₦airaland Forum

turmacs:
I honestly don't understand why drug dealers and drug takers are arrested. Why is taking and doing drugs even a crime? I believe things that should be a crime are things that I do to hurt other people against their own wish. Someone taking drugs, is by their own wish, as long as they are not in any way hurting any other person, why are they being arrested? It's just like arrested someone for attempted suicide. People should not be prosecuted for choices they make for themselves, that affect only themselves be it good or bad choices.

So, why are drug dealers and people who take drugs being arrested?

nlfpmod Mynd44

People who sell or take drvgs get arrested because the consequences of their actions are harmful to their fellow human.

When they tell you the things you did after taking drugs, even you yourself go shock; it can be as grave as having committed muRrder, Rrape or even 'badder' crimes.

Say NO to drvgs and the world would be a better place.

Please don't emulate Naira Marley or Portable, they are just making money by manipulating young, gullible and innocent minds.

rentAcock:
You would think the advent of uber, debit card and online ordering services will end the robbery/killings of delivery men and taxi drivers but I guess not. This is very sad, the poor guy probably had no cash on him as most people just order and pay online. I'm no racist but if I'm to live in America, I will avoid, Chicago, Detroit, Philadelphia, Houston and sadly anywhere with a demographic of 40% or more of black or Latino and widespread poverty.

Are you sure you don't live in the US? You should more knowledgeable not to...

2 scammers. 1 outsmarted the other. May his soul rest in peace anyway.

Rtk4:
I met this lady on Facebook and before you say jack we started dating. As time went on i decided to invite her to my house on a particular day....

That was our first meeting and we had sex. I was suprise to see that she was a virgin, infact real tear rubber wey be say na me open am. She cried and left, after some time she informed me that she hasn't seen her period ooh, so i told her to run a pregnancy test fast cos my mind don dey beat uncontrollably.

After the test it was confirmed that she was pregnant hmmmmm, God of mercy, i was so confused and devasted. To cut the long story short i went to to see her family with my own family and informed them that i would be fully responsible for the child but i wasn't ready for marriage.

After deep conversation with both family we left. But what struck me was during the conversation i sighted a HIV drug on their dinning table(I'm a doctor), immediately my mind was not at rest again. So upon reaching home, i started interrogating her on WhatsApp and calls about the drug I saw until she opened up to me that all her siblings were HIV positive including the father and mother and that She was the only one who was negative.

From the moment she told me that my mind hasn't been at rest again because i wasn't sure she was telling me the truth about her own status. I started running HIV test from that day every month until a year later before i confirmed I wasn't infected but you need to see the way i lost weight due to depression.

Please guys be careful out there, AIDS IS REAL. Though she later gave birth to my lovely son but unfortunately he died before clocking a year. I do not wish to remember the pain I passed as a result of his death.

Is this tales by moonlight?

gmacnoms:
No I did not

I wasn't referring to you Bro, but the guy I quoted who responded to you.

You pass like a very nice, diligent, humble, humorous and focused person, you nor get or like wahala. I can tell from all your responses.

May God bless your hustle in the UK, try shift towards London small, that terrain can be challenging, but na there things dey happen...be like Lasgidi, wey you dey constantly refer to as 'balablu'🙂, but e sure say when fate smile on you, that AJ wey you begin hustle go come join you celebrate for banana island.

One love my brother.

VikingKing:
APC lackeys like MannaBBQ and LeoDeKing cannot apply for jobs like this. There's no quota system or nepotism involved, coupled with the fact that they do not meet the qualifications.

You like to find trouble.

22rockbottom:
Good Evening,

I got married 11years ago, my mother in-law has always in the picture of everything in our home and has total control of my wife. My wife cannot object anything she says even when I, as her husband challenged it. 90% of the major issues we had as a couple were caused by my mother in-law. After 11years, I decided to confront her to stop controlling her daughter and stop interfering in our marriage and home. I confronted her and my wife left the house. Her reason for leaving the house is that I disrespected her family.

more details later

Bro,

I ended a relationship with a nice lady in the US because her mum was domineering, I just knew she would want to control my home and I sadly walked away, it was a painful decision.

