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You people will eat anything. When Tinubu is done with you guys, you'll even eat lizards.

Im always amused to hear young men talk. You think you can handle an equal or higher earning woman? There is a reason men marry below their economic bracket.

Women will rubbish you if you are not favouring them economically. One day, they'll walk out on you, knowing very well they'll be fine without you. Half of the decisions will be taken by them. They will demand equality. You don't want to be in that shoe bro.

The OP doesn't mind that a gay guy is approaching him, he's just not happy with that guys manner of approach.

Every straight man will be pissed that a gay man is approaching him, irrespective of the manner of approach. This obviously tells us something

Forget grammar. Give peope food and a decent lifestyle. Let them breathe.

All this stats wouldn't help anybody. Oga said, nor be stats we go chop.

Stop giving stupid people attention.

I know a guy whom people were telling him things about his babe, her colleagues especially but he didn't listen. She told him they were envious. He also saw her anger issues but it was never directed at him.

He got married to her and all the bad attitude and anger were now poured on him. He's miserable, he's stuck and keeps contemplating divorce. I have no sympathy for him though, he saw the signs but chose to ignore them. Don't be like him.

ibinaboonline:
Depends on your perception of love. Even many adults think of love as some sentimental feelings. Love is value. With all your compatibility and respect, your woman doesn't value what you have together at the level where she can freely open her mouth and say, "I love you." Am I been childish? Maybe. But any thinking person knows this is a big deal. Why can't our women open their mouths and say to a man, I love you?

What the media sold to you as love is a scam. Stop watching romance movies. We like people and are attracted to them. If we loved them, then we wouldn't have break ups and divorce.

Love doesn't fade. Love for kids is innate from birth, that's undying love, we can't control it. Any other love is not love, it's just likeness and attraction. I don't need anyone to tell me they love me, except my kids. So called love by the opposite sex isn't love.

Let her spend some time in jail. Let her creditors jail her for default.

ibinaboonline:
This comment shows how messed up things are.

You're a child, love is not required in marriage. Only children think this way. What you need is compatibility, respect, tolerance, shared values and attraction.

Get counselling, if no changes, get a separation.

Love is the least factor when considering a partner for marriage. Like them and be attracted to them but love is not compulsory. What is even love?

Strafudeen:
Guide is a synonym for control

Even dumber than I thought.

You have a very very low self esteem. Go and work on it.

Strafudeen:
If you understand and can control women half of your problems on earth are over

They are not like men, they are not like children

They live in their own strange universe,

You want to control women, like a mule right? Anyone who thinks he can control another is still obviously a child. You can't control even a toddler, you can only guide.

This people talk too much. Set to, will do, about to, bla bla bla. Just do it already and stop all the rubbish propaganda. Like Nike advert says, Just Do It.

Clout. You don't need a 2m bounty, simply contact DSS to pick her up.

Everybody is somebody on social media. Isn't this the same imp always shaming women? This is poverty at it's highest.

Growing up as a child, when I hear transformer don blow, it will seem like the world had ended. Then, there were hardly generators in residential houses except for the millionaires with big houses and large satellite dishes.

You're dating a teen or girl in her early 20's. Any mature girl saying this still has the mentality of a child.

How long will you people keep being told that, nor be every woman dem dey marry.

All these amateur social media actors. People don't have a life anymore outside social media.

flourishing247:
It doesn't stop you from getting a visa.

My family visited the US in 2016, I didn't bother applying, though I hadn't included them in my petition.

They tried applying in 2019 when I had included them in the petition and they were denied.

I wasn't sure if it was because I had included them in the petition or because it was that Trump era of refusal. We will give it a shot again.

Iyaboys:
Yes I have been getting visiting visas, and having an immigrant petition does not disqualify you from getting a visiting visa. You may want to give it a shot, you have been waiting 11 years? Has your petition been approved?

Petition approved like 3.5 years ago.

More of this to come. Many morons are relocating, it's bound to happen.

jceesquare:
For your 1st code, your cars fan is running continuously when ignition is on and your thermostat is stuck open or has been removed. Replace thermostat and return fan to factory settings and that would be sorted out.
For the second code, drive the car for a while and observe if the idle will drop further downward while car is idling in P or N.

Thanks for your reply, however, fan works fine. Comes on only when engine is hot. The only thing is that ac compressor doesn't go off when engine is hot. It works continuously.

The idle sometimes gets to 1000 when the car has been driven for a while but the issue is the fuel consumption is really high. Half tank for 120km, though the car just moves within an estate, very short distances.

2006 civic started having high rpm at idle, around 1400 rpm. I did a throttle body clean and relearn and it came down to 1,100.

My car still consumes fuel. I did a scan and it shows P0128, coolant temperature issues and P0507 idle control system issues.

I'm not sure the parts to change. Most mechanics are clueless and just guessing.

Iyaboys:
Yeah, the wait is frustrating!!, my petition will be 10 years on 11th of this month, it was approved in March 2022, I have not received any correspondence since then o. From the look of things I still have about 5 more years to wait, the good thing though is that I get visiting visas. Just continue life, it will materialize one day...

You were given a visiting visa? I never attempted it as I was told that having an immigrant petition will lead to a refusal.

I've waited 11 years, I believe I still have another 10 years. Thank God, my life here is pretty ok, so either way, I don't mind.

Figment of their imagination. No refinery is working this year. We're still waiting for the AGO and aviation fuel from Dangote, we go wait tire.

Nobody is going to save us except ourselves. We are not ready for good governance yet as a nation. Nigerians are like a woman who prefers a man that beats her to a loving and caring man.

vaca1:
please someone help F41

at the ceac dot state gov/IV page

it says my case is currently at the NVC
what do i do at this stage?

also see attached below on the same page
its saying not paid

am i supposed to make any payment?
pleas any advice as i am on this level for over 2 years

Read the instructions at the top left. In mine, it says you are to do nothing. You will be contacted when necessary.

Due to the numerical limitations on immigrant visa issuance prescribed by law, this petition is not eligible for further processing at this time. The National Visa Center (NVC) will retain the petition until an immigrant visa becomes available. The NVC will notify the petitioner, principal applicant, or attorney of record when this petition is eligible for further processing. The principal applicant should not make any firm plans such as disposing of property, giving up jobs, or making travel arrangements at this time

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Check, you may see this message.

Never compromise on your standards as long as it's reasonable. Anyone who can't fit in should leave.

Why would a girlfriend go and spend the night in another man's house who is not a relative? There are certain things I can never understand.

If this clueless man had any shame, he will resign honourably. Who would have thought that Emefiele and Buhari will be better than others? Wonders of this world.

Not everybody is a glutton. This 'food' is disgusting.
There are still lots of men who are not moved by food.