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Religion / Re: 'It Is About Microchips' – Chris Oyakhilome On Black Lives Matter Protests by Unnerve: 11:42am On Jun 28, 2020 |
This man is making it so hard for me to continue admiring him. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Once In A While, Do Something Crazy! by Unnerve: 10:32am On Jun 28, 2020 |
binarymachine:Choice of words matter. You made a solid point, but using the word stupid will only make people assume a defensive posture by relating stupidity with idiocy or sycophancy. I understand where you're coming from though, better words to use are spontaneous, uninhibited, spur-of-the-moment, etc 5 Likes |
Family / Re: I by Unnerve: 7:55pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
I love this. Social media has really muddied the waters of true friendships. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Five (5) Things Ladies Must Know Before Marriage by Unnerve: 7:37pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
PrimadonnaO:I need to read you deny you have never fallen for that and touched it |
Family / Re: Mum, 32, Didn't Know She Was Pregnant Until She Gave Birth On The Toilet (Pics) by Unnerve: 10:16pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:I should ask you this, because I don't do it |
Family / Re: Mum, 32, Didn't Know She Was Pregnant Until She Gave Birth On The Toilet (Pics) by Unnerve: 6:35pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:You need not prove any point to someone you don't know |
Family / Re: Mum, 32, Didn't Know She Was Pregnant Until She Gave Birth On The Toilet (Pics) by Unnerve: 4:39pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Lol, move on please |
Family / Re: Nigerian Women And Abortion by Unnerve: 8:15pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Graxie:Lol |
Family / Re: Nigerian Women And Abortion by Unnerve: 9:03pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Omoluabi16:The man's responsibility for his child always ends at child support, this is even in Nordic countries where they have the overall best family support systems in place. Bless the heart of that woman who got pregnant for a man who simply can't be bothered enough to be present in his child's life, she will finally understand how children are not raised solely on child support checks. The time, the physical resources, the mental exertion, they all remain hers alone. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Nigerian Women And Abortion by Unnerve: 5:10pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Hathor5:Have a drink, eat some veggies, perhaps have some orgasmic sex, then sleep in cool temperature. Immediately you wake up, do nothing else but read only your comments on the thread. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Nigerian Women And Abortion by Unnerve: 4:40pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Hathor5:It's aii, we cool |
Family / Re: Nigerian Women And Abortion by Unnerve: 4:36pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
bukatyne:Lol, there's something about you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: Nigerian Women And Abortion by Unnerve: 4:28pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Hathor5:Oh dear, see I perfectly understand how the use of certain words and phrases like 'she will suffer greater consequences' can rub people the wrong way. Believe me, I do. But it doesn't negate the truth. We could all decide to be politically correct and just say 'both father and mother have equal consequences' but this would be a lie. Even in societies where child support is mandatory, the woman is still the one with the greatest consequence after getting pregnant. Her life is slowed down during her pregnancy, her body changes, her work was affected, etc. After birthing, she's the one looking after the child. She's the one taking him to school, doing his homework, taking him to the doctor's appointment, she can't even hang out with her girls as often as she would want, she can't party as much, her work life is altered because she's a single mother. Now guess what? Baby daddy whose only job is to send in checks is busy partying with his boys, probably still meeting and having sex with other women and living the life of a single man. Sending child support did not altered his lifestyle in any way so while you may assume he did not go scot free, the realistic fact is that he actually has because no law on earth can force him to be present in that child's life. And this basically sums up the idea behind the thread. I have typed too much 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: Nigerian Women And Abortion by Unnerve: 4:10pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
pmoye:Thanks for this. Bold text especially. |
Family / Re: Nigerian Women And Abortion by Unnerve: 3:53pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
cococandy:This is good to know, I honestly didn't. |