Pally, you shouldn't have waited for 11 years, but better late than never; don't expect it easy, she and her mum would fight back and either of two things might happen. 1. Your marriage crashes or 2. Your wife and her mum become estranged. Whatever the outcome, may it be in your favor.

Best wishes.

Emilokan1:
gmacnoms bro, I'm sincerely happy for you. I've been waiting for a day like this that I'll eventually get to write my own story too like yours. It's like you're living a dream right now. I want to live that dream too. And I speak it to reality today. God bless your beautiful family. May you succeed in leaps and bounds and may the relationship blossom above temptations and tribulations. Congratulations bro. Keep the flag flying over there. We dey come soon.

So you voted for "Emilokan" with the plans to japa? Why are you this wicked?

pocohantas:
Pele. I don't know how professionals with solid skills think their breakthrough would come from one wicked Nigerian employer.

Dust your CV.
Update your LinkedIn profile.
Change your display picture to something professional and catchy.
Apply for (remote) jobs.

It wouldn't be easy at first, but with consistency you would definitely get something.

The last time a Nigerian employer contacted me via LinkedIn with their wicked salary and working conditions. My response was less than 10 words.

It is like you Nigerian youths are not getting update sha.

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The only justification to this your suffer is if you have no paper qualification. Then we have to revisit the school na scam topic.

Dear Pocohantas,

Always Most times on point.

💕

Yours Faithfully,
Secret admirer

DCmaverick:
I was going through a dating app looking for girls around me to hookup with, all of a sudden i saw my pastor there. I jus couldn't believe it cus he is a man of God and he is happily married . So i dnt knw what he is doing there or is he preaching the gospel to all those unbelievers there

He might have been there before he got married (can't tell though)

I am also on some dating Apps that I can't even remember, for so many years; so if I got married tomorrow, someone like you will assume I am either cheating or planning to cheat on my wife.

Nor be so o bro, be calming down, Pastor sef na human being.

gmacnoms:
Leave us alone 😃

Bad belle people....

gmacnoms:
I’ll continue from where I stopped.

Omo, I slept so sweet eh? No noise from one church wey near me , always doing vigil all day of the year (except Sundays). I’m not exaggerating


Took this picture at 9pm from England 😎

No be lie, sometimes, 10pm go be like afternoon, and 11am go be like night. Na why dem dey say some people nor stable like UK weather.

CuriousMind2022:
It's a known fact that most Nigerian girls marry who they consider ready for marriage and not necessarily who they love. I am exactly in that dilemma and the question I am asking myself is whether I should continue in this loveless marriage or slowly drift and walk away.

My marriage is barely 2 years and a few months, but it has been a rough journey for me. Things I never envisaged I would experience in my marriage, I have suffered, from utmost disrespect to verbal abuse.

I came to the conclusion that she doesn't love or care about me based on what happened yesterday. I was recently transferred from my base to a new location and because of that, I would only be able to visit weekends or twice a month. Prior to that, we barely had sex once a week.

We had already had sex the normal once we usually had it (Saturday morning), but I wanted more because I will only be coming back after two weeks. I initiated a move on Sunday morning, she declined because she was thinking of preparing food for our baby before we leave for church. We went to church and came back, and as usual, my wife was in her undies (just panties and bra) in the sitting room (This was what she wore throughout that Sunday).

I watched her walk around the house in that and that even turned me on the more. I am a practicing Christian, and I try not to look after other women lustfully, but common this is my wife, even God sanctions that. After being turned on throughout the day, I went to my wife in the night, (note she slept in the sitting room with our baby leaving me alone in the room) to enjoy my conjugal rights with her, but she gave me excuses that she is upset and not in the mood.

I left and went back, seriously konjified, I managed to sleep. The next morning, I woke up with my urges and went to the sitting room to have my morning devotion, but I could barely concentrate because I was still very Hot. I explained to her that so really wants me to go to my new station like this knowing fully well I will not be coming back until 2 weeks time. This woman did not care!

I took my bath, prepared myself, and set out for my office. I was not happy with her but I kept my cool and left for work. She had demanded that I dropped some money for her before leaving and despite the fact that I was not happy with her, I dropped the money in a conspicuous place where I know she will see it before leaving. This was my own way of saying I am not happy with what you did, but I still cared.

