kaziblake: Good day all, Please pardon my grammatical error if you observe any because as am typing this am not my self.
I finished my ND last year and proceed to work because I want to get my Bsc direct instead of going for HND. So I got a job at Palms lekki. Right from when I started, he was already showing me sign that he was interested in me but I just waved it aside. After working for about 1 year and 1month, the man asked me out but I ignored him and continued working, since that time he started treating me anyhow, shouting at me, but I endured. October this year, he asked me to choose either my job or I quit. I had no option than to quit. I used the opportunity to register for jamb and attend preparatory class. So, I told my mum I want to do part time job and attend lectures at the same time to get money, she agreed.
I started hunting for job and told my friends about it. Last week, my friend called me and told me about an opening in their organisation, so I went there on Monday. Immediatly I saw the manager I knew I was in for trouble (a manager with dread and ear rings drinking dry gin on duty). He saw me and smiled, ask of my name age and qualifications, I told him everything about myself. After the interview, he asked me to resume on Wednesday that's today. I prepared and went to work. After sometimes, he called me into his office and started saying silly thing "how he liked me from the first day he saw me, blah blah blah". I was just looking at him like ode, after saying his mind, the next thing I heard was "can we have sex now?". I was so shocked to hear it from him but all the same I played cool and started telling him stories of about my bf and how my mum will kill me if she found out. He still insist,i lied again that I was on my period, he said he want to see the period. I was shocked and short of words. I told him I wasn't interested, the next thing he said was if I was not interested I should go, so I got up, picked my bag and left his office, met my friend and told her everything that transpired at the office between me and her boss,on my way out if the building I met the security man who asked me if I was not working that day, I told him no and explained everything to him he got so angry and promised to do something about it. Just this evening my friend called me saying the security man told their boss about what happened between me and the manager that the man would like to speak to me, the man called me and ask me to come tomorrow around 8am. My questions are: did I go far by reporting him to the security or should I go tomorrow (although am no longer interested in the job) because the manager looks scary, he can arrange for me if the owner sacks him, am so scared right now pls matured advice, thanks.
Does this manager of yours have a superior ? If so, you have nothing to be afraid of. But under normal circumstances I wont advise you to go.
viviangist: That is my Blood sister , thanks to biafra protesters yes i know that they have achieved their Goals. Her Name ; Nkiruka Anthonia Ikeanyionwu From Adazi Nnukwu Anambra state Schooling at Fedral College of Education UMUNZE Anambra State Age 21 years old P My Message to Nigerians and Biafrans ... Thanks so much for Killing NK Baby for me , Dear Nkiru That is what the world is all about , know body knows when his or her turn will clock ... Bye till we part No More .... From Mary Vivian Chinaza Illikannu Owner Vivian Gist
Nairalanders , seun , lalasticlala , mynd44 , is not a happy day at all ....
kshowhanif: Your statement is selfish, nnamdi kalu is buying weapons & inciting the youth to fight against the government. His offense is punishable by law, and he was not tortured. He have been taking to court, let the court decide.
To make it clear, I am not saying agitating for biafra is wrong. Let them not be violentn and their wish will be gladly granted.
Is there evidence that Kanu bought weapons ? All these are allegations.
obailala: There's hardly anything the government can do about these guys. These guys on the street are simply protesting over Buhari winning the presidency; forget anything else they tell you, they are simply very pissed that an Hausa man displaced GEJ from Aso Rock and they believe the best they can do is to destabilise the country to make life difficult for Buhari and APC (they believe the APC used bokoharam to make Nigeria ungovernable for GEJ and they believe they are retaliating for GEJ). The only thing that can stop these protests is if Buhari steps down (which we all know isn't going to happen).
I only just pity what becomes of the economy of the south east and reasonable Igbos (like myself) who dont support this foolishness.
On the contrary, Buhari is not helping matters. If IBB was on seat, do you think something like this will happen ? No. IBB is a lot wiser and smarter in handling situations like this. It has nothing to do with the election outcome. On the other hand, why is Kanu still in prison ?
