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Adaeze003: Lol @ 2sexy. Thanks sha

@wackyj1 I know your type jor. Be sweet talking now after you'll be smashing my phone.lmao!

No my dear, i'll only smash your phone when i'm getting you a new better one. Atleast you deserve the best..
So *Starts playing that Banky W song* Yes? no?

WackyJ1: hahahaha

2s£xy:
Ada, that dude is one of those rare gem ooh. He would fit you well? And guess what, he is handsome and very intelligent

LOl.. Popcorn is till 200naira sha

50calibre: @Shollypopz aka Wu Zaitan where you at? Please come, I want to know more about you, or are you cooking up some deadly poison to kill me once and for all?

hahahaha

Subomi-luv:

2s£xy:
Ada, may your days be long on earth and your marriage be fruitful.

ada see our marriage is already being blessed

Adaeze003: Are you the 'I can die for you' type?

I am the "whatever type is needed" type , so how about it?

POP corn and Drinks, Get them here, You can't enjoy this late evening showdown on an empty stomach, get them here while they're hot. YOU!! YES YOU !! I'm talking to you viewing this topic, you need this

Subomi-luv:
I never justified the girls actions, where did i say that what the girl did was good but the guy is a fool too. So upon all the signs(4months) yet he did not get the picture and now he is here crying. Am sowi but i call a spade a spade. What is worse is he smashed the phone yet he could have sold it for money which he does not have. Let me give you men a tip. If you behave like a Mumu trust me some girls who treat you like a mumu.

poshdiva: Look...I don't care about whether she is shouting him down or walking out on him. He must have shown himself to be a wimp of a man or those 'I can die for you' type of men. My own is that breaking her phone was just out of it! He went too far and I still don't think he should dump her.

From the two posts above i think i can reach a logical conclusion that many ladies will treat you poorly if you show love and Patience and understanding because of love wanting a strong hand (not too strong) yet will still bash you when you decide to take a strong action.

Adaeze003: @ poshdiva, even wimps deserve respect! That a guy is the 'I can die for you' type according to you doesn't excuse stupid behaviour. Was he immature by smashing the phone? Yes! But when analysing an issue you start from what led to it and not make conclusions by the final action.

Every action produces an equal and opposite reaction.

Op needs to let go cos if she truly luvs him she'll definitly come back and if not, why waste more time and resources?

Before the rest of them get here let me say this first. Will you marry me?

Subomi-luv:
Yes those types of girls are Mumu's and deserve all they get. Just like the op is a certified Mumu

It's a shame that you say this, from what i have seen in life and on this thread, girls are very good at justifying their actions, just the way some ladies are justifying what the girl did or at the very least rationalizing it. What makes you think that those girls that are sticking with that kind of guy don't have their own rationalisations that would sound just as sensible to you as what ladies have been saying here to the OP.
Whenever you point out the error of girls, most will assume that the problem is particular to the girl you're using as a case study and if you present multiple examples, they will immediately say that it is only the girls that the speaker meets that behave like that.

Na REal war wan start *Chooks hand inside 2sexy's pop corn bowl*

50calibre: Speaking of the guy breaking her phone ( which he bought for her ), why doesn't he have the right to break it, when the very gift he gave out of benevolence, is now being used to annoy him? Or don't you know how annoying being with a phone addict can be?

He bought the phone with his money for his girlfriend, fu*k it he can do whatever he likes to the phone, if the girl isn't happy, she can go to hell. I only fault the guy for being a fool when there are loads of girls out there.

Whether the ladies like it or not there are guys like this out there that are keeping a good handle over their girlfriends

poshdiva: Not gonna go into that debate with you. I can see where you are headed.

Lool a little angry smiley confused you , you misinterpreted where i was heading either that or i misinterpreted where you thought that i thought that you thought i was heading...

Anyway the extra cash should show that he is really sorry for breaking the phone

poshdiva: Nobody said he has to give her money. He should fix her phone.

