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If Tithe and offering can't buy Luxurious properties for Pastors then they're taking cuts from the looted funds simple. Bank loan my foot.

There are always signs of this attitude during the dating phase bt most people aren't diligent enough to notice, talk abt it and work on improvement measures.
@OP, sorry abt the unforeseen events. It's obvious that ur wife wanted Marriage than she being ur partner. She got the title "Mrs" and she waved you bye.
My instinct tells me there's a second source of income for her that you're ignorant abt. Life can be harsh, good luck for the future.

Oh I thought the stuff is fat.

I wonder why many are just sugarcoating this issue here, @OP you don enter one chance bus. But thank you for sharing ur story, we're learning everyday. My personal belief is this: if husband and wife can't synchronised in their daily lives there's definitely going to be troubles. Forget the issue of she's a prayerful woman, both of them can't agree on what exactly to pray on? Where's the unity in this union. I always think of issues like this on a supernatural realm, from what you've narrated you both have two opposing energies. This is a great wahala in my opinion.

It was Yoruba. The teacher felt too important. I just decided not to be bothered with the "ami" on my writings.

Marrying the wrong lady

[quote author=Adekorya post=61576154][/quote]This point I'm making is this, when you hear politics just think of chess game. The role of a chairman is definitely like an the Umpire. To be a fair and just Umpire of any game he/she must have be a former player.

Adekorya:
Come rain, come shine I prefer Jimi Agbaje to Gbenga Daniel. Gbenga Daniel is selfish and an ambitious man, and will discuss anything to achieve his ambition. His selfishness lead to the PDP lose of Ogun State to ACN (now APC) in 2011.

It's very funny how those who never register to be a voter becomes an expert in political analysis. You said Gbenga Daniel made PDP lost to ACN. This incident wasn't a black and white situation. Amosun was suppose to be the governor b4 OGD. Infact, he introduced Gbenga to OBJ and unfortunately OBJ gave the ticket to OGD. Towards the end of his tenure, there was a serious political instability in Ogun state. So, either by proxy or by political calculation Amosun became the governor. That's not a coincidence.
***being a political party Chairman isn't an easy task. Political experience and tactics is needed greatly. In my opinion, Agbaje is better off running for political office than being a party chairman. Party Chairman will need to get their hands dirty for the party success and unity. There are better candidates with more political experience and exposure than Agbaje.

@OP, the truth is love isn't just enough in any relationship/marriage. You claimed ur boo ain't calling you like he use to. The bitter truth here is that you're a lesser prority on his to-do list. I will only advise you to make urself indispensable by finding means to add value to his life or bring something of value to the table (not necessarily financial)

Is APC a party? The last time I checked it was a coalition of 6-7 political factions/party.

The bigger picture here is this, Rochas is prepping for his Presidential ambition. Y'all sit down and observe. He's the only current governor who invites current heads of state to his state straight without the presidential protocols in Abuja. He obviously doesn't care abt the Imo indigenes anymore, he's now focused on the bigger picture "Abuja-Nigeria".
Like I tell my friends, his foundations/schools that are situated at every nooks and crannies of the country isn't a coincidence. It's part of his game plan to gain popularity across the country. Or is it his sudden romance with OBJ and other Kingmakers?
***Sit back and observe.

The OP doesn't understand economics to say the least. ***Misinformation at it's best.

Gulible Nigeria smh, they hear free money from Politicians they start jumping and praising. Later, when we hear that the Senator is a looter then they start crying and cursing them again.

***ALWAYS ASK QUESTIONS
Where is the source of this fund?

Amagite:
More...https://www.lailasblog.com/just-saw-man-raped-many-years-happy-ending-heartbroken-nigerian-lady-tweets/

Hhhhhmmmmm, This story has too much spices. If an 11 year old girl has intercose thru vagina and anus like she claims, the girl will definitely be admitted into an hospital for weeks. So my question is this, what did her parents do abt the situation?

In other news, the Minister of State for Petroleum is a powerless office. That isn't a coincidence to me. Mr. Minister, ur overseeing power over NNPC isn't legally bind.

@OP Point of correction, Guinness isn't a cheap beer. As a matter of fact, Guinness is an expensive beer.

The simple question here is.....Was HOD paid for this production back in 2015?

Importing spouses from Nigeria by those in Diaspora is always a very risky venture. What you get are extreme of both sides, the few lucky ones are extremely lucky and envious while the majority of unlucky ones continuously regrets their decisions for many years later. Some may not even recover till death calls.
**Ur friend should try forgive if the marriage has been good so far and he's convinced that the wife will continuously remain loyal after this confession.

I've always ask myself this question. Unfortunately, very few percentage of the Africa youth are self awakened. So, I'll definitely use the "blame-game". I always hear this saying "train up a child the way he should go....." But the Youths didn't get the training they needed for the task ahead. Is it a coincidence or a master plan? I can't answer that. The society neglected the young ones then, focused on shortterm personal gains. Let's take for example the educational system, larger percentage of the young ones weren't trained properly. They don't have enough/correct understanding of the society we found ourselves. The past histories were buried or edited, the current issues are always lied about and the future goals aren't concrete and precise but confusing, that we don't really know what we want to become.
The British trained and prepared the "then youth" for the task ahead. And they did hand over power to rule the country to the hands of the youth. But the youth failed terribly to replicate what the British did. They tasted power and suddenly became clingy and self-centred. Suddenly, African leaders all wanted to live like the Kings and Queens of Europe. They all want to stay in power till death and then handover to thier kids and siblings.
Seeing all these happenings around the continent, the youth of nowadays are lost their sense of patriotism as they see public properties becoming privately owned by the so called leaders in broad daylight. The youth nowadays have decided to fight for themselves at the detriment of others. An average African man feels fulfilled and successful when he's enjoying the third meal of the day while his neighbour is still struggling to have the first meal. The "most successful man in a typical African town isn't the biggest employer of labour in the town but it's the one with the biggest houses, garage full of exotic cars etc. This is very wrong on many levels, (socially, religiously, psychologically etc.)
***The harsh truth of today is that the current youth have different priorities, they just want to acquire stable income for themselves and family, nothing else.

