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CrimeRe: Rape Isn't Always Criminal by Uche2nna(m): 9:42pm On Sep 01, 2008
seeu:
@Onyi,

It's not easy to prove rape case. Do you think you can prove it that a single man overpowered you, held your legs open, covered your mouth from shouting, held your two hangs before he was unaable to rape you. It's really difficult to prove. The court will assume that the girl enjoy the act.
I dont think thats true undecided For some reason, I think it is more easier to convince the court that it was rape than to convince them that it was not undecided
CrimeRe: Rape Isn't Always Criminal by Uche2nna(m): 9:41pm On Sep 01, 2008
onyinye2:
Might as well buy a striped jump suit and hand cuffs when you are done.
ROTLMAO  borrowing a line from kobojunkie
CrimeRe: Rape Isn't Always Criminal by Uche2nna(m): 9:38pm On Sep 01, 2008
Ruby_Pearl:
I just understand women of nowadays.
How can you be stupid enough to let a man get in if you didn't want it, then say no on the last min?

I'll slap that girl silly
cheesy

proo212:
She called later and apologised but it already happened. I like my clean record,
Thats a wise decision
CrimeRe: Rape Isn't Always Criminal by Uche2nna(m): 9:28pm On Sep 01, 2008
davidylan:
some girls are so naive they don't know how to tell a guy to stop until the deed is about to be done then they start crying about being virgins. Onyi's case is different, if she's been dating the guy for quite a while now, saying no becomes useless . . . the guy will do what he wants to do regardless of how loudly she cries and she dare not cry rape.
lol you certainly know a lot. Once a guy is inside, even an earthquake cannot stop him, climaxing or not.

hehe it sometimes happens. . . it doesnt make it right all the same.
Actually, if Onyi filed a charge the court would be more sympathetic to her than to the guy. Some guys have actually gone to jail for that kind of shit.


@ Onyi
This is becoming very unbecoming cheesy Why do U always pick out insults from ma post? This is the fifth time in two days that U have implied that I insulted U shocked shocked
RomanceRe: Why Do Some Naija Women Think Being A Single Mom Is Ok? by Uche2nna(m): 9:22pm On Sep 01, 2008
Riskie:
She is in no way a victim. She wasn't forced into getting pregnant tongue
I guess U are rite.  However, if her plan had gone well she would be[b] Mrs somebody [/b] before giving birth.

Anyways, it is all a matter of choice. Majority of the naija women I know would always take a 2 parent family any day. Only a rare few would prefer to be single and until U know what circumstances that led to thier taking dat kind of decision U cant really pass a verdict on that.
CrimeRe: Rape Isn't Always Criminal by Uche2nna(m): 9:16pm On Sep 01, 2008
davidylan:
the "i can't control myself" line is what men use when they want to pressure a[b] naive [/b] girl into letting them have what they want.  wink No guy can deny never having used it successfully.  grin

if you can control yourself when she is on her period then you have no excuse.

BtW, there are some things called condoms you know.
She shed the naive toga when she went to bed with the man and allowed for some heavy petting.

Of course when push comes to shove, You can always hold back. Thats not the issue here as far as I am concerned. The issue here is letting young onyi know not to allow herself get into such uncompromising positions and think that the guy would just automatically turn off because Princess Onyi snapped her fingers. Thats the stuff rape is made off. Yes, it is still rape but why invite it in the first place.
CrimeRe: Rape Isn't Always Criminal by Uche2nna(m): 8:50pm On Sep 01, 2008
onyinye2:
When i meant my "going outside" I meant the dude should go for a walk or something because he access has be denied.
Or maybe take a cold bath  grin

I thot that Onyi was like 15. Now I am even begining to doubt that.
CrimeRe: Rape Isn't Always Criminal by Uche2nna(m): 8:46pm On Sep 01, 2008
Laffing ma head off

Sisikill:
You know this won’t be a problem if everyone took my advice and conducted there relationship like a business transaction.



