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Biggaboi:
Neo's response to he "House dynamics" question can probably also explain why Ozo was quick to apologise for his outburst to Prince after the latter walked out on the members during the rehearsals yesterday. And also his meeting Prince one on one to apologize again. Makes sense that he's trying to be in everyone's good book

That's not true and you know it. This same Ozo guy has been trolled several times for having to explain and apologise for everything.
That is just who he is so don't attribute it to whatever fakeness the others may be putting up

motionarena:
Don't know why people are praising dis video on social media.

If am d father I will beat up d mother why does she have to post this

Who is this one again?
You will beat up your wife for posting a video like this on social media...

Who will give you, your own beating for posting this nonsense?
Onye ara

Beatswim:
I just pity your future without Christ...pls read my comment pls..ur future is bleak and very delicately arriving a bad end with your empty brain..u leave the Lord to ask for your fellow human being on an issue on an institution solely constitued by God almighty..Is it that there's no prophet in the land again?if u aren't a child of perdition, I would like u to go back to a man of God who can discern the right one amongst this ladies ...lemme use myself as a case study for u probably it will make sense to u...I was a courting a lady about 8years ago..she was model and she won a state beauty pageant ..very humble and religious..self driven and very industrious ,was shocked when I prayed about it and was told she might be short lived if serious prayers wasn't made.. I later seeked The face of God diligently and I met a less attractive lady whom God has prepared for me..do u know I got wind of my ex fiance's death late last year due to health issues..be wise.. return to Christ hence u miss the way

I am still searching for the moral of this your story.

So they told you that she won't live long If serious prayers wasn't made for her.
What stopped you from following through and making the prayers on her behalf man of god?
Instead you zoomed off to the next person and now that she is dead, you are here feeling yourself and probably rejoicing that you made the right decision.

Hope you know life isn't guaranteed and you too could drop dead anytime...

Abeg if anyone understood the moral of this pathetic story, the person should tell me

If I am that your friend ehh, i'll take this as a sign. it's a huge red flag for me.

Maybe she's been hiding this part of her...
but you serve a living Jehovah!

He has exposed her and you are still there asking questions

I feel sick reading some comments here...
You will do everything to advise a rape victim who may not be alive to read your 'sensible' advice yet say nothing, absolutely nothing to the perpetrators and aspiring rapists like yourself...

@Aku whatever, I can't even quote those posts of yours but I need to say this... You ought to hide your face in shame and try never to engage in a public discuss like this.
You are highly unintelligent.
Damn!

ProfAmaben:
This is very wrong. So it's only men that should include their spouse's name on purchased property not the other way around? I thought men and women are equal?

Men buy properties in their wives name?? Lol this is new

The man must be high on some cheap weed.

His reaction is nonsensical. He should just return to the days of Slave trade naa Ode.

This is super storrrry, a life of strife and sorrow...

Anyway, I'm waiting for madam's version of the story.
Good job y'all, good job

temmypotter:
Well, it's what Mark is, I used to Adore the guy but these days he is coming across more like his critics paint him, a poacher and copy machine.

For Crissakes! Zoom has been out there forever, suddenly because there's a boost in the need for remote conferencing and zoom seems to be finally making some nice Buck, Mark wants to benefit and in so doing destroy Zoom, watch it, Facebook might make an acquisition offer for zoom and if they don't bend, baba will do what he's done to Snapchat to them

The only true Innovative genius we have in the world today is Elon Musk! A revolutionary who appears once in every 100 years, the remaining big tech CEOS are sellouts. Full stop

No be Mark go destroy Zoom, their lack of innovation will do that.
Competition in the tech world is a welcome development... He should copy all he wants we go dey patronize am like that since what most of us are good at is in criticizing. Produce toothpick kwanu? No way!
I can bet that from all you know and use today, just a very minute percentage is your original idea. The rest na copy and paste so why attack him?

chiddyok:
Because a lot of us prefer wedding to marriage.

Or maybe to escape societal pressure. More like just get married so 'they' can leave you the heck alone but then live your life as if you were single.

OP, on a normal day I would advice you relocate and live with your husband cos I think that's the ideal thing to do but on a second thought... I read some deeper meanings to your post. e. g I want to stay close to my family, He is a religious bigot, He can't take care of me etc. These are pointers that all may not be well and because I don't know the whole story, I would say, think it through and do what you consider the best for you, your child and your young family.

