Family › Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by wany(f): 3:36am On Jun 24, 2020 |
dinachi: Your wife is already a lesbian! Warp brain lesbian and she is married with 2kids.is google really your friend,if it is then check out the word bisexual.  |
Family › Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by wany(f): 3:33am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Justdogood: Guy. @op.
You are just too weak for my liking. 1, let her have the children. If I am you hmmmmm. I can go all out out to defend myself once I know am innocent. See. Time teaches all of us a lesson. If am in your shoes, though I wouldn't wanna be. I will not call her again. As long as she is away. I will change all the keys to that house. I will stop sending her even if its 1kobo. Since she decided to move out and hide her location. See, women are alwasy good at this they play card no 1, watch ur reactions and play card 2, 3, 4 and so on. Bone her for now and dont even feel bothered. You can do it.
2. Shun her mothers words and actions. its your mistake from the first time. Which is letting her come live with you guys.
3. There has to be rules and guidelines for the house if she is going to come back. See, when the going gets tough, the tough gets going. They say when the birds have decided to fly without perching. We the hunters will learn to shoot without aiming. The rules should include. -Her mother can come visiting, but will not stay more than 2weeks -sex now has to be scheduled or timed or you should be the one to initiate divorce. The sex should be at least twice weekly -no abusive words from mum inlaw or your wife again. As long as they are under your roof. Also you -the next time she leaves the house without your notice and not disclosing her whereabouts, that day the marriage ends. As you will file for divorce. Cos i have noticed. Women use that which you cherish the most to threaten you cos they know you are scared to lose it. Thats why she is always using divorce or your children. Cos she feels you are scared. Please add as much stringent rules as u can.
Some black women are like the devil. His name in igbo is "ekwensu" meaning "ikwe ya esu" translation "if you agree, it starts". What ever a woman does, once you let that one slide, its has started. More will come. Am just soo pained watch or hearing this from my fellow man. Nope. I wont take it. Please emphasize on that sex part well for her. And let her know it just has to be by the rules above. Infact stop being scared of divorce cos thats what her mum keeps telling her to use or maybe ur kids. If she wants to go, let her go. Let her go. Whats all this. You weren't physical or abusive and then the cheating issue is just on mere accusations jeez 
Cos the way your marriage is going, if you dont get strong and tough, you will end up being turned into a simp or a sis, or a vegetable husband who has an alpha wife, or they will push you till you die or commit suicide.
Sit up father of the house, Sit up my fellow man, Sit up papa mmadu, You are the man, You are the head of that house lead that house. Dont let any mother inlaw or wife chnage this.
Finally if she decides to chnage. In all aspects You can soft pedal on the above listed conditions.
Thanks No wonder your own woman left,who gives condition for sex,rules and order in a marriage ,his marriage is not army Barack ,take your egoistic self far off,the op knows better.  |
Celebrities › Re: Lilian Esoro Allegedly The Cause Of Jude Ighalo And Wife Divorce by wany(f): 7:51pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
victorian: Can u imagine ? Hear what u are saying!
So because she divorced? She can now wreck other women's homes abi?
She should thank her Jazz man, the homes she's wrecking the women there are weak!
If she ventures use her stupid left legs near my man. She won't even live to tell her tales.
Useless Lilian!
She will meet her water loo one day. Fucvkin rich married men with no self control. Let her continue o.
Smhhhhh And who is your man compare to the men she roll with ,babe rest .  |
Celebrities › Re: Chidinma Leilani Aaron Is Engaged by wany(f): 8:54pm On Jun 21, 2020 |
GOFRONT: Oh yea, a self-made beautiful lady like this deserve an engagement to a wealthy Billionaire......
And not some peasant Ugly A$s golddigger like 0nyii 2.2........Just take a look at the irritating fungi infected feet of a lady that wants to cruize around with made men......take a look at her nyama nyama feet, wall and bedspread... Do you also forbid to be a billionaire and marry the Queen. You are not better than onyii22, every one deserve the best.go out and make money it is all that counts.  |
Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels Travels With Senior Wife And Husband In Preparation To Give Birth by wany(f): 8:36am On Jun 21, 2020 |
Ybaby: Love is not scam o but love without money na scam. I agree with dump him and marry a rich man. When he too is rich he will marry.
Women and kids are not for poor man.
See plenty children and none is hungry.
One John will have 2 children and you will be wondering if their father is alive because of how scrawny and hungry the kids look.
John will come on NL and be complaining I have paid rent but she does not want to pay school fees.
I spit on 50/50 men.
Regina enjoy your life biko..... see skin in pregnancy.
Regina mom went with poor man and her beauty faded fiam - see how pretty Regina is. Avoid poor men at all cost! Funny you.Chic's are not smileing |
Romance › Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by wany(f): 5:27pm On Jun 20, 2020 |
MASTERCHIEF0847: If you have deep freezer in your house place her on top and fvck her real good before you collect the phone, if no deep freezer find a desk or table but make sure it doesn't have a large surface, she has to be struggling with taking the D and and not falling off the freezer/table simultaneously Good luck. What if your D is not sizeable or indomie.and what if she doesn't like it on a table or freezer.what if  |
Family › Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by wany(f): 9:25pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Ariza: This is telling women not to work at all because if only everyone is destined to make it at the same time same place, same way and equal measures will your suggestion be achievable. Some things aren't set in stones and SUCCESS is one of it. Even if a woman search for a man who "wants" to go further how sure is she that he will go further or do that that before her.
