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Ogaonos:
are u sure wat u saying about omotola is true or jux mere speculation

A friend of the husband told me.

I was also shocked too. When he said it.

But it should be abroad thing,far away in Europe. They are both comfortable with it.

Mrsserene:
This is very painful oh lord!

As in extremely painful upon all the hyping as if he will die if adesua is not in his life.

I was shocked to my bone marrow when I heard it.

I was like no! Not Banky W!

Later men will say it's dangerous marrying a beautiful woman , cos such women cheats.

How about Banky W? Who is cheating now?

I'm dissapointed In Banky W. Highly disappointed.
The guy f. Up!

Mrpsly247:
God should help u with the choice of if you will cheat in marriage?.. My God, this is some next level things. This Life is simple, not easy. I pray the Lord inputs his wisdom in you to see the true meaning of love and his word, not rooted in any man but on him alone, and that you may find the love you deserve..

I know the true meaning of love, but most men these days, don't know what love is all about.
They know what lust is
They know what obsession is
But they relate obsession and lust as love.

Which u and I know it's not love

One secret reason I'm not married today is because I have not met a man who truly loves me. All I see around me is obsession and lust! And I know those two things cannot hold water in marriage.

By God's grace I will marry a man who truly loves me but if I make the huge mistake of marrying one who can act a script so well, then the Lord is my strength. I honestly don't know what I will do.
That's the truth.
I will be dissapointed at him
I will be dissapointed at myself for marrying him.

The next step is in God's hands. May God give me the strength to handle things properly after my anger has calmed down. I'm not perfect. That's the truth.

Mrsserene:
Haaa! Including cheating?

See ehn? I'm. Just thinking how adesua will be feeling at this moment, as everyone now knows her Banky W can Cheat on her , with her calm, dove like beauty and ambience with another man's wife.
That's one.

How she will be feeling knowing her ex, whom she dropped and accept Banky marriage proposal will be mocking her by now. Saying shebi her eyes don clear. She left me for Banky. Now see how he ended up cheating on her with another celeb's wife.

Mehn I can tell you, she will start regretting her marriage to banky. If only she had known..

If only

Banky is a great actor! He is good in acting as if he will die if he no marry adesua

Mrpsly247:
So in other words u gonna support an open relationship in your marriage...

In other words. Honestly I don't know until we are about to cross that bridge.

I don't know what I will do if my husband cheats but one thing is sure, I won't kill him and I won't burn him with hot water, neither will I stab him.

But for now? I can't say this is what I will do, cause I want my kids to stay grounded emotionally and all. They come first in any decision I will take when I start popping them out.

May God help us to reason with clear eyes if that period comes up.
So I don't know yet.

Ogaonos:
only omotola marriage have tested d test of time.mercy own is still young too say such.

Omotola 's marriage lasted this long, cos they are both cheating on each other discreetly and with far away lovers who reside abroad.
I guess maybe to relieve marriage stress and they both have a defined focus, their extra lives outside must not affect the home ,no. Matter what.

She and her husband are determined to stay married and keep their children focused and grounded. Because Las Las, Na the children success in life go make them happy and at peace when they become old and wrinkled .

So yes they cheat on each other but they do it with respect and in coded ways.

Women who break up from their cheating husbands, do so because the women don't want to cheat. They want to stay faithful and expect their husband to stay same as well.

It's a pity but most men cheat, the earlier women realise it. The better for them.

Do Tit for Tat. And everyone comes home happy and relaxed.

Upon all the love hyping Banky W was hyping his love for Adesua. He still cheats

Na WA o!!!!!

Okunrin!!!!

Then Demurin, upon all the praises of how much he loves his wife, he himself still fit cheat

Sighs!!
It's finished then.

Why then get married? If as a man u will end up cheating on your wife!

They should try Mofe damijo's wife tactics!

She gave Mofe, a double dosage for his cheating troubles.

Tit for Tat! Mofe shock! At the end family settle them. And everyone felt at peace. No be only man sabi cheat!

Boxer007:
I can get any men I want including your man

Then go and get the men and stop wailing all day and night about me, like a scarecrow

If you are indeed busy with all the men, u won't have time wailing on me to stop stealing men.

