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 Romance › Re: Guys Will You Take Back Your Gift After A Break-up by WhyAWhy(m): 2:04pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
Mo sorry oh ENGAGEment ring is NOT a gift. It's a symbol that represents what we have together. Once that's broken I am taking my diamond back |
| Education › Re: 21-Year-Old Nigerian Emerges UK's University Of Kent Most Outstanding Graduate by WhyAWhy(m): 7:13am On Nov 08, 2012 |
simplemach: thank God, she was my girlfriend in kaduna before she left. i am happy for my babeShe's now mine in uk  12 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Getting Married In 2 Months - Why Does He Distrust Me So Much? by WhyAWhy(m): 4:31am On Nov 07, 2012 |
Chrisbenogor: Chai oga debo this one wey you shook mouth for this matter so e don hard oh. How far naAGAIN I SAY RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!! |
| Events › Re: Wedding Mistakes ~ What Would You Have Done Differently? by WhyAWhy(m): 3:30pm On Nov 06, 2012 |
For one I don't understand the stupid rationale behind Aso ebi and worse still the equally stupid need to give out gifts to those who bought  ??!!! Na una de put yourself for wahala oh 1 Like |
| Fashion › Re: When A Low Class Person Wears The Same Shirt With You by WhyAWhy(m): 1:15pm On Nov 05, 2012 |
That you already stepped into a boutique in lagos or anywhere in the world to pick from a clothing line already shows that you're "ordinary" class person. If you're that high class as you think in your head, you ought to be supplied directly by the designer with limited-EDITION or Single-Edition outfits. The sad thing is this people meet you and they just want you to know sha how much and wear they bought their so-called designer B.U.L.L.C.R.A.P from. They don't cease to bring it up in discussion because they want you to look at them in certain ways. You hear stuffs like, I just got this designer this or that because the other designer blablabla... c'mon what's more "LOW-LIFE" than this? It's so NIGERIAN! |
| Business › Re: Can You Fast For A Whole Year To Become A Billionaire? by WhyAWhy(m): 6:58pm On Nov 02, 2012 |
^ jokes |
| Business › Re: Can You Fast For A Whole Year To Become A Billionaire? by WhyAWhy(m): 6:12pm On Nov 02, 2012 |
acidtalk: Sure we all know that. But assuming you find a "secret book of life" where you founf out if you fast for a whole year you would be that rich, will you take the risk?That book doesn't exist so let's be factual  4 Likes |
| Business › Re: Can You Fast For A Whole Year To Become A Billionaire? by WhyAWhy(m): 6:48pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
fast for 20years, you might not make 100bucks FAITH - WORKS = DEAD! 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Programming › Re: I Want To Develop Mobile Applications by WhyAWhy(m): 3:30pm On Nov 01, 2012 |
xterra2: The exception ? Go to google type in the name of the exception and click am feeling lucky,it would take you to oracle's websiteIt was iOs on a mac mini using objective-C. It was for a medical device for my masters project but because apple didn't allow native bluetooth connection without jailbreaking i had to design a simulated version of the medical device on one iphone and the receiver on another iphone and used the bluetooth and wifi connection to transmit data. Application: Medical doctor can view a pregnant woman's FHR and UHR and understand what stage she is prior to full labour to forestall false alarm and hospital visits. |
| Romance › Re: Getting Married In 2 Months - Why Does He Distrust Me So Much? by WhyAWhy(m): 12:27pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
you don't even need a prophet here, flag down the nearest bike and [size=18pt]RUN![/size] This the trailer of what your marriage will be like! |
| Romance › Re: 9 Things To Avoid After A Breakup by WhyAWhy(m): 8:54am On Oct 31, 2012 |
[size=15pt]Stack this playlist on LOOP 1. I will survive by gloria gaynor 2. Survivor by Destiny's Child 3. Someone Like you by Adele 4. Game is Over by Psquare 5. Love is Wicked - Brick and Lace By the time you're done you'd be on cloud -9 [/size] |
| Family › Re: I Need Answers From Married People Only! by WhyAWhy(m): 3:59pm On Oct 24, 2012 |
^^^I didn't think so too 1 Like |
| Family › Re: I Need Answers From Married People Only! by WhyAWhy(m): 2:22pm On Oct 24, 2012 |
@50/50 bills. Yes ma.. bills and taking care of children have zero correlation. It's the duty of both parents to do so. The picture you painted is not absolute in most families. I don't remember anyone helping with assignments except few knocks from daddy. PTA.. that's daddy too.. When I took ill, my parents took turns to do night vigil..you want me to continue? 2 Likes |
