pleep: haha, people are being way too hard on the OP, some dude made a thread exactly like this yesterday. I think thats where this lady got her title from.

https://www.nairaland.com/1149660/ladies-heartless


As for the 2 topics.. both of yall are dumbasses. You got with a dude who was obviously still dealing with another woman... you were his Bleep buddy and you were trying to pretend it was something more. (maybe the sex was good, maybe he had alot of money) But either way what did you expect to happen?

Cutejay: Hahahahaha@some funny posts i'm not upset with such post cuz i didnt expect less from nairaland,i knew some clowns will try to make senseless comments thats their own biz. As for the sensible ones thanks point noted that was why i put it up here i have learnt from ur contributions. NB i am not generalizing i used the word "some" yes i said i hate men cuz i was very furious at the time but i'll modify that. Thanks ya'll.

Enegod: Men will always be men!

WackyJ1: CuteJAY I'm on my knees begging you not to turn bad. Don't let one man create another bad girl in you... Be true to yourself. The man wasn't there when you were growing up and being shaped to what you are now.
You say you hate men for the now because you ran into this wrong man while i myself can confidently say that i have not a single cheating bone in my body only for me to realise that women are now more prone to cheating than guys, but that won't change who i am, because with the right woman i'll be the right man

ashmanpolo: Some girls should try and bask in the euphoria of some 'guy men'. The man is prolly into YAHOO and disguising to be a girl on facebook.
Now OP is here making mountains out of mole hills.

Cutejay: I am in a confused state right now infact am tired of getting my heart bashed this is the 2nd worst hit.
I need your advice please friends! In one of my post i talked about a guy i was dating who has a kid,after everything i agreed to stay not minding if he has a child or not cuz he pleaded with me not to leave cuz he loves me and wouldnt marry his baby mama cuz he doesnt love her and i truely love him so i agreed.
It started in december last year after the child ish,i checked his facebook account and there was a lady he used in his profile picture,i asked him he said she was just a friend i said ok. Then on the 12th of december he opened a new facebook account without informing me which i later found out, i asked him why he did that and he didnt respond,i let it go. On the 1st of jan this year i logged on to facebook and decided to go through his new account though i am not his friend there i went to his wall,only for me to see the same lady in his profile pic. I got upset and asked him who she was and he said why am i disturbing myself over nothing,untill now he has'nt told me who she is to him. I sent him a text today only for him to call and say i shouldnt worry that nothing is happening but its obvious they have something together and he doesnt want to say i suspect something. My annoyance now is that when we started dating 6months ago i asked him if he had someone and he said no, i asked that cuz i wanted 2 clear my concience and i was single at that time i met him and i just graduated from the uni when i met him he is 34 and i am in my early 20's,i didnt mind the age difference cuz i loved him. I have never cheated on this guy,i trusted him,i was everything but content with him,i never asked him for anything he does it at his will,i was ok with that. Now this is all i get BETRAYAL. Why are men like this? I have decided to let him go though it hurts i will try. I am a good girl but right now i want to be bad cuz my goodness hasn't paid off i dont need anyman around me anymore. Please advice me before i take my final decision.

Girl, at early 20s', u may not believe it but u re still a child, when it comes to matters of the heart. My advice is this; "Quit making a mountain out of a mole-hill".

ThoniaSlim: I don't get it! I seriously do not get it. Shouldn't his facebook profile picture of another lady have warned you that dude's up to no good?

Cutejay: I am in a confused state right now infact am tired of getting my heart bashed this is the 2nd worst hit.
I need your advice please friends! In one of my post i talked about a guy i was dating who has a kid,after everything i agreed to stay not minding if he has a child or not cuz he pleaded with me not to leave cuz he loves me and wouldnt marry his baby mama cuz he doesnt love her and i truely love him so i agreed.
It started in december last year after the child ish,i checked his facebook account and there was a lady he used in his profile picture,i asked him he said she was just a friend i said ok. Then on the 12th of december he opened a new facebook account without informing me which i later found out, i asked him why he did that and he didnt respond,i let it go. On the 1st of jan this year i logged on to facebook and decided to go through his new account though i am not his friend there i went to his wall,only for me to see the same lady in his profile pic. I got upset and asked him who she was and he said why am i disturbing myself over nothing,untill now he has'nt told me who she is to him. I sent him a text today only for him to call and say i shouldnt worry that nothing is happening but its obvious they have something together and he doesnt want to say i suspect something. My annoyance now is that when we started dating 6months ago i asked him if he had someone and he said no, i asked that cuz i wanted 2 clear my concience and i was single at that time i met him and i just graduated from the uni when i met him he is 34 and i am in my early 20's,i didnt mind the age difference cuz i loved him. I have never cheated on this guy,i trusted him,i was everything but content with him,i never asked him for anything he does it at his will,i was ok with that. Now this is all i get BETRAYAL. Why are men like this? I have decided to let him go though it hurts i will try. I am a good girl but right now i want to be bad cuz my goodness hasn't paid off i dont need anyman around me anymore. Please advice me before i take my final decision.