2nd phase (Listening to each other’s offer and counteroffers this is where the woman can ask for a thorough perusal of the man’s abunga.)
grin grin grin   The man should also be allowed some inspection. Bra assisted boobs and , lipsrsealed

Queenisha:
She'll get it someday.
In her twenties
We hope
RomanceRe: Would You Date Or Marry A Nigerian Girl If She Smokes And Drinks? by Uche2nna(m): 8:32pm On Sep 01, 2008
HR.hotness:
Hypocritical judgmental pricks can go F*CK urselves!
lol

No need to throw that in. From the posts here , noone is being judgemental. You smoking and drinking does not make You any better/worse than You already are. I don't smoke not because I find it immoral but because I just can't stand the smell of tobacco. So it is not a case of judgement but a case of likes and dislikes.
CrimeRe: Rape Isn't Always Criminal by Uche2nna(m): 8:27pm On Sep 01, 2008
Queenisha:
Let her grit her teeth and count sheep or goats
grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Nigerian Men And Flowers by Uche2nna(m): 8:24pm On Sep 01, 2008
Ruby_Pearl:
It already did sad tongue
LOL

Serves You rite!!!!! Have You thot about lowering the asking price?    cheesy Maybe from a Lexus to a Honda motorcycle grin
RomanceRe: Nigerian Men And Flowers by Uche2nna(m): 8:17pm On Sep 01, 2008
U and ur expensive taste grin

I tell U say ur throat go land U into trouble one day grin
RomanceRe: Would You Date Or Marry A Nigerian Girl If She Smokes And Drinks? by Uche2nna(m): 8:16pm On Sep 01, 2008
squid:
whats the big deal about drinking and smoking,just becaues you don't it doesn,t mean you should criticise.grow up haters.somethings we do today is bad for our health not just smoking and drinking.if any man dumps a nice giry because she drinks and smokes he has a long way to go .it really socks.
I wont dump U if U smoke cos I wont be dating U in the first place if u did. It is not hating. Its called preference. Dont wanna have the after taste of tobacco in my mouth after a round of kissing.
RomanceRe: Why Do Some Naija Women Think Being A Single Mom Is Ok? by Uche2nna(m): 8:12pm On Sep 01, 2008
Riskie:
That's exactly my point. they shouldn't have gotten pregnant in the first place.

By trapping the guy, I mean women try using children to trap a man into marriage and as a result of the man's reluctance, they end up being single parents.
Well, then the woman is not content with it (as your posts suggest). It just means that she was a victim of circumstance. In this case a reluctant baby daddy  grin
RomanceRe: What Is 'Romantic' To You? by Uche2nna(m): 7:59pm On Sep 01, 2008
Wats up with David and boobs these dayz?? undecided

First it is tope , now Onyi
RomanceRe: Why Do Some Naija Women Think Being A Single Mom Is Ok? by Uche2nna(m): 7:57pm On Sep 01, 2008
Riskie:
. I'm talking about those that are single mothers because they were with a random guy/boyfriend and had a baby by "mistake"
Maybe I am no longer in touch with the naija culture (doubt it) but the last time I checked (and that was not very long ago  grin) under normal cirumstances most naija women would expect marriage immediately they find out U have put them in the family way.  The resistance usually comes from the guy.


Riskie:
those who use children as a way to trap a guy.
Now I think I am losing ur line of thots. Trap the guy into whathuh Marriage or a single parent relationship?? undecided
RomanceRe: Why Do Some Naija Women Think Being A Single Mom Is Ok? by Uche2nna(m): 7:42pm On Sep 01, 2008
Any woman that opts to go the single way rather than stay in an abusive marriage/relationship gets my whole hearted support. It is not the most ideal situation to raise kids but it sure beats some of the wrecks that we call marriages these dayz.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Why Do Most Nigerians Girls Dance With Thier Mouths Open? by Uche2nna(m): 7:38pm On Sep 01, 2008
cheesy
RomanceRe: What Is 'Romantic' To You? by Uche2nna(m): 7:37pm On Sep 01, 2008
agaba123:
The bolded part of your statement says answered my question. You father has a big ego as men are born with your mother understands that as a woman should understand.
But you as a woman wants to be a man. Watch out
lol

You guys should take it eazy on Onyi. She would grow to know better. grin
RomanceRe: I've Had Enough Of Men! by Uche2nna(m): 1:54am On Sep 01, 2008
Leilah:
men are cheaters if given the chance. i love mu husband and for the moment he doesnt cheat on me. however. have seen waaayyy to many naija men cheat on their (even naija) wives. they take the biscuit its as simple as that. try a white man he may respect you more. jezebels they will never stop.
Now that got me laffing!!!

