LadyH: err...wuda loved to drag dis on n let u knw actually HOW im lost buh, iz aiit.

Lol...please do. Maybe we can reach an understanding. You probably have a better opinion, who knows?

sandijey:


If you're in love wiv the wrong man and you display such activity, u will become a slave! To me, the problem is not about doing it! Everybod is making a point! But if a man is bringing this damn list of how to know a wife material, are u a husband material? Do u deserve to be treated this way by a girl. You don't treat ur woman right, you cheat on her, beat her, don even give her small money, verbally abuse her yet u want her to cook and clean! Where do they do such? Nigerian men have bad attitudes.their relationship wiv a woman is like a king to a slave. Most women do not like to be talked down on. You can tell me to cook but not shout on me to cook. Most nigerian men are not polite. Respect. And politeness are two very important but salient factors in keeping a home! That's why everybody is pretending! A demonic woman will do all this before marriage, after marriage it becomes a different ball game! We should all respect ourselves!

No no no no NO!!!! U don spoil talk. SOME Nigerian men not ALL. Don't generalise... It's bad!

Idowuogbo:
Chop it

Lol

sandijey:

A demonic woman will do all this before marriage, after marriage it becomes a different ball game! We should all respect ourselves!

Pardon? Wot are you saying?

alutacontinua: I am not a fan of it!
I can only do it once in a blue-moon, by dt I min lyk once in a year!
I am not his wife, he needs to understand that! If he wants to know how good my culinary skills are, i'll gladly entertain him if he comes to my house!

Dt's all!

[size=24pt]But you are a fan of his pocket, wallet, shopping and outing abi......Rabbish![/size]

so i shuld b d one 2 be cookin 4 her

i enjoy cooking, so no big deal. but moderation is the key.

igbsam:

But you are a fan of his pocket, wallet, shopping and outing abi......Rabbish!

Abeg calm down jare! See as u dey shout, u dey shower persin with early morning spit na

Why do i keep on having the feeling d OP is a bad cook

No cooking for any boyfriend

zeb04: . Mayb u dnt stay in dis part of the world whr I stay bt pple cook under compulsion to get a husband. Dat by the way,I get ur point 2. Everytin shld b out of love wat am against is those men who tink its their birthright for their gf 2 com 2 the house nd slave 4 them nd yet they even ask y the food is not ready on time. Well wateva works for you. Peace

Very correct!!!!! People cook under duress. Not becausethey want to. Just so u can please the man! A young girl will cook for her bf so he can keep her! That's just d simple truth! She might love cooking but that's a Salient reason. Am a psychologist so I no what am saying! When the chips are Down ,People see life as give And take, gain and loss. How many people do things wivout weighing the gain? If tomorrow the guy leaves u, the first thing the woman will say is " aftereverything" is that not her being expectant and weighing her loss? At theend of the day, all na eye service. Because of my experience I am of the opinion of cooking once in a while.

If you can sleep with him, why can't you cook for him?

Idowuogbo:
No no no no NO!!!! U don spoil talk. SOME Nigerian men not ALL. Don't generalise... It's bad!

Ok some!

Diff strokes 4 diff folks. U can always cook frm d comfy of ur home n drop d package wen ur done. How many guys get mortar n pestle 4 hse not to talk of grater

Idowuogbo:
Pardon? Wot are you saying?

What am saying is if cooking makes a woman a good wife! Then people do not know nor understand relationship!

alutacontinua: I am not a fan of it!
I can only do it once in a blue-moon, by dt I min lyk once in a year!
I am not his wife, he needs to understand that! If he wants to know how good my culinary skills are, i'll gladly entertain him if he comes to my house!