Buhari should be wise enough to control this situation so it doesn't get out of hand.
[size=15pt]To Biafra & Afenifere Agitators: Only Election Losers Are Clamoring for Secession -Joe Igbokwe[/size]
In a comment during the press conference by The Igbo Conscience (TIC) about the agitation for State of Biafra, Joe Igbokwe said only those who lost an election have always clamored for secession in Nigeria.
Comedienne Lepacious Bose is so loving her new look! Seriously, who wouldnt! The law graduate has been in the news lately for her weight loss, shared the photo above on her instagram page moments ago to celebrate her weight loss from 190kg to 111kg. Read the caption below:
“Celebrating my 111kg weight. Started this journey at almost 190kg, today is special to me cause I weigh 111kg as at 6pm today the 27th of Nov. 2015. What a joy…… How shall I celebrate? A slice of cheesecake sounds like the perfect deal. Hehehehehehehe almost there. #Fitnesss #healthyliving #stillkickingthefat #stilltoolegittoquit”
She added “Life is about determination. You make a choice, you focus and you go after your dream. Don’t allow anything distract you, focus is everything. On a Weight-loss journey you have to make up your mind to fight everyday, fight for what you want, fight for where you are going, fight for how you want to look. Ignore the negative voices and maintain your focus after all its your life not theirs. Still celebrating my 111kg it’s been a looooong walk and I just wanna keep walking.”
maupe: "Sunday night's attack came as a military intelligence officer confirmed that 107 soldiers remain missing nearly two weeks after a Nov. 19 battle" Which is it, 107 or 150
We don't know exactly, but what we know is that we have been lied to that no soldier was missing.
kagorba3: Right now I'm confused and frustrated at the same time still I don't wanna make lifetime mistakes.
Here is my plight...There's is a young man seriously in love with me but I'm far from liking him let alone love him yet he wouldn't stop, this his relenting spirit kinda attracted me to him but still I can't find a place in my heart to accommodate him, everything about him just irritate me, he laughs uncontrollably over my not so funny jokes, from the look of things he seems so happy and settled with me yet I'm at the opposite end, whenever we have a date I do keep an eye on my wrist watch and keep wishing time flies so fast.
But I discover he is serious and focused and sound to interact and have a meaningful convo with but his physical looks is just a big turn off, I really wanna give birth to lovely kids not some "oputu poyoyo" please y'all should not tell me to look beyond looks cos these things do come into play...I'm saying this cos my mouth no good oh, anyday we have any misunderstanding I might mistakenly yab away his future.
I have been postponing giving him a yes hoping for someone presentable to show these signs of seriousness but no way, now he has fix March for the main thing, all my thoughts now is how can I maneuver my way and make all my kids take after my beauty instead of his and it's my baby girl I'm so scared for cos most baby girls take over their dad.
Note: he's not rich oh just a struggling guy before y'all will conclude I'm into his money, the only thing is he acts different from the rest that will just act so sex starved, any focus girl wants a focused guy too but to tell y'all the truth I'm still in doubt since I don't feel a thing for him and he seem not to be bothered which I'm certain he will after the main thing.
Please to the lovely ladies that once said yes to a not so presentable guy(I mean a man with bending shaped head, undefined complexion and petit in nature ) how is the journey so far
Hahahahaaa. Your explanation is funny. Marriage no be by force. If you don’t feel anything for him, then don't do. So that in future you won't Bleep another man. Btw, I thought looks is secondary to a woman.
UIA04: Stupid people are shouting add weight like she can just go to the market to buy fat that is how GOD created her have you seen 2face since the guy became popular he still is slim. some people are naturally thin no matter how much food they eat Geez I can feel her pain in that reply how many people mUst have told her to put on weight
It's not wrong for her to add a little bot of weight. Haba !! You sef check am nah. But she still fine.
Olasco93: Wooing a girl is not as easy as you think especially when it comes to dealings with Nigerian girls, although most guys are nurturing the ideas that Nigeria girls are CHEAP and easy to be SCREWED once you have the money. Well it’s not all girls, a friend of mine will say "There are some 9ja girls that are naturally hard to get."
