₦airaland Forum

The reason she is contemplating suicide is not because she is jobless, but because she is broke.

Another reason is because she thinks her friends are doing better and feels left out.

What I think: I am appalled that someone who hasn't started the journey yet, wants to end it abruptly.

Tell her to fix herself up and stop with the pity party. Rather than commit suicide, she should learn 'hook up' skills. All skill na skill! If in doubt, ask Mercy Eke and other bbn girls.

That portion looks small though. Considering the attendant stress that comes with your choice, I would rather buy in kilograms from the market.

There is a difference between 'I have sex twice a year' and 'I have hook up sex every week'. I guess she was referring to the former.

How many men was this woman married to? Make she rest abeg.

This woman should rest abeg. She can't be jumping from one man to the other as if she were changing tampons.

She has two grown up daughters who are her greatest companions and a great career. Let her stick to her daughters and continue to live her life because it's obvious that marriage is not her thing.

Am I seeing beans and eggs combination in the pic. This is catastrophic!

The first u should have done was to download your account statement. If the said funds doesn't reflect on the statement, then the account must have been flashed.

Otherwise, let your contact meet up with the sender and accompany him to the bank to ask for his recent statement of account. Note why I said he should be accompanied to the bank. No online statement to avoid rooms for manipulation.

Finally, irrespective of where you are based, you should know and have a personal rapport with your account officer. That would make things much easier for you.

Hmnn... Isn't that Joe Igbokwe an APC politician? What's his business with Davido bayi?

As for Chioma and Davido, unfortunately, I am not a fan of babies cos they give too much troubles. So, I'll pass.

Most Nigerians are into shady deals. Those comfortable civil servants don't depend on their salaries. Employees with private firms cut corners as well.

Then, there are the business men who are used as fronts to execute Government contracts. Should I mention politicians or those with political appointments? You know the drill.

In summary, it is not easy to become rich in Nigeria if you're not shady. Forget what people say because that's the honest truth.

Curse777:




Remembering Beyonce's biological father and all his sacrifice for Destiny Child and Beyonce and how he was kicked out because of this woman should make men careful







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I swear down. I hated the way that man was stripped of his managerial position after sacrificing so much for Beyonce and her band members.

Although, words on the street said it was Jayz that instigated her to sack her dad as manager. Beyonce is obsessed with that dude.

Racoon:
It is huge shame, national and international shame, disgrace and embarrassment that a supposed secret agency like the DSS that ought not to be seen but heard is acting like a gang of agbero before the whole world. All these gestaposim are indicative of the rotteness inherent in the Nigerian state.

At the bolded word: I had to go look up the meaning, but my search didn't return any information.

Trojan8:
How in this world is he going to get a writer? When he needs someone to write 5000 words, then get approval first before continuation. In essence, if approval is not given. It's a wasted effort

Lol! I think I started seeing his post since the beginning of this year. He even uses different moniker to post.

nairalanda1:
Off topic, but that Prince was a song writing machine.

At the time of his death, he allegedly had 500 songs, that have never been sung yet...but written...kept in a vault somewhere.

He was a very weird guy.

Damn! 'Nothing can stop this lonely tears from falling'. She's been suffering from a chronic mental breakdown and I thought she was already okay. May she find rest wherever she is!

Lol.... people live their lives according to what life presents at them. Burna Boy wasn't so popular back then, what did you u expect?

You have been on this for like forever. How come you haven't gotten a writer?

I don't get why people are calling this Doyin chic 'ugly'. The face I'm seeing here got pretty eyes na, abi na my eye dey pain me?

Who is the man in the relationship? All I can see are 2 women.

NeckingNgulping:
What irritates me most is how they alllow several people who don't even have the intention to buy to touch the corn with their filthy hands in the name of checking it.

By the time you buy the corn, uncountable hands would have touched it, even the ones wey dey kolo for street.

That's the reason I don't like eating roasted corn. And if I want to buy boiled corn, the chaff (whatever it's called) must still be on it and be well covered. I also don't allow the seller to peel it off.