This story doesn't add up.
Your wife cannot make decisions by herself, she wants your opinion on virtually everything YET this same wife of yours is controlling you and wants you to do her bidding all the time. *sighs**
Oga, abeg try arrange this your lie lie story small.

You said your wife is ignorant because she won't accept any 'reasonable' explanation when she hears or sees you (her husband) calling other girls baby, sweetie, honie etc You well so? I swear to knock your mouth dey hungry me.

My advice?? The change you seek in your marriage has to begin from you okay.

BTW, you talk too much! I hope you don't nag the woman to death if this story is anything to go by.

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NGpatriot:
So, you are OK with their cases ballooning to almost 100 cases even though their president's speech the not stop it from ballooning, but you are still sad and unhappy about own own 5 cases and zero death because you are obsessed about the president instead of practicing basic hygiene like washing your dirty hands.


Why are you so happy that countries with ballooning cases and deaths are better than your own country with just 5 cases and zero death? Why?

America, Italy, UK, China and so on would love to be in our position, but you evil people want us to be in their position with deaths and virus consuming them all over the place.

Why is it that you people wish Nigeria nothing but evil and calamity?

You can hope and pray for evil all you want, but Nigeria is greater than you and the fact that we have zero death and just 5 cases means ALMIGHTY God is on our side and not not yours.


God Bless Nigeria.

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Romangalactic:
It's not everytime the truth sets people free. I thought about this as well but there too may things at play.
I have always felt the treatment may not have positive results fast enough and will take many trials, so accepting responsibility for this child is a good way to save us the embarrassment of our families wondering why we have not had a child after marriage and it also ensures she won't be trying to get pregnant for the next three to four years, which gives me more time to sort myself out.

I know this is selfish of me,. thanks a lot for your suggestions.

Kai I feel for you ooh BUT you really need to come out clean. If she stays, she stays. if she decides to leave, it will hurt but you would have saved yourself a lot of troubles.

Do this and every other thing you are battling to find out will fall in place.

My prayers are with you.

mimimile93:
This ur response shows the kind of a woman u are. I pity that innocent man.

Ohh please shut up and keep your emotional blackmail to yourself.
She gave you the exact reply that you deserved.
Ps: You type like someone without sense.

comtem2011:
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The interview is tomorrow.
If interested, kindly contact me let me give you the mail address to send your CV to.

Treat as urgent

Ire o.

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You wife is only trying to give your own name a sense of relevance.
But since you love your family name, Your wife and kids can bear the both.

For example, Jessica Frank-Udo.
That way, she can be easily recognized as your wife especially when there are other women married into your family bearing the family name (Udo)

Las Las, whichever one you guys decide to go with is absolutely fine.

You have a very cold heart Op. I fear who no fear you.
Any reasonable person in your sisters shoes will be mad at your boyfriend or were you expecting her to pat him on the back for putting her 15year old little sister In a family way?

Your sister genuinely cares about you and that's why she'll still opt to pay your baby's school fees yet you and your, 'good' boyfriend paid her back this way[code]

If this story is anything to go by then I'm really worried about YOU.
this boyfriend of yours Is a terrible influence. I fear that one day, he may suggest you kill anyone who is against your relationship and you will gladly oblige because to you, he has your interest at heart.

My heart bleeds for you, my heart indeed bleeds.

Dididrumz:
If youre just realizing that then you are lacking behind

Lagging not lacking

What kind of a family man obviously keeps his family in serious discomfort all in the name of maybe building his own mansion without at least letting his wife know why they are living that way even though they could live better...
Please talk to your friend!

He is being very insensitive here. Even if he doesn't value his wife, could he please for the sake of his kids be a little bit reasonable...

Equity15:
wahala dey this life sha..that's why I prefer to have sex before marriage, my current g.f insists she's a virgin and she would only do it after marriage. me i have told her it's not okay..not because of me but because of our sexual life later in the future. I can't begin to go through all these stress while in marriage.. sexual compactability is very important to me. I'll show her this thread when she comes around

Uncle sexual compatibility, i hail.
There is something you seem to be neglecting and that's the fact that people change! That you married a sexually hyper active woman doesn't mean she will remain that way for ever. What will happen when that becomes the case?
You should think about that

like1:
I have to say this again, the selfishness we brew these days in our Igbo families, I really don't get it. I am sure the problems between your father and the brothers arose because either your father or mother is trying to be Lord over them just because they live in your house and they resisted.