And nobody said the girl won't appreciate a little extra cash to make her hair and Subscribe for Next month's BIS

poshdiva: BB

Yes.. or haven't you ever used a blackberry phone?

OKAY it is agreed, Poster you repair the phone and give the girl some amount of money to appease the ladies and you break up with the girl to appease the guys. It's a win win situation. The girl can go and meet that guy that has been turning her head and you are free to meet a girl that will truly love you and appreciate you.

poshdiva: Lool. You need patience in a relationship. He alone knows the kind of girlfriend he has. He needs to calm down

My dear you must have had some really good memories with that your BB that year

poshdiva: Look...I don't care about whether she is shouting him down or walking out on him. He must have shown himself to be a wimp of a man or those 'I can die for you' type of men. My own is that breaking her phone was just out of it! He went too far and I still don't think he should dump her.

Oh now i see your point of view, you should have said so since.

OP YOU DEYY SEE NOW better correct yourself and use a strong hand this time, smashing the phone was just the beginning

poshdiva: @wackyj the way i see the Op's girlfriend iis someone who doesn't take nonsense.

she doesn't take nonsense but is licensed to give nonsense.. issokoay

jeffp: i talk to her..she damms me...she is easily carried away...chatting with people and friends and reading rubbish especially on linda ikeja blog especially on relationships..and how a man should treat a woman right...All these does nt even bother me.. the new one is that is shouts me down..and frequently walks out on me

poshdiva: He also acted immature. He could have just communicated his feelings to her Instead of breaking HER phone.

Sigh... Please read the following over and over again

jeffp: All these have been happening for over 4months..i don talk tire..but my girlfriend who believes dat a man and a woman are on the same level has refused to change.

2s£xy:
If I slap you from here... Ehn, warakpa go catch that your comatose brain.

Would you allow someone to treat your own brother that way?


Will you like to be treated that way?

Why is that girls within that age are so foolish, brainless , senseless and immature?

hahaha 2sexy never fails to disappoint

Wu Zetian: @jeffp, do not mind all these silly ppl telling you she's cheating, most of them are single-broke-misogynists. If she was the one that smashed your phone, they would be screaming hell and calling her a devil...............

There's something you need to get straight, there's hardly any 23 yr old that isn't addicted to his/her phone. You incessantly laid claim to the fact that you got her the phone; are you the first and only guy that bought his girl a gift?? Did she force you to buy it?? You made the decision yourself to go ahead and buy her a blackberry, stop thinking you can act a fool and go scott-free because you bought her a blackberry.

You have a great share of fault here. Initially, when you were raging mad that she was giving all her attention to her phone, she was oblivious of this. Instead of you to tell her what you're mad about, you decided to give her an attitude and pout like a sulking little kid. Are u dumb or a baby?? Don't you know how to express your feelings by communicating??
To make matters worse, (like giving her attitude wasn't rude enough) you decided to snatch her phone and smash it! Thank God for your girlfriend cos my next line of action would not be to cry. After I'm done scolding and "telling you about your life", you would never act irrational in my presence again!

When one is already mad at another person, every other thing that person does irritates them. That is what I think happened with the groceries or shopping bags. She helped with the grocery bags but she didn't just help the way you wanted her to. It's funny, cos when I go out shopping with even my male friends, they do not even want me to lift a finger when it comes to carrying the bags. I guess chivalry is dead as far as jeffp is concerned. (Hey, I'm not an ardent advocator for chivalry, I couldn't care less)

How can you borrow money for a birthday??!! Lol, brother I appreciate the fact the you're in love but your girl needs to be more aware of your finances.

Come where did you see that he incessantly laid claim to the fact that he got her a phone? What i actually Saw was that he kept referring to it as her phone throughout his posts so where are you coming from?

