Abiboss:
Hi NairaLanders,
Please don't mind my English

I need your honest opinion I've been a little bit busy with work loads this days and my sister has been washing all my clothes for me excluding my boxers because. I couldn't wash them due to my tight schedule, so I now by new boxers often and throw the used dirty one away cus I do get really tired when I get back home from work, so I honestly want to ask you all if I can include my boxers when am giving my sister clothes to wash

Cc: lalasticlala

elifeonline:


To live a happy old age,
* Build your own house where you will live in your old age
* Build businesses, preferably properties, that will feed you in your old age
* Create conveniences, start learning things that will engage you in your old age
* Build friendship and goodwill that will serve you in your old age
* Right now, start to be relevant in your Church, community so you could be reckoned with in your old age

Old age could be lonely. An old age without money in your pocket is a slow, agonising death sentence!

Be warned. Take action NOW...!

LordKO:

It's actually not true that all husbands who have been neglected at old age by their wives and offspring are bad, that is an indirect way of proclaiming all women good.

Most husbands who have been neglected at old age are actually servile men who are victims of crass, expedient and disingenuous wives - timidity/lack of willpower/low self-esteem is the greatest undoing of servile men, and women, not their evil deeds. Men who have been neglected at old age because of their evil deeds are in the minority.

chlowi:

truth is NOBODY forgets cheating. You may choose to overlook but that is entirely up to the other party.

playerinc:


Yes

Vyolet:
Men take cheating wives back, e get reason.

Norano:
In reality lots of men take back cheating wives, I have seen it happen lots of time. On the internet they will send a cheating wife packing immediately.
So...

walexyll:

I thought we are in the era of gender equality ��
There are dozens of stay-at-home mom trying to get a job for over 5 years without any "show". The husband will support and even deny himself of good things just to please the wife...we no go hear anything ooo...Now when the table turns, we no go hear word again...
Ladies should know what they really want

Vyolet:
You are giving a man pocket money?
Lol, what a good time to be here live

Authoreety:
Please my fellow guys, make we try huzzle make our wife's no look down on us o...

thorpido:
As the sleep progresses,the couple will naturally separate but there are women who start their process of sleeping that way.
There's nothing wrong with it, people are just different.
It's about finding someone who meets your needs.

@Op, there's nothing wrong with her needs,just that she's being too dramatic about it.
I can't sleep with a body touching me too but you need to give some minutes to hold or face front before you drift away to sleep.
You say you are both just friends with benefits though.

MrBrownJay1:


some people seem to believe that yes...



its just impossible... but sadly, many people out there think that this is what a man should do (aka hold him babe til morning light)... then wake up and run to hospital to have his hand amputated because blood flow don comot from there, since the previous evening. lol

only possible in movies.

MrBrownJay1:


there is nothing wrong with a woman/man who is romantic or phlegmatic, but the minute anyone expect to control the way a person sleeps, is the moment we all have to agree that this person is not in their right mental state.

nobody, and i repeat, NOBODY can control the way they sleep... and as much as we all go to bed sleeping in a romantic manner (in each others hands), during the night we all go through "uncontrollable" sleeping stages. some talk in their sleep, other snore, many twist and turn countless of time, some grind their teeth and some even sleep walk. expecting a man to ALWAYS be romantically inclined/orientated towards what a woman desires, is not only comical, but also truly deluded.

imagine what this woman is saying?! "even when you sleep, i want to be the focus/priority of your life"

saying that a man is insensitive because he cannot control the way he sleeps, makes you.......

bukatyne:


Sassysure knows what is right.

bukatyne:


@bold:

FBI Sassy

sassysure:

I swear, tears full my eyes.

Where is c rackhaus?

His own outburst will be x2 of l ordko


I am suspecting he is unnerve.

Hathor5:


My thoughts exactly. And it's been only two years.

cococandy:
I agree on the money part. If I were to choose too, I think money is more important. For me money would definitely come first.

Between the option of leaving or seeking extracurricular sexual satisfaction, if I were the disabled person, I’ll probably choose the latter. Saying ‘might’ because I can’t know this for sure.

But I feel I’d rather not lay in my own excrement for days and days because my caregiver left me while I’m waiting for someone in my family who previously didn’t care to start caring. That’s very risky.

if I were bedridden without any possible way of meeting his needs permanently and my husband stays by my side to nurse & provide for me. Yes, I’d forgive him some extramarital dalliances. It might hurt and would be hard to come to terms with.

However this is not to say that I don’t recognize it can come with complications. Might even end up making the person leave once they start falling for the side piece.
That’s why it’s not easy advice to give.

miniziter:

Both.

cococandy:
both ?

Maybe if she has one, she will feel less frustrated with the other.

miniziter:
Its already 2 years and the husband can't go to work not to talk of bringing money. He can't perform on bed and she has been the one doing the cleaning of all his mess. The most annoying thing is that the family members of the husband despite being okay financially failed to help the family. Now she planning to either stay with the man and have a cumcubine outside or leave the man outrightly. Which do you advise?
NB: They just gave to a child and she's still young. On the way, if she leaves the man, he may not see someone that will take care of him like she used to do.

Miarose:
From the responses here, we can identify those whom their parents gave so much. No Nigerian child raised in poverty thinks like these ones here, rather they can't wait to help their parents. But when u stress yourself to give the children so much, they think you want to control them.
Hope parents of today are learning. Strike a balance.. meet their needs not their wants so you don't raise entitled kids.

Mariangeles:

Does that justify the sense of ownership though?

You know, I've always admired how western parents teach their children how to be independent at a very early age. I really wish African parents can have that much confidence in their children.
Most times, African parents continue to make unnecessary sacrifices, providing for their grown children when they shouldn't have to.
Do you know that some, if not most African parents would rather their children be dependent on them so that they can control them, than have them being independent and making their own decisions?

Ekwutox:
This looks so unreal. How did that child survive for four months in it's dead mother's womb?