₦airaland Forum

Allwility:

Honestly, 'ayam not understanding'.

I don't understand the message this article is trying to portray. What achievement are we celebrating here? That she stayed put with a guy through his period of hardship?

I think it's mediocrity to preach this kind of message to our slay queens out there. If a lady stays with a guy whether he is rich or poor with the hope of benefitting from him whether now or later, what's spectacular about that?

Is that how we are going to have our own Condi Rice, or the next Okonjo Iweala or Dora Akinyuli?

Dear Nigerian ladies, your life vision shouldn't be to get married to some guy and be cooking rice with beans for him. Wake up.

It is your type that can't stand career women and are quick to disparage feminists.
This post is nothing but self-sabotage since what you want may eventually decrease your
satisfaction.

AmandaLuv:
This is baaaaad. Real bad

I am surprised you didn't go tribal on this one.
Evil heart hypocrite.

The punishment for cradle robbers is just too light.

moderatedguy:
jU didn't understand wot she was trying to say,let me break it down.1)if it was rape why didn't she scream. 2)if a man is raping a girl wud he tell her to rub cream on his penis(no time for that na)abi he wud enter her forcefully. 3)Maybe there was consent on the part of the 16yr old,but along d line something went.maybe d guy promise to give her extra cash and defaulted.

What is rape ?
Having sex with someone without their consent
or having sex with an underage who cannot give consent.

No one cares whether she screams or not, court don't convict
rapist just because the victim screamed!
Rapists are convicted or acquitted based on many evidence and
the direction they point.

You were not there, yet conjure up an extra-cash theory.
Have you seen the case file ?

Anybody who can make a judgement based on a newspaper report
is nothing but a simpleton, it is even worse when such person have
to invent a story to convict or exonerate.

Evaberry:
...

How did people outside know what was happening considering the girl didn't scream because of threat to life

since it was rape(forceful penetration) why the need to apply lubricant, even if his manhood was big why not penetrate forcefully.

This story is not forward and leaves room for many doubts

A good lawyer should be able to get the man off

Foolishness personified, you should have sticked to the romance section
where having a brain is not a requirement.

This home breaker forgot that karma is a bitch.

deedeedee1:
Who da hell is this fool? Did you just call me jobless? You are a fool! You dont know me in real life. If you have nothing sensible to say, just keep shut!
Ediot!

Of course you are jobless, and have nothing going for you,
hence your adoption of an online warrior persona when
you are a coward and an insignificant small fry in real life.

deedeedee1:
I stand by Adeyinka in this. Restructuring Nigeria will change nothing. It wont stop the hate and tribalism. We need to leave this useless country once and for all. We need to control our border! Nigeria is dragging us backward!
Every system in this country is bad. We have to develop!
I support oodua republic with all my heart and i reject restructuring

I may not know you but two things are certain.
1. You are jobless.
2. You have nothing going for you in real life

Conclusion, since you cannot measure up, you
have adopted a strategy of dragging everyone to your level.

planetx:
How can prostitution be illegal in a country with brothels on every street corner and girls selling their hawks openly in every major city.

How can bribery and corruption be illegal in a country where police openly extorts
citizen while politicians steal as much as they can ?

amazingspiderma:
As long as she is above 18, she has the legal right. We don't even know if she is the one sponsoring herself through school or if her siblings are under her care as well. It is always important to have a third perspective, different strokes for different folks. Some came to school with golden spoon,other had to spoon at at, they have to do what they can. As long as it is legal, no one has the moral right to condemn her, as long as we don't know her story.

Which planet are you from ?
Prostitution is illegal in Nigeria.

Nofuckgiven:
He is not gay and neither am I. Just because he said the bitter truth doesn't make him gay. Let God judge the gays/lesbian. Fornication and adultery are also sins. None is bigger than any. All are sins.

Any evidence for the bold ?
No one will arrest you if you say the truth.