You said this

Wu Zetian: Initially, when you were raging mad that she was giving all her attention to her phone, she was oblivious of this. Instead of you to tell her what you're mad about, you decided to give her an attitude and pout like a sulking little kid. Are u dumb or a baby?? Don't you know how to express your feelings by communicating??

But i wonder whether you actually read this

jeffp: he new one is that is shouts me down..and frequently walks out on me...All these have been happening for over 4months..i don talk tire.. but my girlfriend who believes dat a man and a woman are on the same level has refused to change.

So you condone her disrespecting her man because she is with her phone as a 23 year old? it's been 4 months she has been doing that and As you can see he has been talking so where are you coming from? You just want to come and insult the OP. Or is this What you call giving her attitude?

jeffp: Then she asked me ..how can some block someone on WHATTAPP ? and i said.."I DONT KNOW".. he just seeing d way i replied her..shouted right in my front "OHHHHHH" and hissed and walked away

What is wrong with the girl concentrating on the task at hand and then going to be with her phone once it is done? Look at the way she reacted to just 3 words, sure the way the OP could have said it could be offensive but why can't you say that the girl should have been understanding that the guy is in a bad mood and just keep quiet or wonder why or maybe say "oh baby but i was just asking a question na" instead she just hissed and went away leaving the guy in the rain, isn't relationships supposed to be about mutual patience and tolerance? This is a 23 year old and not a teenager.

jeffp: yesterday she said that she dey watch me since and i have refused to do the phone that i should go and find money to fix it...even if i bought the phone for her..that i should fix it..i told her i should get a smaller phone for her..she said NO

Even after the smashing he staill proceeded to make this girl's birthday fun and even after that the girl still came to ask for the phone back and instead of shouting and calling the girl ungrateful and annoying he explained to her and even offered to buy her a new phone.

With all the above it just think you cam e to justify everything that the girl did (most of it anyway) and put more blame on the Op than is due, personally the only place the OP is at fault is smashing the girl's phone. On the other hand the Girl at 23 is behaving like a Stu.p.id teenager

poshdiva: You people's response to everything is always 'dump her' she made a mistake so the poster should let her go. You are quick to judge just because of one bad trait she has which is obviously anger management. Do you have any idea of the good qualities the girl may possess? The earlier you realize that nobody is perfect, the better for you.

Lol, i think you missed the part where he said that he had been enduring the behaviour for 4 months and that he has been talking and talking and talking. What more do you want this guy to do again? Many people would not have taken to the level that this guy has taken as evidenced by the posts on this thread.
How can you read all that the OP posted and say that her problem is just anger management? The girl is immature, She is selfish, Inconsiderate, in addition that that anger management problem, and she doesn't love the guy anymore, she doesn't even respect him. Her mind is swaying somewhat.
My dear from the level to which her attitude has degenerated to, it is obvious that just giving her time is not going to do anything at all, in fact that is just a waste of time except someone that she respects comes and gives her a thorough lecture and then she decides to change only then can the level of the girl's foolishness have a chance of changing.
How can she after Enjoying a well spent birthday come and start demanding the phone back? and you Say that she may not really need the phone back, na wa for you oh Even after seeing this?

jeffp: TO REMIND UNA..na me spend money to do birthday for her ohh..even i had to borrow extra money from my brother to make sure it was cool and beautifull..and i made sure she smiled on dat day..
the next day..she con say ..she needs her phone back working...i was shocked..i told her dat i am broke..i nr get money..that is she not aware that i used all my money to do her birthday..she said that for me to destroy her property..i must take responsibility to fix it.

yesterday she said that she dey watch me since and i have refused to do the phone that i should go and find money to fix it...even if i bought the phone for her..that i should fix it..i told her i should get a smaller phone for her..she said NO.

. Remember that this girl is 23 not 18, she passed 18 5 years ago

What is the difference between these two ladies?

poshdiva: Op don't break up with her abeg. She might not even need the phone again. She is probably still angry at the manner in which you acted. Just give her some time.