You will get your Anus and Bone chest all worked up by now. You won't even have time to remember there is a voluptuous and sexy all full woman called Victorian, most men want to be with.
.

Anyways bye, the floor is yours. Keep crying about me. My boo will soon come pick me up.


Hahahahahahahahahah. No be my fault o.

Blame the fat!

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Boxer007:
But no man want u. Why are u stealing our men u fat monkey. No man want u. Leave us alone n go n find women. Please can u giv .me your boyfriend number so I can chat him up to dump u please?
No man want u. Preach

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No single grain of sense!

Can any woman steal men?

Can't u see how wacked your Brain is?

Honestly u are indeed a crazy confused thing.

Keep screaming no man wants me, possibly with time u will finally accept such fallacy.

But wait o! So no man here is wooing u or taking you out for shopping and dates?

O ma se o.

Your life don finish be that.

Lemme prepare my buxom self for my dinner date tonight.

Eat your soul out.

Yenyenyenyenyenyen, Mr creature no man want you. Keep wailing O.
Larer! Ntor!

Boxer007:
Fat woman
Leave our men alone. No man want. You here. Go away

I just got back from a powerful shopping at the Mall sponsored by my gorgeous bf from nairaland.

All bills paid by him, my own is to appear pretty walking next to him as he pays the bills with his credit card.

But you, A smelling stinking f.a.g.g.ot who feels I'm fat,is online all morning, all afternoon even at night screaming no one wants me. Whereas you are the one, no one wants. Your life is too lonely. Don't get scared and intimidated about my looks. Sho gbo!

I know u envy my huge boobies, and pretty face unlike your bird chest and scrawny face. Ain't my fault.

Sorry but na God do am for me .

U scream and wail from now till eternity, that I'm fat? It's none of my business.
Keep screaming all over nairaland. It even boost my popularity the more with hundreds of followers.

Right now I have 500 followers. F. A. G. G. O. T deal with it!!

My fans and followers on nairaland love my fat! I love my buxom look and I'm rocking it.

And fortunately there is nothing u can do about it.

Miserable confused h.e.r.m.a.p.h.r.od.i.t.e.!

phemsie:
I just hope that pics on ur dp isn't you, because if it is, then u don't have any moral justification to type all what u wrote up there.

U are as plain looking as most of the girls u are talking about.

Thanks I'm plain indeed

Then u must be blind as a bat.

No offense. Simply saying it, as it is.

Lolu has a strong heart.

He try, she looks matured and pretty.

Honestly lolu u get mind!


Truly slim small guys truly have strong mind and heart while the tall ones can fear pass lizard and u see them with plain looking Janes. After few years of marriage with the plain women, they will now start disturbing very beautiful women as if na we send them work to go marry a plain ordinary looking lady.

Watch all tall handsome guys, check their babes or wives. Purely plain looking

But average slim, or small guys goes for drop dead gorgeous women as wives.


To toast a pretty babe for a tall guy always becomes a thing of unrest in their mind.

Babes if u want to marry and settle down, go for guys like lolu. I take God beg una.

My man is not tall, Average height, slim with a strong heart!

They don't run away from your exotic looks.. They are not intimidated.

Word!

A time comes in one's life, and u just want to look ugly.
That's if uv been pretty all your life.

Although it doesn't apply to all pretty ladies. Cause I ain't gonna tread down such lane.

I wish her well in the weight loss, it only made her look like an old woman. .

Keep loosing weight Biko.

My question to all these new born being thrown away is this


Why would a man or boy have sex Without using condom or insist on condom.

U have sex with the opposite sex and just pour everything in then expect she won't get pregnant

Honestly I wonder how guys think sometimes.

Lawmak:
All those guys following him up and Dan, is it that they have no work doing other than following Davido

They have work and they are working exactly the way, their job description demands.

Don't u know he's paying them salaries, buying them expensive gifts and jewelleries to follow him around?

They are working for their money.

Their job: Simply follow Davido wherever he goes. Simple.

Isn't life so easy for some people.

chosenwan1:
which church is this? They also had an event for women today in my church.... Hardly heard anything for men in a while

It's divine appointment ministry international.

There was buffet on ground, serve yourself , everything sponsored by Pastor

Just got back home now.

It's was inspiring and fun. God bless Jesus Soldier! Reverend Ben Eragbai.

