Idowuogbo:
Eeeeeeeeeewwwh! Mods!! Ban this smelly boi

Hehehehehehehehe.....If the Mods open their mouth, i will make a big spit and pour it inside their mouth as well. And i would personally double your own. You can call it De La Creame

[quote
author=Akalia]A guy been familiar with his gal's uncladness can breed
contempt but that's the opposite when it comes to a gal cooking for her
boo. I admire my gal a big deal when she does d chef tin. So personally I
disagree that familiarity breeds contempt in the context of the
subject.[/quote]



no one will generalizzzz by ur opinion

Well for me, i dnt see anything wrong in doing that as far as he appreciates it, i naturally love cooking and its my joy when people eat what i prepare. But if we have nt seen each others unclothedness yet, then i won't cook cuz from after cooking i will want to have my bath and then before you know it everyone will be singing praise and worship which i won't want, i can cook from my home and take it to him if na my food him really wan eat. Cooking is fun and when a man eats your food and still wants you to cook for him, then know that u've gotten him in that area.

JellyBean190: Why do i keep on having the feeling d OP is a bad cook

lol! I am the OP,but i do not want to boast on this forum.My cakes and dishes would be for another thread.

See big mamas saying no to kukin... Me dey do am 4my beloved Sen Yerima....

mz mariah: God bless you dear. When you cook for your man and put in the freezer,all he needs to do is just cut a little portion, reheat and make rice or EBA to eat with it will always make him remember you. I Cooked for my ex till I left him. I can't be in his house and expect him to cook for me. What will I be doing when he is in the kitchen cooking for me? Watch movie and wait for him to cook and serve me. Not all relationship ends up in marriage but what is worth doing is worth doing well. God bless u shejane

dis post n shejane's, r d best....oda r jst running around or blabing

Honestly, i use to cook for my hubby b4 we got married, and guess what he told his sister? "i'll rather marry a girl that cooks for me, washes my clothes n takes care of me like a mother, than marry a liability"

nyere84: If am in his house...,he cooks for me. But, soup is not among the tins he can cook.(he enjoys cooking)

If he is in my house..., i cook for him.

I still remember hw he devoured the ora soup and pounded yam, i cooked for him last weekend.

To be sincere, it gives me joy watching him eat my food to the last drop.

This a woman after my heart. Make your bobo no vex, I dey come find u wherever u dey!

Boyfriend capital NO!!!
Fiance and Husband a big YES!!..
..am out...

ASUU wahala..it is well.very soon we will all hv a busy mind again.we won't hv a space in our head to think abt weda d boyfriend took poison or d girlfriend prepared nonsense 4 d guy to eat or who didt thirst d food.

JellyBean190: Why do i keep on having the feeling d OP is a bad cook

Now,look at this scenerio,and understand where i'm coming from......
While serving,i got into a relationship with a guy.He invited me over to his place a couple of times and i went.On a particular day i went over,he bought some stuff for soup and asked me to prepare egusi soup.I was like,WTF?? You havn't bothered to know me better,u're not even bothered abt my likes and dislikes,u don dey send me errand! He was pissed and so was i.I sha ended the relationship immediately after my service year b'cos i realised that the guy is the type to take advantage of kindness.

GentleMimi: Hi,peeps.I am presently in an argument with a group of friends about the moral value behind the act of a female who goes to visit her ''guy'' and then enters his kitchen to cook for him (even when his health is in perfect condition).
Now,some of my friends argue that there is nothing wrong in the act,in fact,it is an avenue to exhibit her cooking skills.
Others counter that it makes the guy loose some of his respect for her after a period of consistent cooking and caring(mind you,this is coming from a male ooo).They go on to say that ''familiarity breeds contempt'',and that a guy looses interest if the girl seems too eager to please.
Now,i would really wish some NL guys would give me their HONEST opinion on this matter.Babes,do you think it a big deal to go to your bobo's house and then cook for him?

*Yipeeeeee! My topic made FP! Lol! My ban elapsed this evening so i guess this is a perfect way to celebrate!
I dedicate this topic to my ''point and kill club,A.K.A derailers paradise'',my fans and haters.Mmmwwwuuuah!

