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You and your jailed husband had better change your ways, repent and lean on God.
He's the only that can soften your journey.

Just be strong, that's all I can advice.

2buffagain:
You sound like a bitter old crow.
"Oh woe is me. I shall never love again. All men are dogs. I managed to make small pocket change and that is all these men want. yada yada blah blah."
All pure idiocy, but you are entitled to your idiocy.
Like I said in the OP, you girls should be done with your "Bad boy phase" and develop some damn wisdom. You sound too old to still be thinking like a teenager.

If that is what you have convinced yourself to be the case, then Look for men on your financial level and let us hear word abeg.
Men should also look for women in their general financial level or path.
That is the whole point of this thread.

If you cannot ATTRACT and PICK genuine men, then that's on you, not anybody else.

When u are done with your concocted lies and fallacy, u will go and sleep.
I'm perfectly at peace with my choice of keeping any man saying I love at arm's length.

If you don't like It? Biko kill ya sef! I'm less concerned.

There is No genuine man in Nigeria anymore. That's the truth.
I'm better off without u guys talking from two sides of your mouth.

Guys on nairaland are terrible pretenders. God forbid!

Lemme sleep my beauty sleep. Y'all can rant from now till eternity!
Smmmmhhhh

People will start fighting back before the two weeks. Just watch and see.

An hungry man is an angry man.

Let government continue with the lock down until we start killing ourselves to have food to eat as cannibals. Then people eyes go clear.

Kingarthur21:
You ladies don't get it,are they not broke guys that genuinely love ladies that are rich the same way ladies can genuinely love rich guys?
You ladies don't like the idea of a woman bringing finances to the table,why?

A man wanting a rich lady doesnt mean he is broke,it could mean he wants to marry his class.


My advice:
let the rich marry themselves and the struggling marry themselves so no one will feel cheated. I know millionaires that pick up girls from the streets and change their lives for good,that is seen as normal but you all feel a broke guy doesn't deserve love or anything,it is bad


I am glad you wisened up now and despite the misogyny and shaming of ladies on this forum you are standing gallantly.it gives me joy to see strong women.

The advice you gave is a great advice.

Even the so called rich guys, I doubt if they are still in existence. All na audio and fake life.

Some are even behaving like an hustling desperate guy. I don't even know the difference anymore.
Can u imagine? I can't even differentiate the broke guys from rich guys. They almost act alike and at the end it all boils down to money.
At least a broke guy will say babe I don't have food at home. And my subscription has finished. At least, las las, 20k will solve provisions for food and card.

But a rich guy who claims he's rich, will say babe my money and goods is hanging somewhere , please can I have 100k? I really need it so bad. Don't worry I'm expecting a contract from Borno state government. The governor is my personal friend, I was the one who sponsored his campaign, so He owes me. Latest next week I should be back on my feet. And we will ball like never before.



Mumu! She will give him 100k. Later he will be claiming busy. Looking for the next female maga to deceive and dupe!
Honestly this country is finished.

Man matter? I'm over and done with una case! I no love again. O

Make una leave me alone! Love na scam!!!!

Haba!

fergie001:
Small small with the bashing.
People are different, you still see a lot of females who fall into same category as the males you passionately condemn.

You see this life, my most important rule;
Make yourself happy.

Same here....enjoying the coro-holiday.

My theme : Is to make myself happy.

I won't allow any man finish me before my time, in the deceit of I love u or I want to marry u.

That era is gone.

Shey they want to behave senseless. No problem. I ready full ground.

All we have now is Vultures, no more men again. God forbid!

Make them come chop. Because they give me money keep! Which I didn't remember to hand over.

Lemme not get angry today abeg. I don't need any man to spoil my mood for today. I've had enough abeg. They should go and look for other rich female magas in Nigeria to deceive.

Anyways have a great day.

Kingarthur21:
But ladies can desire rich men?
When men want rich women they are gold digging and greedy,but when women want rich men she has a high value ?

