₦airaland Forum

Some ladies claim they get irritated when touched by guys they don't like. Sexual chemistry is a thing and if it's not there, call it off.

She's entitled to what she wants. It could also be she has converted not being able to have kids to not wanting kids. Anything is possible.

MrBrownJay1:
the bride price thing is part of Nigerian culture, whether we like it or not. some people pay 100k bride price while others pay 10m or more. it all depends on WHO that babe and her family are.

do you really believe that you would pay the same bride price for a girl coming from a top family in 9ja who was educated in some top international school and became a lawyer/doctor etc... with the bride price of the uneducated girl selling puff puff down your street?

to each their own.

Cost of wedding is not the same as bride price everywhere. Where I come from, the bride price of every woman is not up to 100 naira, whether educated or illiterate. The things demanded by family is almost always similar.

I don't know about other cultures though, maybe some bride price is dependent on the quality of woman in some culture.

A lot of small boys just talk nonsense on this forum. Don't be shocked that a 16 year old boy will be educating you about marriage and bride price.

Domaining101:
If Nigeria is ever fortunate to have me as a president of any sort, one of the first things i will do is to put an to all these useless monarchs. Both olu of warri, oba of Benin, sultan of sokoto, emir of illorin, obi of Onitsha, Ooni of ife, every single one of them in every nook and cranny of this country, I'll put an end to all of them because they are part of the reason this country will never move forward.

Only one without a proper culture will say that. Traditional rulers are part of the fabric of Africa.

Who has more provides for the other, that's how it should be. Where I have a problem is when you earn equally but don't want to bring anything to the table.

I did the opposite, finish early and spread love. I never believed in seeing people fail while I pass.

Watch your environment though, in the wrong setting, you cam get expelled for trying to 'show love'.

F4, 4 weeks is nothing, I have a visa calculator that tells me I have 8 years to be current, after waiting 11 years.

https://www.mygcvisa.com/calculator/

Horrible experience. You will repent immediately, you will become humble, until after a while, the human nature comes back and you forget all that you learned.

My first experience, I was traumatised. It's funny how the morgue attendants see corpses as just ordinary.

VAT in Nigeria is very low. It is five per cent for everything which does not allow for proper generation of revenue,” he added.

This slowpoke is talking with so much confidence. VAT is 7.5%. It has been so since 2020. We keep allowing silly foreigners talk in our affairs.

You want to advice a nation but you don't have the most basic facts.

Moving with armed guards in Nigeria is not for protection but to intimidate and a status symbol.

If there is an attack, those guards will take cover and save their lives first. Guards that can't even protect themselves.
What really protects these rich folks is their bullet proof vehicles. They drive away safely while their guards are killed like chickens.

Why do you people have so low self esteem? You're with a low quality woman and you still allow her give you problems? What does she mean by lying and calling it drama? You don't need such poor quality people in your life.

Men should learn to be with women who have self worth and brings peace. If you end up marrying her now and start having problems, you'd run round asking for advice when the signs were clear from the start.

If everyone created a thread for what they don't like, nairaland will crash. Jeez, social media will be the end of this generation.

It's a sad situation but Nigerians like doing illegal things.

Some are saying that the government officials giving out the approvals should be sanctioned. Are you sure there are actually approvals? If these people have approvals then they can go to court.

Government officials are very smart, nobody will risk his job by putting his name and signature on a fake approval. I'm yet to see anyone showing his approval though.

The average Nigerians mentality is that we will cross the bridge when we get there. Money can settle anything- very wrong mentality to have.

I see buildings with stop work sign on them, yet the people keep building after settling the officials. Did they actually address the reason for the stop work sign being put there in the first place? Crazy nation.

Na God dey protect person, it's the living that can help the living.

Jeffrey75:
I don't need a donation I wish to learn online work so that I can work remotely nothing like donations I have a laptop and smartphone

You want people to teach you for free? Probably pass on knowledge they acquired with money. You're not being realistic.

Life is tough, only people who know you personally will empathise with you. Know that and know peace. Coming online is asking for pity.

Go to any government hospital, you're going to get reduced rates. If you're well, then you can go out and work. Health is key.

Some car owners have zero taste.

Jeffrey75:
Sir do you know most times I have to avoid hospital because na money
Find a work I have to keep breaking down. Like am going insane hospital won't treat you free it's really heartbreaking 💔
People thinks am inconsistent and incompetent and am tired of explaining

Healthcare in government hospital is usually cheaper and you'll meet the best doctors there.

You have to help yourself. Stop the pity party, find a way to help yourself. If you're indirectly asking for donations, then you're deceiving yourself as no amount of money will ever be enough for someone depending on charity.

You guys shoukd learn presentation and packaging. These food pictures you people posh on this forums are usually disgusting.
What's so hard in tidying your food before eating?

Have faith and trust in God. Follow all medical advice and have a positive mindest.

People are dealing with cancer and all sorts of ailment. Life is tough, stay strong and be positive. There is no other advice than the above, except they discover a cure for your ailment in future.

Nobody is going to give you 'updates ' for free, humans will always want to associate with someone who brings something to the table.

Relax and don't put yourself under pressure, focus on your academics. Most of the successful people in school those days don't end up successful many years later.

Life isn't easy, less than 10% of the world's population will ever be successful in every given generation. Relax and focus on what's important to you now- your education.

That isn't a police vehicle. These days, a bunch of nobodies buy a hilux to accompany their flashy vehicle, tint it and put siren on it. That's the in thing amongst people who recently made money.

Stop promoting nonentities. Let's start a campaign to stop making foolish people famous.

MrsAminaBello:
when a fool speaks.
I'm sure this is the illiterate friend the OP is talking about

You're obviously referring to your failed parents.

Useless, this is a freak of nature. A 3 inches man is more useful to ladies than this. He can't get a boner.

Sad story but you're acting entitled. The guy owes you nothing. Introducing a girl to him doesn't entitle you to his wealth.

Someone like you will arrange for him to be scmmed or robbed if you had the chance.

Learn to accept the fact that the only person who owes you anything is you. Even God can decide not to bless you, the bible said so. I'll bless whom I'll bless.

Boarding house, reading, learning how to drive and showing interest in the opposite sex. I'm grateful to my parents, life was easy.

ogbonti:
and your "irresp onsible idi otic parents" raised you to constitute nuisance online

Some parents don't know when to make good decisions. It's not every foetus you keep. Some are best aborted to save the
world a lot of nuisance.

The internet is the only place a wretched person can still think he has a right to be heard. How pathetic.

I usually ignore trolls, but not this wretched troll.

ogbonti:
the BP wey kee ya papa na him go kee u

Shows the kind of people who bred you. Gutter kids ain't hard to spot.

ogbonti:
this is the same superficial mentality that put Nigeria in this mess we are in today - considering factors that are not related to success for the leader - tribe, region, religion, physical looks or what have you —/ BUT never Competence, Capacity or Compassion… so a Lawrence Anini kind of candidate who looks like Mr. Universe got your vote right? Ona go suffer tay for that naija

Too much grammar over a simple statement. Go and check your BP.

Edo has lots of handsome men. Edo fine boys, please start contesting o.

I only ever talk with the two neighbours at each side, it has always been like that for me in my different neighbourhood. Those are the two most relevant ones that will watch out for you. They have more to lose if something ever happens to your house.

Too much familiarity breeds contempt. Keep it simple.