@op i dey mad?even if i dey mad.i wont allow such nonsense becos it is against ma ethics as a person{am speaking 4 maself}not only dat but i have been a witness of d bad side effect{girls apply juju,period etc}wen cooking.as it happened to ma lodge mate in school and equally departmental guy nah there i rule am off.if u r not comfortable wit it as a female u can kiss our relationship goodbye.

GentleMimi: Hi,peeps.I am presently in an argument with a group of friends about the moral value behind the act of a female who goes to visit her ''guy'' and then enters his kitchen to cook for him (even when his health is in perfect condition).
Now,some of my friends argue that there is nothing wrong in the act,in fact,it is an avenue to exhibit her cooking skills.
Others counter that it makes the guy loose some of his respect for her after a period of consistent cooking and caring(mind you,this is coming from a male ooo).They go on to say that ''familiarity breeds contempt'',and that a guy looses interest if the girl seems too eager to please.
Now,i would really wish some NL guys would give me their HONEST opinion on this matter.Babes,do you think it a big deal to go to your bobo's house and then cook for him?

*Yipeeeeee! My topic made FP! Lol! My ban elapsed this evening so i guess this is a perfect way to celebrate!
I dedicate this topic to my ''point and kill club,A.K.A derailers paradise'',my fans and haters.Mmmwwwuuuah!

@op i dey mad?even if i dey mad.i wont allow such nonsense becos it is against ma ethics as a person{am speaking 4 maself}not only dat but i have been a witness of d bad side effect{girls apply juju,period etc}wen cooking.as it happened to ma lodge mate in school and equally departmental guy nah there i rule am off.if u r not comfortable wit it as a female u can kiss our relationship goodbye.

I can cook for him but not regularly until I become his wife. But if he sees it as my duty to cook his food as a gf den he don miss am

This attitude is why many women stay single till 40, trying to turn everything into a mind game.

Notin is wrong wt dat, dat jus shows her commitment to d guy.

Graceojomasule: D fact is that, it's d duties of a girl to prepared dishes /food for his date/guy dat make u responsible.

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh! Oyibo! abeg see my head o

Peepz still dey on top diz gentlemimi matter.

Why would you cook "Regularly " for a guy/man "In his house " who has not paid your bride-Price nor has he married you as a wife...
I'd say you are putting the cart before the horse.
The only condition that should warrant you cooking for him would be based on him paying you a visit in your house at a time when you are not alone at home [/color][color=#000099].

alutacontinua: I am not a fan of it!
I can only do it once in a blue-moon, by dt I min lyk once in a year!
I am not his wife, he needs to understand that! If he wants to know how good my culinary skills are, i'll gladly entertain him if he comes to my house!

Dt's all!

Babe, forget this thing you are saying abeg. Infact, babes like you are the one's that do more of the cooking for the guy, infact, breakfast, lunch and dinner for the guy.
Just forget that thing you are saying, Na todayyyyyyyyy? just leave that thing abeg.

asab0234:

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh! Oyibo! abeg see my head o

.
I can c ur head dropping off.

bigx: This attitude is why many women stay single till 40, trying to turn everything into a mind game.

.
I concur with u jare

Seriously there is nothing wrong with that...... I mean it even gives an opportunity to knw each other better. And for me !!! I appreciate good cooking and if she can give me that. !!! Wow.... She remains ma queen........ So !! It very owkay be me. ...

I think if you understand your girl/boy,you'll never think about this...everything just flow,she cook and you help her out(its never her job).
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asab0234:

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh! Oyibo! abeg see my head o

Werey

asab0234:

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh! Oyibo! abeg see my head o

Hardheolar: Peepz still dey on top diz gentlemimi matter.

Abeg no be Gentlemimi matter oooooo! Lol!

I see noting in cooking for my Guy,if I can cook for my friend y can't I cook for my love

asab0234: Honestly, i use to cook for my hubby b4 we got married, and guess what he told his sister? "i'll rather marry a girl that cooks for me, washes my clothes n takes care of me like a mother, than marry a liability"

Me too