No wonder guys always use ladies as joke

That's where u guys are getting this gold digging technique wrong.
When ladies desire rich men and end up marrying the rich men. The ladies don't throw it at the face of the rich man that all she wants is his money.
She becomes his friend, show certain degree of concern for his welfare and family.
When a woman shows a man who is rich undiluted love and care Without asking for money outright. The man with time starts thinking of making her his number one and spends on her without being told.
My exes I dated they didn't seem for money by fire by force but my exes are even better than the guys of nowadays.
And I spent on them cos I felt loved and cherished even though they were playing a script.

Thank God I know better now.

Whichever way u guys want to use to enter me, I ready for una.



That part of me is dead. No man can take advantage of me . Sex! Marriage means nothing again to me and I'm living well.
When I'm ready to have kids. I know who to contact for such.

So keep throwing it at our faces that u guys care is money money money.

Make una come loot! Smhhhh

fergie001:
Victorian, what did we do to you nah?

You are bashing us non-stop!

How are you, hope good!?

My dear the rate guys are desperately looking and wooing rich ladies, is alarming. And the most annoying thing is when they start talking about money and how the lady should spend on them.
I laugh quietly at the height of their foolishness.

Lemme say it here and now, not all successful ladies is desperate to marry and start transferring money to their bank accounts. Not all.

Someone like me, Ive conditioned my mind to be satisfied with sincere friends around me both male and female, then focus more on my business. I rather spend my money on my friends than a guy who thinks I crave for sex or marriage.
I don't crave for any of those anymore, as guys are now using it manipulate women for their own gain.
Honestly it's so appalling. The guys don't hide their greed anymore. Haba! Not all rich ladies. We sef know what we want in life. That's y I'm bashing them
Tread softly with the gold digging. Noone can use sex or marriage to manipulate me. Ko le werk!


I'm fine. Relaxing at home, chatting with friends. How are u too?

Unless u are drop dead gorgeously handsome before u should dream of marrying a rich lady.
If not? Biko swerve one side and manage any girl u r lucky to have around u.

Nowadays guys are so funny and ridiculous in their request.

Rich ladies will see u guys as gold diggers and quietly withdraw quickly.

Where is awon crew go and marry??

Smhhh!

Petyprincess:
This is an opportunity to strengthen relationships,all these cheating husbands will at least stay close to their family for 14 days
I hope our population wnt increase because it's a risky something

Lol

It's only risky to both parents. Na dia pockets and bank accounts go suffer.
If a family of 4, says they want to keep breeding more kids with this type of economy and they can't apply common sense in family planning?
Well na dem sabi.

GreatResearcher:
don't mind them. how u dey?

I'm fine and ok

And u?

GreatResearcher:
My bestie how are you?

Please tell your people I'm not your ex wife!

EagleSquare1:
Why? Cos you could be quite romantic, and that’s what any guy should want. A romantic night filled with the depth of a loving woman’s heart is on cloud level

My dear that's what every human being need

0KNM:
Well, they said it’s Victorian. So never mind

AM NOT GREATRESEARCHER'S EX WIFE! GET YOUR FACT RIGHT

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Chiebunigom1:
I love this!
I feel for people already been affected by this virus.....but I love the fact that people of the earth would really know that by this, that only Jesus can save!

I'm telling you.
That's the beauty of this virus.

The whole world is in a total state of confusion and fear.

hekkyboi:
baby u so pretty no be lie and i come like u but the problem be say to win ur heart no go easy. lemme just kukuma sit down here dey admire this ur fresh korean like face .

It's well.

Realhommie:
This is how you pose in all your pix that I've seen here for about 5 years now, same pose always... Why tho?

Cause I'm old fashioned in thoughts.

Old fashioned means I'm very conscious of my body frame . I have huge boobs. Very obvious if I take a full portrait. They are like cossy orjiakor and the last thing I need is lots of guys pestering me for sex and hookups. I don't need such stress.

Ladies like cossy it pays for her to show off everything, as in from head to toe cos of her profession. She loves it.

But for me, its not my line. I don't like it. I prefer being associated with cos of my brains and personality not because my body frame which instils sexual urge. That's why.

And unfortunately it does. So I wear loose tops to hide it but it can't be hidden. It's always obvious It's well jare..

