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Trayceey:
Fellow nairalanders,

I have a pressing issue on ground and I need your contribution. My boyfriend has been working for about 5 years now. We've been dating for a while now and he has been so nice and caring. The best ever.

In my past experience in relationships, I have been quite generous but the guys turned out to be ingrates so I vowed never to give any boy my penny again.

When I met my man, he melted my hardened heart with the love he showered on me. On one occasion, I have borrowed him money and he paid me back. Now he's asking me to borrow him another money. Because of this lockdown, he has gone so broke and he opened up to me. Initially, I did not believe him but when I noticed he has run out of food stuffs and the provisions he normally stock his house with, I believed him. I have more than enough money. The money he's asking for is like chicken change to me. But I don't want him to get used to borrowing from me and I have vowed never to give a guy my money again except if he's my husband.

Please I need advice. Fellow ladies like me, what do you think? Should I borrow him?

If I were in your shoes , I won't even borrow him. I will dash him.
Personally I don't borrow to friends how much more to someone I love and I'm dating . Although my exes in the past misuse such kindness thinking I'm maga.
But with the man I'm with today, I can give him the world if he wants it .

Cos he's an angel in human form and given me dash amounts up to 9 digits .Not borrow o but dash !

Why wont I give him too if he's in need ?
In fact he deserves everything I own . That's just me.

So please dash him not borrow .

HammedOlanaija:
Hally berry and screen Goddess Beyonce with adesua......tell me how this kind of woman's husband will not cheat on her when he ask for it but got rejected.
These might be the case for your role models too....their wife might think it's only an inexperienced man that will seek for sex all the time.

Hammed why are u so pained about real men are not complaining about women with big tummy ?
At least u can't marry all the women in the country or even bed every woman in every local govt, states and villages with towns from the east, west, south and north .
You've not been able to even keep one gf just one ! to stick with you through thick and thin.

You are there wailing all over Nairaland about ladies with tummy.

Is it your tummy ?
Are all the women in Nigeria dating you or married to you ?

With your crazy imagination, u assume to lift my leg for sex a man will fall?
Did I tell u im free for all to sex with ?

Are we mates for gods sakes?

Or is my man complaining to you about my thick body ?
So why take it personal?

Please if u have crazy imaginations of sexing every woman in Nigeria . Just keep such thoughts to yourself and stop disgracing yourself online .let's be guided.
You are not in my social class in the society and all over Nigeria .

So just keep shut and stop ranting like a deranged ekuke.

Eulalia:
You're just a troll.

Mind you, women after child bearing age naturally retain their flat tommy. Talking about your mom, how old are you? Your mom should be very old and past menopause so water has dried in most part of her body hence the flat tommy and it won't look fresh and firm anymore.
Chill abeg and don't even bring the old woman it this.
Small pikin dey worry you big time.

Men with tiny P are the ones who will not allow ladies to hear word. Maybe you too should go and stretch your P too.

Lol

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xynerise:
. May God help us all

Amen o!

xynerise:
Hally Berry was cheated on despite she was the sexiest actress.

A lot of nice curvy ladies have been cheated on. So what the fuvk is your point?

Don't mind them.
Even the screen goddess Beyonce was cheated on by her former bf and now husband several times upon her hips and flat structured tummy.

While my married female friend with drum like tummy her husband has never cheated on her publicly like Beyonce own


Even adesua etomi the angelic and drop dead georgeus wife was also cheated on badly by her romantic hobby banky w.
Her yanga and hubby ever loving praises online has been cut off abruptly, cos we now know he's lying about loving her to the end of the earth .
But she has to swallow the shame and avoid social media henceforth.
Men ehn? Una matter taya even God himself . But not u xynerise

I think in my own opinion bad women go all out , do almost the impossible to get a good guy to marry them . Which inturn wow the guy in question and will start nursing thoughts of wifeing her .

But good ladies they feel they are good, calm , well behaved , beautiful , so any man who woo them should be very grateful he's dating them . Most times they are not submissive , that's the truth .
What do I mean by being submissive?
The good girl expects her man to change to her own church, knowing fully well hes a usher in his own church. The good girl wants her man to.relocate from where he's based and have good juicy businesses deals running for him to her location where only government jobs exist. Which most successful men will frown at.
I can go on and on about grave mistakes good women make to good men and end up driving such man away to the arms of a bad girl who knows two secrets about men .
As in all men, be it good or bad men.