My own be say, I don't want to start a thread, but drop a comment if you have remedy for yellowish eyes.

The individual is not sick, drinks excess water, don't smoke and always afford kitchen smokes. Why are the eyes always yellowish?

IconicR:
Nigerian men will never agree to this. Vasectomy has no side effect at all but they will never dare lol but they want women to keep tampering with their body to prevent pregnancy and they are less concerned about whatever side effects it has on women. I pity any woman who doesn't think very selfish when it involves dealing with men and sex matters, men will ruin and damage your body with no remorse and may eventually settled for someone with little or no experience.

Seconded. Very insightful post.

Amotolongbo:
Many of their men are not interested in marriage, they just wanna cohabitate as a partner and fûck mate, where you take the responsibility for whatever you need and the guy takes the responsibility for whatever he needs.
The general bills are shared equally

Not interested in marriage doesn't make one a bad person. And there is nothing wrong if partners share the bills.

Africans are obsessed with marriage but treat their women poorly. And some of the men who shoulder the bills, treat their women as trash.

So, it is better to do yours and I will do mine so mutual respect can thrive.

Nazgul:
He wants her coochie! The goal is to make her see him as a wealthy guy then submit her coochie to him.

No guy in Nigeria can give a random girl 120m. It's not possible. Not even politicians.

Dey play. If only you know what goes down behind the scene.

Mpanyi:
Father's sleeping with their daughters because they feel that the girls ain't their biological daughters? Which kind justification for abomination is this? No sane man should sleep with any girl living with him and addressing him as father, uncle, brother etc. Daughter or no daughter, it's an abomination.

I am starting to think that the reason you beat up the child is because she ain't your daughter.

Does the above statement shows that your act was justified or trying to point out your poor attitude toward the child?

Lack of proper understanding of the English language is the main issue here. Next time, read and digest properly before commenting.

integrity16:
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Just because they doubt the paternity of their daughters is not a justification to sleep with them.

If she is not your daughters doesn't give you the right to sleep with someone else's daughter.

You guys never read to understand before you jump into conclusions. Does my post suggest in anyway that I am in support of fathers molesting their daughters?

tollyboy5:
This man need to be investigated seriously.

That would be after you polish your understanding of the English language.

Candidlady:
Iam trying to understand your first paragraph 😡

Explain better why a man would wanna sleep with his SUPPOSED daughter just because he feels she is not his ?


Please danallah explain

Asin justify the act in a way Ican understand
Kai

Instead of necklace they should place tyres round your neck dab you with gas then lit a stick of dunhil.. splash the red ashes on you
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Don't throw words around indiscriminately. I was only trying to point out the dangers that some selfish mothers subject their children to.

If you read my post with a calm mind, you wouldn't be spewing trash.

I'm starting to think that the reason why most fathers sleep with their daughters is because they feel that the girls ain't their biological daughters.

Imagine the dangers that the woman had to put the girl through. What if the men had defied her just because? Some women Sha .... It's only God that will save them.

Ade1177:
Omo

This why I will never fight my woman no matter what she does

All these bad bad things people say about women. I've not experienced it atall

My gf is just too good to be true

I know how much she makes at work. She tells me every amount that enters her account

She buys alot of things in the house

Even when rent expires she offers to split the bill because she almost spends most of her time in my place because its close to her work

I know her phone passwords
She picks calls of guys that try to toast her in my presence and put it on speaker

I'll just be smiling at the guy dropping lines

She washes my clothes sometimes but I must stay with her and rinse it and dry it

She's a good cook

She's very respectful to elders

She is beautiful and hardworking
And always at home by 7pm
No night life

4yrs relationship
We met In my final Yr in OAU

Omo nothing this girl can ever do that can annoy me o

I plan to propose to her next Yr sha

Because we have been living together now for the past 1yr almost like married couple but I never do the right thing

Make I quick put ring for her hand

She's clocking 25 early next year

Come back and tell us the same thing after 2 years of marriage. She is just pretending and will show her true colors after marriage.