| Christianity Etc › Re: I Dont Love Him. But He Said He Heard From God by WhyAWhy(m): 8:16pm On Oct 23, 2012 |
[quote author=to+by]i love this, just keep ur taste out of this. And i tink the reason dis has lingered this long is because there's something extra bout it. Also i think the brother's action's simply because he's not matured enough in some areas. In ma church u can't just walk up to d sister, you'll have to go see d pastor first. And i think that's where he got it wrong. And besides you'll have saved ursef loads of trouble by telling your pastor immediately. One mistake i learn from older folks is that they wait till marriageable age b4 seeking God's face. I'm far from marriage tins but i already put everything in check cos i started praying at the age of 19 even as a guy. So am not likely to be confused by the time am ready. Peace to u dear[/quote]Seriously go tell Pastor first ??!!! Jokes who started all this thrash !! 2 Likes |
| Christianity Etc › Re: I Dont Love Him. But He Said He Heard From God by WhyAWhy(m): 6:04pm On Oct 23, 2012 |
I am waiting for someone that will tell me they actually SAW the person that they will marry let's say in a vision or dream sometime last year and you had never met the person before but then you now saw the person in china this year. That's a much more believable "hearing/seeing". How come you all get led to someone you've seen before or even know [quote author=to+by]I had a similar experience, wen God showe me a lady, i was not even tinkin of relationship not even marriage. But i pray alot bout ma wife n kids. But wen i told d gal she even hated me d more. Dat was wen i learnt a lesson dat, God's will wil always com to pass, but the player can change if disobedient, and might even attract punishment. What if God had told you b4 hand but because of ur insensitivity not discern it? And ma other word's dat are u sure you'r a child of God?[/quote]Bros are you a child of God too? |
| Christianity Etc › Re: I Dont Love Him. But He Said He Heard From God by WhyAWhy(m): 9:17pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
preshuzpearl: he's actually well off. Studyin on a first class scholarship abroad.chei, I can't believe this line still works Studying abroad... lol guess that looks like a juicy one to you... you better shine your eyes 2 Likes |
| Christianity Etc › Re: I Dont Love Him. But He Said He Heard From God by WhyAWhy(m): 9:12pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
^^^ Please tell me you're married |
| Family › Re: I Need Answers From Married People Only! by WhyAWhy(m): 7:30pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
^^ I tire oh I thought by getting married, what one hand can't conveniently carry alone can be done with two hands working together |
| Fashion › Re: If A Bra Is Worth $2.5 Million, Is It Still A Bra? by WhyAWhy(m): 1:47pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
[size=15pt]Will this BRA hold Nigeria's economy together ?  [/size] 1 Like |
| Family › Re: I Need Answers From Married People Only! by WhyAWhy(m): 12:45pm On Oct 22, 2012 |
^^^ Does she even need to be told. You're presenting it like she came to spend the weekend. This is family and it's not one person's project! |
| Family › Re: I Need Answers From Married People Only! by WhyAWhy(m): 8:24pm On Oct 20, 2012 |
JallowBah: If the woman and the husband works, they should BOTH combine it with taking care of the home and kids.What's with this raising the kids BULLSHIT. You're talking as if the woman takes the Children somewhere and then "RAISES" then in secrecy as a duty trusted to her. The ideal family home is such that even if the two parents come back from work around 5pm. All things being equal the children spend time with their parents. My papa helped me with assignments with occasional knocks to follow. We the children have been taking care of the home since we could move from ALL FOURS to walking on two legs. As far as I can remember, immediately your head shoots a little above the sink, you start doing dishes, my sisters were already spinning amala from around 7 years of age with the assistance of househelp. I I don't get the picture of the WIFE people are trying to paint - A woman that works in isolation with babies 24/7 who would never grow up? Typically for a very very long while my mum doesn't even bother so much with the kitchen or housework because we the children take care of EVERYTHING. So what excuse would she give for "If my husband expected me to do all the cooking, cleaning and raising of the kids after working 8hours, then he could sit his a*s down after 8hours and just watch me work until bedtime, AND expect me to give him a little some-some..I would kick him out, no doubt." C'mon cut me some slacks 1 Like |