No matter how hard a girl seems to be, the right guy can still get into her heart because girls naturally are fragile in heart as so, they need to be followed up slowly, especially when you are nursing the idea of starting a relationship with them.
Not all guys have the gut to walk up to a lady and express their feelings for her, so here are Twelve (12) Tips on how to get that 9ja girl that has been giving you sleepless night.
1. Start on a Friendship Note: Most guys of now adays are always in a hurry to go into a relationship, that is why they end up running out of it when they later discover the true identity of the girl. If you see a girl that you like, before anything, you have to try as much as possible to strike a cool friendship with her before anything.
2. Don’t Stalk her: The fact that you are now friend with her doesn’t mean you should be stalking her. Just play it cool and safe. Don’t call her during odd hours except she permits you. Some Nigerian girls are quick to jump into conclusion that you can’t afford Airtime, that’s why you are always calling during odd hours of the night. Extra cool thingz that year.
3. Don’t Fake it: Don't just act natural, be natural. If your girl has a brain, she'll be able to detect that you're trying too hard, or striving to be something you're not. Try as much as possible to be natural in all your dealings with her. Don’t fake what you're not and don’t brag because girls hate guys that brag. 4. Be Confident: Nothing is sexier like being Confident, it makes girls go gaga and trip for you the more. Try as much as possible not to let your gourd down when dealing with her. Work on your self-esteem even before striking a friendship with her. Girls are naturally fragile, they need protection; that doesn’t mean you should go and flaunt your muscle with any guy that approaches her.
5. Don’t be Authoritative: All girls hate guys that always questions their moves. Don’t check her mails, sms, phone contacts & other personal stuff. Give her freedom & I bet you, she will be the one always wanting your company. Smile at her even when you see her with a guy in such an un-compromising manner.
6. Be Neat: Girls hate dirty guys. Even a well known dirty girl will tell you she hate dirty guys, how much more the clean ones. Make sure you are always neat whether she is around you or not. Brush your teeth/tongue, comb your ponk, clean your nails & always wear a nice Fragrance when visiting her or she is visiting you. Don’t go to her sweaty, if you are just returning from an exercise, make sure you shower and look calm, cool & reserved before you go visiting.
7. Be Fashionable: Fashion is not just for girls. It's for guys to be recognized by girls too. Get a nice shoe, T'Shirt & some pair of cool jean. Don't just buy one outfit. Clothes should never be worn more than twice a week. Don’t overdress & don’t under dress. A wrist watch should be okay. Wearing sun glasses, three to four neck chains & dressing like Chally-Boy claiming its SWAGS might turn her off. To me in person, SWAG has got nothing to do with dressing. Shave your bears if you keep one, don’t go to her looking tattered like 'werey'. She will shun you.
8. Like what she Likes: Girls are unpredictable, so you have to be tactical when dealing with them. The closer you get to her, the more you get to know her better. Like her siblings, her family & especially her friends.
9. Be Romantic: Girls like romantic guys, so be romantic with your words. Don’t forget to tell her how beautiful she is & how happy you are each time you're around her. Hold her hands when necessary & look into her eyes sexily but don’t get lust in her eyes because some girls have sexy eyes. This might embarrass her. An early morning Good Morning Beautiful sms will go a long way in her developing interest in you.
10. Be Current: In as much as girls don’t like guys that talk too much like Derenle, they like guys that are current. Getting current informations online about happening around you will make her know that you are learned and that you follow trend. No girl will like to be with a bush guy.
11. Be Funny: Being funny does not mean you should turn to a jester. Always crack sensible joke once in a while when speaking with her. Always try as much as possible to make her smile & laugh but don’t overdo it like Sikiru. Girls hate boring guys.
12. Ask her Out: With all these qualities, I doubt if a sensible girl will turn you down. Goodluck to the wise guys who implore these tips.
Also include 12 steps to follow not to be friend zoned.