Adaeze003: Not to be a party pooper but let her go. She might nt love you plus you need to focus on your career. Spending every penny you've got on a girl aint wise use the money to build ur career instead.

One wants the poster to keep deceiving himself in face of the truth and the other knowing the nature of girls as a fellow girl has decided to say the truth. Take your pick

Airtel internet has been off for a about 24 hours now and it just came on, if these guys wanna carry put maintenance they should atleast let their people know first. I've had many worried friends contact me worried that they couldn't browse with their subscription, i had to let them know that it was also affecting me and that they had not been duped.

philfearon: Please stop my dear...

*coughs* Bros i wanna take this opportunity to tell you i am one of the silent readers of your thread though i have never commented, Nice work you're doing there keep up the good work.

repogirl: hey eediiot, I'm saying it as it is, some girls do this and dats what am pointing out. How did I put blame on the guy? I only stated what he himself said and explained it out.
typical guy attitude, blame the chick one way or another. I'm not condoning her attitude or condemning it, I'm saying what it looks like.
if u have a problem wit that then please by all means go and hang yourself and see if I care.
are we all not entitled to our opinions anymore? Idio'tic fool!

Lol you never start my dear, Look at my post to the poster and see what i said to him, i didn't even mention the girl, even in my post to you, i didn't condemn the girl but you still knew where i stood on the attitude of the girl. Stop decieving yourself saying you neither condemn nor condone your attitude, there is no fence sitting in this world either you're here or there.you obviously in a state of confusion as is obvious in your post, in attempting to sit on the fence you have passed most of the blame to the guys if not all, while taking the girls behaviour to be normal, if that is not bias then i don't know what is...

repogirl: she's looking for something better, u made no promises for the future with her.

I'm sure once she finds the one who's ready to be serious, she'll dump all the other ones she's been stringing along and go into the committed relationship.

Obviously you yourself did not understand the content of your post and you just wanted to post for the sake of it and sounding wise and knowledgeable.
It's people like you that don'[t know where their stand is in life and allow life to toss them up and down without knowing why, ND THEN YOU END UP blaming others for your misfortune
Repogirl i think your brain is Reposed and you better wake it up before it starts to decompose..

Mehn ^^^ this girl is really daft.. Look at how she just justified the girl's inability to stay committed and faithful in a relationship, stringing guys along and then putting the blame on the guys and making a wack assumption all in one go..
Nothing s the girl's fault...

You know what they say bro... karma is a B.it.ch.. And she just bi.tc.h smacked you.
How can you own stolen property and think it'll forever be yours?
Abeg Go sit down and don't tell the girl anything, you purposed in your mind and took her away from tade and now she has done the same to you and you still want to talk? Do you know what 5years is? The girl doesn't owe you anything. You want to bare your mind to her but can your sense of injustice stand against what you did to tade?
Now you know how much it hurts...
I did like the way you put your story though

kimco: wacky i asked a question...stop being a jerk really. I wanted to know cos it confused me alot. Atleast i wasn't claiming to know.

Sorry about that mate . Thought you needed it

kimco: not entirely correct. Tosyn's explanation is correct. It was free will, and also the fact that orochimaru had taken the body of that plant guy (forgot his name, oh my memory) which was hashi's cell. Even tobirama stated that orochimaru was full of it. Oro used it to strengthen the edo tensei to reach near full power (right about that) but also to strengthen the restraint. Which means he cud have the best of both worlds. However since it was hashi's cell he was able to break that restraint. His point gave me the full idea that's why i gave him his ''like''.

wacky i asked a question...stop being a jerk really. I wanted to know cos it confused me alot. Atleast i wasn't claiming to know.