He try

hekkyboi:
no wonder bc of ur Chinese face resemblance hw u no go fall in love with the Chinese man like kilode?

Hahahahahahahahah... Nope, not really.

He's a handsome man and appealing to look at with his Chinese sexy dark eyes. Oh gosh!

Why I look chinese or Korean I don't know o.

In between I'm in church, all the women is being hosted with comedy, dances, food and wine by my Pastor o. He has turned the church hall to an event center o

He wants to appreciate all the women in my church this evening. Buffet is even at one corner with chefs. I'm impressed. He try

I will be back online later. Lemme enjoy myself tonight Biko.

Boxer007:
You are fat n ugly n no man want u. Leave our men alone. Preach

Wow! Even stinking f.a.g.g.o.t.s are talking!

Wow!

mceze:
You are beautiful!

Thanks.

DenreleDave:
Exactly.. Very quiet, fights well and shoot well..


But u no dey jet Li no dey kiss for movie.. He is a shy ghy

Yea I can see he is shy .

It shows. And that's what makes him even more sexy. A tough man who is shy to reveal how he feels. It's kind of sexy and intriguing..

Papadoh:
Did you watch their movie: Romeo Must Die

I didn't


But it was her song, that made me see him and that's when I was love struck.

She used him in her song


How wish I know where I can download the film

DenreleDave:
May sweet Jesus forgive u for Lusting after a Chinese man..

Honestly u don't know how attractive he is, especially when he smiled at Aaliyah as he held her hands. I was like awwwww!!!!!! That moment I felt like jumping down like Aaliyah and give him the kiss of his life!

I know he will blush and laugh in a Chinese way.

Heheheheheheheheheh.. Make una lemme o

He's quiet, fights with precision and shoots well. A nonsense man, one can depend on.


Sighs # I don't care he's Chinese.
I simply love who I love.

And I love Jet Li!

DenreleDave:
Cc: Victorian joystark happybee SaintHilary seanwilliam icejays richestbhc khaliyah

I chose Jet Li! ( he's so handsome with those dark eyes) *i can't even breathe thinking about him* sighs slumps and faints

Jackie Chan is a good martial art actor but he's not handsome. But he looks funny ,talks funny and acts funny. Lol . He's a comedian

Then the last one, I don't think I know him


Oh I think I see Donnie yen pic up! Well he's OK. He acts good.


But Jet Li tops the whole chart of martial art!

femi4:
That's Try again ft Timberland.

For

*Romeo must die*

As in ehn? He was so handsome!!! In it and the way he held Aaliyah as she was dancing and climbing the glass wall. I was like ohhhh! He's meant to be holding me not her!

Chai! Aaliyah is so lucky.
I hope she kissed him full French kiss after the movie o.

badoh:
Dear Nairalanders,
Was I wrong to have ended the relationship? Please read along with me.
Back then in 2008, I was posted to serve in Uyo, Akwa-Ibom State while my Fiance was posted to Portharcourt same year. We attended the same University and studied the same course in one of the Western Universities. I had disturbed my fiance since 100 level until 400 level when her previous boyfriend left her. I went with one of my friends to convince her to date me. She eventually agreed and we dated throughout our 400 level.
We call eachother everyday during our service year. Barely 3 month into NYSC, we agreed that I will come one particular Saturday to Portharcourt to visit her. On the day of appointment, I left Uyo for Portharcourt. She told me once I get to Portharcourt and a popular place she described, I should call her immediately. She also said we will have to pass through water with the aid of speed boat but since I'm not familiar with the area, she would come and pick me in Portharcourt city.
I left Uyo around 12pm and got to Portharcourt around 2pm or so. While inside the Bus, I realized my fiance line was switched off. I said may be the battery is flat with the hope that before I reach PH, she would have charged the phone. Few minutes to reach PH, phone was still off. When I eventually got to the place she described for me, I dialed the line, the phone ranged and immediately it was switched off. I continued to dial the number but remained switched off. I was not myself anymore. I was wondering what could have happened. I never forced myself to visit her, she suggested it. It was getting to 5pm, same thing. I quickly think of next step to take. I thought the best thing to do was to quickly find my way back to where I came from. I was boiling inside me while at the same time also smiling. I got to Uyo around 8pm and located the nearest suya spot to relax myself while pondering on what played out. Around 9pm, my phone ranged and it was that of my fiance. I did not bother to pick it, she called several times but I made up my mind never to pick it. The following morning, her call woke me up and I decided to pick it. I asked why she switched off her phone yesterday knowing fully well we were to meet. Her response was she was in choir practice and immediately her phone rang, the choir master collected the phone, switched if off and siezed it. I asked her if she did not inform the choir master that she was expecting a visitor and that she will need the phone to guide the visitor, she said no that there's nothing she can do in that situation. I was mad at her for uttering such. It means I was nothing to her. I simply asked her if it was her mom or any of her siblings that she was expecting same day and the so-called choir master seize the phone, won't she make effort to collect the phone back? She immediately lambasted me and told me never to bring her mum into such scenario. I told her I was not abusing her mum but only trying to see her reaction to the seizing of phone. Since I realized I was played, no sign of being remorseful and exposing me to danger in a city where I know nobody, I ended the relationship by stopping all forms of communication with her. I blocked her and moved on with my life.
Did I do wrong in any way and was I right to have ended the relationship?

