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sundaygray:
Omo i observed the life, learned different religions sat down and thought about life in general and also, never had a spiritual encounter i have spent money, a lot of money for a spiritual encounter but no level baba.The lack of evidence just make me chill. Unless God appears and shows himself to me, no level

Martinez39s:
Nice post!

I want to add something for the sake of contribution. The reasons pro-marriage redpillers like marrying sexually pure virgins or are advised to marry sexually pure virgins isn't because redpillers think a virgin's female nature is different. Of course we know AWALT is the case even for virgins and females emotionally change easily and rapidly with time. However, virgins are required by pro-marriage redpillers for the following reasons:

(1) sexually pure virgins women are the least "evils" in mate selection and choosing them will prevent you from certain unnecessary headaches that come with a woman's past baggages and embarrassing situations resulting from her sordid sexual past. I can explain further if you want.

(2) it's a red pill rule to go for the best you can. Why commit to and provide for a used pusśy when you can get a fresh used and pure one? Why commit to and go for an aged used pusśy when you can go for a young unused one?

(3) Why commit to and provide for something that other men have gotten for free without much effort? Why should you be treated treated differently?

(4) It is a red pill rule to get a woman at her best years. If she won't give you her best years or you didn't have her at her best years, don't take her at her decline. Put yourself first, go for the best and have some self-respect. If you are not yet established to marry a particular female at her best years, let her go to who is ready. When you are ready and established later, pick the one that is in her best years and makes a decent human being.

(5) If you will follow tradition to pay bride price for a woman, let her follow tradition to qualify for your bride price by being a young virgin who is sexually pure, among other things. Traditionalism works both ways. Don't partake in the nonsense of paying full price for hòe. Let simps and blue pill men rot in their stupidity.

(6) men must set good standards and not come cheap. Besides, women would go for the best and wouldn't settle if given the option. Why should yours be different? Men setting good standards and not compromising on it will incentivise more females to sit up to meet up (if they can't find their way around it and exploit loopholes). Though they won't change on the inside and will put in more effort to cover up their shenanigans so they can compete to meet men's standard.

(7) add yours (cc Ubunja, LordAdam16, Skepticus, JESHAL, CaveAdullam , etc)

CaveAdullam:
DAY 172, REDPILL 2022

Bro, the intensity of the world, the heart troubles, the pains that spiral and the hardness of life should not stop you from appreciating yourself.

For the big wins, appreciate yourself and upgrade.

For the failures, learn from your mistakes and improve.

Any stagnancy or gridlock mode, analyze within and without.

You will be shamed and ridiculed, don't fret. Keep pushing.

You will be compared to others, don't fret, keep pushing.

You may not be appreciated, don't fret, keep pushing.

You will be compared to your low level, don't fret, keep pushing.

Kindness may be far, don't fret, keep pushing.

Rejection will be scattered here and there, don't fret, keep pushing.

Your weakness will be used against you, don't fret, keep pushing.

You may be abandoned, don't fret, keep pushing.

NOT ALL ARE GOING TO MAKE IT, BUT BE AMONG THOSE THAT STRUGGLED TO MAKE IT. And probably, a trial will convince you.

Authority: Keep pushing.

ubunja:
yes, men can turn down sex due to self-control and morality issues. That's commendable. The "but" here is that no man must think doing so has a bearing on how women view him. As concerning value and worth.
Because at the end how it plays out is That pucc you're passing on to appear special/different from other men, the lady is just going to take it to another guy! Usually some guy who's always available for quick cheap no-stress sex. Some guys just make it so hard and complicated to give them sex girls simply stop offering.

I'm sure we've all heard of a situation where some morally upright gentleman of a guy had a lady always visiting him acting funny for him but the guy was always "controlling" himself until the lady gave up, stopped visiting and somehow ended up getting pregnant for some clown.
What the gentleman did is really not playing hard to get in the dating sense, he just missed opportunities.

Okay let's switch genders for better clarity.

How does a woman play hard to get?

We go back to the foundation of male/female dynamics: Men love sex, Women love money. Men want sex, Women want money.

A woman then plays hard to get by being stingy with SEX. Cause sex is what men want.
While a man plays hard to get by being stingy with LOVE aka commitment, cause that's what women want.

A man doesn't play hard to get by refusing sex just as a woman doesn't play hard to get by refusing love/commitment/money. A man takes the sex but refuses to give the woman that one thing she wants (love/commitment/money) -that's him playing hard to get. Because until a man is in love or committed the woman hasn't actually got him.