I try to do things I usually do for my wife even when I am angry with her. This is my own way of saying I may be angry with you, but I still cared about you and I am open to a resolution. On the other hand, my wife doesn't care what happens to me when she is upset. She immediately stops cooking for me ad any other thing she does for me when she is upset. It is obvious to me now that to my wife I don't really matter in the grand scheme of things. She is only caring and concerned, when she is not angry (when we are good and we don't have any issues). I believe that when you love somebody, you treat them right and show genuine love and care for them even when you're upset with them. This is what I have constantly shown to my wife in our 2+ years of marriage.

Back to my story of what happened weekend/Monday. My wife never bothered to call me to check if I arrived safely since I left the house yesterday. I even called her once (primarily to check on my daughter), but she didn't pick up and she didn't call back, and up till now, we have not spoken.

She obviously does not care whether I arrived safely in my station or not. In this country of insecurities, a family member of yours will travel and you do not care whether he/she arrived safely, that is the height for me, and in the actual sense, I should be the one upset here because she left me high and dry, despite knowing fully well I am very Hot.

I am a family-oriented person, I have always dreamt of having a peaceful, loving, and Godly home but unfortunately, the reverse is the case for my wife. I began to understand why family background is very important in a person's life, after getting married. My wife is from a family where they place little or no value on marriage. Her mother had children with 2 men, and my wife is obviously working very hard to follow that same path. She shows little or no enthusiasm in making our marriage work. I am always the one to initiate moves to resolve issues when we quarrel, whether I am right or wrong, I do not care, my focus is just on making my marriage work and my home peaceful.

This last episode shook me very hard, and I have been asking myself whether I want to continue in this loveless marriage or opt out. Working and living in a different city will even make it easier for me.

I needed to let my thoughts out and thanks to Nairaland, I have done so.

You are an articulate writer, nice one 👍🏽

Competition breeds quality in every sphere of life, give your wife a very tough and tense competition, you'd see how her brain would sharply reset.

Although I don't support it, but side chicks have kept many marriages, maybe you want to consider one, based on your current dilemma, don't just impregnate her. You will be happy and she would be fine. Think about it.

See people supporting a drug baron as President, Nigeria is truly finished.

'Olympus' has truly fallen.

SOSinNigeria:
If you supported Buhari in 2015 based on ignorance of who he is, this prayer is not for you. However, if you supported or voted for him in 2019 despite realizing he is a total failure this prayer is for you:

Your life and entire existence will forever be ruled the way Buhari ruled Nigeria.

The blood of innocent middle belt aborigines being shed everyday will forever haunt you!

If you decide to run away from Nigeria because of hardship, you will either be denied visa or deported on arrival.

The remaining days, weeks, months or years of your life will be miserable like the condition Buhari left most poor Nigerians.

May karma reward you accordingly!
May the universe visit you with your adequate recompense!!
May God's vengeance be on you!!!

Funny thing is that before you say Jack Robinson, they label you IPOB, the dimwits fail to realize that not all of us are Igbos. We just want a better country.

Their dull brains have been blocked because of tribe; I bet 90% of them have not travelled abroad to see what a decent society looks like, and the few ones that have, are just cashing in on their backwardness and darkness; they will cry the day they become exposed; they will curse their paymasters, but unfortunately, it would be too late, because drugs must have destroyed the lives of their children, just as they have wished same on Nigerians.

The revelation of MC Oluomo and how well he is taking care of his family would be child's play. Keep collecting peanuts and trading away the future of your generation, continue. Keep insulting us online, continue.

Yesterday, the commentator said that all the goals (36) Chelsea has scored as a team this season in the EPL is the same as those only Haaland has scored as an individual. Is it true?

If na Nigeria naw, Vini go dey fear to confront NFF chairman, him coach sef go use style back out....but see the guts of Vini and Carlo Ancelotti, no big man for that side, you do or talk anyhow, you collect...no time.

TheBillyonaire:
Of what use is a PhD when the holders of PhD are not even able to wrestle power from the illiterate class.