Deepfreezer:
We no the people behind this long epistle. Let the fool make a video saying all this for the record. To be a Biafran citizen isn't by force.

Typical Ipob Yoot

Accept my sympathy!

owobokiri:
Edwin Clark using the Niger Delta struggle to enhance his status since time immemorial... Instead of these boys in the creeks to kick away these old scums that are begging for a slice of what is totally theirs from their oppressors, they are busy listening to an Edwin that will use their struggle to collect some amounts at Aso every now and then.

Why are you crying more than the bereaved ?
Not everybody acts without thinking.

Amarabae:
This man is one of the Problems of South South.

Because he is not a secessionist ?
Yeye.

noscarn91:
Trophy wife babymama

Fixed

SenatorM:
Tell me the reason why an Afonja Yoruba man prefer to marry an Igbo woman. Afonja ladies don finish.?

They are not married!

A Crackhead step out with his masquerade.

SalamRushdie:
The only reason you hate him is because he left the APC

Nah, count me out of the hatred cycle, I can recognise black and white
when I see them.

Any objective person will cringe at the sewage oozing from FFK's mouth,
I think you also found some of his comments disgusting but you don't
care because he is attacking your perceived enemies.

Madness is independent of party affiliation.

@MissRaine69 what do you do for a living ?

Any lady who foolishly marries the son of your fictitious mother-in-law
will live to regret her entire life, even if she is as rich as Oprah Winfrey.

A mother who thinks she owns her grown up son and his decisions should
be avoided at all cost. If the son has no problem with his girlfriend's finance,
how is that the mother's problem ?

SalamRushdie:
I can bet he will beat you in an IQ test anytime of the day ..You only think he is a fool because his thinking frequency is a lot faster than Oscillations your own brain can pick up ..That's why every time he speaks instead of you to address the facts or non facts in his message you quickly hide under banter shelters like "FFK needs Jesus', "Cocaine sniffer " and other lame comments...No matter how had we try to denigrate the man FFK he is still one the smartest politician alive today with a very deep brain and I respect him for that .

I start with a quote from Stephen Hawkings

People who boast about their I.Q. are losers.

A man's worth is measured by his positive contributions to humanity
not a meaningless number bandied around by those who have nothing
else going for them.

I will wager that you are a lover of conspiracy theory, the only
area of expertise for FFK, because most I.Q worshippers happens to
be one.

Did you know Hitler is reported to have a very high IQ of 141, that didn't
save him from a suicidal end, perhaps this knowledge will make you have
a very deep respect and reverence for the third reich leader.

FFK will be remembered as a mad man who once held a ministerial post
and I won't be surprised if he ends up in a mental asylum.

Who is that other lady ?
Another one that belongs to the kitchen ?

bentuzene:
1. She has put herself out so someone can have a chance to re-think. Let her be.

No she has put herself out, to look saintly and make other women
feel inferior to her. This can be deduced from her constant attack on
those who counter her myopic view.

There is nothing to rethink here, people have preferences, there is no
rule for choosing the right man or woman. I have friends who wouldn't date
dark-skinned ladies, that is their choice, but if a woman set a standard
for her man, all hell is let loose, why ?

2. Have you been reading through?! She has learnt stop being mean.

3. Same mentality but she's pushing for a different line of thought from them, herself included. Shows regret, stop being mean.

No, she hasn't stopped being mean, she is prescribing a drug she hates
to take herself.

She still believe that it is her man's duty to get rich and take
care of her needs, while some women make this clear, she is
pretending to be different.

She regretted that her boyfriend became rich after dumping him,
if he is still struggling, she will probably be praising herself for being
smart to dump his broke ass.

Here is a different line of thought: "I don't care if you remain broke
for life, I will still be with you, I can work and fund my own lifestyle
and even yours, so you have nothing to worry about"
When she adopts the above mindset, she would stop being an hypocrite.

4. Couldn't you just say she tried bringing her story to light and passing a message across at least?

You just had to lash her?!

