₦airaland Forum

nanakgh:
I've always said and will continue to say that deep inside us all, even the richest, smartest and most respected, is a freak waiting to be unleashed. Our primal selves will always be there even when suppressed by societal rules and laws.

If u really think about it, and strip it down to the barest, all this noise is because two adults decided to have consensual sex, they just happened to be married(societal construct). Sometimes to live your life fully you just have to say 'eff' society.

These are other "social construct".
Reciprocating friend's help
Acquiring education
Taking your kid on picnic
Expecting to be paid when you work
Owning a phone
and others.

Do you really want to do away with social constructs and live on primal instinct like most animals?

Ugosample:
This man again

The issue is that people define love as infatuation or Lust, and that is why people are getting it wrong.


Real love is the main ingredient to a successful marriage, not lust, not infatuation.

read your bible on the definition of love.


or just get the real meaning of love


these days, love= Infatuation /Lust/Carnal desires

You are festacman?

BabaO2:
ancient man, you don't destroy the bridge because you think you have crossed to the other side

Everything changes with time bridge or no bridge.

Hotfreezer:
What happened in Ogun in 2011 is about repeating itself. Get properly educated.

That is why I said that politics is unpredictable. There is never final verdict.
Everything changes with time.

festacman:
Falling in love is no respecter of persons. It turns you into a teenager once again no matter how old, how rich or how highly placed you are.

By the way, those sweet messages can soften even the heart made of stone.

"Falling in love" is a myth sold to teenagers which they never outgrow.
The real thing is "feelings of the moment" or temporary chemistry.
If every married couple follows their heart as it changes every day most marriages won't last three months.
Do you honestly think that there is not a better version of husbands and wives out there?

Marriage is about commitment.

BabaO2:
Mark it, Amosun is a destroyed item politically, only if he retraced and apologize to the power that originally installed him.

Hotfreezer:
Amosun contested twice and couldn't succeed before Tinubu helped him in 2011. Now, he thinks he has arrived politically.

People are waiting for him to leave the Governorship seat before they deal with the ingrate.

Kids comment. Politics is unpredictable.

chikeze:
Senate president indeed. When your party no dey happy with you for anti-party activity.

The party was also not happy with Saraki and Dogara.

I don't pity Bezos the homewrecker, thanks to him his friend's marriage has crashed also.

A lot of people were attacking the wife without hearing the whole story.
I just hope Mackenzie deals with him ruthlessly through the divorce.

It is so low of Bezos to go after his friend's wife.

The latest victim you mean.

ChiefAzubuike:
Its the PEP and ARV she'll be subjected to that will eventually weaken her immune system and kill her. The virus itself is a mystery. Test kits are designed by scientists to give out random results. That's why you can test positive in one hospital today and test negative in another tomorrow. But most fools just accept their fate like that when they tell them they're positive and surrendering themselves to retrovirals.

Stop spreading fake news, there is nothing random about the test.
The problem is that most people are probability-challenged and can
wrap their head around anything that deals with "chance".

"Oh, I know someone who drank sniper and survive, therefore sniper doesn't really kill and it is all scam".
How does that sound to you?

PrecisionFx:
U are very open to new information brother. That's the real definition of smart.

I consider that a sign of foolishness and gullibility.
You can be convinced of anything as long as "business", "government" and "conspiracy" are attached.

If you are indeed a virgin, go for the test in another standard lab preferably, government hospital affiliate
just to be sure.
The chance of contracting HIV from non-sexual routes is very slim, safe for mother to child transmission.

Now about the drugs. You can live a normal and healthy life if you follow medical advice and take
your medications. Of course, there are inconveniences involved, but you will get used to it with time.
Stay healthy!

Let him go to court!
Since there was no legal agreement before the deal, he has a right to demand 99% or more and you
have the right to offer him 0% or less.

But you have to consider future dealings.

Psycho.

SalamRushdie:
I am not aware the Army has taken Baga back ..have they?

They haven't.

Wow, Buhari is so intelligent!
Amosun doesn't need you as politics is local but he is fearful of soldier and police
being used to win elections.

Ugosample:
we were talking about women here and not men.

Besides, love is not a new concept (at least not in the west) but it's probably new in Africa

Queen EliZabeth married whom she loved and they were still together TILL DATE


Mitt Romney married his high school sweetheart and they are still married TILL DATE

Bush Snr married the love of his life and they were married for more than 72 years.

Bill Gates married his love and they are still together TILL DATE.

