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So times the best advice to give to a person, try and figure yourself out.

TheCork:
wot kinda advise is this....someone is askin for advise & u say he advise himself. Dint u read the question sir?
. Bro wot 0p is sayin is that he is always weak & wants to be hard. I sugested Listen t0 rap music like 50cent or got to Gym gademmit... This is people dont bother to advise people anymore. I GIV UP !!

Why do you keep assuming things and hope you're right? Someone asked for your digit you feel they want to date you without them saying a word. A girl ask to come over to your place you feel it's a time for sex or you tag it Green light �, there is nothing like green light if someone doesn't make there intentions clear don't assume anything. This video will give you a full detail.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMBDOy1MhAA

Why are you disturbed? This might be the sign you need. The family has issues and they need to deal with it. Take your girlfriend out and talk to her and if she still wants things suspended that is find. You don't need a lot of money before you get marry, if you can yourself and your wife and kids you're good to go.

This is sad, because it's a faceless forum doesn't give you the right be mean to people. Learn from this...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mW9kZ_k-4fc

Let me drop this for all the difficult people out there.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mW9kZ_k-4fc

You will need to advise yourself on this. This is normal, you meet people from different background. Be strong.

You should know the person you're dating. I had a friend who wanted to date me way back and he said he can't stay without sex and I had to let go. Don't think you can change anybody ever.

Talk to someone she respects a lot about this, let not conclude by say she has someone outside. She might have a medical condition, you should go see a doctor with her or has she complained about you not satisfying? Or does she feel so kind of pain during sex?
This is a serious issue, please don't consider cheating yet. I have a friend with the same condition and she shares it with me and she is seeking help but can't share it with her husband.
Please be patient. I'm sorry you have to go through this.

This is sad. He was not ready for four beautiful kids.

Love is never just enough to get marry someone, you need patience, respect and commitment. Do you tell him you wanted sex after marriage before you started dating? If Yes, did he agree to it? There some rules you don't bend for anyone. You know what you want and search your heart for the right decision. I had this issue with lots of men and I knew the solution. Check out this video for more details.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KNZHJTPTG7c

This is really sad. Some people don't love you, they just want to use you to achieve their dreams and it's sad. I remember someone asking me to marry him and he will send me to school but i never wanted that and I said no. We have good and bad people out there. I'm sorry you have to go through this, Karma is close by.

I'm sorry mama but it's your son's wife. I'm sure he knew about her cooking before marrying her. This is so necessary.

Very short and simple YES and after the breakup up I will console myself with this video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VRlazUVaHjM

I really want to say a lot but this video says it all. We learn everyday.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=emWn09eEdJE

Do you think a woman should be a full house wife even if she is educated or not but her husband wants it?

I love all the beautiful contributions in here and I'm learning a lot. Thank you guys for taking out your time to explain or share your story.

Because they are rarely around.

longetivity:
kids spend more times with their mother and share little or no connection with their father.

This is another angle and I appreciate you sharing this.

Klass99:
Re-phrase that to read as, mothers poison the hearts of their male children against their fathers! That shit rarely works with female children.

One of my aunty's tried it with her kids, only the boys aligned with her. Her girls always shut her down mid-conversation whenever she started to malign their father. It was so bad one particular visit I pulled my cousin aside and asked her not to be rude. She should at least allow her mum to finish saying whatever she had to said.

My cousin turned her frustration on me as well and shouted, I already know what she's going to say, I am sick and tired of hearing it. I know my dad is not a saint but constantly telling me about his flaws and bringing up his past mistakes really pisses me off with her, I don't have patience for her drama today.

One of our neighbours where my family home is, also did the same thing my aunt was doing. Her boys aligned with her against their father, while her daughters were always at logger-heads with her. For some reason I can't explain, it is easier to manipulate male children that way, than it is with female children.

Why do people keep saying mother's always poison the great of their children against the father? I want your honest opinion before sharing mine. I have a video on this topic, will be sharing it soon.

Thank you

ForestHill:
Post in family section

Another thing is ladies ought to be financially independent before going into a relationship or marriage. I'm not saying you should have lots of money but have something doing whether it's little. When you bring nothing to the table than your body it gives rooms for disrespect.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bu1Q9qmlJqI

Why do people keep saying mother's always poison the great of their children against the father? I want your honest opinion before sharing mine. I have a video on this topic, will be sharing it soon.

Break-up can be a terrible experience to go through with. Check out ways to survive break-up.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VRlazUVaHjM

Don't allow society pressure you into anything you're not ready for cause you will be left alone to bare the burden, whether good or bad. Don't be tired just express yourself.

People don't just spit out there pain just like that, it brings memories.

Fountainofyouth:
I tried asking him countless times, he didn't say, means he's too ashamed to say, I was expecting him to be all out spilling if the dad committed a formidable sin, since they don't care, did he get married to another woman? "Mute", so what could be greater that can't be forgiven? I mean he's their dad, they are mostly men that will be dads soon, how will they feel if their kids do not recognize their existence?

I did a research on this before sharing it.

mrblessed:
There is no reasonable proof that supports this assertion. It is completely evidence-free. We should focus on character trait, personality, peer pressure, etc. as possible reason. This conclusion is akin to the wrongheaded notion which states that house chore is the reason many married woman starve their husbands sex. On the surface, it seems to be convincing, but when it is thoroughly examined, the disjunctions become apparent.

When this kids grow they see things for them selves.

Karlifate:
I agree with you.

I know this but what I'm saying is don't cancel them totally but they never had the chance to grow up with both parents.

Odoogu:
not that it "all matters" ... but it's a factor you should never ignore.
broken home is like slow poison, it takes from the victims bits and bits.
just like every relationship, communication is important.

Can you explain why you think it does?

Tomilola360:
It does most of the time