Same way,,, a woman takes the love, commitment and money that's offered to her but denies men that one thing they all want: sex. Cause until a woman has given a man sex, the man hasn't actually got anything worthwhile from the woman. He hasn't yet "got" the woman.
The moment of truth for women is when a man finally commits. And the moment of truth for men is when a woman finally gives sex.

If you're a woman it doesn't matter if Davido or Chris Brown wants to sleep with you. What matters is Do they want to commit?Do they want to marry you? That's the question cause that's what really determines your worth IN THEIR EYES. Being good enough for sex is inferior. Being good enough to committment is superior. Its when a man commits that you have got got him.

That's why when a woman cheats a man's first question is "Did you sleep with him?" Cause for men there's nothing serious until sex happens.
And when a man cheats women's first question is "Do you love her?" Cause women understands that men will fucc anything, its when a man commits that things become serious.

Men and women are looking at sex and love from opposing sides, so what they value, what they see as valuable, is also opposed.

When a girl tells her friends "Moses loves me!" What do the friends ask? They ask, "What has he done for you?!"
Meanwhile, if a guy tells his friends, "Dorothy loves me!" They're going to ask "Did she let you smash?"

Which is to say, A woman can't say "Moses loves me cause he had sex with me". Not really, cause sex is not something men control. Just as a man can't say,"Dorothy loves me cause she bought me this and that". Cause a womans commitment is worthless. As long as he hasn't smashed Dorothy, his friends can't really be convinced Dorothy loves him. Cause the only thing of value Dorothy has is the pucc. Until she puts that on the table, she's holding back.

All this is to illustrate both men and women understand the "moment of Truth" concerning each gender. A woman can't use commitment to show a guy she loves him, just as much as a man can't use sex to show a woman he loves her. Women express love by sex, men express love by commitment. Hence that woman who's hard to fucc is the woman everyone fights for cause she has value.Just like that man who's hard to commit is the man everyone fights for cause he has value.
Which brings us full circle back to the virgin and the Bad boy as the most valuable in the dating field.

pansophist:
Where most female hardship comes from is relational (relationships), and hardly existential. By the virtue of a woman's life, society in all level caters for women than men, and men generally have a soft spot for women, meaning men will give women a pass for something they will grab other's men throat for. Men hardship are existential in nature.

Compare a girl child to a boy, she will be taken cared of by parents, then by boyfriends, then by husband, and later on by her children. It's a well-integrated circle of provision that falls outside men's reality. Not to talk of societal provisions for her (eg exempting her from war, lesser jail time, more job opportunities, presumption of innocence etc).

For boys generally, after his parental care, it ends there. As early as 18, if he starts dating, then he will begin taking care of others, and society will expect more from him (eg wars, burden of performance, being the provider etc), just take a look at Ukraine where women are allowed to leave the country and men as old as sixty must stay back and fight. Doesn't matter if he is weak.

Trex4:
You guys don't understand Redpill REDPILL IS THE TRUTH. Or aims to be. Wether you're poor or rich the truth is still the truth.

For example, picture a nice Chicken dish. You're seeing it well garnished and cooked, That's BLUE PILL. Redpill will show the truth about the dish. Like the torture the chickens go through, the artificial additives, the under paid Chefs and other unhygienic processes used in arriving at the final product. Wether it's a Mama put or expensive 5 star restaurant chicken. It's still the same process.

The creator of the thread Glycolysis named this thread REALITY EVERY GUY SHOULD KNOW. Not every rich guy, or every poor guy. He said every guy. Cause I've seen some people here in past claim redpill is only for poor people

This whole, Get money Bla Bla is becoming stale. It's like preaching to the choir. I believe everyone here is hustling for money. I know Mj bolt and Die rich from the crypto thread, I know cave A dullam is coding and some people here like pansophist are based abroad self.

MORAL: Wether you have money or not, Redpill or female nature will still be the same! Try to get money yes, But understand Redpill as a man it'll help you in many spheres of life.

sajmark:
100% of Women want to flex their peak SMV to the core, they always want to settle down when they hit the wall and their SMV starts declining.
Sadly, 80% of men want to marry immediately they are about to peak on the SMV, That's why married men tend to cheat a lot... Because they just entered their season of abundance but they've already tied themselves down.

franchasofficia:
The world lives by stereotype.


