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This sounds so cool and innocent. This is a kind of love you shouldn't let pass you bye because you may never ever feel this way towards any other woman.
Whenever you see her again, try to compose yourself and ask for her number. She was probably disappointed that she asked for yours and you didn't return the gesture. The most interesting thing is that she might be feeling just the same way towards you too but you can't tell until she tells you! She might even misinterprete your seeming awkwardness in her presence as being distant.
You don't have to wait for her to make that call, go ahead and make the move. You got nothing to loose

@ dammyllola,
how was the test, I wrote it too.

@ wakapass,
Just friends? he's so done with the relationship, please better waka pass!

@ funmeme
They never let go. But they do need help. If you know a friend of his whom he respects, he might be of help. Tell him precisely why you want to break up with him and if he still continues, you'll just have to break up with him. Even if it means telling him you're dating someone and making sure he believes you.
Take care and be good!

Note: scrol down and insert quotes, you don't have to go to my posts and copy from there.

@ iice

I think it's totally boring. I hardly watch it.

mangrados, you're the baddest of them all!! Thumbs up!

Sweet heart, you may be stupid enough to think you're in love with him but he's definitely not in love with you. Wake up girl, he's married with babies! What are you thinking, girl, this man is only out there to use and dump you, can't you see that he has nothing to offer?

You might be getting attached to him but please get disattached! Realize that it's an insult for a married man to even as much as show interest in you.

Picture yourself as his wife whom he probably married at your age, with a nice sexy figure, firm and beautiful breasts, nice everything, but today after a twin, the woman is different. She's breast fed and not as attractive or as relaxed as she used to be. If that man were your husband, would you want a younger lady like you giving him the attention you're giving him today?

Remember the law of Karma, it doesn't fail.

Give an opportunity to a younger unmarried man, who has something to offer you. Don't go comparing him with this married man. Remember he's experienced and if you let him get to you so much, you may never appreciate a young guy again.
I'm glad you cried out, which is to show you really want to stop this, please Dearie, stop seeing him, delete his number, tell him to his face that you don't want to have anything to do with a married man, but before you can successfully do this, you must be convinced in your heart that the man is a piece of shit.
Good luck Sista, let's hear when you dump him the way he deserves.
Love ya.

Agree with you NaJa HaJe, but if two people love themselves, there's always something to talk about! You run out of something to say to each other only when you don't have anything in common or both of you or an individual is getting tired of the relationship.
The tips you got from Naha Haje are great, after that, if there's still nothing to talk about, then, , I'd be confused.

No matter what Michael has done or said, I'm still one of his die hard fans. I'll feel blessed that I had the opportunity of seeing him live while he's still alife. Besides, remember the impression non Nigerians have about this country, we're only just begining to prove them wrong and if we're truthful to ourselves, we'll agree we actually have security problems here.

What's more, I don't believe Michael is interested in what he can get from Nigeria and Nigerians, yes, he's no longer as rich as he used to be but even at that, he might be here just to associate with the black race and not for the money.

I only fear for his health, God, can he handle it? if he can, by all means Welcome home Michael.

oceanblue:
Id rather pay to watch old tom&Jerry series to rhat white,  oops! black man with (skin disease)

We've all done things to ourselves at one time or the other we aren't so proud of. The skin is only on the outside, I love the man inside and look back to his good days, remember him with those dance steps, remember him as Michael Jackson THE KING OF POP not as the sick person he has become.

[center]I love M J with a passion![/center]

Of course there are lots of virgin graduates on the street.

[b]niceuzo[/b]r, you're so naugh, ty!!

Thanks Siena, see you feel me!
@ Efua, I can't see a question, only a nice little comment

@ Efua,
Not when he gets irritatingly possessive. Have you ever had a boyfriend who calls you every 10 mins to know precisely where you are and whom you're with, whose voice he just heard at the back ground, whose car are you in, why didn't you pick up his call the very second it rang, why was your phone switched off yesterday, why was that guy smiling at you, why did you say hello to that guy when he said hi to you, goes through your phone and wants to know why some guys called you, the names of all your family members and girl friends, Efua dear, I could go on and on, the list is endless. As Olanajim rightly said, it's madness, terrible madness and you wouldn't wish to be entangled in the midst.

