ThatEnuguboi: You're 100% right bro. Just like the lady I would have married lived her life on Facebook and Instagram and it had very bad influence on her. She only goes to read negative family news that one day she read about a man that used the money from the family joint account to build house for his parents without the wife's notice. When I came back from work that's how she flooded me with the fact that she can't keep joint account oo, for something that happened on Facebook oo, I told her life is not like that she promised to change but couldn't, I dumped her, till now I still see her on different bitter Facebook groups. Lol
People don't change, and not even in marriage which provides them with more enclosures will they change. No this and know peace
ThatEnuguboi: You're 100% right bro. Just like the lady I would have married lived her life on Facebook and Instagram and it had very bad influence on her. She only goes to read negative family news that one day she read about a man that used the money from the family joint account to build house for his parents without the wife's notice. When I came back from work that's how she flooded me with the fact that she can't keep joint account oo, for something that happened on Facebook oo, I told her life is not like that she promised to change but couldn't, I dumped her, till now I still see her on different bitter Facebook groups. Lol
People don't change, and not even in marriage which provides them with more enclosures will they change. No this and know peace
ThePlainTruth: If you leave a job because of lack of promotion you felt you deserved due to your achievements and then few years down the line the same company sets up an interview for you to come and work as contractor and you will be working with the person they gave the promotion to instead of you which made you to leave the company in the first place.
Would you attend such an interview?
If you have them covered and they need you to pull a duty with someone you should be supervising, then make them pay for it or lose the contract. Push them to the full limit by ignoring the interview and if they still reach out to you...clip them!!
kingofchess: I Am Planning To Marry A Lady And This Happened. Pls Help
I am in my early 30 and I have been dating this lady for a year now and we are planning to settle down together and this happened.
There is this 11 months old baby in my compound who is very close to me and she just started walking. The very first time she saw my girl, she was soo scared and started crawling very fast towards her mum and crying. I quickly ran after her and carried her back to where my girl was sitting down, this time, the crying and running became very intense, I was shocked and I asked why the baby was so scared of her and she said she doesn't know.
Two days later, she came to my place and immediately this baby saw her she was scared and crying that was when I jokily asked her if she is a witch and she got angry and left my house. After she left, a lot of questions started running through my mind: like, is she a witch? Does she has a marine spirit? What did that little girl saw in her? In fact a lot of questions. She later called that same night and was like; baby, I am not possess ooh, I should not allow this little baby come between us ooh and that she loves me very much.
To cut the story short, less than two weeks later, the baby DIED. I was so scared if the baby actually saw something in her and she decided to shut the baby up ( I don't know, just an assumption).
Ever since then, I have been scared of my girl and I really don't know what to do. Please, I need your candid advice. Please guys, how can i make the moderators move this post to front page.
She's a witch and that baby died for you. Don't betray the babys sacrifice to save you.
I have been sending chat msgs to a gal as in "hey "xup" since 2019 she never replied me till the day i sent 232252536421162, to her after 2mins she said "xup handsome pls which network mtn or airtel and i said it's a NOKIA torch light serial number and she block me immediately
doxijaw: The most radical piece have read on nairaland in years.
Notice the lack of comments , meaning this is not interesting.
The African is "anti intellectual", only interested in entertainment/quick gains
Yeah a lack of comment means most are bamboozled by the reality of truth.. Religion is our biggest killer in Africa. Ban public foreign religion,introduce dieties and watch Africa grow in leaps and bounds. Jesus coming soon my fukcing foot!!
MartinsD12: Total nonsense, you have a boyfriend what were you expecting for him to be watching you like cinema, the truth is bitter but must be said if you have a boyfriend you know what it means, am sure he is spending on you, boyfriend is sexxxxx, nothing but sexxxxxxxx that's the meaning of boyfriend and girlfriend so deal with it.
Threads like these are very capable of destroying the minds of potential men who are about to get married...but op,I do understand from your own point of view..But that doesn't and wouldn't change the fact that marriage isn't only a beautiful thing but being married to the right person is the most beautiful thing that can ever happen to any man....
thorpido: These guys will need to keep bending their necks or backs.They will frequently have neck or back aches. I pity them.
Both!! I can relate to all those painful but funny pictures and I remember my head bashing against door posts, vehicle seat , finding long arm shirts to buy. Painful but real.
[quote author= post=98694520]Anambra cargo and passenger airport fully started November 2019 see how far work has gone, they are working 247 to deliver the project this year, the runway is 3.7km one of the longest in the country, view the video
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hdNdmTuLXvg[/quote]Brother i have been noticing your investment posts geared towards development and I am highly impressed. I am from Obosi and I am a willing baby investor with great developmental and state management ideas. Thanks for your efforts.
generationz: Yes, Bill Gates is an unhappily married man. Marriage made him poorer. In fact, Melindas work in the foundation is thrash.
I'm sure you are richer than Elon musk who said he can never be happy being single and without someone by his side when he sleeps. Dangote no get sense but he get pass your dad abi? All those you mentioned are white intelligent women not Naija cheap women.
Just admit it that YOUR marriage didn't work. Take the blame in areas you have to but don't discourage others.
There are many men who became more focused knowing they had a family back home and a wife counting on them. Tom Bilyeu who is worth $400 million is a perfect example and he says it all the time. He always said what made him keep pushing was his wife looking at him and saying "I'm counting on you."
How can you use Dangote of all people as an example? Does he have sense? Same Dangote who has been frolicking with trashy Ameirican runs girls disgracing him. Same Dangore we saw his ass this year.
PRETTYPRINCES: This world of humans is really crazy. Some men will discover they are not the biological father of their child or children in wedlock while these same men's biological children could actually be the ones they have out of wedlock, such children who show up on their funeral after hiding all this while.
My point is, alot of men have children scattered all over the earth. Children they keep as secret from their wives.
As the man and the DOM in the relationship u must maintain constant frame. U mustn't allow her frame to dominate urs. Marriage is a power game and needs wisdom to play the game.
As a man don't think about entering any serious relationship with a lady till u are in ur 30s. Get married in ur mid 30s. Spin plates b4 then and enjoy life while building ur dreams and goals
very correct brother!! You nailed it! But remember not everyone can play that power game and in so doing love leaves the heart(emotion) and goes straight to the head(logic) and this is the beginning of the end.
DoubleEngine007: Just leave her to be exhibiting her stupidity or have you forgotten that she is one of them? You should also learn not to argue with ladies. Most of them are very confused,so there is no point arguing with a confused bitch. Meanwhile you made a valid point @ your topic..
Thanks brother,I saw hell and I'm never going back.
How please? Staying in an unhappy relationship? Being ruled by the emotions of a less intelligent female? Conform to the status quo of husband,wife, children.. happy ever after? Babe I don hear you. Bye
PRETTYPRINCES: Nope. Am just telling you guys to man up. Most of you are too weak that's why you men end up either dead, ruined, or behind bars that's the reality. YOU MOSTLY ARE WEAKLINGS,..............WEAK
you seem to have no meaningful contribution to make other than call men weaklings which is the single biggest problem with most Nigerian women...no brain!! Please make a point!
Nairaland General › Re: Help !! Victorian Is Dead ! Who Knows Her Family ? Her Neighbours Are Asking ! by Vaiki(m): 2:23pm On Feb 28, 2021