1. It's not about Cells or whatever for breaking the restraint, it's about Chakra level, both madara and harashima had high level chakra hence they were able to break free from control don't just look at it from only one side because orochimaru was using the first's chakra. It's knowledge of the jutsu that accounts for the increase In effectiveness while harashima's cells account for increase in restraint.. Orochimaru perfected the jutsu to bring them back to full strength which he didn't do before and also strengthening the power of the restraint to just above the 2nd's ability but below the first. Meaning that If orochimaru had enough chakra preferably from another source then even harashima would not have broken free.
2. I say it's not about free will because if orochimaru had brought them back before with full powers yet without the power to hold them back then they would have broken free before they could have their tags implanted.

Choi the new manga!!! Kishi has killed me oh!!!

mehn this chapter blew my mind...

Feraz: Aren't you Kazekage?

abi oh...

kimco: i don't believe this....wacky u really are willing to swallow everything given to u by kishi aren't u. ''Proverbial straw that broke the camels back''? Dude that straw broke the camels back when naruto decided to whack the beast with a hundred rasengans and literarily steal chakra from him to fuel himself...much more like the U.S.A is doing to iraq ect. Then after that u're telling me that the end is what justifies it? If kyuubi didn't care for that little baby and was about to kill it, if kyuubi didn't care for that little 10yr old or something...in his years of suffering and rejection, what makes u think he'll care now for the 16yr old boy who beat him up like a common dog for chakra and is trying to play a hero?

1. You have not been seeing anything to suggest otherwise that is why you'll keep thinking that the kyuubi just woke up one morning and changed. You saw that he didn't care, or you saw the kyuubi hding his emotions and you thought he didn't care well i say he cared, he was happy that the small boy was suffering.
2. You say that kyuubo didn't care then why did he keep giving naruto his chakra to help him out in some tough situations? What about the time in part two when naruto told the kyuubi that he would find the answer to the hatred in the world and also perhaps to the hatred of the kyuubi, did you want the kyuubi to smile there and then say he's happy or respects naruto for trying to do that (after all he was trapped under some sealing gates)? I'm trying to liken the nature of the kyuubi to human nature a bit here, many times we think about some things but we hide our emotions on the outside but deep down there is a change going on inside us, this i know to be true from experience.
3. What i actually said was that the act of stealing chakra from kyuubi earned him the respect because kyuubi is proud and doing that whether it is shown or not will increase kyuubi's respect for naruto and at the same time his indignation at the act but that is not what can lead to true change of heart or even add to the building one, it is the fact the naruto stole the kyuubi's power for a different purpose than what other people have been doing in the past and further more the way that naruto is going about it because the way that naruto sees the kyuub is different from the way that others have seen him in the past, it all comes down to manner of approach.

kimco: I'm sure even bee took tym to win over the hachibi. Really think about it wacky.

Why do you think this is true? This is just a big assumption too, are you saying it because bee is older then naruto? do you know the exact time that bee tames the eight tails?
Can you show anywhere in the manga that says that it took time for bee to tame the eight tails or do you just assume it to be so.
Let me help you out, Taming a tailed beast is different from becoming friends with it, so you must provide evidence for this your assumption and if you can't find it in the manga, hell it's just another plot hole to your collection.

kimco: To address ur first point- u know what i want...consistency. If u want kyuubi to change...show it from tym to tym...so when it finally happens, nobody complains. But when it jux happens at the convenience of the major character then that's bad writing. I don't want anything wacky...i jux want the storytelling to be top notch, jux like it was before the time skip. As it stands, it failing these days.

[quote author=kimco]I still read the manga, cos as it stands, i can't give up now...not after i've invested so much tym. Atleast i wanna see how it ends.

And oh excuse me everyone...i may be wrong... but where was it stated that kyuubi was eating naruto's chakra atall? Wacky, are u writing ur own personal naruto manga?

Why are you making contradictory statements, you say you read the manga yet you don't know some simple truths inside, my internet is slow this morning that is why i have been unable to bring out the page for you so why don't you go and do some research about it yourself.

No wonder you didn't notice the small sign of kurama's conversion in the fact that he stopped eating naruto's chakra long ago during the battle allowing him to sustain his chakra mode for a longer time.