Icus: I was arguing wiv a gal which later resulted into a quarel.we trade insults, rained abusive words on 1anoda.i remembered calin her a 'human toilet' and to my suprise,i heard a lightening strike on ma left cheek unexpectedly.i felt d prolonged sound of a bell being rung.i experienced night blindness for a short time.On regaining balance a lil,i retaliated by landing her a THUNDROUS MIGHTY HEAVY DOUBLE SLAP.i dint even boda whr it wud land.to my amusement,she was subdued to it.i tot KNOCKOUT was only applicable to boxing.i dint know thr r KNOCKOUT SLAPS.It was den i realised dat shez unconscious buh later fainted.it seems the slap has resetted her.it was den i realised i ve created a scene.i tot i'd be lynched.ppl arnd later intervened nd she was helped to regain her consciousness.i was astonished dah d crowd were even urgin me to take d aura of patience while dealin wiv gals.dey had been watchin.i was glad dah i was justified.Psychopath like she sud be brutalised
This is good news.... When he was not in power, he was talking as if he is a master negotiator, as if he knows what to do to stop the boko haram menace, he deceived some people and even promised to stop boko haram two months after he assumed the office of the president of Nigeria. Now that he has won the election, the so called 'man of integrity' the man whose word one can take to the bank and one will be paid millions, the man who was so poor that he borrowed money to pick his party's presidential form ( Anybody wey believe this part na idiot), has started changing his words. A call to boko boys, keep bombing, the idiot in power now was once defending you when he was an opposition candidate. Some Nigerians just forget things so easily, this is a man that cried and said the last election (2011) will be his last, 2015 he came out to contest again and you lot voted for him, where's the integrity in that?, he and his minions gave excuses that people pressurized him to contest again, this means he can be easily swayed, he can't decide for himself, he is not fit to rule. But alas, the masters ans servants and some misguided fellows voted him in, he has started negating on his campaign promises, no 5k, no free feeding, security is worse under the so called general. I don't weep for Nigeria, I rejoice that I wasn't fooled by the cheap propaganda's of the APC.
[b]BOKO BOYS, TRY TOUCH LAGOS SMALL[/b].
Abeg this no be good news oh. Make Boko no come Lagos. If them come Lag, make dem go to the sai baba house chanters house first. But no be my prayers.
looseweight: Yes, Many people are very lazy. How do I know?
I got the contact of a fellow nairaland member who is on to MLM business around august in this forum, and to be candid, I started with zero naira byt today, I cash in a few thousands. For me to reciprocate this, I came here again, put up something about mlm and many contacted me. However, we finished the training, only one came back and showed interest. I thank God, she is doing well today.
I discover that people will rush a package with a price taq, but free things like this, they won't take it serious. These are programs people will demand huge amount of money from you and won't teach you the rudiments and your money will go down the drains....
Hard work pays my peoplepeople
IAMLOOSEWEIGHT
What sort of mlm are you doing ? And how much is the start up ?
udeagbalaC: The commissioner of health kaduna state standing stressing a point, while the Executive Governor of kaduna state Mal Nasir Ahmed El rufai is sitting on the floor listening during the 2016 town hall budget meeting at Hassan Usman Katsina House Kaduna.
chimere66: President Buhari some days back hosted senators and some officials to a dinner.The dinner was attended by Senator Saraki,Senator Akpabio,Deputy Senate leader Senator Bala Ibn'Nallah and many others.Sen. Bala outfit to the dinner however made Nigerians to wag their tongues.Was his outfit to the occasion befitting for a top politician like him?
vooyour: lady OP, it's quite obvious that this guy does NOT love you. Do yourself a favour and move on. you're not there because "he won't let you go". you're there because you keep hoping he'll choose you. HE WON'T! if the dick is too good for you to pass up then just ride it and shut your mouth. as long as you don't mind being side chick or friends with benefits. your choice
Yeah. At least you're not like others who are calling the guy a "loser" and seeing the girl as a victim. This is a case of two consenting adults and no one was deceived. The girl likes her neighbour and would want his commitment but it doesnt work that way.
Career › Re: My Experience With A Pervert Manager by vislabraye(m): 11:55pm On Dec 02, 2015
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