I'll stop here.

TheGoodJoe:
Mechanical engineering

Mechanical engineering is the discipline that applies engineering, physics, and materials science principles to design, analyze, manufacture, and maintain mechanical systems. It is the branch of engineering that involves the design, production, and operation of machinery. It is one of the oldest and broadest of the engineering disciplines.

FROM WIKIPEDIA

If a Mech. Engineer cannot figure his way around a car engine, is that one a Mech. engineer?

A mechanical engineer isn't an Automobile engineer nor is he an electromechanical engineer. Automobiles are more complex then you think. For example, a ford automobile engineer cannot confidently diagnose or advise repair work on a Range Rover car with a specialized training and understanding the engine blueprint. This is the reason why Nigeria mechanics without brand specialisation are the worst.

The problem with the engineering sector in Nigeria is lack of skilled Technicians. Engineers don't do hands on, they design and plan layout of work for Technicians. But unfortunately, past governments wants everyone to go to Universities, even the polytechnics are just names on paper. They scrapped most technical schools.
The truth of the matter is the country lacks skilled technicians or those called Machinist in North America.
***Is there any University/polytechnic offering Railway Engineering?

I guess she's the first Triplet mum in that town. Congratulations.

In a 2 months relationship? Seems you've just adopted a grown lady.
As for the pad, I don't see as a big deal. As far as you have plans of going to the supermarket for other reasons. Otherwise, she pushing the boundaries, and you need to retrace that.

***anybody who's taking advantage of ur niceness isn't worthy of it. Please be smart.

Whao I thought I'm the only with weird condition.
The way I've managed mine are....
1. Ensure the bathroom and room is clean b4 shower as the irritation from seeing the dirty surroundings aggravates the condition.
2. Don't use sponges when shower after being very sweaty, afternoon shower, evening shower etc
3. Find soap that have moisturiser.
4. Always wear a clean cotton after shower.
5. Get a soft sponge.

shadrach77:
See what the richest man in the world is doing to help the poor. Dangote you see your life?

The earlier you realise that Dangote is fronter for lots of corrupt monies the better.
*Wake up and understand the real wealthy Nigerians. You'll neva see them on Fortune Magazine list of Wealthy cos their wealth can't shout.

iceberryose:
Richest Man On Earth.
No Gucci Belt, Versace Bag Or Phillipe Patek.
Hushpuppi be warned

Well, Wealthy white Americans prefer to spend money on hubbies and items that can easily liquidate than flashy cloth designer brands. Moreover, the designers made for the wealthy doesn't carry showy names that people can easily identify. Just cos Mark Zuckerberg wears Round neck Tees, Bill Gates wearing Plain Shirt and trousers don't mean those clothings aren't expensive.
Believe me, those flashy Gucci, Versace attires are marketed towards "Hustlers that hit the few Gold in the mine" They need to tell everyone that they are "now rich". Whereas, those that owns multiple Gold mines are known already by everyone.
***So, just for those who care to learn. Anyone who you noticed gets showy with the designer brands are just Hustlers like you who just hit some few bucks and if the riches isn't well managed they're coming back to ground level.
***Heavy wealth can't shout, but a very light/once in a while rich can get ur eardrum blocked if you're too close.

I understand that sometimes VOIP calls like WhasApp gets frustrating in Nigeria due to network issues but it's getting better day by day. In my opinion, if network lags isn't an issue then it's simple economics for you to use the VOIP options over GSM, except you're a shareholder in a Telcom company .
So my reactions to Ms. Toke Makiwa talk on the GSM vs VOIP communications. My dear brethren, for how long will you continue to believe everything people say on the internet? People say lot of things they personally don't believe in bt unfortunately for them they have to say it cos it's sells and get trendy on the social media platforms. Choosing VOIP over GSM is no brainer for anyone as far as the internet services has no lag. As a matter of fact, most multinational companies uses VOIP (though not necessarily WhatsApp) for their communications.
***There are lot of things Auntie Toke don't know about this technology or maybe she's aware she's just trying to stay trendy. Regardless what it is my peeps, don't be a pawn is someone else game.
Happy hustling

And the police came, .
At the end of the day, the man will bribe the police with the 3k and the girl will given a ....... assignment for the whole station .

See on the shoe

alexialin:
Marriage ?
Seriously ?

Sighs

My dear I can't get married to a man that will bore me to death.

After work , come back home to boring home?

Oh jeez ! Abeg!

No wonder some married women out there are more closer to their kids than the husbands.


Men abeg make una change .its not all about sexx sexxx sexxx

So you've automatically delegate ur fun and happiness in a relationship to someone else? Why are you then complaining when they can't deliver?
Ms. Get creative too, ur fun and happiness is ur sole responsibility.

Inanna:
[color=Blue]My dear calm down and read carefully, nobody is fighting or antagonizing you. We are essentially saying similar things. I said it's not possible for the vagina to be odour less, every VAGINA naturally has a smell but there is a problem if the smell is offensive.
And I'm simply correcting your wrong view that a smelly pûssy is as a result of poor hygiene practices. [/color]

De javu, I agree with you 100%. I had this conversation with a babe some hours ago today . She also thinks VJ are suppose to be odourless. I was just arguing the exact points you stated. I think she washes the VJ with the fermine gel too much and now getting very wet down there is becoming harder.