₦airaland Forum

depressedgurl:
Hi all.
I don't even know where to start from. I have been suffering from depression since my teen years and its been off and on. Sometimes it gets better and sometimes it gets worse and this has also been the reason for my weight fluctuation as I am an emotional eater.

So this is the fattest I have been and I feel so ugly and don't really want to go anywhere anymore because people always make comments about my weight and this makes me feel very bad. A person knows when they haive gained weight and when they are fat. People don't need to keep rubbing it on their faces.

Anyways my boyfriend loves really slim women. He does not like a women fat. When am with him and he thinks am not watching I see how he looks at other slim women. All his ex gf have been slim and were ever slimmer than I was when we first met. I just feel so unloved and don't feel much support. I am trying to lose weight even if it means the quick way like pills etc as am tired of feeling this way.

I tend to gain weight more on the down part my butt, hips and thighs and then my top. I would really appreciate if anyone could recommend something they have used that really worked?

P.s please don't bash me or insult me. It took a lot to post these pics and I know I am fat so that is not the issue.

If you gain weight on you hips and thighs, it's not too bad. It's better than gaining on your stomach and arms. Fact is, ensure you maintain a flat stomach and slim hands no matter what. No kill yourself.

shyling:
Flirtykaren get an education. Her Royal majesty was talking about gender equity.

I think they are both speaking from different contexts. A woman should have equal opportunities as men and should not be treated as inferior to their male counterparts.
What the princess or queen was trying to say is that there are certain roles a man can play best. (It's a man's world, afterall). Women are not configured for certain things same as men. But the problem we have are feminist who want to make women the heard of the home.

DrFerlie:
I have decided to create a thread for drilling engineers and drilling supervisors ( company man ), so that we can share experience and best practices.

I am currently working on a BOD for a deepwater field development - drilling and completion.


Guys, come in and let's discuss.

Wow..,.. It's been a while. Concluded mud engineering from pti. How's your end ?

abuayman:
Hmmm, Una see the kind pretending wey old men de do ba

Funny pic. It beats my imagination why Amaechi and Fashola who have cases of corruption are made ministers. There's no fight against corruption. It's a charade. Obj even did better.

Bryan12:
Google Andrew carnegie

He was a wealthy industrialist, no doubt. But at least he got help from a Col, who gave him books to read.
Well, as for the guy in question, he can make it. God knows best.

21dadi8mi:
the problem is the guy is made in the street found in the street. street life is very hard to transform easily ehm just like that! have seen area boys that were empowered by govt at the end they return to the street. that dosent stop you to help other.

I agree with your views. May be Olajumoke is an exception.

Bryan12:
He wants to be a self made-man.Thats the kinda man I'm working myself to be

No body is really a self made man. At some points in time every successful man was assisted. Is Mark Zuckerberg, Ronaldo, Dangote, Adenuga or Trump ?

idupaul:
Funny he doesn't want to be known but he is flaunting 4 million USD in these times when forex is in short demand ..I am sure kidnappers have taken note

He no dey PH. Make him dey Ph and make him begin flaunt money like this.

olimeh13:
This week rain has done more harm than good to the people that lives close to the coastal areas in Lagos state most especially Lekki and Ajah area...

View pictures below

. Pls what part of Ajah is this ?

bamirotola:
Are you telling me Buhari and arase does not have enough facility or capacity to contain these herdsmen? I think the best thing is to allow each state police force to operate independently like d NYPD, LAPD and the likes... The bill of providing grazing land for em in each is an agenda to infiltrate terrorise d south.. they should all go back to their homeland, get a grazing land there and these whole poo will be settled.. USA and other European country eats beef and you can't find any farmer moving around.. our house of rep and d assembly have lost their priorities.. they need to goo back to the drawing board, make standard policies in each parastatals, and enforce it...that's definitely after cleaning,flushing and strenghting d judiciary system... only God can save our country.. My kids cannot grow up in dis country where lamentation is d song on people everyday... God Bless Nigeria

My brother, propaganda is the order of the day. They say they've defeated bh, but the herdsmen have killed more people of recent. Zombies arw part of the problem too.

BrideOfDracula:
Hmmm, mind if I raise the number to 151?