And , There is a difference between a submissive woman and coherced submissive Woman. If a woman is submissive for a reason, it is a disaster waiting to happen because the day that 'reason' is found wanting the submission disappears. Unfortunately that's what is happening these days. Most women like you suggest only submit because their husbands have more materially. That's why people with Op's mentality exist .
I believe women should be encouraged to stand and live on their own, pay their bills and aquire whatever properties and Men should go for such Women. Only when two are equal or at least equal in their own eyes can there be genuine love. But in a society where Men would rather look for substandard women to refine and love , where Women will rather paint face and look beautiful expecting their Lords , there may never be True Love or Submission. Echoe it .  |
Family › Re: Married Men Sleeping With Their Wife's Sister Or Maid: Let's Talk About It. by wany(f): 4:45pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
spiritedtete: I remember my old friend who told me we should exchange maids.. he had a boy maid i had a girl maid...
So when he saw her and discovered i wasn't doing anything with her.. to my surprise he started begging me to let her come work for him.. it is weird to me though..
How will I be eating goat they ask me to watch over... Godforbid.. I rather go very far even if atall i want to do nonsense.. even for the sake of respecting yourself and your wife please never do your maid... please see it as a taboo. Man way carry sense. Only a cheating man will end up with a cheating woman.so when a woman cheats on a man look deep he deserves double dose.tueh  |
Business › Re: Opera News Hub: How To Make Money With Opera News Hub 2020 by wany(f): 3:52am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Nice work though not really detailed. How to sett up an opay account. Types of topic to write on etc |
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Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Most Ladies With Average Physical Beauty Are Better by wany(f): 8:15pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Toks2008: It is definitely you. Naaaaa it is you.but honesty I think you are really too old for this shit.a man almost 50 still clamouring for NL likes jeez get matured biko.you are soon going to be a grand father.no wonder your marriage didn't work.  |
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Celebrities › Re: Ibidun Ighodalo's Last Fun Moments With Husband Pastor Ituah Ighodalo by wany(f): 4:43pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Grace Oshiagwu Raped And Killed In A Church In Ibadan by wany(f): 4:18pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
hidhrhis: This thing happened in my area and their was curfew yesterday i couldn't go and watch Barcelona ball yesterday cos of it If SARS or soldier catch you for the area roaming about I swear na arrest This is the fourth time this will happen this year and after raping the girls they cut their private organ and kill them The story isnt that correct sha The father is a pastor and the girl was inside their house not in the church so this Mad Men went in through the ceiling despite the door being locked and raped her She's a friend of my cousin and the girl is really holy and calm,she doesn't go out She doesn't even know the meaning of telegram She has never heard of telegram before I pray those who are doing this are caught and i won't mind jungle justice Rip grace But did they cut of her organ.if they did then it is ritual.  |
Literature › Re: Freelance Writer With An Understanding Of How The Economy/entrepreneurship Works by wany(f): 12:59pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
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What has been below 30 got to do with content writing.your job listing is fake |
Crime › Re: Lady Who Uses Fake Naira Notes To Defraud Customers Withdrawing From POS Caught by wany(f): 4:47am On Jun 12, 2020 |
How does she gain access to the machine tray,their is a bank insider in the game.  |
Romance › Re: Lady Rolls On The Floor After Her Boyfriend Proposed To Her by wany(f): 8:07pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Professorcplus: Femenist won't like this Naaaa feminist will like it cause he knelt down.  |
Celebrities › Re: Wife Defends Lancelot Imasuen On Attempted Rape Allegation | E-nigeria! by wany(f): 7:03pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
thesicilian: A good, sensible wife is hard to find, Lancelot is lucky to have one You mean the one that covers your evil deeds?  |
Celebrities › Re: Meet The CEO Of The Fastest Growing Investment Company In Nigeria - MBA FOREX by wany(f): 6:58pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
adigun98: How true is this boss as im about investing in them Invest what you can afford to loose.  |
Celebrities › Re: Meet The CEO Of The Fastest Growing Investment Company In Nigeria - MBA FOREX by wany(f): 6:56pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Benue: Man Rapes 6-Year-Old Girl In 7 Thunder Church In Owukpa by wany(f): 6:32pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Patrioticman007: This must be a spiritual act, by raping inside Churches. Churches needs to beef up security in their churches  |
Literature › Re: This is why your book is not making sales (pictures) by wany(f): 5:15am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Lyydia: More The white boy is not a catch  |
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie: "Beyonce Didn't Make Me Popular" by wany(f): 5:05am On Jun 07, 2020 |
