big nor deep. So what kill the 4 life n 8 injure. Maybe they are swimming when d bridge fall

delugajackson:
No one will ever be able to unravel the mystery of how this once beautiful damsel suddenly turned into an ugly, fat toad.

Na ijekuje dey cause amh, ladies dey can eat anything without any vigorous exercise to burn their excess accumulated fat....

FatherBona:
If I could meet this girl, I would love to ask her one question;
How did you do it?
Pure genius

I feel she was used by another G guys who used her as picker.... Dt is Wat happen I m very sure.

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Telkart19:
The animal census is to prevent cattle rustling...which is a major bone of contention between Fulani herdsmen and farmers...

If it reduces violence, it is a good idea.

How on earth will it reduce violence,... Animal census another means to steal money... Instead of caring out census why not tackle the problem,.this country is jxt a shithole

Koolking:
Money answereth some things but not all things.

It won't change the result of the last presidential elections.

By the way, some INEC staff is not INEC. INEC had already issued a statement, that is tenable and case closed

Nigerians are too blind to see what is coming on them.... Political game is about to happen soon... A strategy for Northerners to succeed a Northerners is the game...
What happen in osun state some years ago will repeat itself.
Buhari will almost finished his tenure then he will hand over to Atiku,with the disguise of elections petition victory for Atiku...
Mark my words....I only pity politician like Jagaban who think myopically

dominique:
I don't think anybody can take a glance at those photos without their skins crawling. I suppose 99.9% of the world is trypophobic

You don't generalized, I looked at it to the extend of zooming it....most especially the picture with the hand's hole.... It look amazing seeing those pattern alignment......

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hisgrace090:
And we will have more than 50 countries to dump ours too.

Think of it.

Nigeria joining the trade is not good for her manufacturing industries that are still striving to survive. The following are the disadvantages if Nigeria should join such trade.
1.other countries with import duties that are very low will serve as shipping depot for goods that intend coming to Nigeria, this will make Nigerian carry d burden of paying high price to goods without even receiving any import duties on such goods
2.most companies will look for countries with attractive tax n raw materials site ,thereby the little companies we have in Nigeria will migrate off Nigeria.. Hence loss of jobs n poverty will increase
3.presently Nigeria does not export any goods non raw materials. Hence all other countries will only benefit from Nigeria while Nigeria and her struggling manufacturing industries crumble
4.developed countries patronizing Nigeria will be adulterated, since dey now have many choice to take their finished product to..hence sources of revenue will decrease.
4.price of goods will be very expensive, especially manufactured goods.cos their are much demand than supply... If u know ur economics u know what I meant.
Reasons why Nigeria shouldn't be part of the trade...most especially with d bad leaders we have in this country...