So back to the couple.. Let wish them well.

Seth0:
Next time take a deep breath before you reply...

You asked a question on your profile and I gave a reply...

Plus the picture is obviously filtered and I wasn't talking about the hair this time.

Nice pic though

As Zizo said your matter taya us.

The question on my profile was bout my hair.


Sighs.

Seth0:
Black or gold....

I'm talking about the hair

Plus you are light-skinned, was the filter necessary?

Seems u have problem with colours

My hair is wine with no filter

Check your sights

Such a fine lovely couple .

In Jesus name, corona virus will Not visit your new blessed home , likewise disaster will not befall any one of you. Amen.

He who findeth a good wife, finds a good thing and enjoys favour from the Lord God Almighty. Amen.

dederocs:
man is just a man, it is easier to communicate with your creator directly, in worship and communion.

Very true.

dederocs:
True, maybe the idolatry is the reason for so many 'prayers' without results. God is a Spirit, worship in Spirit and truth...your body is the vessel...where two or three are gathered in truth and worship to God, he will answer you, Church is just a building, the man on the pulpit is just a man like us all.

So true.

One of my neighbors friend, he's a pastor in MFM. He said something to me last two weeks. He said Princess, you don't how u are in God's sight. You can pray in your closet and get results. No need rushing to any pastor for answers prayers. He said God Always speaks to. Me but I don't listen.

If I start listening to God and not Man, my life will be better. I will be fine

When I got home, I think deep and I realised he's saying the truth. I use to look up to my Pastor before but later I realised most answered prayer I do get, was when I keep church aside, remain calm at home or at work and pray to God on my own and in my own way. That's honestly when my prayers are answered


It's well.

The boy should be like 19years old and a 100 level student.

She open eyes korokoro, and got pregnant for a teenager.
She's very stupid.

Carry your cross babe.

Pickin dey hungry u, hope u are happy.

Ode!

dederocs:
nice, its all on God, man is not God, God can never be man. pray to God, your creator, he will hear you

Exactly.

I always do.

People will now reverence God.

And turn to Him.

Emmakohodis747:
It seems like church can't solve this one ��

But God can.

This is a period to differentiate between Church, Pastors ,Imam, and God.

Enough of Pastors taking the glory of God as their own.

Science can't eradicate the virus
Churches can't eradicate the virus
Pastors can't eradicate the virus , even Imams and the Occult.

This situation is beyond human reasoning.

Las Las we shall all turn to God and be at His mercy for protection.

The Virus is a deep message to all humans on earth.

God's supremacy cannot be mocked. That's exactly what we are experiencing at this period.


Even the Pakistans have turned to God in tears.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
But dem dey siddon for Davido head and giving him laws and threats on what he will face with the son if doesn't marry Chioma. That's why I am asking why they are not pressing Flavour who is an Igbo man.

If their threats had any effect whatsoever. He would have paid her bride price since nah.

He still doing his own thing .

Davido will marry Chioma when he's ready for it.

No one can pressure him. Shebi he threatened anyone who nears chioma, the person Is a dead man.

Threats don't work anymore.

He's still not married to Chioma.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
Why is nobody forcing marriage on Flavour?

Seems u don't know, no one can force any man to marry.

If a man's gf allows herself get pregnant? Be ready to beg and plead for as long as it take for the man to marry you. She will be as calm and loving like a pussycat.
She will shower him with gifts especially when she is madly in love.

So Forget force .

You can't force any man into marriage.

But I heard he's married to Sandra traditionally.

hammerT:
Actually three kids, the boy could not join.
Plus they are traditionally married.

Wow! . 3kids!!!!


Interesting.


O ga ju!

legitnow:
I think the other girl was his side chick.

I don't know for the two babymamas.

He's not married to anyone yet. But this one seems to have the upper hand, she has two kids already for flavour.

uthlaw:
yeah you are right....when a lady love they tend to do anything to keep relationship!

True on that.

I can't carry such load sha.

God knows I can't.

No matter the love. That era is gone and buried.

Very lovely pics.

She try.

So flavour has three kids from two babymamas!


Ok