Once you tell someone you are an American, they assume some things about you without you opening your mouth.


Once you tell someone you are a Briton, or Nigerian or Indian or Saudi Arabian, same thing applies.


Once you see a Muslim man with heavy beard and stern look onboard same flight with you, your mind assumes something even before you know the man.



There are stereotypes attached to everything humans do in life, so the fallacy of hasty generalization can never be separated from mankind dear

Ugaboy:
Hi Nairalander and Data Science ethusiaste, remember my startup during February I guess on Tableau

https://www.nairaland.com/6973820/please-rate-first-data-visualization

Well, there have been lot of advance visualization i've done so far, I've completed some machine learning milestone project with 18 viz dashboard completed

here is a viz challenge i picked from LinkedIn this month

Tools:
1. Excel (Data cleaning)
2. Figma (Bin or Conatiner Design)
3. Tableau Public (Visualization)


Pls Which of the 3 can i submit


Some of us are football lovers, so I analysed one...added to show us...how i've gone.

Akinpedia:
The longest English word without a vowel is twyndyllyngs which means "twins".

An octopus has three hearts.

The literal meaning of “Once in a blue moon” is once every 2.7 years.

Bullet proof vests, fire escapes, windshield wipers and laser printers were all invented by women.

Slugabed (noun):

A lazy person who stays in bed long past the usual time for waking up

1 billion seconds = 32 years.

The longest word in the English language is 45 letters long:

Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis

Atelophobia is a condition that causes people to over think and obsess over the thought of not being good enough.

Psychologists have found that sending and receiving text messages can actually boost your mood when you’re feeling lonely.

A Nillionaire is someone who has little to no money. The 'Nil' is from Latin, meaning nothing.

Negaholics are people who become addicted to self-doubt and negativity. They find the bad in most things and are hardly ever satisfied.

starbuck:
I am not but I am only worried about the circumwwuuuauaaauuuuuuuauuahhhhhhhuuauuuuhaauwwwwawwwwwwwaauaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwaaawwwwwwwuwwwuwuwuuwwwuwwwwwuwwwwuwwwwwwuwwwwwwuwstances that will lead to it..

I don't need a painful death.
I don't need a stressful death(wouldn't want a situation where I will have to be a burden to others).Infact, if at all i came up with a terminal illness and the medical practitioners and family are against the route of euthanasia, i must find a way to end it one way or the other..
I want a peaceful death where I can sleep and won't wake up again

Honestly, this universe isn't giving me joy again

Mczigx:
Everyone wants to get their dream job, but sometimes it can be hard to get even a foot in the door. The first step to getting a great job is having a great resume.

If you're applying for jobs and no one is responding, you might have made some common mistakes on your resume. Here are four things you should never include on your resume, and also some tips for writing a great one.

1.Your personal information like date of birth, age, marital status, sex, etc. The reason why most persons include some of these on their resumes is because they see other persons doing it. They've never stopped to ask themselves 'how does including this information on my resume make me a better candidate for the job or internship' ��

2. Unrelated work experiences and skills: Know what skills are related to the job you want and what isn't important. If it's not relevant, leave it off! If I'm applying for the role of a front desk officer, my previous experience working as a video creator or graphic designer shouldn't be stated on my resume as these two don't relate.

3.Photograph: While a photograph can be helpful if you're applying for a job where your appearance is important (like modeling or acting), most employers will be more interested in your skills than how you look. For some countries especially in Europe, this is accepted but in other countries, it's a no no.

4.Reference: This section should also be taken off from your CV as it's of no importance. Instead of including the contact and address of your referees, just write 'to be provided on request'.

If you're careful about including only the right things on your resume and leaving out everything else, your chances of being called for an interview would improve greatly.

#careeradvice #job

planetE:
I'm currently a cashier at bet9ja shop (baby). The business is very profitable.

Base on the things I have noticed, only the gamblers are the losers, wretched and unfortunate ones. the shop owners always make huge profits daily.

Once I get enough capital, nah to become agent and get my own shop. The biz is very profitable for the shop owners and bet9ja inclusive but 98 out of 100 active baby players will always remain wretched and miserable without achieving any greatness in life

If the shop owners no dey see profit, dey no go dey every street angle

Even we cashier dey cash out daily.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 122, REDPILL 2022

1. Appreciation indicates that what you give is valuable + you are valuable.

2. When the other end receive with contempt and murmuring, you either withdraw what you've given or stop giving.

3. You don't give above your means. You should give according to your wish.

4. Don't give because you've been gaslighted, if you do so, you'll start giving from stolen pots.

5. When you and what you give is compared to others, neglect such person.

6. Giving can be a form of manipulation depending on which hand you used in giving and the hand that received.

7. By the way, you can open close mouths by tipping, and also form relationships too.

8. Relationship where giving is neither mutual nor reciprocating is a parasitic one. It doesn't necessarily mean to be equal on both sides, but mutual. Both want to be pleased.