Obama married his love and they are still married TILL DATE

My father married his love despite some opposition and they are still married TILL DATE

and the examples are so so many.

It's the wrong definition of love you Zoogerians have that is causing all the heart breaks and divorces I hear now happen in that failed $hithole jungle

Traditional marriages were not more successful, they were just prisons.

you really think those traditional marriages in Nigeria in the past would have survived today? (a good number of them?)

Marriage remains a scam in traditional African setting

Love marriage didn't exist in the west until the 20th century, it was even still very rare then.
You listed the list of celebrities who are still married when most of them
have had several divorces.


Same way higher education is a scam for people who have no business being the university in the first place,
marriage is not for everybody.

It is interesting to note that the top 10 countries with the highest divorce rates are those who
believe in "Love marriages", not even a single country with the traditional view of marriage made the list.
You can almost predict a country's divorce rate by how much emphasis they place on the fickle feeling of "love".

Speedyconnect15:
You read pieces like this holistically.
.should i be teaching you this?

I think you lack comprehension skills, that is why you posted a link to an article
which says what most people already know.

Elnino4ladies:
Their children go ugly sha Lol

Dimwit

Ugosample:
African women don t love their husbands (most of them)

that's the difference.

These African women are in theur marriages for what they can get, and the "status" it gives them in the society

Take these two things away and you will see her true color

Love marriages are a recent phenomenon and they are far less successful than traditional marriages.
A sudden change in feelings is often followed by divorce, then you will begin to wonder where the
love has gone.

Do you think African men are in marriage for what they can't get?.
It is obvious that you are not married.

Speedyconnect15:
Read wide oga
https://www.ft.com/content/aae4ac84-d755-11e3-a47c-00144feabdc0

Your link shows that men don't like rich women, how is that a news?

A book published last week by the journalist Farnoosh Torabi draws together data showing just how hard it is: high- earning women have difficulty finding a husband, and when they do, he is five times as likely to be unfaithful as other husbands. The woman will probably do more than her share of chores; though in the unusual event that he starts ironing and cooking, he is likely to end up feeling so emasculated he goes off sex. Either way, divorce beckons.

You presented a problem and I gave you the solution or don't you like a submissive wife?

Speedyconnect15:
Not always about the money.

But money is the problem in 90% of the cases especially if the woman has got some.

Most women can't handle it.

Good, now go to a local village and marry a poor, skilless and illiterate girl
that you can dominate forever.
Problem solved.

Fake news.

kennygee:
The way you people call every woman an Olosho amazes me.

Does the woman in the picture look like an Olosho to you?

Are you sure your sister is not one of these Oloshos?

These stereotypes are doing us no good, the "all men are the same" crew are not left out.

There are a lot of frustrated souls here.

marvin906:
This woman is about to get rich well unless an agreement was signed before they got married or what happened to tiger woods will happen to bezos

I doubt he signed a prenup. He wasn't rich when they met.

Last year, Bezos was dishing marriage advice, talking about washing dishes at home.
It seems that was not enough.
Mackenzie is about to become the richest woman on earth.

jaid23:
One thing baffles me, how the father was able to locate his BH son and our military intelligence is yet to even infiltrate the alleged Sambisa where we were told these guys live.

Imagine...

Those guys are not hiding!

zlantanfan:
If all atiku has for strategy is the Dubai one he had better be conceding defeat.


I can actually see why Suleiman prophesied he should focus on the north

Instead of atiefwu to focus on north where he is loosing ground he has decided to toll the iPod line to allow the least political zone deceive him.

As it stands he only has kwankwaso in north who is busy recycling the same loyalists every where he goes.

Saraki is currently battling for his political life, dogara is a dead meat, dino in comma.

Why are you crying more than the bereaved?
I expect you to be happy with the news.

baralatie:
Arabs are not white nau

Who is a "white"?

SillyeRabbit:
She wanted the man because of money, she acquired it and became powerful. Unfortunately, the money disappeared. Money is now gone, she's back again for the money. Some men will never be wise. She does not love you, mumu.

Have you ever met anybody who is wanted because of their poverty?

This man deserves an award for the most foolish person in Nigeria.
He thinks he has solved his problem with arson and theft.

sacramento1212:
How’s the man a bastard? On top his investment and the wife was already an authority to the extent of moving out of the house to an hotel when there’s a misunderstanding until the husband will go and beg? What kind of nonsense is that

He doesn't own the business anymore.
She legally owns it. He could be jailed for arson and destruction of properties.