Your parents should learn to tolerate his brothers. As you said, they can't go and live in the bush, the so called ancestral land till they build theirs and you also know they are not capable to.

Imagine, what your father and his siblings are going through and you think later it will not be the same between you and your siblings. Let me tell you what will happen, if you guys succeed in pushing your uncles out. The next fight will start between you and your siblings over same house. I am telling you from experience, it is psychological. I has happened in many families I know, even mine.

Moreover, which relationship do you want to maintain with your cousins when through your parents you chased them away from the house.

This is the same problem that happened in my paternal family and now happening between my maternal uncles. People will never learn. The level of selfishness these days is really overwhelming. I don't get it.

My story;
If you like learn from it.

My uncle built an up-stair (big house) in the early 80's. Both families all live in the city, so we just come back to stay in the village house during Xmas and sometimes Easter. Within the few days in the village, their mum and mum will always quarrel. I mean sometimes even physical because both women were always at loggerheads with flimsy things. E.g one of my brothers (a kid then) 'pooed or peed' in the compound, my mum was cooking here and not there. So this quarrel has been there for years when we were kids till our late teenage years when it escalated. My Dad even though not buoyant, started to build a house but then they were not even patient enough for my Dad to near completion of the house before we were sent packing. My Dad had to sell a small property in the city to even roof the building. Then we moved. Of course the relationship dwindled, everybody started minding his or her business.

Now, in less than 7 years, we are better of. Completed my Dad's building, built another with complete finishing and live better and bigger. However their house remained uncompleted as it has been, no fence, not tiled, no paint and all that. Now, they all want a closer relationship but naturally it can't happen, the discord is there already. The news around the village now is that my cousins (now adults and married) are quarreling on who will occupy upstair of the house and who will stay down. Imagine.

Don't neglect people. Nobody is God. Everybody fit pick.

Yes, anybody fit pick but while waiting for your miracle, can you be a litle bit grateful, humble and do away with the entitlement mentality?

You call it being Selfish?���
Wait until you have offered help to someone and the person displays this your level of ingratitude. Only then will you understand.

Instead of you to thank your uncle and his family for spurring your dad to get sense and build his own house, you are here yarning dust.
If your uncle was like Op's father na so all of una for still dey that house dey contemplate to claim inheritance. Tueeh!

switlily25:
I hereby support frodd the slow Tiger!
Mike and Mercy dont deserve to win!
Seyi,omashola and Diane sef no follow!
Frodd deserves it!
No major sponsors,no godfather or mother,no connections!
Abeg frodd for the money!

I share your thoughts.
Frodd deserves It.

Lexusgs430:
Not all fathers are daddy's ...... You contributed 0 to her hospital bills, and you are claiming rights ? Be prepared for a long battle, which would involve lots of solicitors feeding large ........

You did not contribute school fees, but you provide biscuit and ribena ? Did you actually say this ? You also attended the christening and birthday celebrations ? Did you actually say this ?

When it gets to big expense, you seem to either want to run or have it your way ..... Your way or the highway ........

You are now claiming rights ?

You should be more sober and put your ego to one side ...... It's the child that is the important factor here ..............

you just penned down my thoughts.

I know a guy in the same shoes as the OP, he would always avoid paying major bills. has never contributed a dime in paying the child"s school fees because he says he doesn't have money. On 2 occasions the child was admitted in the hospital, he was informed but no one saw his breaklight. Few weeks after they were discharged from the hospital, the man showed up with this same 'Ribena and Biscuit' when they told him to go and distribute the ribena to his street people , he went to the police station shamelessly, to make a case about denying him access to his child.
funny enough, he paid some cool cash to the police people. the same cash he couldn't bring out for his child"s welfare.
some people just like to make trouble.
I have seen more than enough to just believe anything i read online.

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From motivational books to investment books
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I will really appreciate if you can send to me @switomaa@yahoo.com.
God bless you.

Gistformant:
Five beautiful family rocks matching in adorable pictures.

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I can see just one family, a family of five.

Thank you OP for sharing your observations

tescoman90:
are you for N-teach?

Nope.