And the bottom line about a man is this :
Be a w.h.o.r.e in bedroom . Be sexy and blow his brains out ! He will reciprocate same with u. If hes not the selfish lover.

Be respectful to him and anyone he introduce u to .

Be submissive and ready to go all out for him and move heaven and earth to stay in any location he's based . Don't argue blindly .

Then lastly believe in his dreams, in his plans for himself and plans he has for the new family he's thinking of building with u. Input yours as well while both of you talk about it and arrive to a reasonable conclusion.

Those are rhe 4 crucial points most women of these days lack to understand .

Nowadays successful guys don't marry bad women anymore. They are very very careful . Its the hustling or broke good guys that knowingly fall in the traps of bad women with their eyes wide open thinking they can change her .
But seriously u can't change an adult except God is involved.

Hope I have helped clarify the reasons why good hustling men not the rich ones o, go for bad women.

Akunwafor:
How much did your church give you as lockdown stimulus?

God bless you.

You will live long.

Lemme not just talk about my former church. Cause its now former to me!

dobrinswizzy:
Hello nairalanders

A married man is woeing my babe o
Saying all sweet things to her, promising her different things, although the man is quite wealthy, he said he want her to be his wife

Guys what should we do?

I pity your babe .if she's not smart? She will end up as a baby mama.
Do u think married men are ready to marry more wives ? In this era?
Una no know anything .

The married man threw the word " I want to marry you " and ' dont worry money is not a problem' because that's the only two languages women seems to understand perfectly well to hand over their pussies and souls.
He will end up impregnating her for u to marry .

Chai people are so naive ! And guys so greedy in using their babes to obtain from a supposedly rich married man. Thinking that's one way to blow in life .
Don't worry u will end up marrying her with double packages for your troubles .

Both of u no wise ! Chai!

Escodeb:
I'm glad you are practising what he taught you

I'm so happy my self .
His advice has opened great doors I never imagined I will walk in and be accepted as one.
I have genuine friends in high places I can count on. This lockdown opened my eyes that I'm truly loved between the low class and high class . I'm so grateful.
God knows I am.

Escodeb:
I think it because of the moral standard of those you have dated or have something with.


One thing I appreciate about the rich parents is they mostly teach their children the importance of being appreciative to whatever help rendered to them and whatever is given to them.

So true.

My dad made me believe to be successful, a man must make many sacrifices with his time and time is wealth .

Also if one appreciates the Lil things given . It paves way for greater things in the future.
And so far such phylosophy is working for me so well.
And lastly nobody is a f.o.o.l except they decide to place a blind eye to what u r doing ..

Asuito7:
You suppose to know how Nigerian social media is na. Before you know it they will drag this beautiful family into mud if he continues to post them.

Some people don't just like good things happening to others.

I know but she cant be dragged to the mud except she herself dances in the mud.
If Shes responsible and loyal to her family . Then she is safe .

Asuito7:
Nwanem una too fine.
Abeg hide them from social media.

Abeg free the guy . He's proud of his family that's why the show off.

At least once in a while . Its good.

Coldie:
How did u come to this conclusion

Don't worry u are a man , you won't understand no matter how lil I break it down .

Its pure envy .
Smhhhhh.

May God help us from envious people .

Immediately I notice any slight of envy , I cut off quickly. Can't kee me before my time biko.

Ebidosia:
Hahahahaha. Na my situation be that o. My wife own don tire me, na small pin I dey find o.

Smhhhhh. U can imagine!

Please stay focused on your wife! Leave lil opekes alone .

They know they can't touch Fadeyi and Mushin.

These areas have the deadliest of all rugged guys.

It will be total war of gun blazing between them and the goons in Fadeyi. Free for all blood bath . They are ready to kill and be killed on any threaths of life against them in their terrain

hamid6249:
What stupid rationale?this shows how wicked you are in real life ,so thier familiesshould be eating sand during the lock down and you expect them to come back licking your ass when the lockdown is over ,I'm sorry you are nothing less than those Lebanese that uses our brothers like slaves.what happens to advance salary,soft loans ,reduction in salary to accommodate partial loss of revenue , small stipend to at lease get good for their families ..oga you are a wicked or intending wicked boss

Sorry to say but someone like yourself will not even pay a dime assuming u have a company with staffs .