tayolydia: It hurts me a lot when I read all the posts to find out that FEMINISM is been trashed about by men,it hurts much more when I realised that majority of the condemnation comes from women.............them I'm forced to ask,are you comfortable with this gendered society? A society that is forcing you to be second to your fellow human(whether male superiority over female and vice versa)? Talking of man and woman,I though God made Eve out of Adam's rib,so they are equal,made of the same stuff,so why should one claim seniority over the other? There is difference between respecting your spouse and a spouse dominating..........let's get it straight and right. Beyonce....... when did blacks ever get accredited for anything they do no matter how excellently well they perform? If you are curious,read Nairobi Heat(though a fiction,it tells more). Beyonce cited Chimamanda doesn't mean she made her popular,after all who is the father of fame if not God,and believe it or not,many dont even and cannot link the song(with) and Chimamanda. Chimamanda isn't saying one should not marry or see men as important,from what I've read so far,all I can say about her work is this:men are important,so are women. You both need each other to balance out. She is saying:we don't want a society that favours one based on gender(my example,I'm carrying over a course cos I am a female,lecturer wants a fast one - i am wanted cos I have what it takes to satisfy the man;my best friend male is carrying over the same course cos he is my friend - the man hates him cos he is a male). Another instance:A male lecturer is hated because he doesn't have what to feed the hungry eyes but a female is loved cos she has what to feed the hungry eyes(this is just in a school setting oooooo) compared to the bigger society. She is saying:judge everyone based on their worth not because one is masculine(a female can be masculine) and the other is feminine(a male can be feminine)................... But Nigeria is just so patriarchal that's why it seems that she is advocating against men,take for instance; it hurts me when my mum keeps saying,you are a girl,keep your virginity for your husband,it's a thing of pride,why can't she just say keep yourself cos it makes you responsible...........,my elder sister dropped out of school cos my brother had to further his masters degree(after all my brother is a male and in the end,the wife is claiming the owner of his life,mum is just left with the two girls) and many more the female children are facing out there(sacrifices that are not worth it). However,she always have space for telling people that:'never treat the oppressed as saint' meaning that she also acknowledges that some people cause their havoc themselves not because of gender. And besides,who gender EPP? who masculinity and femininity EPP?we've been practicing gendered based society and what do we have to show for it? hubbies beating their wives to stupor,wives hating/poisoning their hubbies,male children getting the whole attention,female children doing the chores................ITS HIGH TIME WE TREATED EACH OTHER WITH RESPECT,that's the only way we won't have to war ourselves........internally and externally Wish I could give you a thousand likes,I have said it a thousand times her write up is not for warp brains.  |
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Celebrities › Re: I Want A Man Who Will Love Me And Love My Child – Actress Yvonne Jegede by wany(f): 10:06pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
SOFTDRINK: Single mothers are filth and the lowest of the female specie, a few inches above mad women.
They are dregs of the feminine gender.
Deal with it. Look around you single parents are getting married on a daily.sad is just what you can't stop  |
Celebrities › Re: I Want A Man Who Will Love Me And Love My Child – Actress Yvonne Jegede by wany(f): 7:53pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
SOFTDRINK: I advice young men to stay clear of single mothers.
Don't waste your youth, time and hard earned resources training and raising another man's children all in the name of love.
No sane man should waste his time on filth and leftovers. You are equally some ones left over  |
Business › Re: Fully Equipped Laundry Shop For Sale by wany(op): 7:51am On Jun 06, 2020 |
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Properties › Re: One Bedroom Duplex Tolet @250k PH by wany(op): 7:49am On Jun 06, 2020 |
dingbang: Mercyland for which side? Please call the number for further enquiry.thanks |
Properties › One Bedroom Duplex Tolet @250k PH by wany(op): 4:04am On Jun 06, 2020 |
A one bedroom duplex to let at mercyland port Harcourt. 2toilets and bath.spacious ,nice varander and balcony.on federal light. Cost: 250k Contact: Doris 08098930953/08027428153. |
Celebrities › Re: Kim Kardashian Considers Living Apart From Husband To Save Her Marriage by wany(f): 7:24pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
NobleAngell: White man will do anything for his sanity but not Nigerians. They will live together even when there's need for some space. The common "we-die-here" mentality. Till violence steps in. Loud it dear,you are damn right.  |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerian Men Narrate Scary Encounters With Women Who Slept Over At Their Houses by wany(f): 4:31am On Jun 03, 2020 |
Vyzz: A lady visited our room His boyfriend wasn't their, his friend (just a friend is my roomy and the guy has nothing for her?). The girl has visited like two times before and she has never slept before. So that day, she came. My guy wasn't around, like he went home. Instead of this girl to go home, she decided to sleepover in my niggas bed. My other roommate were like, bro she wan kpash, make we help her. Me wey be half virgin was like, no bro make we avoid this temptation. I no wan join Una enter sanko Good of you,say no to rape.
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Crime › Re: #JusticeForUwa: Vera Uwaila Omozuwa Raped In RCCG Church In Edo, Dies (Graphic) by wany(f): 9:18pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
Girls normally do reading in 2 or 3some.why was she all alone. At what time was she there ? People stay around the church premises,no one heard her scream. Her cloths were not torn. Seems to me they actually went there to kill her.sad
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