| Family › Re: I Need Answers From Married People Only! by WhyAWhy(m): 11:00am On Oct 20, 2012 |
^^^ Exactly the scenario I'm trying to paint Several people are quoting bible about a man should provide for his house. What you don't understand is that the women those days are usually even co labourers on their husbands farm. They work or so. The bible talked about the cattle of Abraham and the cattle of lot. It never mentioned that of Sarah . Did you ask why? Simply because what belongs to Sarah is part of Abrahams property. God help make you marry a woman who has a laid back approach to finance and she's of CEO status. You will sweat your behind to keep your status while she uses her money for jewelleries and vacation around the globe |
| Family › Re: I Need Answers From Married People Only! by WhyAWhy(m): 11:31am On Oct 19, 2012 |
^^^ really? She doesn't make babies all her life She's not a stay at home mum- we got house help Things have moved on. Realistically a lot of men don't even make enough to solely pack all the family responsibilities. Not many people have a dangote or adenuga as a hubby. Typically there is the average baba taju or the average civil servant 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by WhyAWhy(m): 9:25am On Oct 19, 2012 |
blogger2tooker: PS I DO KNOW ABOUT THE CAPSLOCK BUTTON BUT CHOOSE THE BOLD LETTERS INSTEAD. ON THE CONTRARY FOLKS LIKE YOU ARE A MOCKERY OF CHRISTIANITY. IF MY LIFE IS STRANGE TO YOU BECAUSE YOU CANNOT COMPREHEND IT LET ME LIVE THE LIFE I HAVE DELIBERATELY CHOSEN.At the bolded parts: - Let others also live the LIFE they have chosen to. - That's when it's the ONLY alternative!: In this situation we are discussing, getting married to another AS is NOT the only alternative. With the tone of your conversation throughout this topic, would an unbeliever be able to catch on Jesus that way? I have lived with ASTHMA for years and I was expected to live on drugs inhalers and injection all my life. I prayed to God for miracle and infact I believed that it was going to come. I could not eat anything fried, smell perfume, coffee, petrol, diesel etc. I took precautions and also prayed that my miracle will come someday. Now this is 13 years later and I am completely whole. During the time of my believing in God... I will not go and intentionally expose myself to triggers. Wisdom is profitable to direct isn't it. Think about it. 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by WhyAWhy(m): 12:00am On Oct 19, 2012 |
blogger2tooker:Folks like you make mockery of Christianity. Knowledge is available to prevent us from the agony of Ignorance. Christ didn't die that we will stand around obvious suffering and say... oya come deliver me oh. PS: Your keyboard has a key called "CAPSLOCK", just hit it and it goes off. Thanks Jesus raised many people from the dead... if I take myself go stand on top of 3rd mainland bridge and get crushed to death. Will Jesus come and raise me because afterall He's potent enough to do so?!!! Absolutely not. It's a case of knowing the path that leads to something bad and intentionally walking into it. |
| Romance › Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by WhyAWhy(m): 11:52pm On Oct 18, 2012 |
emmanuel71: WHY GETTING INTO A RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU KNOW YOU NOT GETTING MARRIED............. Please remember there is no place for sinners in heaven. Its never too late nowHello.. correlation sir! |
| Family › Re: I Need Answers From Married People Only! by WhyAWhy(m): 6:45pm On Oct 18, 2012 |
[quote author=Rhapsody!]I guess it all depends on one's orientation which both parties should discuss and come to an agreement before marriage. My own orientaction might not be popular but let me share it nonetheless. My parents are civil servants. I do not know how they did things when we were small but sometimes in 1999, my dad was unjustly retired. That was when I just got my admission. Even with his meager pension and some jobs here and there, money was very tight. Mum is a teacher. It was especially during those years my respect for her grew. You see, my dad is good to a fault, you can easily take advantage of him. But all through my uni years, he was still the one I went to for my school fees and all. We kids all knew the source was my mum, but she will give him the money and he will give us. He was still and is still the man of the house in