Its easy for workers to expect money at the end of the month ,even if the company is in debts and striving to stay afloat. You didn't work for one month .Company was in standstill for one month u still want Oga to cough out money and give you, instead of facing the government who does not give a fucvk whether we die of hunger or not .
Billions of naira and euros were given to the government to share to every citizen in Nigeria but shigbain! We no see
All they are giving us is stories


Oga, I pray God bless u to open a company in Nigeria , so u understand fully what entrepreneurs go through just to make sure people like u stop bad mouthing your boss .

Nigerians sef!

Ebidosia:
Why you dey fear to tell person make E comot for your house?

He is feeling guilty.
He Don sex her blue black , with all forms of wierd styles her pussy is now so wide and her boobs now flat after serious squeezing he can't deal anymore. Lol

One of my married male friends said he's tired fuxvkin his wife . He misses his side chick and hes drivin on his street looking for random babe to fuckv.
I said Guy! U need God in your life , wetin!

Ayoswit:
One of the demons that left d body of those the husband delivered got into her. Imagine selling her soul to d devil, what a shame

You are right.

People should check her former pic when she was married to the pastor . Her eyes were innocent , full of life to serve God and fulfil her duties beside her husband .

But look at the flyer . Check her eyes in the flyer. A strange spirit has taken over in its incubating stage .

Then now look at her eyes in the first Two pics . Several demonic spirits have taken over and built Skyscrapper in her .
She's lost her soul to more evil spirits

What a pity.

That's Nigerians for u.
If a lady is very fair , people label her as either a Spirit, an Ogbanje, or Mammy water .
Only few men have the courage to marry such women . Most men are wary of her beauty and the way her skin glitters in the sun .

No biggie, make dem dey fear . Las las she will end up married with kids to a wealthy man who loves his wife to glow everywhere at home.

[quote author=Rawhumper post=88360409][/quote]You are also right as well.
Every woman has different taste in men.

Most are drawn to quiet calm guys while some.like the chatty waffi kind of guy.

Mehn I love fresh fish die ! Especially cat fish .

U can get that huge fish shown on the fourth pix or so at a nice restaurant in Surulere for 5k! Correct huge fish pepper soup served with yams in a designed huge table pot.
They serve to customers in lovely big size pot, big Spoon to scoup each huge pieces of fish and yam in a dish. Cut into 7 huge pieces .

Mehn the first day I ate there , i was shocked. First time ever to eat a fish that huge .

Sighs I actually dreamt a wonderful dream when I got back home that night .

Fish dey! God bless Nigeria waters.

nuelyoyo:
Ok, thanks for sharing.

You are welcome.

What a pity . She married one of those demons who will heap so many imaginary lies on her and make her suicidal.
What a pity. She doesn't know the different kinds of men we have in this life.

Rest n peace lady .

Next life u will grow a crocidile skin towards some evil men.

BabbanBura:
Cool, it shall be fine las las!!

Its already fine .

I thank God .

God will always bless all the good men on Nairaland in Jesus name amen .

While the bad men? Will be paid back by their own coin in Jesus name Amen .

Its well

nuelyoyo:
Please share your experience, particularly how you got treated.

The only thing I will say is with early detection of these symptoms dizziness , cough, please immediately take right dosage of choloroquine for some days and u will feel brand new. Don't wait and ignore your body symptoms . Dont be negligent of your body system . Oresle the virus will eat deep into your system.

Take the right dose of choloroquine and u are good to go . Thats for nigerians . I don't know about whites .

BabbanBura:
Babe kilonshele?

Not all jare

I rephrase .

I was simply unfortunate to meet the vulture like ones here .

But some are angels and sincere .

Don't mind me. I was angry with someone I met at that time I posted it . I shouldnt have generalize .
Everything is fine . I thank God

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Akpaamunsi:
Pls shut up

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Ewu! Keep your trap shut!

Covid19 is not hard to cure. Gullible nigerians .

I had it too . I was treated and back to my feet. I'm fit and healthy as I type .

Make una dey fear fear there .

Liposure:
we tank god. Dis Isolation eeee

Eeyah. I understand .

But its well.

I thank God for good Friends I have . I'm not feeling it . Shebi they want us to sleep eat and rest . No problem .

Let's see where it leads us .

I understand.

Liposure:
hello

Hi how have u been ?