Most of the illiterate class clinging on to power are ruthless b€asts who are ready to clear anyone or anything that stands in their way. PhD holder wan enjoy him life with him family in peace abeg, the peanuts wey him dey make better pass make them cross am go yonda.

ChinemeremFidel:
My girlfriend always disturb me to visit her and I do avoid it because I really don't want sex for now..
She is the first I will ever have.

So today I decided to visit her,we made out mouth pleasure but I did not have sex because first she was a virgin and secondly she was on her period.

After satisfying each other ,she started crying to squashing one of her principles.
Then me on the other hand have never had sex before so I was really ashamed of what I did...

She called me on the phone and was crying in guilt that I broke her laws and principles...I took the whole blame...

She then broke up with me...
And I really love this girl.

She is beautiful,never asked me for money, smart, intelligent and brave.

I am just confused right now

Don't ever go against your values and principles because of a woman (or man), worst still, because of s£x. If she wants to leave, let her go. There is always that woman made specially and especially for you. You will understand better in hindsight later in life.

Best wishes bro.

TheBillyonaire:
Trust Nigerians to start studying for PhD just to take their families to UK. Going abroad is highest achieviement to most Nigerians. They just want to speak 'I wanna gonna'

But it will be a good thing nau , at least our citizens will become one of the most educated, with the highest number of PhD holders in the world.

I wonder who cursed us as a nation.

May God help our country.

Godfullsam:
Even Obi was into drug. He had to quit when he lost his dad to drug rivals. There are some of his associates who are still suffering the consequences of his drug deals in prison till date.

This is a fact some of you think we don't know.

Bro. I am not here to argue about Obi or BAT, I only stated information that is publicly available and which the entire world knows, that a top politician forfeited hundreds of thousands of dollars linked to drug crimes and cartel.

How come only you, know about Obi's drug case, while BAT's is in public glare?

Anyway, may my name, your name and that of our children never be linked to drugs by God's grace. I say 'Amen'🙏🏽, I don't know about you.

Eriokanmi:
. To be headed is different from being headed pls take note

OK o.

"to be headed" will be replaced with "being headed" in a couple of days time.

Eriokanmi:
Drug business had now become wazobia business, just wondering what that hausa guy was doing with those drugs. If care isn't taken, Nigeria would soon he like the Philiipines. The government needs to do more by making the punishment harsh.

Drugs are being exported from Nigeria daily in large sums, both by air and sea. Na pesin wey dem cash be barawo. How many passengers can they actually catch daily? This is becoming worrisome.

Which government? The one to be headed by a man who forfeited $650K linked to the same drugs/cartel, or another government? I am asking for a friend who is confused.

FESTAC Town, Lagos, must dey shaa ni.

POA (Place Of Arrest): Festac.

That place na sin city, both for male and female.

Aonkuuse:
Congratulations to her, although I don't even know her. Nollywood is so uninteresting with these new set of Actors/actresses

Nollywood is still interesting, na you don dey old

Na Genevieve or Omotola or Stephanie Okereke you still want dey see ni?

Mbappe and Dida.

Felix and Kaka.

A man (or woman) attains a level in life that he no longer belongs to his family alone; he belongs to the society, association, profession etc. as well, and his immediate family is obligated to disclose information or whatever happens to him, they owe us an explanation.

Was Pele's death strictly a family affair? Or you think if anything happens to Messi or Ronaldo, the family can shun off the society?

In Nigeria, Fela's death was institutional; Anything happens to our favorite footballers or entertainers, and the family owes us an explanation.

So Saint Obi's family had better change their perspective. His 'powerful' wife might have 'contacted' them, but hey! Saint Obi belonged to all of us!

Islie:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/tinubu-begins-constitution-of-cabinet-economic-management-team/

I am against the druggie mandate thief, but to be sincere and objective, the list looks good, we expect more to come. BAT is a great manager of human and other resources, just that his image has been battered with drugs and corruption. Let's hope the court does the needful and he returns the stolen mandate obtained by the biggest political heist in the history of Nigeria.

Please don't quote me if you don't want me to help you deliver a message to your daddy and mummy.

Done and dusted.

Inter next....we mauve....

IyaTola:

Noted Ma...oya enjoy the second half....