spite of the way things were. Now they have a biz he manages, mum still teaches and does other mobile businesses. But I learnt a huge lesson from it all. My hobby and I met in our first year. Infact, I finished before him cos his course has 2 years more than mine. I was already working with a bank while he was serving when our relationship started. With us, there is no 'my' or 'his' money. It is ours. We decide on how to use and what to save. I resigned early this year, (thank God) but all this while, my pay had always been higher than his. It did not make him less than a man to me, he is absolutely not lazy (that I cannot stand both for men or women). He has been carrying most of the financial obligations all these months while I work on my new biz which we know is our ticket to financial freedom. His support has been awesome. The savings I have is ours. Whatever we decide to do with money is a joint decision. I wanted a man I will grow in every way with, not an already made man. One who will not be threatened by my success, who will encourage me in all ways as well as do same for him. I have him. In todays world, I believe it should be a joint effort by both parties. Afterall, the home belongs to you. It also means that whatever we buy tomorrow is bought in both of our names. It is working for us that way. And funny enough, we never talked about it before we got married. Its just both of our orientation. We think alike, I guess. Today, I am not 'employed' per se, but any money hobby gets, we agree on what it will be used for, and the rest I safekeep. I never knew I will say this, but today, I look back and thank God about what happened to my dad. As far as I am concerned, he provided for us especially when he lost his job. Mum 'supported' very much. I learnt so much from it, namely think beyond salary and that the family purse is owned by both parties. The home should be planned and built by both parties irrespective of who makes more.[/quote]Wow! A woman after my heart. I simply believe My money is our Money and your money is our Money! What's the point in being married when you're already planning your escape route @Efemena_xy A colleague once told me he and his wife do the same type of job and that translates to same salary. He handles ALL the financial responsibilities while the wife just keeps her money and spends it as she likes. (God please let ladies like this not respond to me when i say Hi) |
| Romance › Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by WhyAWhy(m): 5:41pm On Oct 18, 2012 |
blogger2tooker: GOD HAS A REASON WHY HE MADE ONE AA, ANOTHER AS AND ANOTHER SS, GODS LANGUAGE IS FAITH AND HE WANTS US ALL TO WALK WITH HIM IN FAITH AND NOT BASED ON WHAT DOCTORS SAY OR HEAD KNOWLEDGE. WE ALL CAME FROM GOD HENCE THE NEED FOR US TO DEPEND ON HIM. BUT MAN HAS ALLOWED HIMSELF TO BE BROUGHT UNDER TORTURE BY FOLLOWING THEIR OWN WAY.@bolded parts: Duh! Even my papa always thought he was AA till it was reconfirmed that he wasn't Have you lived with an SS before? Have you seen families lose almost all their children because they're SS? Stop all this faith based stuffs. Even the bible says ".. and knowledge shall increase". God gave us ability to understand things that's why we're able to think. Don't test God abeg. If someone invites me for a wedding and I believe both partners are AS, I will mostly not attend or say NO during Joining .. |
| Romance › Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by WhyAWhy(m): 5:34pm On Oct 18, 2012 |
tobtap: it matter alot to know each other genotype,but from most AS-AS marriage dat i know of....the result is as followExtremely wrong probability. It never happens that way 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Does Genotype Really Matters In Courtship? by WhyAWhy(m): 4:34pm On Oct 18, 2012 |
kpolli: It is only God that can determine anything so you can either put your faith in Him or give up. . . .oh puleeezeee, give me a break. 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: The Best Way To Break-up With Someone You Are Tired Of? by WhyAWhy(m): 1:39pm On Oct 18, 2012 |
Abujafood: A friend wants to end a relationship with a lady he's not 'feeling' right now! He wants to move on without her but doesn't want to hurt her. How can he break up without hurting her? |
CALL ME BONEHEADED I DON'T REALLY CARE AS LONG AS I AM A BONEHEAD FOR GOD. IF I FELL IN LOVE WITH AN AIDS PATIENT WHO IS ALSO A 99% CANCER PATIENT AND IT GOT TO MARRIAGE I WOULD DEFINITELY GO AHEAD AND GET MARRIED TO HER. SOME OF MY FRIENDS CALL ME AN EXTREMIST WHEN IT COMES TO WALKING WITH GOD BUT HEY WHAT CAN I SAY, SOME MOTHERS DO HAVE THEM.