*frantically sends a PM*

But you are bride to dracula...

ivyT:
ain't no gate or fence,so I entered

You can add your experience. Keep the ball rolling

Djboosting:
Lol.. See ego, well it happens.. But the society has always restricted ladies from doing that "wooing"

Ladies do it but they are subtle. The bolder ones might introduce themselves to you first.
Good work. Tell us how you can be thst charming.

hackban:
true experience.
A compound had been experiencing theft and other vices lately.
Residents of the compound once found items like local pistol, knives, instruments for breaking doors etc under a water drum.
Residents complains constantly of people discussing there in the midnight.
They decided to mount watch to avoid there environs used for robbery preparation etc.
One night they found a guy there, 'oga wetin you dry do here?'
the young guy said I dey smoke dey take air.
They said we no dey allow person smoke for here, the guy refused to leave.
The residents decided to report the case to Agip road police station.
I was among those who went to the station. We narrated the incidence to the police officers on duty, they asked us to pay two thousand naira to write our statement and another two thousand naira for one policeman to walk with us (way less than 300 metres away) to ask the guy to leave.
I was disgusted and I wanted us to leave but the elderly ones among us said let's just pay, we paid and no receipt was given to us as they said they are out of receipts booklets.
As soon as we stepped out of the police office and while still in the police premises, they called us that the smoking man has left the place. We turned to police oya give us back our money...na there wahala start
long and short was that they threatened to lock me up for insisting on collecting our money. We were not refunded our fraudulently obtained money. disgusting set of humans.

Hahahahaaa..... Dem do play una one chance. I pray say make I no get anything do with police.

apcmustwin:
well I stay in the north and I can confidently tell you the only area you can't fault this government is in security. Of course bokoharam can't not be crushed completely. There will still be sporadic attacks here and there but believe me they have "technically" been defeated. Even the most advanced nations in the world still get attacked by terrorist despite their sophisticated and advanced technology. So Mr, we can't rule out attacks here and there.
If there's anything I will give this govt a pass mark on its on security. U can't completely annihilate terrorism Mr

U forgot to mention what part of the North you reside.

When it becomes too much it is disgusting. Let her reduce 30% of her mass.

Diamondqueen:
Do you think her size is too skinny? Would you date this size?

From waist up, I like it. But laps a bit too slim. At least she get bosom.

adonbilivit:
is it fair? her phone got stolen, she claimed. I got her a new phone. after buying her the phone she started travelling as if she is now Amaechi( minister of transport). what annoys me is the fact that it is the phone that I gave her that she uses to make plans with the guy(s) she is visiting. she hardly picks my calls. she doesn't want to show me appreciation for my kind gestures. Now she just flashed me and I called her. guess what she told me? please try...she said she would want us to meet this evening. now I know she wants to ask me for money but I am thinking of using this opportunity to collect back the phone I gave her and then kick her out of my life.

adonbilivit, today you go bilivit. Sorry for your hurt. She has played you one chance. It's painful but be careful next time. Don't use gifts to woo a woman.

saintandsinnerz:
Bro don't get it twisted. Wall Street is different fr Wall Street Journal. Wall Street is a street in New York where the American stock exchange and other financial institutions are located, hence the the American stock exchange is regarded as the Wall Street. In fact, the Wall Street is where the world's two largeat stock exchanges are located - the New York stock exchange and NASDAQ. So anytime you hear American Wall Street just know they are referring to American stock exchange.
In the other hand, the Wall Street Journal is a business-focusesd daily newspaper based also in New York. It is the largest newspaper in America based on circulation and readership. It's a highly respected newspaper in America. It has won many reputable prizes! It only dserived its name from the Wall Street and should not be confused as the Wall Street which has now become a metonym for American stock exchange. So anytime you hear the Wall Street just known they are referring to America's stock exchanges and financial centre

Lol. Some people be olodo. I no know whether your education go help am.

Agunnewi:
My attention has been drawn to the fact that GMB hired 13 SANs and 10 lawyers to defend his inability to show the world his WAEC Certificate. That is not good for this democracy…

They said the Military board under GEJ hid GMB's WAEC certificate Today, GMB is President. So who is still hiding Buhari's certificate...

We are not wailing for GMB to show us his certificate (you can't give what you don't have) But to let the world know the scam that he is.

We need to let future generations know that Once upon a time, A Nigerian President was scammed into office without a basic WAEC Certificate

Posterity and future generations need to know That a President was asked to show his WAEC Certificate but he rather went to bring 13 SANs.

Zombies will think contrary.

This is shameful

MadamExcellency:
Comprehension is your problem.

US Government pronounced a guilty verdict on our congressmen without fair hearing over a gossip by disgruntled hotel staff and this move by US has never happened before in the history of this country. This is the same way EFCC under Buhari has been doing on pages of newspapers and on Internet which is a bad precedence.

US doesn't cancel visas in such circumstances rather they wait to apprehend the suspects on their next visit for possible trial hence I am suspicious of the step taken so far by US. This is a setup to tarnish the image of the pillar of Nigeria's democratic institution.

The image has already been tarnished. When ur president jeep saying Nigerians a corrupt whatbdo you expect

jaelz:
Okay see the huge bush meat i killed in my kitchen this morning, i have seen so many threads here on Nairaland here where people happily showed off the bush meat the killed and prepared for themselves but in this case i couldn't do that cause of two reasons:

1.) Being that i had to make it to work and so i couldn't prepare it

2.) Even though i didn't have to go to work i don't even know how to prepare it ma so njoy....

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Op, be careful of ebola