Stories that solve problems should be praised, this story is just
to put down her fellow women for daring to set a standard for
their intending partner, such stories must be condemned
and the storyteller.

She has learnt nothing but attracting pity through subterfuge!

MissCokie:
Before any body would judge me, let me share a little story. I dumbed my ex boyfriend, because he was broke, few years after, he got back on his feet, made it, and moved on. I almost died, because i actually regret my actions. He had visions , but i was too blind to realize that... I am now a blogger, desperately trying to earn a living, because i realized my mistakes.

Slay queens and slay mama reading this, please learn. Get a life. Apart from our body, what else do we have to offer?.

So you are projecting your failed gambit on other ladies,
why don't you let them live with the consequence of
their own decisions ?

You apparently have not learned a lesson from your past
experience, which is to take responsibility for your decisions.

The mentality that your boyfriend's duty is to be rich to take care
of you is the same mentality held by those you attacked with this post.
You didn't regret dumping your boyfriend, you regretted that he became
rich after you dumped him.

Your boyfriend was lucky to be rid of you because you equated his
self-worth to his success and you still do, this isn't a behaviour
I will expect from a non-slay queen.

As usual those who can't see through this charade will become the
latest victim in town.

NLTroubleChild:
This is the best news i have heard today, Please keep expelling them during few weeks when they are to graduate, Or better still send Cultists to kill them and throw their bodies into a canal.
More of this please.
He's even an afonja sef with his cone head like The ball used in Rugby grin
This one would surely go back to Ogun state and take over his father Skull Mining business

To think that you were begging for "school fees" alms few days ago,
I bet those who fell for your scam will be biting their fingers now that
you have exposed yourself as a scumbag.

Phi001:
considering the fact that they been dating(sort of) since he was ten, I see no reason why she'd want to leave 20 years after...

Money changes everything!

I hope Messi understands that he will loose half of his wealth should there
be a divorce.

factwriter:
And what happened to those countries who allowed Christianity in while they try going to sleep with both eyes closed... they paid dearly!
You wouldn't know anything about this would you History eludes the gullible.

It's called CRUSADES and INQUISITIONS (of the earlier centuries)

Christianity was a fringe religion until emperor constatine
adopted it as a state religion.
Islam was a fringe religion until Muhamad kill off all his opponents
in treacherous wars.

The crusades were organised by christian nations to deal
with the existential threat posed by extremist Jihadists
who are bent on conquering the world and exterminating
all cultures, it is a shame that your knowledge of history
didn't include the motivations for the crusades and inquisitions
which are both REACTIONS to jihadist brutes.

It is on record that Islam is the only religion which was primarily
spread using sword right from the days of war loving Muhammad
because no sane person will accept Islam except under threat of death,
same cannot be said of christianity.

Quinn22:
Both

That's irrelevant. Those terrorist don't speak for all Muslims. If all Muslims were terrorist, you won't be alive by now.

I followed your post and I see you defending Islam on every post,
it is your type that makes liberating Islamic prisoners an impossibility.
Right now an underage muslim girl is being married of to a rich man,
when we condemn such, you say it has nothing to do with muslims.

People are being blown up in Maiduguri and when we point out that
Boko haram inspiration comes from the Koran, Islamic apologists like
you will go berserk.

The question you should ask yourself is who really speaks for all muslims ?
Is it possible that some people or groups can speak for every member of such groups ?

I hope you will one day be able to see clearly.

Serves him right.

ekems2017:
Go back and read my comment. I never supported the man and will never support any man raising his hands on a woman no matter what. I am an advocate against wife battery.
Why are you still talking about my children? Keep them out of this and face me. If I talk about your children, how will you feel? Pls i beg you in the name of God don't mention my children again cos you dont know them and will never meet them.
Thks so much. Am done replying to your comment no matter what you write again.

I am happy you finally retracted your poisonous and insensitive comment.
Learn to empathise with victims or let them be, any other
position which excuses the oppressor is nothing but evil.