Family / Re: Nigerian Women And Abortion by Unnerve: 3:51pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Hathor5:Well my first quote to you was simply to let you know that when it comes to men having sex indiscriminately without thinking of consequences, it's not a Nigerian thing. I also never expected you to discuss the sex lives of your family members here, I only stated that to get a better understanding of what I meant, you could ask. The information you get from asking would have been yours alone. Perhaps you should try not getting so unnerved (pun intended) at anyone who isn't in complete agreement with you. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Nigerian Women And Abortion by Unnerve: 3:31pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
cococandy:I'm not following you. Is abortion legal for married women but illegal for unmarried women in Nigeria? 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Woman That Always Demand Sex From The Husband Is Killing Him Slowly by Unnerve: 3:27pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
coputa:Is there medical science to back it up? This is all I intend to know 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Nigerian Women And Abortion by Unnerve: 3:26pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Hathor5:You could confirm starting with your husband or boyfriend, then brothers and cousins. Close friends whom you can have that type of conversation with as well. Depending on where you live, mix it up by including men from other races 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Nigerian Women And Abortion by Unnerve: 3:22pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:My apologies then, I thought I was asking a married woman. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Nigerian Women And Abortion by Unnerve: 3:19pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Hathor5:But is it perculiar with Nigeria? It's quite the same mentality with men in most places. If a woman does not insist on protection, most men regardless of race are okay with having regular unprotected sex. The difference in societies only comes to play when laws are enforced which force men to be financially responsible for their children. This still did not stop the number of baby mums from increasing each year. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Nigerian Women And Abortion by Unnerve: 3:05pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Hmmm, how do married people avoid unwanted pregnancies while having regular sex? |
Family / Re: A Woman That Always Demand Sex From The Husband Is Killing Him Slowly by Unnerve: 3:03pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Everything in moderation, this still does not mean that everytime a man ejaculates, his life shortens. Is there medical science to back this up? 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Unnerve: 7:38pm On Jun 16, 2020 |
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Family / Re: Has Your Mom Ever Used Any Of These On You? by Unnerve: 7:23pm On Jun 16, 2020 |
Lol, looking at those photos with the descriptions and labels attached gave me joy. 3 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Body Cam Footage Of Rayshard Brooks' Death, Resistance Struggle Of Stolen Taser by Unnerve: 8:49am On Jun 15, 2020 |
Honestly, I don't believe that the cop who shot Rayshard will be charged. There are extenuating circumstances which his defense can use to justify the shooting, top of which is that the man was attempting to flee after disarming a police officer of his taser. Even attempted to shoot the taser at a police officer. 3 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Violent Protest In The US As Another Black Man Killed By Police In Atlanta by Unnerve: 8:42am On Jun 15, 2020 |
Awoist:I don't mean to seem insensitive, but he shouldn't have run, shouldn't have disarmed an officer of his taser, and to top it off, he shouldn't have tried to shoot an officer with a taser. As much as we all want to see racism, this is simply not a George Floyd incident. 1 Like |
Family / Re: The Perfect Man: The Day My Dad Couldn't Kill A Snake For Me. by Unnerve: 11:14am On Jun 13, 2020 |
angelEmade:Lol, no need for the long story, I'm quite okay with the short story where your dad had you when he was 72. He's a legend 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Sincere Advice Please by Unnerve: 11:10am On Jun 13, 2020 |
This feels like a story created from the mind of someone with group sexual fantasies But if it's to be believed, then I don't see any criminal case to be reported here. The girl accepted the condition because the guy did promise to still marry her after the deed.That is what we call consent. As for sending him on compulsory leave, I don't think any company laws were broken. They were doing it at the staff private quarters right? But wait a minute, why is there CCTV installed in staff private residence 6 Likes |
Family / Re: Where Do I Pay The Bride Price, I Really Need Advice. by Unnerve: 10:00am On Jun 13, 2020 |
Please respect traditions, that's all I can contribute here. I find it extremely sad when some Africans spit on their core traditions just to appear more civilized. If only they knew how much a good number of the westerners they desire to act like admire the sophistication of some of our cultural practices. 6 Likes |
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