Dt's all!

ur nt his wife, so y sleep wit him?.....wich is more difficult or more morally wrong, to sleep wit him or jst cook 4 him?.....sm gals sef, dear mental/reasoning level baffles me alot

emeraldudy: Diff strokes 4 diff folks. U can always cook frm d comfy of ur home n drop d package wen ur done. How many guys get mortar n pestle 4 hse not to talk of grater

Lol.E be like say u no no say correct educated African man still exists .Some get all the packages for their kitchen

for me Nothing wrong with it..just that I don't like it especially if She comes over to my place.. buh if I visit her and She does...no p.She loves cooking and I must give the meals excellent compliment#loveUMercy#

sandijey:


If you're in love wiv the wrong man and you display such activity, u will become a slave! To me, the problem is not about doing it! Everybod is making a point! But if a man is bringing this damn list of how to know a wife material, are u a husband material? Do u deserve to be treated this way by a girl. You don't treat ur woman right, you cheat on her, beat her, don even give her small money, verbally abuse her yet u want her to cook and clean! Where do they do such? Nigerian men have bad attitudes.their relationship wiv a woman is like a king to a slave. Most women do not like to be talked down on. You can tell me to cook but not shout on me to cook. Most nigerian men are not polite. Respect. And politeness are two very important but salient factors in keeping a home! That's why everybody is pretending! A demonic woman will do all this before marriage, after marriage it becomes a different ball game! We should all respect ourselves!

You obviously have a case with men, to me it's not bad for a lady to cook for the boyfriend, period!

At d end of the day,it all boils down to the kind of partner you are with.Some wudnt mind because they know they can never marry you,some men don't care because they think its not all that important,some wud use that as a yardstick to measure a partner's character,some just don't like to be pampered as dey cook for themselves,while some get one babe house wey dem dey go chop clean mouth



Back in school,I don't do no Shiite for any man except you beg for it.But now?Omo I no fit use my hand fall my hand o.Just like I wud remind my guy anytime him head knock small,"Oga u dey block road for some potential husbands wey better pass you,don't push me over the edge"

Idowuogbo: Abeg calm down jare! See as u dey shout, u dey shower persin with early morning spit na

Open your mouth make i pour more spit inside...........

Who asked if you are a lesbo !!! (Pricking conscience)

igbsam:
Open your mouth make i pour more spit inside...........

Eeeeeeeeeewwwh! Mods!! Ban this smelly boi

alutacontinua: I am not a fan of it!
I can only do it once in a blue-moon, by dt I min lyk once in a year!
I am not his wife, he needs to understand that! If he wants to know how good my culinary skills are, i'll gladly entertain him if he comes to my house!

Dt's all!

I guess am nt her husband so I can only give her things like money once in a blue-moon, by dat I mean lyk once in a yr!
she needs to understand if she wants to knw how caring I am she shuld ask my mum.

lynpetra: At d end of the day,it all boils down to the kind of partner you are with.Some wudnt mind because they know they can never marry you,some men don't care because they think its not all that important,some wud use that as a yardstick to measure a partner's character,some just don't like to be pampered as dey cook for themselves,while some get one babe house wey dem dey go chop clean mouth



Back in school,I don't do no Shiite for any man except you beg for it.But now?Omo I no fit use my hand fall my hand o.Just like I wud remind my guy anytime him head knock small,"Oga u dey block road for some potential husbands wey better pass you,don't push me over the edge"

Lolz... You no fit carry last na! Carry go!

mtchwwww it dosnt mk any diff

A guy been familiar with his gal's uncladness can breed contempt but that's the opposite when it comes to a gal cooking for her boo. I admire my gal a big deal when she does d chef tin. So personally I disagree that familiarity breeds contempt in the context of the subject.

otijah: It is very very wrong, cause while cooking the food the guy maybe staring at her ass, which can nw lead to kitchen s*x, which means s*x be4 marriage and is a sin in the sight of God

This guy got me cracked-up...
Hilarious reasoning!!

Kassidy90:
I guess am nt her husband so I can only give her things like money once in a blue-moon, by dat I mean lyk once in a yr!
she needs to understand if she wants to knw how caring I am she shuld ask my mum.

Wots with you guys and money talk sef? Na Ashana una dey call gf? Hian! If ur babe dey milk u, u sef milk her. Dis one una provoke here like say na we dash una gf, let me hear word o

Mamid:
You obviously have a case with men, to me it's not bad for a lady to cook for the boyfriend, period!

I have no case wiv men! And its ur opinion! Stick to it while I stick to mine!

it is wrong

what is your stand? is it right or wrong to cook?

simply_me: and this is someone who sees your unclothedness and sleeps with you on a daily basis.
So what's moral about cooking for him? Nonsense.