U didn't do wrong at all.

I hate such scenarios.

Biko free yourself and move on. Let her marry her choir.

You can't keep. Me stranded in a strange place and switch off your phone

I hate what I hate. Haba!

Na wa

My crush that year of Aaliyah's song..
.

I fell in love with him like kilode

If tiwa savage still need a rich man to marry, upon all her millions of dollars, from shows

Then it's finished!

Guys hustle o!

Hustle!

Anyways my advice is this :

First it's always a messy situation being a baby mama or having kids out of wedlock and getting remarried to another man. The situation is always messy and the children from the first man suffers.

Secondly it's hard to tame a thief, be it boy or girl. I know how pissed and angry I feel whenever I realise there is a thief in my class and the worst I can do is talk talk talk, then keep an open peeled detective eyes on people I suspect. It can be very stressful. It's not easy making a thief to stop stealing and they usually have recruit. I don't blame the second man for not accepting such burden. For it is a huge burden to live with at home.

Then my advice, op simply rescue your son and try train him properly. You made a huge mistake allowing relatives to train him. Now they've spoilt him and are so quickly to throw him away. That's life for you.
Rescue the boy, take him to boarding school. Although boarding school will worsen his case, cause no one will be there to train him character wise. He may end up as an armed robber due to friends he might mingle with in school.

So the difficult thing is choose between your husband and your children.

You just have to choose
But remember if u don't choose your son? He may end being a thorn in your flesh later on In life.

I wonder how women get to become babymamas for different men. Honestly I wonder .
It doesn't end well. That's the truth except u dedicate your lives to the kids and forget marriage.

May God help u.

lefulefu:
nau victorian is real as they come.na babe she be

Thanks dear

Undissputed:
It's time we start to change the narrative. The moral decay in today's society is almost beyond repair.

I don't care if you are 60 years old or 18, I don't care if you are graduate or business owner, or paying your own bills, if you are a single woman and you visit a man without your parent's consent, then you are a prostitute.

This may sound harsh, but it's the truth.

The only setting where a single woman can visit a single man alone is when her parents have given their consent for both of them to be in a relationship. In this scenario, they are most likely courting with the intention to get married and their relationship is consented and guided by their parents.

Oh, this brings me to a final hypothesis: If you are single woman in a relationship your parents do not know about or consent to, then you are probably a prostitute!

.

I understand where u are coming from and u are right but

How about an orphan lady?

Who must she seek consent from?

Kendroid:
Expectations they say hurts..

I pray the marriage doesn't start with

I don get belle

Nah! If not I would have gotten pregnant since!
I don't get pregnant by mistake and I don't get carried away even if I'm madly in love. Although I almost got carried away but my mum beat nonsense out of my body for getting carried away in love, so I had to snap my thinking faculty back.

My own is No marriage No pregnancy.

I ain't gonna fall for that baby mama thing.
Mba nu!

Kendroid:
And then the movie ended with
"To God be the Glory" & "Watch out for Part2"

I've seen the movie too!

Heheheheheheheheh

No be only movie.
I'm talking about real life. How I want Boo to propose, u are talking about movie.

Anyways I trust my man, he will do the needful when the time comes.