Leilah is back with her "kill all nigerian men" chant  cheesy
RomanceRe: Would You Date Or Marry A Nigerian Girl If She Smokes And Drinks? by Uche2nna(m): 1:47am On Sep 01, 2008
Mehhnn, I hate wat people refer to as a smoker's breath. That alone turns me off in a gal angry
RomanceRe: What Is 'Romantic' To You? by Uche2nna(m): 1:37am On Sep 01, 2008
U rock, gal!!!! Agaba did a GOOD job!!
RomanceRe: What Is 'Romantic' To You? by Uche2nna(m): 1:31am On Sep 01, 2008
Ruby_Pearl:
Mba.

Hapu onyinye aka!!
shocked shocked shocked shocked

I baptise You Chioma!!!!!!
RomanceRe: What Is 'Romantic' To You? by Uche2nna(m): 1:17am On Sep 01, 2008
agaba123:
yea sweetie I was also talking about your nairaland character. I know what we have here are clones
After altering my post you are kissing me. Abeg i no want. na Ruby I de kiss

Ruby take that kiss kiss
Blocks that angry Throws it Onyi's way grin
RomanceRe: What Is 'Romantic' To You? by Uche2nna(m): 1:16am On Sep 01, 2008
davidylan:
Bros, boobs will sag, mouths can say hurtful things but a heart is forever golden.  wink The choice is clear.
A heart can also be unforgiving.


@ Ruby

Wetin U wan make I do naw. NL is full of comic relief. Free of charge oooo  cheesy
RomanceRe: What Is 'Romantic' To You? by Uche2nna(m): 1:02am On Sep 01, 2008
davidylan:
Get married to a phone you mean?

sharrap dia. Do you know who wrote that Psalm 23 you are quoting? Me of course. i'm a sheep, the Lord is my shepherd and he causes me to lie down beside . . . fill in the gaps. Chikena. now go and find Tope, i dash you.
LOL


agaba123:
See Igbo men struggling over money. Na wa you oo . . .  Uche and Okija priest grin
You know what they said about a tiger and its stripes  grin


davidylan:
its alright, she's very stubborn too but i can win her heart.  smiley
Wateva happened to tope? Oh, my bad!!! That one na her boob You win and You want to win stillwater's heart. Onyi, get set. He would be tabling a bid for your mouth soon.

David and the female anatomy lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: What Is 'Romantic' To You? by Uche2nna(m): 12:48am On Sep 01, 2008
Okija_juju:
Lai lai O!! In charge of what??
He is only planning the wedding. The catering will be handled by Ruby Pearl
The money will be EFCC. We need accountability and transparency.


Please will you marry me?? shocked shocked shocked
Like right now.
OMG!! shocked
Are you from this planet?? or are you an alien??

Uchenna convince her to marry me and you will be in charge of the money at both the court, traditional and white wedding.
Wat r u saying? That I am not accountable and transparent, abi?  angry   Oh, boy accountability and transparency are my middle names.
RomanceRe: What Is 'Romantic' To You? by Uche2nna(m): 12:46am On Sep 01, 2008
davidylan:
maybe u're talking of your brother's wedding, i havent been into a court in all my life. grin

u're in charge of the money, drinks, food, cake . . . gifts sef, [b]just get me stillwater.[/b]

the irony of it all is that she actually thinks she wields any sort of influence. cheesy
My job starts and ends in changing the name  on the invitation cards from Onyi to Still water. The rest is left up to U, abeg.
RomanceRe: What Is 'Romantic' To You? by Uche2nna(m): 12:33am On Sep 01, 2008
davidylan:
change the bride's name to stillwater then we can talk of a wedding.
As long as I am made to be in charge of the money on that day, ur wish is as good as done  grin
RomanceRe: What Is 'Romantic' To You? by Uche2nna(m): 12:32am On Sep 01, 2008
Okija_juju:
Obviously the better arguement here dosent seem to go down with you here, despite the fact  that majority agree that your opinion is hollywood.

E.F.C.C will be in charge of that aspect.
angry
RomanceRe: What Is 'Romantic' To You? by Uche2nna(m): 12:19am On Sep 01, 2008
onyinye2:
Rather have my lips sewn shut with a needle.
Sharrap!!! grin I am trying to plan a wedding here angry

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