9. Those that value you based on what you give are bootlickers, they are friends at sunrise and enemies at midnight. You need allies not unstable bootlickers.

10. Before you give, give yourself first. You can't help the weak if you are not strong enough. And neither can you help the poor if you are not a cent richer.

11. Those that cannot help without you giving even when friendship has been established must not be continued with when you have gained balance.

12. Friendships predicated on material resources rather than loyalty, sincerity and love are fickle, unstable and unnecessary.

13. Do not sow your seeds on hard grounds, if their hearts are not soft like a fertile soil, they will never regard the life you are sowing inside of them.

This musing is getting deeper, let me stop here.

Authority: Guard yourself and resources.

dauddy97:
After the Excel,
pick Python language.
Learn the libraries use for data analysis and visualisation. I use Tableau for visualising since it's drag and drop.
Learn SQL (MySQL) etc.... Just write down what people are commenting on this thread.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 115, REDPILL 2022

Guys, don't wait to hit it big; use the little you have to beautify yourself a little. And gradually, you'll become as beautiful as desired.

You are not there yet, but at least you are moving.

Authority: Take good care of yourself.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
This gender

And they will be acting as if they don't love sex...

They love sex way more than us....anyday anytime twice on their ovulation period...
My niggarrrrs....we should not let them keep on deceiving us that they don't love sex...

......the penis and the vagina are like the cotton bud(penis) and ear (vagina)...Place a cotton bud into the ear and watch who feels the sweet sensation
Women love and enjoy sex like crazy...allow them to be fond of you....then they will be jumping on your penis anyday anytime twice on their ovulation period

wisdomremz:
just wanted to drop this
if you are a beginner and willing to start a career in data science without any skill, you should start with excel then sql..

if you prefer videos for training in details

you can get full trainings on excel and sql server from beginner to advance in details from YouTube below;

1) for excel- watch *excelisfun* YouTube channel cover all you need from beginner to advance and also using excel for data analysis


2) for sql server- watch *kudvenkat* youtube channel covers all about sql server from beginner to advance its quite long(winks)



with this you're 30% covered in data science..



I love video tutorial cos you watch Wat is taught been put in use and you can perform simultaneously, books can be used for references.

johnydon22:
Big man, how you dey?

NobleSeed:
suggest a mobile app that has been helpful to you and what you use it for let others learn, download and use it too.
Below are the few I Make use off and the ones I know are good too

1.I use stark VPN to get daily free data

2.I edit videos using inshot

3.I design flyers , logos and thumbnails on canva

4.Photoshop with facetune2

5.download only youtube videos, straight to my phone with tubemate

6.On Operamini ,I use a website called tubidy to search and download any kind of music

7.Then I use chrome to navigate and restore any Instagram lost page, search and monitor my social media apps and youtube

8.Flo app....it tracks menstrual cycles and ovulation..this app will tell u when u are pregnant ND start counting it for you ;

9.CamScanner:you can use this App to scan documents even on transit as far as you have the documents and your phone with you, and you can also send direct mails through the CamScanner, it's very efficient especially when you are always on transit and need to attend to office work!

WPS Office: I call this App office assistant! Typing, edit, creating templates and preparing schedules!! Makes your work easy even on transit!!!

10.Stepapp : for fitness. To track how many footsteps I take everyday..also analyzes amount of calories burnt

11.Bamboo: for buying/selling US stocks

12.Waze: navigation map. Gives up to date information eg traffic, tells you when there's a police around, indicates your current speed

13.Total files: for downloading and listening to music offline for free on iPhone and other IOS devices

14.Polycam: for creating 3D models and images

15.Password safe : for storing all my password

16.Video downloader for Facebook: for downloading videos and Facebook status

17.Photolab: for editing pictures into cartoon like image

18.Qustodio : parental control app for kids

19.Khan academy, edx, Udemy : free education certificate in thousands or courses from top universities

20.Photomath : to help solve Maths problems

Free free to drop yours pls
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