And as for security? it's not at all, it drives you so crazy that you ran far away from your partner. It totally distroys the relationship.
If you love your partner, don't get over jealous.

Just a little hint of jealousy to let him know you care, cherish and really don't want to loose him is OK, but when you start stalking, the relationship is, yesterday!

hell no! first date is not meant for kisses but to get to know yourselves and decide if you'd like to see again. Going too early into kisses might becloud your judgement.
A nice decent peck on the cheek, a pat on the back, a touch on the face could pass, but a kiss? NO

Meeting some one online as far as I am concerened is not much different from meeting a total stranger on the street. The only difference is that you don't get to see the person, which means the person can lie about almost anything from sex, age, nationality, looks, occupation,level of education, you name it.
This makes it almost impossible to trust someone you meet on the net but the same applies to meeting plp physically except that the person cannot lie about abvious things like looks, age and sex.
What I'll advice about internet friends is that you should keep being just that for as long as possible even before exchanging phone numbers, try to find out the kind of person that person is by paying attention to what ever he says, if you see that he could be lying to you, cut off all communication.
If you decide to meet the person physically, choose a public place like an eatery or a park. If you don't like what you see, you got nothing to loose.
Remember, don't give out your house address and your office address, you may talk about the area, but don't be precise.

I hate overly jelous guys, especially when they become irrational and extreemly possessive. They can be nasty and dangerous, I mean very very dangerous. I don't know to what extend a lady can go but pray never ever to experience and overly jelous boy friend.

What sort of girls do you date? _{irresponsible girls are attracted to irresponsible guys.} Yuck!!

@ NaJa HaJe,
I feel your irritation and annoyance, but pls, chill, don't get worked up like the poster is already.

_{zooming off and never coming back}!

You're getting worked up here Nick.
Take out time with your girl friend and sort this whole stuff out. You still love her and only thinking of breaking up cos she's not here. Imagine you call her up and she says, "y not, I'll come home for you horn" what will u do with all these built up passion?
This is so wrong!

Oh Nick! pls pls don't do something you'll regret. Are you doing this cos you envy your friends and relations? something tells me this is all so so wrong. You sound like one little spoilt boy that says, "mom I want a doll cos you bought Jany one"
Grow up man. See how both of you can get together and if nothing comes out of it, you can think of breaking up before advertising for girlfriends. No decent lady will date you knowing what you just did to a fellow lady.

If you're both in love, there's always something interesting to talk about!

If this chic catches you, she'll drop you like smelly shit!! You better delete these immediately unless you've totally made up your mind to break up with her. Even at that this is an insult to her person. She may never forgive you if she ever stumbles into this. Remember, the internet is a small place, if she doesn't see it, her friends or family will.

On the other hand, have you both sat down to talk about the way forward for your relationship, what's she doing there, does she have any intention of coming home anytime soon, do you have the intension of joining her there at anytime, is her staying away best for both of you? these and more questions are what u should ask yourself before you think break up.

What gives you the impression  that your next relationship will not be marred in some other ways? Think before you leap!

What sort of girls do you date? _{irresponsible girls are attracted to irresponsible guys}. Yuck!!

Hurray!!!!!! And they lived together happily ever after!!

It's really irritating and almost fustrating when you have a possessive partner. It just gets into your nerves. Men as well as women could be possessive. I think it's just a question of confidence and distrust. When you feel you're not good enough for your partner, you're always afraid she's with someone better than you.
I hate an overly possessive man. Gurls, pray it never happens to you. It's not interesting at all!

Gamba:
Try opening up to her, u could start by saying "Dear did u just take Garlic" ?

This may sound funny but I totally agree with Gamba. You could also buy her a gift pack of good tooth brushes and tell her that you love it when her breath smells fresh.

I really don't know about this, but I sincerly think any body can meet his girl friend anywhere. Be it on the net or wherever. I don't crucify plp that want to be friends with internet contacts. It's probably the only place they've got to socialize. I don't know, , don't quote me!!!

bla bla bla bla, self judgement! Na waoh!!, there's nothing we won't see on nairaland. Coward? I saw it on your post, Shy? it's there too. Bla bla bla bla,