kemika: I can guess the man is bucksy or made sort of. He doesnt need u .u r the 1 desperate at your age!the priority of your type is wrong. that is y lads like you go to banks to size up the guys working there. u will continue to fall prey if u dont grow up and be realistic about life.sioooo!I can guess the man is bucksy or made sort of. He doesnt need u .u r the 1 desperate at your age!the priority of your type is wrong. that is y lads like you go to banks to size up the guys working there. u will continue to fall prey if u dont grow up and be realistic about life.sioooo!I can guess the man is bucksy or made sort of. He doesnt need u .u r the 1 desperate at your age!the priority of your type is wrong. that is y lads like you go to banks to size up the guys working there. u will continue to fall prey if u dont grow up and be realistic about life.sioooo!

luluosas:
My dear, you definitely need a man around you right now.
Now, going by your explanations, I think the best thing you can do for yourself is to marry. You don't need all these sweet coated tongues men as boyfriends. By the way, boyfriend/girlfriend relationship will always break your heart.
Please, don't present yourself so cheap to anything inside a nicker. Get your own HUSBAND and marry and you will experience PEACE.
Don't become bad as a result of your experience, instead, learn from the experience to better your chance(s) next time. This is my humble suggestion. Thank you.

luluosas:
My dear, you definitely need a man around you right now.
Now, going by your explanations, I think the best thing you can do for yourself is to marry. You don't need all these sweet coated tongues men as boyfriends. By the way, boyfriend/girlfriend relationship will always break your heart.
Please, don't present yourself so cheap to anything inside a nicker. Get your own HUSBAND and marry and you will experience PEACE.
Don't become bad as a result of your experience, instead, learn from the experience to better your chance(s) next time. This is my humble suggestion. Thank you.

IYA NGBALI: and women will always be what?

[/quote]I am a good girl but right now i want to be bad cuz my goodness hasn't paid off[quote]

Cutejay: I am in a confused state right now infact am tired of getting my heart bashed this is the 2nd worst hit.
I need your advice please friends! In one of my post i talked about a guy i was dating who has a kid,after everything i agreed to stay not minding if he has a child or not cuz he pleaded with me not to leave cuz he loves me and wouldnt marry his baby mama cuz he doesnt love her and i truely love him so i agreed.
It started in december last year after the child ish,i checked his facebook account and there was a lady he used in his profile picture,i asked him he said she was just a friend i said ok. Then on the 12th of december he opened a new facebook account without informing me which i later found out, i asked him why he did that and he didnt respond,i let it go. On the 1st of jan this year i logged on to facebook and decided to go through his new account though i am not his friend there i went to his wall,only for me to see the same lady in his profile pic. I got upset and asked him who she was and he said why am i disturbing myself over nothing,untill now he has'nt told me who she is to him. I sent him a text today only for him to call and say i shouldnt worry that nothing is happening but its obvious they have something together and he doesnt want to say i suspect something. My annoyance now is that when we started dating 6months ago i asked him if he had someone and he said no, i asked that cuz i wanted 2 clear my concience and i was single at that time i met him and i just graduated from the uni when i met him he is 34 and i am in my early 20's,i didnt mind the age difference cuz i loved him. I have never cheated on this guy,i trusted him,i was everything but content with him,i never asked him for anything he does it at his will,i was ok with that. Now this is all i get BETRAYAL. Why are men like this? I have decided to let him go though it hurts i will try. I am a good girl but right now i want to be bad cuz my goodness hasn't paid off i dont need anyman around me anymore. Please advice me before i take my final decision.

ashmanpolo: Some girls should try and bask in the euphoria of some 'guy men'. The man is prolly into YAHOO and disguising to be a girl on facebook.
Now OP is here making mountains out of mole hills.

ashmanpolo: Some girls should try and bask in the euphoria of some 'guy men'. The man is prolly into YAHOO and disguising to be a girl on facebook.
Now OP is here making mountains out of mole hills.